StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

A normal person will never think like this. There's nothing on earth she would've done to warrant hitting a woman not to talk of this level of battery. Can't he just walk away? It's because in Nigeria 95% of men that do this get away with this so they do it anyway. Try it in Europe/America and see if the charge won't be attempted murder. So rather than trying to blame the victim blame the perpetrator. And change your way of thinking.

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

Coming from a woman,I am shocked. If your daughter or sister comes home like this be sure to ask her what she did o.

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

I didn't want to be the guy that said it, but there usually is no fire without smoke. Ladies can be so abusive and even physically violent, but because of their relative size they don't do as much damage as a man can. Ideally the guy should always walk away or find another partner instead of putting his hands on her.

frozen70:


Every marriage is facing crisis and has the possibilities to lead to domestic violence

But the man's ability to prevent it is what makes the difference


Until you put a woman at home, you won't have the experience

You are not being sincere. It takes two to tango. Crisis management in the family is not the work of the husband alone. You cannot be a peaceful man and manage crisis with a troublesome woman. Things would fall apart. Even the Bible says that it is better to live on the rooftop than with a quarrelsome woman.

Hopefully, I will put a sensible woman at home. I want my woman to be mature enough to allow herself to be held accountable for her quota to family building. I don't like blamers who never examine their own contributions but would be quick to blame their spouse.

Awful
Though, the woman must have done something immensely stupid to stir up the man's anger.

Anyway, say no to domestic violence

BluntBoy:


Another emotional human being. Bro, take it easy o. It is even people like you who are prone to abuse women.

And as for the highlighted part of your post, I don't really understand.

Perhaps, you meant to ask who beats someone to stupor for being the aggressor

You must watch your words because you appear to be supporting violence.

stop making 2+2 = 5.
There is no law that recognize violence as a return for violence. if something violently attack you, as much as you can suppress the violent person either by few hand fist and struggle, you should head to on your heels. Don't wait to kill or beat the person to pulp to prove a point you're returning violence. it is place of the security to do that. If not you would be made to bear responsibility of your actions, no one will hear you out.
lastly, attend any English class close by. from the context I painted in my last post your conclusion was that I supported violence...amazing

Biglittlelois:



Even if you want to asslick men because you likely have a fiance, asslick with sense, what can be worse that she will have been doing to him? Blow beat him as he did her? Really? A lady can blow beat a man like this? Have sense.

Why not put your own line of thoughts politely, instead of resorting to insults. The person you quoted said her OWN CANDID opinion, perhaps not in the direction of feminism because people are created differently. But she has a point, that we should stop provoking men to bring out the beast in them. How then was she asslicking men? We must continue to advocate to the younger generation that complete submission and respect on the part of women can curb domestic violence to a certain degree. Unless a man is mentally unstable, then he may not reciprocate the love, complete submission and respect from his wife Though domestic violent is a no no, the root of it should be properly tackled.
In the otherhand, a man who may be foolish enough to hit a truly respectful and submissive woman should not be treated with kid gloves. Such a man doesn't deserve a good woman. As I always tell women folk, RUN FROM SUCH MEN, THE CAN KILL

Machinegun91:
Keep quite Madam know all, some ladies deserve this gear oil to enhance them speedily brain acceleration.

Continue to panel beat her face to 'enhance' her brain sir.

Orisirisi...........did I hear where she want to start after making her as amukun

There are better ways to punish a woman than domestic violence....it is absolutely illogical to be beating lady thinking you're correcting her of her wrongs...things doesn't change in such way.........no matter what she must have done....she doesn't deserve this........# say no to ill-mannered actions from men#

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

Who told you a mad man can't assault you without reason? I don't understand the way some people think sha

BluntBoy:


You shouldn't read my post in isolation. You should read it alongside the post it was meant for.

As per your second paragraph, you ended up reinforcing violence.

In other words, you are not against domestic violence, but against physical violence. It makes you come across as a hypocrite. More like "don't throw rocks for stones; throw stones for stones".

With regards to the topic,Verbal abuse wouldn't land you In jail, physical abuse would. No need for this mental gymnastics that you're doing.

If I call you an assholee and you call me a cuntt,we wouldn't end up in jail.

If I pummel your face ,I would end up in jail for assault.

Another fish brain talking

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

ELVISHOT:
As shared by her cousin brother, he wrote: "This is my cousin who's engaged to be married by August. No, she was not involved in a bike accident. Her fiancee did this to her. Apparently, this not the first time. she's been covering him up in the name of "where would I start from"

The young man also advises Ladies, he said: "Ladies, God cherishes your life more than he cherishes 'marriage' don't kill yourself in an attempt to keep a man".

But the Dude is fine boy shaa,

See more graphic photos below, and See photos of the fine man that did that to her from here

https://www.thenaijafame.com.ng/2019/05/lady-set-to-marry-by-august-her-fiancee.html?m=1

. Please don't break the relationship o,continue so you can get RIP in time

ikbnice:
I do not expect such a comment for a fellow woman. He hasn't even paid her bride price and she has beaten her like this. Women are known to throw tantrums and a good man should know how to punish a woman if she deserves it,not necessarily causing body injuries.

It sounds dumb, even to me but- the only punishment (most) women know is that sound beating gangan. Masochism is a condition that (most) Nigerian women have but are not aware of... neither are the men that gratify them with the beating

Women!!!! U can't know d real reason for d man's act until u hear from him, may be d woman is bleeping upndown like dog and d man had trust in her.

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

are you a woman beater ?

A Broken relationship is far more better than a broken marriage pls run for your life , if you insists this is bad signs after this marriage your heading to Mogul.


Pls pls pls RUN FOR YOUR LIFE !!!!!
!!! !!!.

ikbnice:
I do not expect such a comment for a fellow woman. He hasn't even paid her bride price and she has beaten her like this. Women are known to throw tantrums and a good man should know how to punish a woman if she deserves it,not necessarily causing body injuries.

God bless ur finger

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

Ah!!!!! coming from a woman am so disappointed. Really? No matter what she did, it doesn't give the man the right to beat or hit her this way. What happened to him walking a way when he's angry to aviod the assault.

Reelmii:
wife beater spotted



I hope ur spouse does not poison ur food someday in retaliation

As your mom poisoned your dad

introvertme:


With regards to the topic,Verbal abuse wouldn't land you In jail, physical abuse would. No need for this mental gymnastics that you're doing.

If I call you an assholee and you call me a cuntt,we wouldn't end up in jail.

If I pummel your face ,I would end up in jail for assault.

Who said anything about jail or no jail or what constitutes assault as defined by law?

Maybe you should take your time and read my post over and over again so that you can understand that my argument passes no judgment but intends to look at domestic violence holistically.

You are the one who has introduced a legal dimension to the argument.

I don't think there is anyone here who has denied that this is a case of battery.

stanliwise:
stop making 2+2 = 5.
There is no law that recognize violence as a return for violence. if something violently attack you, as much as you can suppress the violent person either by few hand fist and struggle, you should head to on your heels. Don't wait to kill or beat the person to pulp to prove a point you're returning violence. it is place of the security to do that. If not you would be made to bear responsibility of your actions, no one will hear you out.
lastly, attend any English class close by. from the context I painted in my last post your conclusion was that I supported violence...amazing

I think you need the English class more.

I wrote that you appear to support. I didn't write that you support. When something appears to look like something, it doesn't necessarily mean that it looks like that thing or that it is that thing.

As for human reactions, it is easier to judge people's reactions. It is easier to say "he shouldn't have done this or that".

Although I support that one must run from violence because the law only recognizes the victim (the battered person) even if she/he was the aggressor.

And the funniest thing is they must have be telling her to dump the beast but won't listen now look at a nice makeup done for her.


Sorry young lady I can not really pity you much because i know your type when you get crazy in love with him they must have warned you who the beast is but I'm very sure you refused to listen believing in love is blind madness thinking you can change a man heaven has cursed already.

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

I guess this is how your father batters your mom, so you are conditioned and used to the absurdity, but every sane person knows it is abnormal. That you grew up seeing your dad batters your mum doesn't make it right. Make a diligent search for what is true and right, and you shall be set free..

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

I was going to take you up on this but I saw that the thread was already 8 pages long. I didnt read comments but i trust nairalanders to have replied you. Are you 4knkiddig me? & 70 creeps liked this.

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

Woman beater spoted

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

certain nairalander is pleased with this comment... Someone do some meme for diz please... I'm indeed please with dix beloved comrade with common sense out of the deranged lots..



I'm ara here!

tete7000:


I guess this is how your father batters your mom, so you are conditioned and used to the absurdity, but every sane person knows it is abnormal. That you grew up seeing your dad batters your mum doesn't make it right. Make a diligent search for what is true and right, and you shall be set free..

u must have a controlling mum and obsessive wrapper tieing mum who took ur father's position and turned him into sheep that follows only the herds and shepherd... Hence you see men as the aggressors... News splash you won't say this for long.. And when reality of life sets in u will lick ur wounds personally and quietly or join the band wagon of displaying stupidity on social media about rancors etc...


Don't quote me because my message for u is clear enough.. Argue all u can.. As long as u think like diz ur fate is sealed!



I'm ara here!

Thalinzrcng:


It sounds dumb, even to me but- the only punishment (most) women know is that sound beating gangan. Masochism is a condition that (most) Nigerian women have but are not aware of... neither are the men that gratify them with the beating

That's true. Most women can push a man to the extreme point of stuffing life out of her. That's why it is best to free those demon-possessed women.