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Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by correctyourself(m): 12:42pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: OK o, I will advice you to continue working as usall OK, don't go and tell madam anything because if you do there is no way oga would not know. Even if the woman frown at you don't worry assume you don't know anything about them, time would come oga would be the one to put things in order, oga and sece sece would get tired one day and bubble would bust from there where madam would finally know everything by herself. And you would be smiling because it does not come out of your mouth, OK. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Richy4(m): 12:45pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: U are partly to be blamed in this anyways ie if u were the type that can handle the truth ... U collected recharge cards that u never worked for.. In this world, there's no free lunch... U payback one way or another... But next time if she gives you attitude, politely explain to her that reporting your boss to her was not in your job description.. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Boss13: 12:53pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: She is an insecure woman - that’s what they do. I would advise you consider looking for another job. Do not test the emotions of a scorned woman. They will go at all length to get what they want and don’t mind burning bridges. I’m shocked she is calling you just to say “Hi”. I don’t think your Boss would like such coziness and it maybe misinterpreted. Get yourself out of that situation. Trust me, that woman would get rid of you either deliberately or otherwise. You are no longer her friend. 6 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Boss13: 12:58pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Richy4: If only he has another job or there is one he can readily get 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by BecaciaBarbie(f): 2:06pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Mutemenot:Wow wow play your game well... So would you have given same advice if it was a situation with the opposite sex? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Mutemenot(m): 2:39pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
BecaciaBarbie: op's job is our concern here not the woman n her husband. 10 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by wwwkaycom(m): 5:19pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Boss13:Wey the job bros, na so e easy? |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by cornerplus: 9:01pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: Let's know how it goes/went 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by bukatyne(f): 9:17pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Acidosis: Wetin concern the secretary na? It is funny how everyone is treating the oga's wife like the one at fault when she is actually the wronged party. Hmmmm. 15 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
The wife is very annoying. See how she wants to drag innocent bystanders into her own wahala. You have handled the issue very well so far. Continue to greet her politely when she comes your way but avoid her as much as possible and ignore her angry looks. 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by mattsvibes: 11:01pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Just Keep Quite And Stop Familarity With Ur Boss Wife 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by mamcoker: 2:17am On Jun 02, 2019 |
I think If I was in your shoes i would ave given her something. Give her something that will harm no one.you should give her something. Nothing is not acceptable. I dont think you should tell your boss 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by daewoorazer(m): 5:49am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Your undoing was letting her ‘bribe’ you with recharges And all that, now your conscience is messed..... It’s not messy yet, move the equipment to your house and make everything with your boss’s wife strictly professional....stop laffing at every jokes and perhaps eating every plate of eba she loads in front of you..... That’s all you need......na conscience dey worry u, if she had not been ‘nice’, trust me, you won’t give a flying fûck 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by wwwkaycom(m): 6:02am On Jun 02, 2019 |
daewoorazer:Correct advise, though the plate of eba thing sounds hilarious! |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Suzie1(f): 8:02am On Jun 02, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: Let's treat your case this way, using the 48 laws of power. She used law 8 on you: Make people come to you - use bait if necessary. You knew right from the time that she's inquisitive yet you acted unbothered since you're getting small chops. She used the bait and hook method on you and now you don't want to be trapped. Instead of applying law 40: Despise free lunch. Now let me give my advice using law 5: So much depends on reputation - guard it with your life. I will suggest you stylishly tell your director if he can give you the chance to be doing some of the jobs at your place. Let him know that you do perform better/work effectively when alone. Give the wife space. If you ignore her and you are still visiting the house, you might be called a thief or a rapist some day. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Amuocha: 8:03am On Jun 02, 2019 |
But where is lalasticlala sef now |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by eyinjuege: 8:25am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Acidosis: I'm very sure if the roles were reversed, the advice would be different. If it was madam cheating, many would have advised her employee to spill the beans... The side chick/boo would always be excused because they've taken no vows. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by eyinjuege: 8:32am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Boss13: She is not an insecure woman. Rather a woman who knows her husband and knows for sure he is cheating. She is just gathering her evidences. You can call her insecure only if her suspicions are not true, but they are. The boss has been showing signs he is cheating and she's smart enough to pick up the signs. She however isn't smart enough to hack into his phones and social media accounts. Boss13: What's ridiculous in getting evidence on who your partner is cheating with? You're wondering what she will do with the information? Let her have it first, and then you'll see . Meanwhile, why are you making out the wife to be a bad person? You've called her insecure, you've called her ridiculous, yet you know for a fact her suspicions are correct. You know for a fact her husband has done her wrong She's even tried to do her own detective work, but unfortunately she's not so great at that. Dont be surprised she already knows about the secretary as it's probably common knowledge in their office and OP won't be the only source she has there. She just needed exact confirmation from someone who travelled with them. 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by ibkayee(f): 8:56am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Boss13:She’s an ‘insecure’ woman for suspecting her cheating husband is cheating? Urm who would’ve thought lol, it’s pretty understandable smh Kennybabs1980 I feel bad for the woman, but at the same time it’s unfair that she’s dragging you into her business. Best thing to do is to ignore her and be neutral, but then I can also see your neutrality somehow being flipped on you by your boss if he gets caught one day and finds out you were aware of his wife’s investigations. Corrupt systems sometimes have a way of punishing those doing things the ‘right’ way unfortunately. 11 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by amaben2020(m): 12:43pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
Talk to your boss stylishly, that woman can lead to your sack, hunger dey Nigeria 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Acidosis(m): 1:35pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
eyinjuege:You're very right. It's a man's world after all :p 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Acidosis(m): 1:36pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
bukatyne:Very funny my sister 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by AllenSpencer: 11:51pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
Use her for money rituals |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Nobody: 11:53pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
kennybabs1980:Dic.k her down 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by nnamdinho(m): 11:54pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
patani:you said my mind 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by dreamwords: 11:55pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
The story doesn't make sense |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by hopexter(m): 11:58pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
kennybabs1980: You're already handling it perfectly well. Ignore her and stop picking her calls. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by darkelf: 11:59pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
patani: Wrong move bro. BIG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO When they finally settle, he will be viewed as trying to cause problem in their home ab-initio and the big stick will be wielded (SACK) He should try any means possible to reduce contact with the both of them or request transfer to another unit 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Nobody: 12:00am On Jun 03, 2019 |
You better not get involved. Don't say anything to your boss regarding his wife. That will be like taking sides which karma will fix for you to learn a huge lesson. You think you both are pals? He is dating his secretary who may have a boyfriend. You think your boss is also not capable of dating your own girlfriend/wife without batting an eyelid? You have already started taking steps to avoid his wife....stick to that and come up with something else as an explanation if your boss asks you why you are making such adjustments. Your boss' wife knows her husband is a dog. Let her face him alone. Use your head. 4 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by darkelf: 12:01am On Jun 03, 2019 |
DREagon: Gbam!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? by Billy0naire(m): 12:05am On Jun 03, 2019 |
There is a particular reason you are on that job for 5 years and counting. You are handling it professionally well, do not change strategy now irrespective of the pressure. You might think your boss does not know you are holding it tight, he knows already, he is a man for Lucifer's sake. Stand your ground and speak professionally and maintain the same position you have been maintaining, and some day, and that day may not be too long, your boss will bring up the issue and that is when you tell the whole story including Jara. The man will eventually ask why you did not inform him about his wife's probe. Your response should be simple; ' I am a man, I can handle such issues'. Watch his face for his reaction. Your relationship with you from that day, will only be explained by you. Good luck, but luck is not what you need. 5 Likes |
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