Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
ochibuogwu5: Give your life to JESUS CHRIST with *total commitment* and *renew your mind daily with the gospel*, the Holy Spirit will *restore your balance without any kobo/penny* to any *psychological session* thus "Jesus Christ said to those who had believed in him, if you *continue in my word* then you will discover *the truth* and the *truth* will set you *free*" {John 8:31-32}. Great Grace Dear!!! Good one... Think this will solution |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
ElsonMorali: As far as I know friendship is overrated. Be a lone wolf. Learn to enjoy solitude. Only strong people see the value of solitude. Friend of all people are no friend to themselves |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Over10(f): 7:46pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
Divepen1: Any psychologist in the house? I sort of grew up with various people and at different locations. For some reasons, I didn't spend much years with my parent, max 4 years. Then, those I lived with also, I spent a maximum of 4 years with them too or location. The ones I lived with the longest, we got to really enjoy each other's company after I left for the University and came home once a year. Even in school, I lived with people once. When someone becomes too close, it feels good. I enjoy it and as soon as they begin to drift away, I do too. In essence, I drift away easily.
So, it kind of make me detached and make me find it hard to remain close to anyone. And when I see any sign of withdrawal or even you reacting in a funny way to me, I start the process of ending it unconsciously.
I really need advise from people. I've tried psychologists but I don't have enough money for their sessions. So, help me glean from your experience and anything you want to say.
This is just me exactly, tbh i am not really doing anything to stop cause i don't see it as an habit, i just see it as being ME but i think a serious relationship can help you...and also look for something to miss about someone...i am tough, very tough, i hardly show emotions and i don't miss people but when i started letting down my walls a bit...i try to reach out more now |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Paulpaulpaul(m): 7:53pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
Divepen1: Any psychologist in the house? I sort of grew up with various people and at different locations. For some reasons, I didn't spend much years with my parent, max 4 years. Then, those I lived with also, I spent a maximum of 4 years with them too or location. The ones I lived with the longest, we got to really enjoy each other's company after I left for the University and came home once a year. Even in school, I lived with people once. When someone becomes too close, it feels good. I enjoy it and as soon as they begin to drift away, I do too. In essence, I drift away easily.
So, it kind of make me detached and make me find it hard to remain close to anyone. And when I see any sign of withdrawal or even you reacting in a funny way to me, I start the process of ending it unconsciously.
I really need advise from people. I've tried psychologists but I don't have enough money for their sessions. So, help me glean from your experience and anything you want to say.
You are lucky bro, some people are better dumped |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Nobody: 9:03pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
teresafaith:
Can you please tell me how you hid your whatsapp status? go get gbwhatsapp |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Goddys(m): 10:35pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by ElsonMorali: 10:41pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
Tundexxy:
Friend of all people are no friend to themselves Because they displease themselves to please others. |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
ElsonMorali:
Because they displease themselves to please others.
Gbam! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Goddys(m): 10:52pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
Kingbones:
Same here bro..
And I thought I was the only one like this.. It's almost been a month since I replied any chats on WhatsApp ...I just view status and then I whiz out like a mad dog...
Maybe we all need therapy Guy na only you need therapy. Even if there is a therapy to make me stop this awesome character of mine, I'd never go for it even if given 200k. Do you know the level of peace of mind I enjoy daily? FCK whatever society wants you to believe is normal. Embracing solitude is the new normal. Internet is my best friend and lover |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by queenitee(f): 9:26pm On Apr 03, 2019 |
skarlett:
Me neither, funny enough I don't share the same background with the op so I don't even understand how my own started Me too, me too |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by smb3110(f): 8:47am On Jun 22, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by smb3110(f): 8:49am On Jun 22, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by MrHighSea: 5:20am On Jun 23, 2019 |
Divepen1: Thanks. But I think it's more about my loved ones I.e family members than friends.
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ElsonMorali
horlahwaley They are family cos of blood. They need to b friends to truly flow with u. Though we learn the nitty-gritty, the nuts and bolts, the kernel of friendship from family. Great parents always wanna b dad/mum n also their kid's friend. Just depend on urself as much as u can. Sm1 mentioned lone wolf. Na e sure pass bro. |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by MrHighSea: 5:25am On Jun 23, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: This is me in a summary. Learn to enjoy solitude. I don't have friends and don't even need them. I enjoy my space. I hardly talk to people. I find it grueling even to pick up calls. I leave Whatsapp and other social media chats unanswered. They say I'm snobbish, but I know I'm not. I'm only friends with people for a moment and once I notice you start drifting away, I completely leave you alone until we have a reason to discuss again. One reason I haven't been able to keep any romantic relationship(s) and friendships. I withdraw easily. I also am very unemotional and non-challant too. You're perfectly fine, OP. Uyai...no romantic r/ship. N'bliv ke. Hope ur intelligent too in real life. |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by MrHighSea: 5:26am On Jun 23, 2019 |
rex444: Wow!!! Another me...yay!!!! Anyway, in one way or the other mine has been profitable cos I utilise my alone time for many important things and if I feel totally bored, I listen to good music or read a good book...I hardly have someone I can confidently say is my bestie.. maybe to them, yes but to me? No way,I don't even trust myself Wat genre of books n music? I luv both too |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Jollof123: 7:32am On Jun 23, 2019 |
Divepen1: Any psychologist in the house? I sort of grew up with various people and at different locations. For some reasons, I didn't spend much years with my parent, max 4 years. Then, those I lived with also, I spent a maximum of 4 years with them too or location. The ones I lived with the longest, we got to really enjoy each other's company after I left for the University and came home once a year. Even in school, I lived with people once. When someone becomes too close, it feels good. I enjoy it and as soon as they begin to drift away, I do too. In essence, I drift away easily.
So, it kind of make me detached and make me find it hard to remain close to anyone. And when I see any sign of withdrawal or even you reacting in a funny way to me, I start the process of ending it unconsciously.
I really need advise from people. I've tried psychologists but I don't have enough money for their sessions. So, help me glean from your experience and anything you want to say.
Do you masturbate and watch porn? |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Divepen1(m): 7:57am On Jun 23, 2019 |
Jollof123:
Do you masturbate and watch porn? Blinks repeatedly***"
What has that got to do with anything? |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Jollof123: 8:08am On Jun 23, 2019 |
Divepen1: Blinks repeatedly***"
What has that got to do with anything? Yes/no should be your answer? |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Divepen1(m): 9:23am On Jun 23, 2019 |
Jollof123:
Yes/no should be your answer?
Firstly, I don't. But if I do, what will make me type it out on a public forum? |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by rex444(m): 9:01pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
MrHighSea:
Wat genre of books n music? I luv both too crime, adventure, all those hardly chase books go well for me Sha.....my songs depends on my mood .....ed Sheeran ,Major Lazer , good songs |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by SKhanmi: 10:39pm On Jun 23, 2019 |
Smiles. If I was required to leave for another planet forever,I won't have any qualms. I'm a very intense person & I find most people quite superficial & empty of higher virtues,very few dey my wavelength esp now many folks can't stand against peer pressure,everything na competition. So I just bone. Some of us just want wealth ,small circle & a lowkey life. Feel like I was born into the wrong generation man! |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by apogyizi(f): 10:02am On Dec 04, 2023 |
XhosaNostra:
I can relate to most of what you said except that I'm easily hurt lol. My own relatives accuse me of no liking people, but it's not true. The only reason I withdraw from people is because they've hurt me in some way, no matter how inconsequential. One small thing & I'm ready to never speak to you again. With relationships I fair better though. It's friendships & family bonds that I'm absolutely the worst at. I have only one close friend (16 years of friendship to be precise), but even that relationship is volatile at times because she always does things that make me wanna drop her on the spot. TBH, if she weren't so patient & persistent, the friendship would have ended a long time ago because I neither chase nor beg people. If we don't talk, then we won't talk. I don't have even a single sentimental bone on my body. I will write you off never to speak to you again, with ease. I completely understand you. |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by malaria(f): 7:10pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Poster na normal thing . Nothing is meant to last forever besides you do not know the kind of peace of mind you are enjoying . |
Re: How Do I Overcome This Crazy Habit? by Geovanni412(m): 7:20pm On Dec 05, 2023 |
Divepen1: Any psychologist in the house? I sort of grew up with various people and at different locations. For some reasons, I didn't spend much years with my parent, max 4 years. Then, those I lived with also, I spent a maximum of 4 years with them too or location. The ones I lived with the longest, we got to really enjoy each other's company after I left for the University and came home once a year. Even in school, I lived with people once. When someone becomes too close, it feels good. I enjoy it and as soon as they begin to drift away, I do too. In essence, I drift away easily.
So, it kind of make me detached and make me find it hard to remain close to anyone. And when I see any sign of withdrawal or even you reacting in a funny way to me, I start the process of ending it unconsciously.
I really need advise from people. I've tried psychologists but I don't have enough money for their sessions. So, help me glean from your experience and anything you want to say.
Op, there is nothing wrong with you As a matter of fact, you are intelligent enough to know when people no longer value your company What you should work on is showing loyalty and gratitude to the friends and colleagues that patronise your business through referrals and direct patronage...for the rest, you can contact them once in a blue moon Also, try and have one to three people you can chill with around your city and immerse yourself deep in work. You can also join one or two online communities of people that share similar interests as you do. |