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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by MARKone(m): 1:02pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Oyindidi: Why will "every woman" make a comment like that, for many, Verbal and Emotional Abuse is worse that Physical Abuse. People should learn when and when not to pass certain comments. Bodily harm may heal and be forgotten, but Verbal harm, cuts deep and lingers overtime. Even a dullard knows with statements like that, the wife is no longer interested in the marriage, save for the kids and of course, money. No man is really tied to a woman, and vice-versa, if it start getting unbearable, cut and run. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by maasoap(m): 1:02pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
iRepNaija1: So, it is normal for a wife to be threatening her husband who has a shattered leg with divorce at every slight opportunity because he couldn't or didn't do all the things you listed up there! How many of us in Nigeria are doing that today? Few are just trying to copy those things, it was never our way of life. So, no Africa woman in her right sense would threaten her husband with divorce just because those things are lacking 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by 15ssDRIVE(m): 1:04pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
LadyHeaven: Dearest LadyHeaven, Life has thought me that most bad experiences always turns out good,with SURU_SURU. Any woman that stays with you is yours. If she is really happy,you are rich. If you are not yet where you want to be,you are on your trying period. If you decide once I get money she is gone,that money ain’t coming bro. Our Mama,Na them be the Mama of anybody. Awon iyami oshoronga........ Mojuba yin oh .... eyin Iya ooooooooooooo 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by virago(f): 1:08pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Sally97: She's going through a lot what do you have to say about the husband who got his leg shattered. She isn't just empathetic and she's very selfish emotionally |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by aoofbeautifulme(f): 1:13pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
hmmmm oro sunukun |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by ASval: 1:24pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Mr Man, you brought your marital issues to seek a solution, so amongst all these advice, which are you going to stick to? Remember that is a forum with all cadre of people with their different opinion.The solution lies more with you having further discussion with your woman. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by D1zion: 1:27pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
crackhaus:maybe she's the one self bro.lol. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by nkemjacob2(m): 1:46pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Ur wife has started cheating on u ooo |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by sparko1(m): 1:49pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Nnemuka: No she said it twice, what difference does it make, there are things you never say to someone you are married to, even if you are going to divorce him, do it without using such derogatory words. The problem, most ladies feel the same as you do, as far as someone did something that hurt you, its allowed for you to say anything to hurt him! |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by RTSC: 1:50pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Vyolet:The woman will need to go court for that to happen How many women have the funds and patience for court wahala? Most times the men willingly relinquished the control just to be free. That is why you see a lot of single women with kids. If the man decides that you are not going anywhere with his kids, he will fight you to the end. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by RTSC: 1:53pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
trapQ:It depends. First and foremost, Mike adenuga girlfriend was from a well to-do home as well. She could fight money with money and get good lawyers. How many Nigerian women have that kind of advantage? Even then, it is not set in stone that the court will award the female, custody of the kids. Yes, they have the advantage but it is not always so. The man will unravel a few damaging marital secrets about the wife to the courts and he will win. It's just that most of the time, men don't even want the stress of taking care of the children. So they just release them without a fight. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Mace0lane: 1:54pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Endure fire ! How much of the nonsense you claim women endure have you endured ? Like we don’t see women everyday everywhere or women suddenly turn saint any creature will pour shii on n they’d be loving such person. Abeg if u no wan get sense no get but the story about poo n every foolish tale you conjured is nothing but outright lie. No single part of that lie can ever be true or will ever be. How you can shamelessly tell lies such as that with a straight face even on a faceless forum is beyond every human rationality. Softly de lie abeg ! Shameless liar. SBL28: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Jman06(m): 2:02pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
munas:I'll rather stay unmarried if I can't find my kind of lady! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by iTearHerToto: 2:13pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Riyadhgoddess36:We can't hangout with Jesus na. U want him to be contaminated |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by afribabe: 2:17pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Why are you thinking of running away with the kids? That you are no longer in good terms with the woman does not stop the children from being her children too. The children belong to the two of you. And those saying authoritatively that the woman is cheating, weldone o. You all do not know the couple so how can we be sure of what is happening in their house? @OP, I don't know you and I don't know your wife, but whatever it is you both decide to do, have it in mind that you both have equal rights to the children except a mother/father that is going to constitute danger to the children. May God heal you completely and also heal your home. Amen. Besides, when some women complain about their marriage and are planning to quit, people will be telling her not to leave, stay because of your children etc. Now see a woman saying she is staying because of children and people are already saying she is cheating. Do we know how many of our mothers stayed in their marriages because of the children and not because they live our fathers anymore. I thought you people are saying our mothers are the REAL WOMEN. Well I guess her crime now is because she said her mind out LOUD abi? Not saying she is right or wrong anyways. God be with them all. Amen 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 2:19pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
lefulefu:I've heard couples say worse yet they are still together, op just need an excuse to get out. I like honest people, if you are Tired, just go and stop trying to paint the other person black. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Philgafauto: 2:29pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
munas: Why are you weak like this? its annoying ooo. I bet u were raised to worship women. Sorry for u. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 2:33pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
virago:He is the selfish one, so because he had an accident so no other person have the right to be emotional. Adonbelivit 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Philgafauto: 2:44pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
PeachtreeReside: Invalid ke? So OP is now invalid because he has a shattered leg? I keep getting scared of this marriage issue & i must get married in this life. God will help men jareee. To get money sef na wahala, let alone good women in Nigeria. We have only few good women left & its sad. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Vyolet(f): 3:10pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
RTSC:You won't believe how cheap it is to gain custody, it starts and ends with welfare units, if the man remains adamant and decides to kidnap the child, he gets charged for kidnap of his own child. About men relinquishing the task to the mother, I don't believe that, many men would want to take the child away from the wife and give to their own mother. It is only the irresponsible ones that would willingly leave the kid with the wife so they can run away from responsibilities. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by sodiamond: 3:11pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Chai! Op pls discard all the useless advice here. It's just frustration and anger that's disburbing your wife. Just change your attitude towads her. I'm sure you wont be this patient with her if reverse was the case 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
gloria34:say things worse like a lady telling her husband dat is peepee is too small for her liking or dat is a terrible one minute lazy dude and her ex was more terrific in bed or a man telling his wife dat her vjay is too wide and dat is sidechic is sweeter in bed dan her. So u have seen couples say this to each other and they still together? .there some bitter words couples say dat will so much split dem aside forever. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by King44(m): 3:38pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
comradee1248:why is your wife not happy with u, apart from the fact that you had an accident n u are still being paid ur dues probably the reason she is still with u, I think there are some things you do or don't do that is getting her pissed, there must be some things she is complaining of or previously complained about, stories like this has two sides |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 3:45pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Preshy561: Who told you the people responding are NOT MARRIED or childish. The blunt and ballant truth can only be gotten from here. Why will my wife tell me the only reason why she is still staying with me is because of my children.The marriage that is not even up to 10 years. Oga please you your brain if you want to live long |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by pek(m): 3:53pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
teresafaith:she meant it 101%. No woman will say such out of anger if she doesn't mean it. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by PierreAbutu(m): 4:00pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
comradee1248: Oga, no long talk Change those kids school to one she will not know Divorce her Allow d kids to stay with your mother for d time being Tell d judge u are ready to pay her off if she rants aboit maintenance....tell d judge that with her attitude she can't make a good mother Go for HIV TEST as soon as possible Ask ya orthopaedic doctors about d possibility of prosthetic legs |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by alexola20(m): 4:08pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by thelish(f): 4:12pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
15ssDRIVE: May ur well of wisdom never run dry. |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by thelish(f): 4:13pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
teresafaith: God bless u |
Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by shakespere: 4:43pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
There are lots of inexperienced children on this platform, bringing your matter here with just your own position / view is unfair to your wife. In every marriage, there are trying periods, necessitated by different things, money, time, I'll health, boredom and other psychological frustrations that the partner won't even notice he or she is causing the spouse. You have to fight for your marriage. Take it from somebody who is married close to 15 years. Everyday is not Eldorado! Do you know that being with your wife 247 without going out is a frustration! Coping with the kids alone, mountain of house chores make women psychological wrecks. Women say all manners of things out of frustration for the record. Have you become grumpy yourself because if your situation, do you seat all day lamenting or just waching TV. Even if na beans help her pick, make yourself useful around the house, help with the children home work, make her smile, she has possibly become the strength of the family. Everything is not about money n comfort. All these children insinuating she is cheating, have not even perfected their corner corner boy friend/ girlfriend relationship. Everything is not about 'prick' there is more to life. Look inward too, make your wife smile n laugh, talk to her about this n how it hurts you, ask her why she easily gets angry with you now, be persistent, she will tell. Try making.your marriage work first before running away with the kids like a sissy. |
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