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Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by bukatyne(f): 6:02pm On May 19, 2019 |
alBHAGDADI: Hahahaha |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Oluromantic: 6:09pm On May 19, 2019 |
bukatyne:A 10 month schedule you mean? There's no justification sis. Cooking for yourself equates catering for yourself. At least 5 times in 10months |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by alBHAGDADI: 6:10pm On May 19, 2019 |
tunjilana: Money is the root of all evil. Don't be surprised when such couple raise evil children because they didn't have time to teach them at home. How can they teach the kids how to do chores at home when they themselves don't know how? You lots love to make it seem as if a woman will spend all her life cooking in the kitchen. Cooking might just be for ten years because her kids would have come of age by then and would be able to prepare certain meals. By the time they get to 15, the woman will only be ordering them around while she rests. Your mother went through this struggle for you but you don't want to do the same for your kids all because you want to chase money. Don't be surprised that the money you make won't save your daughter's marriage when she gets kicked out for lack of manners which you failed to instill in her because you didn't have it. Yes, it's sometimes tough cooking, so is farming for men. To be sincere, we all would love to just sleep and do no work while our food comes to meet us. We had that chance in Eden but a woman made us lose it. That same devil that deceived her is doing the same today by telling her she can aspire to be whatever she wants over her family's needs. It's so sad that I live in a generation where women complain openly of cooking. Social media has also given fools the platform to promote their stupidity and more fools are buying into it without analysing the situation appropriately. 1 Like |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by bukatyne(f): 6:14pm On May 19, 2019 |
djon78: Dora and Folorunsho go to the market themselves after work or on Saturdays themselves and cook? Most successful women will tell you the invaluable assistance of domestic helps who handles everything while they oversee. You don't get it: it is not about the resource of money, it is about the resource of time. 1 Like |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by bukatyne(f): 6:15pm On May 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: They seem not to understand that there is difference between I have to do and I love to do. That is part of going up. |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Sterope(f): 6:17pm On May 19, 2019 |
You should take it easy It is all about balancing your priorities. Food is meant survival, every other reason is secondary. If you can afford not to cook, it does not make any sense to force yourself to when you find it difficult. I would rather sleep and chat all day than to cook. If I needed to cook, I cook. Most times it is not worth standing all day, expending that energy for something you can afford to pay for. I can count the number of times I cooked during NYSC. It was not worth waking an extra 30 minutes to cook or cleaning up when I really don't have to. Her approach is common sense. Cooking is not worth it to her if she does not have anyone to cater for. Unfortunately, she is a woman, we must leave logic and judge her because God wrote cooking in her DNA SageMK: |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by bukatyne(f): 6:18pm On May 19, 2019 |
BiafranBushBoy: You won't know myopic if it hits you in the face. 2 Likes |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by bukatyne(f): 6:19pm On May 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Hmmmmmm Child labor, poverty. Some of these parents give up their kids for the maid thingy. |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Sterope(f): 6:24pm On May 19, 2019 |
You can keep lying to yourselves. If your sisters have a choice, they will not cook. They complain and moan about cooking every fucking time. In households with househelps, the women merely adjust for salt and spices. Also, Folunrusho is not a model because she is rich. She is rich enough to delegate and spending time cooking is her choice. djon78: |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by bukatyne(f): 6:25pm On May 19, 2019 |
alBHAGDADI: How did headship enter this discussion? If you wanted a Biblical quote to tell her she was created to please a man, Genesis 3 where God cursed the woman would have been more apt. The passage you quoted further tells us that all men are birthed by women and so they are independent. |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by bukatyne(f): 6:28pm On May 19, 2019 |
Oluromantic: So once in two months is fine by you? I would agree with you she could cook more often. It is healthier. |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Sterope(f): 6:29pm On May 19, 2019 |
The wives that complain and nag all the freaking time about chores or the same wives that wish their husbands will help out? I have heard enough complaints from these wives to last me a thousand years. BiafranBushBoy: |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by djon78(m): 6:29pm On May 19, 2019 |
bukatyne: Did I at anytime talk about that I was just responding to those that say they only eat out. Domestic help is a must It is necessary I was never against that But those that claim career and work to neglect there home front Even me I am a well domesticated man There is no chore a woman will use to do guy for me I ain't lazy And I still run my company I was raised well And my children will also be raised like that |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by bukatyne(f): 6:32pm On May 19, 2019 |
djon78: OK, I get you. |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by djon78(m): 6:35pm On May 19, 2019 |
Sterope: Like I said it depends on the kind of mother that raised you. They instill it in there girls from tender age Once they grow up it is part of them Even me a guy was seriously domesticated from a child There is no chore a woman can do guy for me My house everything is squeaky clean I hate dirty environment or lazy persons 1 Like |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by nelszx: 6:39pm On May 19, 2019 |
SUPERPACK:She's not the one on the picture with rainbow-ed love. At least I know what she looks like to an extent. |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Sterope(f): 6:40pm On May 19, 2019 |
Have you ever tried going to the market, prepare meals and cook before? Have you ever tried cooking three times daily over and over again? At 15, your kid is preparing for University. He needs all the time to study, he is more independent minded and probably has other interests to engage in. Money is not the problem. The problem is the time and energy especially when you realise that it is not worth it at the end of the day. Choosing to reduce time spent cooking does not mean she cannot cook with firewood if necessary. alBHAGDADI: |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Gabson001(m): 6:41pm On May 19, 2019 |
One minute silence for the idiot that will marry this one.. |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by NoToPile: 6:41pm On May 19, 2019 |
bukatyne: I couldnt help but laugh at the bolded Chores are stressful simple thats the fact a lot dont want to understand, when you have a flexible job or you work from home you wont feel it but When you are already stressed at work or spend 3 hours in lagos traffic coming back to another level of stress is not easy. I had it easy as I worked around home just few months ago, now that I have to work at the main office not finding it easy. Lagos is one kain place sha. |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Gabson001(m): 6:44pm On May 19, 2019 |
Naira marley talk he land for efcc hand.. Maybe na babalawo house this one go endup |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Westsida: 6:47pm On May 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: . |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Westsida: 6:49pm On May 19, 2019 |
[s] funmisticqueen:[/s] |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by immaculate1234(m): 6:51pm On May 19, 2019 |
8 months no too much me na 5 years and counting Bleep critics |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Sterope(f): 6:52pm On May 19, 2019 |
It does not depend on the mother at all. I know how I was raised. I started cooking early. My brothers can cook almost any meal. They even bake their own birthday cakes however you will not catch any of us cooking every now and then. They still engage in every type of housechores you can think of. A brother who complains most about how cooking takes insane amount of time brought home several pieces of breaded chicken and meat pie he made in his hostel kitchen. You will not catch him cooking on a normal day. I was not raised on street food either. We made our eko/agidi ourselves and very other thing you can think of. once you understand the important things, you will agree with me that the purpose of food is to survive. No book says you have to prepare that meal especially where there are alternatives. It is a mind thing. My mum cooks even when she doesn't have to and she complains about being tired ditto the other women I know. They lash out and complain because they are so stressed out and I wonder who sent them to begin with djon78: 1 Like |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Westsida: 6:55pm On May 19, 2019 |
[s] iRepNaija1:[/s] Your probms arent relationship problems, you have an individual problms! |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Nobody: 7:13pm On May 19, 2019 |
djon78: You didn’t get the point, or you did and believe marriage is an achievement |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by nextstep(m): 7:21pm On May 19, 2019 |
djon78: I have no problem when a successful woman runs her home well (including cooking), as long as it's her choice. If it isn't her choice, there's a lot of pressure on women to be superhuman, which is unduly stressful, and isn't required of men who are also medical doctors. What I'm saying is that we should not all get up in arms and offended when a woman chooses not to cook, for whatever reason. 1 Like |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by BiafranBushBoy: 7:25pm On May 19, 2019 |
Sterope: So help them out with their complaints please... |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Sterope(f): 7:35pm On May 19, 2019 |
Why would I? It was their choice BiafranBushBoy: |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by BiafranBushBoy: 7:38pm On May 19, 2019 |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Nobody: 7:38pm On May 19, 2019 |
bukatyne:but yet nigerian man places value on a woman based on her ability to cook and clean |
Re: I've Not Cooked In 8 Months - Nigerian Lady Writes by Sterope(f): 7:41pm On May 19, 2019 |
Yes BiafranBushBoy: |
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