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Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by femi4: 2:32pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
OperaMini1:give them task where they have to work together to complete it Let them be involve in team sports Don't compare them Don't be bias in your judgment Praise them when necessary 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Sisijetue(f): 2:32pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Probably your son wants to be a boxer when he grows up....his future is bright 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by kobabe(m): 2:32pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Prayers |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by LegitHustler: 2:32pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Join the fight |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by jomoh: 2:32pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Hmmm |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by fishmillan: 2:33pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Barracks , carry them there |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Lionhearted: 2:33pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
They will be okay. Instill discipline. Let them know there is something called seniority and being right and wrong. Whenever they fight, ask from both of them what happened and discipline the erring one letting him or her know what she/he did wrong. Growing up, our home was a battle ground throughout, and we love each other today. 5 boys. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
jeff1607:You mean fathers like Wiz kid and Tuface abi. Or The fathers that rape their daughters Or The fathers that use their wives for rituals, hmmm Jump and pass. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Biingoo: 2:33pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
My dear it's nothing to be worried about. I and my elder sis was like that at our infant stage. Now we love each other like mad. If you want die before your time, just disrespect my sis in my presence.. That's how much I love her 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Danhumprey: 2:33pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
dollytino4real:Hian! What are you even saying? |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by kunleweb: 2:33pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Philpham: Its what it is Sir. If good parenting was dine we big won't be here. Have a good day Sir. Also,I've list count on kids I've trained and mentored. I have one in final year now in.university |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by marvin906(m): 2:34pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
this just made me remember me and my siblings four of us where cat and dogs always at each other's throat and being the senior didn't make it easy we actually grew out of it somehow only now me my lil sister and the last born are fighting the third born Don't judge he deserves what ever he's getting but if you want to see a United pack touch the only girl in the family 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by mobdeep(m): 2:34pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
OperaMini1:Talk to them. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Biingoo: 2:34pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Philpham:smh |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
kunleweb: Stop calling me Sir am not your mate. |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Mmadu111:Rather than using cane, why not instill the values of teamwork and togetherness. Rivalry between siblings is often triggered by feeling of competition, esp if there is an element of favouritism from either parent. Get them to work together rather than make one feel superior |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by jeff1607(m): 2:35pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Philpham:haba Bros! |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Ubdavis(m): 2:35pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
I hope they are not towing after u. May be they us to see u making thier mama a punching bag abi thier mama making u a punching bag. Na joke o |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by jeff1607(m): 2:35pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by pocohantas(f): 2:35pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
When a girl is older than a boy; this is a normal occurrence. The boy will find it difficult to respect the sister, the male ego starts from childhood. The girl on her path would wanna enforce her seniority, the result is the fight you see. You just have to caution them. With time, he will outgrow it and become very protective of his sister...then you will wonder why lots of guys do not treat ladies as they treat their sisters. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
kunleweb:exactly. Bad parenting. The action of the parents has indirectly instilled a competitive be spirit in the kids. They see each other as rivals rather than siblings 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by YoungLionken(m): 2:36pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Hunger neva catch dem. Dem dey chop belleful, y dem nor go misbehave. Dem don go farm b4 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Banter1(m): 2:36pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Lmao
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Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by kunleweb: 2:36pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Philpham: Trust me you're a boy. My first house girl is married with two kids. She cane into my family 5 years old. She's over 23 now. Have a nice day boy 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by dollytino4real(f): 2:36pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Danhumprey:let their be set as the head to do the assistance |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by wisdomkid: 2:37pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
HavocGirlMile99: Yours may be different. These ones seems to inflict injuries on themselves. My sister, threaten to can them or send them to the village. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Vtrd: 2:37pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
It is often like that especially between boys and girls who are direct siblings with the girl being older. They will fight to finish. The girl will want to enforce seniority, while the boy will refuse her authority. You need to flog the boy more, and put the fear of his sister into him, because nothing else will. The sister will not be able to control him on her own. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by misano(m): 2:38pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
HavocGirlMile99: It's not normal. We are six in our family & we never fought to put injuries on each others body. That's bad parenting & unnecessary rivalry. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Guyman02: 2:38pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Spare the rod and spoil the child is a biblical saying. Instil fear with a good koboko on the young one for disrespecting the elder. I like my Yoruba in-laws for that, they don't negotiate respect in the family, them go run pepper for your yansh you call it child abuse as a modern woman but see the damage they are doing to themselves 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by kunleweb: 2:39pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
HaileSelassie: You've been there. I can ytell. People dont know being present doesn't imply being proactive . many parents are present but absent. If they dont switch off their cable station they'll continue leaving their responsibilities to the TV to do the training then suffer the lack of responsible parenting 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by neonly: 2:41pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Samirana360: 1 Like
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Re: How Do I Stop My Kids From Fighting? by Mankosi: 2:41pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
U have a work to do. If they grow up like that there may be hatred among them. That's why in some families siblings don't talk to each other because of lack of brotherly and sisterly love from childhood. It's now that they are small they need to build that love and then grow up with it... Look out for the one that always look for trouble and find out the type of friends he or she keep in school or in ur neighbourhood. 6 Likes |
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