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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by iLUMeN8(m): 11:56am On Dec 08, 2018 |
luvmijeje:Just like sports, most women don't enjoy porn because it actually makes no sense to a lot of them. I think the target audience for porn is the male folk which is why female porn performers earn ten times more than their male counterparts. The porn industry will shut down without it's male viewers. sadly, porn is destroying a lot of young men and marriages. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by highness25(m): 11:57am On Dec 08, 2018 |
TheBlessedMAN:I've gone through all the comments to see a reasonable one but non seems reasonable including mine. Well, whether married couple watch porn or not before deciding to bring some lazy Nigerian fools (children/youths) into this country should be left for God to deal with. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 11:59am On Dec 08, 2018 |
Sin is sin, what is wrong is wrong. No matter how you are viewing it or what you are using it for. Do you know when you are on top of your wife you won't know when your mind will shift to the image of the woman in the porn. So what's the point having sex with your wife, it is as good as you masturbating with the image of the porn woman in your head. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by iLUMeN8(m): 12:00pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
luvmijeje: Just like sports, most women don't enjoy porn because it actually makes no sense to a lot of them. I think the target audience for porn is the male folk which is why female porn performers earn ten times more than their male counterparts. The porn industry will shut down without the male viewers. sadly, porn is destroying a lot of young men and marriages. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by cosse(m): 12:01pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
PRESENTATION:......and this blasphemy is meant to b funny shey.u know wat God promised those who add to the bible like u did in that same revelations? thats probably why ur life is still this way!!!! |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Julivas(m): 12:02pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Martinez19: I can you ad another Apostle Paul very soon. Take note |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Julivas(m): 12:02pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Martinez19: I can see you as another Apostle Paul very soon. Take note |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Olodo24: 12:10pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
couples can't even enjoy themselves again in the name Christianity. na wa o |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by omooba969(m): 12:11pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
bknight: Can you give an example please? |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by ibegeeee: 12:14pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
TheBlessedMAN: I am judging you.....Crossover is BS!!! there is no Christian ceremony of Crossover night. The concept of Decemeber 31st being a New Year is a man made concept. God does not measure progress in your Gregorian calendars of new year or new month. A true Christian has no need to be praying for 'blessings for the new year'. Only backward countries like Nigeria make a big deal out of praying for blessings in the new year. My brother you seem like an enlighted fellow, stop wasting your time in going for Crossover.......just pray everyday to your God, your Goud is too big to be upset that you did not attend Crossover. BTW.....porn watching between consent adults is ok. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Chuksfela1(m): 12:17pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
No be match una wan play both of u suppose to watch it together to add sugar on it |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by echodrum(m): 12:18pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
luvmijeje:It simply means that you do not understand why some people watch porn before or during sex. If I may ask you, Do you cum during sex? If you do what do you think makes your body to cum? If you think the pressure from your man's Shaft is the only reason, you are wrong. And that could be the reason why I think many women like you take years to reach climax or never cum at all( no insult ma'am). Your mind or Brian is actually what makes you to cum. Hence some people choose to use videos or pictures as an extra help to stimulate them. If you think your man's shaft is the reason behind why you cum, I will ask. Will you cum if someone is raping you even though the pressure is there? |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by dbestuncle: 12:19pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
I am a christian, a devoted one and am also married. Sometimes in your marriage the need to spice up the bedroom game always comes up and if you both are the inexperienced or not so sexually exposed type then the need to really learn n learn fast about sex will create some level of friction which may even lead to quarrels and problems in the home. the kind of problems that people will find difficult to say to others. This i believe is why porn maybe seen as very useful and important has it is 1. Affordable. 2. Available. 3. Can be done secretly. 4. an eye openner to the various sexual fantasies, styles and experiences. Given the advantages already listed and more, one willl expect that the answer to your question is Yes. But the answer is actually NO. NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO a thousand times NO. Christian couples should not watch pornography. WHY? Disadvantages of PORN. 1. It is addictive- You will never get enough it keeps dragging u in and in. 2. Creates a wired sense of options. You will always be faced with trying out wide sense of varieties till you probably ends as an adulterer. you both will begin to imagine sex with varietiees of people eg. ur dark complexion wife pp doesn't look as fine as the light complexion lady in the last watched. 3. Unbeatable target- Most porns that goes on and on for hours or the type where the man shows so much strength for a longer period may create an unnecessary condition where the husband in the marriage goes into the competition to beat the cast in the porn. irrespective of the fact that the pornstars maybe into drugs and/or even had longer period of rest before the next rounds. 4. Virtual Sex- The fun between the couples is soon reduced or replaces as their mind replaces their minds with some cast in the porn. 5. Low Self-esteem- The man or woman who couldnt meet up with the new standard set by the porn feels less than a human. 6. No matter how hidden, one day your children will take hold of it. And it is not good for them and you. What Couples should do to learn about sex. 1. Discussion- Take time to discuss about sex, be ready to know how your partner feels. this discussion should be before, during and after sex. 2. Research through reading of medical, psychological and healthy books. (not porns) 3. watch (check youtube) healthy materials on the issues that requires help in your sexual life, eg one minute erection. 4. Seek counsel from qualified and interested counselors in the area. PLEASE... STOP PORN NOW.... PORN IS BAD ALWAYS. TheBlessedMAN: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by oyigah(m): 12:20pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
It should be Romans chapter from verse 28 to 32..this part of the bible always checkmates me. TruthinAction: |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by cosse(m): 12:20pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
first of all, as a general rule for me, i dnt reply comments like this cos i always av this nagging suspicion than the "questioneer" is already deep in his convictions and just wants to play around However, i feel the deep urge to reply this question despite the huge depressing comments from the atheist majority above me. Pay no heed to them .most of thems life are in a sorry state right now and they just relish the silly fact that they are not alone in their messy lifestyle the "one more person like me" syndrome is wat keeps them going!! back to ur question brother, the single problem of porn is that it fuels the mind with ungodly desires( which is even harder to explain because u sound like someone who doesnt blive strongly in God- just saying o bro!) but in a simple answer ..... ..... .no! porn wont do it...if the aim is to enhance the sequelling mechanical activity then there are sexually educationall films you and ur spouse can engage in. not the aggressive and selfish crave for desires exhibited in porn movies. NB - I av intentionally refrained fr using biblical verses not to come across a over spiritual 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by jaxxy(m): 12:20pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
jesuchristi: Adam and Eve didn’t watch it cos they where the 1st. Im sure once men had more choices/options they gladly took those choices. Why do u think men of those days had concubines from Abraham to David and Solomon and Adam and Eve didn’t? Man can explore his options correctly. Ianmaduka |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by omooba969(m): 12:21pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Gratefulheart01: You will be shocked to know that most women equally watch porn & it moves them to do unbelievable things. I have some female friends who watch porn & they even have intimacy gadgets to go with it - helping themselves when konji grabs them unexpectedly. You'll also be amazed at the number of porn sites they know & visit. Don't be so naive. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by bknight: 12:21pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Gracemadeit(m): 12:22pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Philippians 4:7, And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. 8, Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest,1 whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Porn is evil |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Slimsly100(f): 12:24pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
I'm Herr yo read comments |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by luvmijeje(f): 12:24pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
echodrum: Porn just don't work for me. If he really wants to put me in the mood, he should rub me at the right place. I'm more of a romance person. I just don't see porn as romantic. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by simplesearch: 12:24pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Pornography is a socially unacceptable behavior and should therefore be rejected in its entirety among married and unmarried people. One of the things Pornography does is to debase human beings and subsequently reduce him to the level of an animal. Sex is meant for two mature people who have agreed to live and be joined together legally, this is necessary because sex unlike other form of sensual intimacy has the capacity to create a bonding between two separate souls in one clean sweep which may take a long and painful process to sever, therefore sheepishly allowing such an important procedure outside a legally defined boundary makes one a prostitute even if no financial gain is involved. In a nutshell we should show moderation in whatever we do, sex is not something you should learn from anyone, people who scripted such obscenity can't be good role models so why learn or build your sex life and home on lessons from such heap of ruins? As there are good inventions, porn is clearly an evil invention meant to destroy societal, family and individual moral values; This should never be encouraged. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Martinez19:don't force people with useless opinions There is God |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by elderhimself(m): 12:27pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
So we can't watch pporn and ffuck in peace again?
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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by SURElee(f): 12:30pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Now let me answer this to the best of my little understanding. The sex you are referring to here is between a couple abi? As long as it is married couple, they are allowed to have sex however they deem fit as they are comfortable with(sex without health implication) e. g. anal. As long as there is agreement between them they are free to spice up their love life to ensure the marriage is a healthy one without one part being deprived and starved. Marriage is 85%verbal communication and 15%non verbal communication. Communication is key |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Tonero93: 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
No |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Akalia(m): 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
H Spygadgets19:Despite your commendable writing prowess, your points reek of foolishness and confusion. I SMH at the bolded. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by bizzibodi(m): 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
What is porn? |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by dbestuncle: 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
it was nice that u answered. Thanks. may i tell u, you are not alone cosse: |
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
op! you claimed you dont go to church unless its crossover night, I think you are even living inside the church sef in my opinion , considering you have to battle with their loud speaker every now and then! to me, na you go church pass! |
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