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Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by anoziechi(f): 10:44pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
when Suleiman Johnson own happen.. I talk say na blackmail but you see this one... im do am hoha |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by victorian(f): 10:46pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
visita: visita: Unfortunately I did. The thieves were caught, we wanted to take them to court, we've already arrested them with Help of police and then confessed. But in the process of filing the case in court, they threatened me and bf. That the thieves friends and gang wil kill us, if we don't close the case. We hadn't choice but to let those criminals go Scot free. That's life. It took me 6 years to heal . I became scared of men. I broke up with my bf back then. I didn't trust him enough to be able to protect me anymore. I hated him , I hated all men. He hated what happened, he hated Nigerians, cos it was his best friend wife that scheme the whole thieves thing. He left Nigeria for good. I inreturn didn't date Or have sex with any man for 6years! I shut down my body, mind and soul. It was an elderly pastor whom I always gist with, that called my attention one day, and said Vicky how long will you continue like this? I said like how? Looking at him calmly. He said u are alone. You don't even have a man at your age. But why? It seems u hate men, with way u talk at times. I smiled. He kept on with his words I need to be in a relationship, I need to get married and have kids, I can't be single forever. I need to forgive and release all the hurt and resentment I felt. I need deliverance. I wanted to get angry at him and snap back but looking at his old face and eyes, he truly cared about me, Eeyah. I shook my head, hold on back to tears forming in my eyes, my heart was beating hard. At that moment, my spirit was broken and I was just crying, crying uncontrollably, he hugged me and said keep crying, just let it out. You need it. Free yourself and let the hate go away. Sighs So After that counsel I went for deliverance and after some weeks, then started becoming friendly to guys again. The Pastor was happy, he helped me sha for another year or so before he passed on. So that's about it! Trust me I had series Of hell in experience years back . But I had to let go. I look at my fingers, I always remember but I said well I think I will Keep seeing this crooked fingers for the rest of my life. But it's all good. God knows why I went through all I went through. So I know the kind of world I'm born into. It's life. But we have to keep moving. I became stronger emotionally. I'm a stronger lady today. Nothing in life faze me anymore. Absolutely nothing. Not even death. 1 Like |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by anoziechi(f): 10:46pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
the kind of boldness this man will use and face his church members tomorrow....God I need it to face my crush |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by kernel01: 10:46pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
GutsOverFear: So because he's a big Pastor, you will thank him if he rapes your daughter? |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Ubdavis(m): 10:52pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
lefulefu: The button line is slf control my brother.. 1 Like |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by ImaIma1(f): 11:02pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
victorian: Because you left unscathed does not mean that those that were eventually raped had a fault in it. One would expect that being an "almost" victim would have made you more empathetic. 2 Likes |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by AngelicBeing: 11:04pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by victorian(f): 11:15pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
ImaIma1: I was emotionally distraugted even though my pussy wasn't tampered with. I don't feel. Any empathy for Busola. She didn't behave like a rape victim with the pastor Take it or leave it I'm Less concerned . She is not a rape victim.. Simply put. |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by enemyofprogress: 11:16pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
E be like sey Satan take women and pussy swear for this Biodun Fatoyinbo |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by tiger28: 11:29pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
kaorama:are they getting paid for thisNO!!! Stop defending this REPEATED OFFENDER! MORE ladies will COME OUT SOON! this man is NOTORIOUS! 1 Like |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Softkelvin: 11:37pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
victorian: |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by femi4: 11:39pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
victorian:I m disappointed in you......The reaction is different if the rapist is some held in high esteem, trusted, respected and well known to the family 2 Likes |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
tiger28:You how your brain works. Does th is look like defense? |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by BluntBoy(m): 11:50pm On Jun 29, 2019 |
GutsOverFear: And what is the usefulness of the question? If one of your loved ones came home and reported to you that her boss tried to assault her, you will ask her that useless question? Be truthful with yourself. If your sister came home and accused her boss of trying to rape her, you will ask, "My sister, would you have reported this case if it were the company gateman that tried to rape you?" While I am not judging Biodun, I must say that the way rape is trivialized in this country shows that many people do not know what rape is nor have they met a rape victim. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by freshMallam1122: 12:00am On Jun 30, 2019 |
women an politicians are the real problems of this world..women are the snakes why politicians are the adams |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by ImaIma1(f): 12:01am On Jun 30, 2019 |
victorian: How was she supposed to behave with the pastor? You are using your own experiences to qualify hers 1 Like |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by SamuelLoch: 12:05am On Jun 30, 2019 |
Wait, can't someone try to get logs of his chats, how consistently he checks in at a hotel, ratio of men to women at their gathering... Little things like this counts rather than mere rants |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Omarsheriff(m): 12:19am On Jun 30, 2019 |
lalanice:enough stories would definitely pop up |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by victorian(f): 12:30am On Jun 30, 2019 |
[quote author=Softkelvin post=79793230][/quote] Be dissapointed at your self not at me. Because he's well known, she should just allow him take her repeatedly like a log of wood. Smhhhhh Honestly ehn? Lemme not call you names tonihht. I'm done with insults all day. All I need is to sleep, wake tomorrow and worship God in church. I have alot to be thankful for at these recent times. If you all are so pained, go to pastor Fatoyinbo church in Abuja, then crucify him the jingle Justice way. Smhhhhh. And see if the members wil not beat u all to a pulp! Na online Una get power, talking without thinking. Abeg I'm done here. Goodnight! |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by victorian(f): 12:32am On Jun 30, 2019 |
ImaIma1: She can behave whichever way she likes. I have my own issues. Lemme sleep, tomorrow is church service. I need to go early. Moreover you are invited to my church Charis covenant church ( a Pentecostal church) have a good night rest. I'm done with this topic. Goodnight |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by stanliwise(m): 12:51am On Jun 30, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:The best place for this your wishy washy questions is the trash can. |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by DeeMain(m): 12:53am On Jun 30, 2019 |
victorian: Sorry about your traumatic experiences. You are indeed a super woman. I want you to treat others victims with empathy too. People are created and wired differently. Don't judge the world through your own lenses alone. There is something called the fight and flight response in every human. In the face of immense fear the fight-freeze-flight response kicks in for everyone. When fear strikes some people will instinctively fight, some will flee and some will freeze - go numb, become paralysed to move, speak or act. You belong to the fight response category. It even shows in how you engage people in this NL. Some rape victims never fight their predators or even raise their voice. They belong to the freeze response category. They are too afraid or shocked to act or move or run. It's not their fault, it's in their wiring. Empathize with them. Don't lose your humanity. 3 Likes |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by stanliwise(m): 12:56am On Jun 30, 2019 |
victorian:Girl better find better spot pack this your comment o. which one is the way she is behaving again? Na wa for you o, and you said you were emotionally disrupted, yet, you learned nothing from your emotional disruption, so sad girl. Please help us with the way she would behave, like show us the yard stick of behaviour for rape victims 1 Like |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by stanliwise(m): 1:03am On Jun 30, 2019 |
victorian:STOCKHOLM SYNDROME is the name given to the psychological phenomenon wherein person/persons kept victims or abducted hostages develop sympathy, loyalty, affection or other empathetic feelings (or even sexual attraction) towards their captors/abductors/aggressors This same syndrome affected many chibok girls, as many became unwilling to return to their family and became empathetic to the boko haram members. |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Insectkiller: 1:51am On Jun 30, 2019 |
Mtchewwww... Is it every Toto person dey Bleep.. See this one too talking.. Una wan rubbish d man name.. Na wa oo |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by mranova(m): 1:52am On Jun 30, 2019 |
All these sisters that will be having such people as their 'pastors' and also dragging their sisters along to such places... Hmnnn I dey suspect you. |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by briggson07(m): 2:18am On Jun 30, 2019 |
victorian: |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Nobody: 3:26am On Jun 30, 2019 |
victorian: No, you are the goat. What a disgrace! You're supposed to be a woman. Yet you shame a person bold enough to tell their story. How much were you paid? 3 Likes |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Slikbae: 3:36am On Jun 30, 2019 |
You're very stupid for blaspheming against Christ. CHIGIM: |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Slikbae: 3:42am On Jun 30, 2019 |
Do Catholic priest not rape little boys? Mizwisdom: |
Re: Dolapo Oseji, Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Family Friend Speaks by Slikbae: 3:43am On Jun 30, 2019 |
Lmao ehmmy11: 1 Like |
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