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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by anoziechi(f): 10:44pm On Jun 29, 2019
when Suleiman Johnson own happen.. I talk say na blackmail but you see this one... im do am hoha
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by victorian(f): 10:46pm On Jun 29, 2019
visita:
Jeez! Only you went through all of this? Must have been quite some experience and I hope you've healed now. Not all ladies are as strong/determined as you though.




visita:
Jeez! Only you went through all of this? Must have been quite some experience and I hope you've healed now. Not all ladies are as strong/determined as you though.








Unfortunately I did. smiley

The thieves were caught, we wanted to take them to court, we've already arrested them with Help of police and then confessed. But in the process of filing the case in court, they threatened me and bf. That the thieves friends and gang wil kill us, if we don't close the case. We hadn't choice but to let those criminals go Scot free. That's life. smiley

It took me 6 years to heal . I became scared of men. I broke up with my bf back then. I didn't trust him enough to be able to protect me anymore. I hated him , I hated all men. He hated what happened, he hated Nigerians, cos it was his best friend wife that scheme the whole thieves thing. He left Nigeria for good.

I inreturn didn't date Or have sex with any man for 6years! I shut down my body, mind and soul.

It was an elderly pastor whom I always gist with, that called my attention one day, and said Vicky how long will you continue like this? I said like how? Looking at him calmly. He said u are alone. You don't even have a man at your age. But why? It seems u hate men, with way u talk at times.

I smiled. He kept on with his words I need to be in a relationship, I need to get married and have kids, I can't be single forever. I need to forgive and release all the hurt and resentment I felt. I need deliverance. I wanted to get angry at him and snap back but looking at his old face and eyes, he truly cared about me, Eeyah.
I shook my head, hold on back to tears forming in my eyes, my heart was beating hard.

At that moment, my spirit was broken and I was just crying, crying uncontrollably, he hugged me and said keep crying, just let it out. You need it. Free yourself and let the hate go away. Sighs

So After that counsel I went for deliverance and after some weeks, then started becoming friendly to guys again. The Pastor was happy, he helped me sha for another year or so before he passed on.

So that's about it!

Trust me I had series Of hell in experience years back . But I had to let go.


I look at my fingers, I always remember but I said well I think I will Keep seeing this crooked fingers for the rest of my life. smiley

But it's all good. God knows why I went through all I went through. So I know the kind of world I'm born into. It's life. But we have to keep moving.

I became stronger emotionally. I'm a stronger lady today. Nothing in life faze me anymore. Absolutely nothing. Not even death.

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by anoziechi(f): 10:46pm On Jun 29, 2019
the kind of boldness this man will use and face his church members tomorrow....God I need it to face my crush
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by kernel01: 10:46pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:
What will y'all gain by destroying this man..

How come y'all just speaking out now..

In as much as I don't like pastors and their ways of life, I don't even go to church... But I'm solidly behind him on this...

The question everyone has failed to answer is would she have done the same thing if the man was a local roadside vulcaniser


So because he's a big Pastor, you will thank him if he rapes your daughter?
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Ubdavis(m): 10:52pm On Jun 29, 2019
lefulefu:
u dont even need to be religious for u to discipline urself around women even if ur libido is high. I no even understand why many of dese pastors no fit control themselves around women even though they are married to very beautiful wives.

The button line is slf control my brother..

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by ImaIma1(f): 11:02pm On Jun 29, 2019
victorian:









I was almost raped three times!

On different occasions by different men.

And trust me I didn't seat still while they tried.

First rape attempt I was 6years old, I screamed , jumped down and ran off

Second rape attempt I was 26years old right in my office, I struggled furiously , bite his palm, and screamed. My security guard downstairs ran up, knocked and rushed in.

Third attempt rape : I was 30 years old at my home, I pretended I want him too when I realised he was very strong with his fist. I calmed down, smiled and told him lemme go pull off and wear something sexy Na. I even kissed him for him to believe, he released his grip, as I stood up, I pushed him so hard and ran out of my apartment with great speed! Then shouted from outside, leave my apartment now!


Those three incidents I never got once kept in touch with anyone of them and I warned the last two never in their life should they contact me again orelse I will get them arrested. And they didn't. They kept off!


That's attempted rape! I hate them with every cell in my body!

So dear I know what it means and how it feels when one is about to be raped, it's very ugly experience. How much more been raped.


Yes I remember the last one, thieves came to my ex house , stole stuffs and about to rape. Thank God it was only two who came into the building. The one who wanted to rape he held a gun, while the second one held a short cutlass facing my ex.
As he came close tome, I grabbed his hand with gun with my two hands, we were struggling, there and then I was determined to die! Than to be raped. He was shocked. We were struggling with the gun. He then punched my eyes, I saw stars but I didn't let go. My ex saw me struggling WIth the rapist, he stood up and fought the second guy. The rapist was boxing my face I still held on to the gun. Until he screamed to the third thief outside, that one came in threw another short cutlass to him and he cut off my fingers holding the gun, I screamed I let go of the gun. They all ran way, with my cut fingers oozing out blood, then I passed out ,saw myself been rushed to the theater for immediate surgery.

That night was bloody!

So my sister I have been to hell and back!

No be today.

I can take a pic of my fingers for u to see how it looked now. It's not straight but at least I have fingers.

I will rather die, and fight to death! Than to be raped!


Because you left unscathed does not mean that those that were eventually raped had a fault in it.

One would expect that being an "almost" victim would have made you more empathetic.

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by AngelicBeing: 11:04pm On Jun 29, 2019
sad
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by victorian(f): 11:15pm On Jun 29, 2019
ImaIma1:


Because you left unscathed does not mean that those that were eventually raped had a fault in it.

One would expect that being an "almost" victim would have made you more empathetic.








I was emotionally distraugted even though my pussy wasn't tampered with.


I don't feel. Any empathy for Busola. She didn't behave like a rape victim with the pastor

Take it or leave it

I'm Less concerned . She is not a rape victim.. Simply put.
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by enemyofprogress: 11:16pm On Jun 29, 2019
E be like sey Satan take women and pussy swear for this Biodun Fatoyinbo
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by tiger28: 11:29pm On Jun 29, 2019
kaorama:
Am not surprised. Any woman that has been alone with this man can now accuse him.
are they getting paid for thisNO!!! Stop defending this REPEATED OFFENDER! MORE ladies will COME OUT SOON! this man is NOTORIOUS!

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Softkelvin: 11:37pm On Jun 29, 2019
victorian:

Am surprised a woman is talking like this I hope you and your daughters would be raped. So I can type exactly what you posted..





In her claim, she said he called her to invite her to his hotel room and she declined

So what's she coming out for?

Who asked her?

We looking out for rape victims with proof! Not coming out to say the pastor invited her to his hotel room and she declined.

That's not what I want to see after reading the headline of this thread : FORMER FAMILY FRIEND SHARES HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE.


really? Is that horrible experience ? Smhhhh
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by femi4: 11:39pm On Jun 29, 2019
victorian:








Read my reply to imaima1.


I'm not just typing because I'm behind the keyboard. I know what I'm saying.

I have experienced attempted rape before not once! But four times!!!

And I didn't seat still!

I fought a bloody fight, not caring if my head will be blown off by mistake or not!

But it was a fight of death! So don't even start on me.
I m disappointed in you......The reaction is different if the rapist is some held in high esteem, trusted, respected and well known to the family

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jun 29, 2019
tiger28:
are they getting paid for thisNO!!! Stop defending this REPEATED OFFENDER! MORE ladies will COME OUT SOON! this man is NOTORIOUS!
You how your brain works. Does th is look like defense?
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by BluntBoy(m): 11:50pm On Jun 29, 2019
GutsOverFear:


The question everyone has failed to answer is would she have done the same thing if the man was a local roadside vulcaniser

And what is the usefulness of the question?

If one of your loved ones came home and reported to you that her boss tried to assault her, you will ask her that useless question? Be truthful with yourself. If your sister came home and accused her boss of trying to rape her, you will ask, "My sister, would you have reported this case if it were the company gateman that tried to rape you?"

While I am not judging Biodun, I must say that the way rape is trivialized in this country shows that many people do not know what rape is nor have they met a rape victim.

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by freshMallam1122: 12:00am On Jun 30, 2019
women an politicians are the real problems of this world..women are the snakes why politicians are the adams
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by ImaIma1(f): 12:01am On Jun 30, 2019
victorian:









I was emotionally distraugted even though my pussy wasn't tampered with.


I don't feel. Any empathy for Busola. She didn't behave like a rape victim with the pastor

Take it or leave it

I'm Less concerned . She is not a rape victim.. Simply put.


How was she supposed to behave with the pastor?

You are using your own experiences to qualify hers

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by SamuelLoch: 12:05am On Jun 30, 2019
Wait, can't someone try to get logs of his chats, how consistently he checks in at a hotel, ratio of men to women at their gathering... Little things like this counts rather than mere rants
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Omarsheriff(m): 12:19am On Jun 30, 2019
lalanice:
More people will probably find the boldness to come out after this grin
enough stories would definitely pop up
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by victorian(f): 12:30am On Jun 30, 2019
[quote author=Softkelvin post=79793230][/quote]







Be dissapointed at your self not at me.

Because he's well known, she should just allow him take her repeatedly like a log of wood. Smhhhhh

Honestly ehn? Lemme not call you names tonihht. I'm done with insults all day.

All I need is to sleep, wake tomorrow and worship God in church.

I have alot to be thankful for at these recent times.

If you all are so pained, go to pastor Fatoyinbo church in Abuja, then crucify him the jingle Justice way. Smhhhhh. And see if the members wil not beat u all to a pulp!

Na online Una get power, talking without thinking.

Abeg I'm done here. Goodnight!
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by victorian(f): 12:32am On Jun 30, 2019
ImaIma1:


How was she supposed to behave with the pastor?

You are using your own experiences to qualify hers





She can behave whichever way she likes.

I have my own issues.

Lemme sleep, tomorrow is church service. I need to go early.

Moreover you are invited to my church Charis covenant church ( a Pentecostal church) have a good night rest.

I'm done with this topic. Goodnight
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by stanliwise(m): 12:51am On Jun 30, 2019
GutsOverFear:
What will y'all gain by destroying this man..

How come y'all just speaking out now..

In as much as I don't like pastors and their ways of life, I don't even go to church... But I'm solidly behind him on this...

The question everyone has failed to answer is would she have done the same thing if the man was a local roadside vulcaniser
The best place for this your wishy washy questions is the trash can.
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by DeeMain(m): 12:53am On Jun 30, 2019
victorian:









I was almost raped three times!

On different occasions by different men.

And trust me I didn't seat still while they tried.

First rape attempt I was 6years old, I screamed , jumped down and ran off

Second rape attempt I was 26years old right in my office, I struggled furiously , bite his palm, and screamed. My security guard downstairs ran up, knocked and rushed in.

Third attempt rape : I was 30 years old at my home, I pretended I want him too when I realised he was very strong with his fist. I calmed down, smiled and told him lemme go pull off and wear something sexy Na. I even kissed him for him to believe, he released his grip, as I stood up, I pushed him so hard and ran out of my apartment with great speed! Then shouted from outside, leave my apartment now!


Those three incidents I never got once kept in touch with anyone of them and I warned the last two never in their life should they contact me again orelse I will get them arrested. And they didn't. They kept off!


That's attempted rape! I hate them with every cell in my body!

So dear I know what it means and how it feels when one is about to be raped, it's very ugly experience. How much more been raped.


Yes I remember the last one, thieves came to my ex house , stole stuffs and about to rape. Thank God it was only two who came into the building. The one who wanted to rape he held a gun, while the second one held a short cutlass facing my ex.
As he came close tome, I grabbed his hand with gun with my two hands, we were struggling, there and then I was determined to die! Than to be raped. He was shocked. We were struggling with the gun. He then punched my eyes, I saw stars but I didn't let go. My ex saw me struggling WIth the rapist, he stood up and fought the second guy. The rapist was boxing my face I still held on to the gun. Until he screamed to the third thief outside, that one came in threw another short cutlass to him and he cut off my fingers holding the gun, I screamed I let go of the gun. They all ran way, with my cut fingers oozing out blood, then I passed out ,saw myself been rushed to the theater for immediate surgery.

That night was bloody!

So my sister I have been to hell and back!

No be today.

I can take a pic of my fingers for u to see how it looked now. It's not straight but at least I have fingers.

I will rather die, and fight to death! Than to be raped!

Sorry about your traumatic experiences. You are indeed a super woman. I want you to treat others victims with empathy too. People are created and wired differently. Don't judge the world through your own lenses alone.

There is something called the fight and flight response in every human.

In the face of immense fear the fight-freeze-flight response kicks in for everyone. When fear strikes some people will instinctively fight, some will flee and some will freeze - go numb, become paralysed to move, speak or act.

You belong to the fight response category. It even shows in how you engage people in this NL.

Some rape victims never fight their predators or even raise their voice. They belong to the freeze response category. They are too afraid or shocked to act or move or run. It's not their fault, it's in their wiring.

Empathize with them. Don't lose your humanity.

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by stanliwise(m): 12:56am On Jun 30, 2019
victorian:









I was emotionally distraugted even though my pussy wasn't tampered with.


I don't feel. Any empathy for Busola. She didn't behave like a rape victim with the pastor

Take it or leave it

I'm Less concerned . She is not a rape victim.. Simply put.
Girl better find better spot pack this your comment o.
which one is the way she is behaving again?
Na wa for you o, and you said you were emotionally disrupted, yet, you learned nothing from your emotional disruption, so sad girl.
Please help us with the way she would behave, like show us the yard stick of behaviour for rape victims

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by stanliwise(m): 1:03am On Jun 30, 2019
victorian:









For me, I feel if it's true, why seat back and allow him access?

Why not arrest him immediately he was done with penetration, cos she knows him.

Why wait til 20years before saying all these?

What's her motive?

She claimed she was raped several times by him on different occasions, he didn't hold a gun on her head while raping her, he didn't tell men to hold her down. Just you and him on several times and she wil still go to his house and church afterwards!

Cmon? Who does that!

For crying out loud! Which woman, man rape, the woman go still Dey around him

That's not rape but affair goes south.

He's randy, it's clear and I hope this episode wil make him suppress the urge of seducing women and cut off from any woman coming around him in a suggestive way.
STOCKHOLM SYNDROME is the name given to the psychological phenomenon wherein person/persons kept victims or abducted hostages develop sympathy, loyalty, affection or other empathetic feelings (or even sexual attraction) towards their captors/abductors/aggressors

This same syndrome affected many chibok girls, as many became unwilling to return to their family and became empathetic to the boko haram members.
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Insectkiller: 1:51am On Jun 30, 2019
Mtchewwww...

Is it every Toto person dey Bleep..

See this one too talking..
Una wan rubbish d man name..
Na wa oo
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by mranova(m): 1:52am On Jun 30, 2019
All these sisters that will be having such people as their 'pastors' and also dragging their sisters along to such places... Hmnnn I dey suspect you.
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by briggson07(m): 2:18am On Jun 30, 2019
victorian:




U can gossip for Africa









As in ehn, very ugly lady!

He is clean.

Just watch how church will full up tomorrow!

Offering, tithes, seeds times 5!

Everyone is going to his church tomorrow, there will be no space sef!

Then prayers and curses upon Timi and his wife? Only God knows how many times they will pray and curse that couple. I pity Timi
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Nobody: 3:26am On Jun 30, 2019
victorian:











Shame on you too!

Goat!

No, you are the goat.
What a disgrace!
You're supposed to be a woman. Yet you shame a person bold enough to tell their story.
How much were you paid?

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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Slikbae: 3:36am On Jun 30, 2019
You're very stupid for blaspheming against Christ.
CHIGIM:
I don't know why people are surprised. even jesus had a babe in Mary Magdalene,if Mary was alive today she would have surprised u all too. Na blood dey flow for their body not water and dey are not angels and even angels did it in the book of Enoch too.so leave all this men of god's alone and trust them with Ur wife and daughter at Ur own risk
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Slikbae: 3:42am On Jun 30, 2019
Do Catholic priest not rape little boys?
Mizwisdom:
Very randy pastor, what a disgrace to the body of Christ, thank God I'm no longer a Pentecostal
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Slikbae: 3:43am On Jun 30, 2019
Lmao
ehmmy11:
grin Only vagina carbon dating can reveal the truth

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