Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by Lovelyn451(f): 11:28am On Jul 02, 2019 |
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Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by Neddstark: 11:28am On Jul 02, 2019 |
If what Pastor Coza did was rape, then I am a rapist. You know how many times I don chuk hand inside woman pant to initiate sex? Or how many times I don use play play intimidate as part of my skills to get laid? If thats the case then men are divided into rapists and wankers 2 Likes |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by AngelicBeing: 11:29am On Jul 02, 2019 |
izzou:
Busola is just the catalyst Biodun needs to blow "big time" in this country
The same Nigerians that wore white Polos to protest will still be the same ones to bury Timi's career
Instead of going to a court to get justice, you came to instagram and twitter to shout, forgetting that just as people are using Biodun's past to judge him, they'll use yours to judge you too
We will soon start seeing men that will come forward to say they have had consensual sex with Busola and how she's a nympho
Go court, you no gree... Hmmm |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by Chriswazo(m): 11:29am On Jul 02, 2019 |
My best read on this episode;
COZA Rape Controversy & The Age of Social Lunacy by Dodoh Okafor
1. On what basis did hundreds of people abandon their morning chores this Sunday to go picket the premises of the Common Wealth of Zion Assembly Church in Guzape Area of Abuja and Lagos?
2. Because a certain woman alleged (without any scintilla of proof) that she was raped? Because 5 women said the Church Pastor had inappropriate sexual relationships with them? Or because Segun Awosika said he has "30" women willing to testify against the COZA founder in law court?
3. What really was the essence of the nasty, rowdy, uncoordinated protests? To embarrass the church? To humiliate the pastor? To get the pastor to step down?
4. Pray- are those protesters really interested in pursuing a strong campaign against rape or were they on a vendetta mission?
5. I do not know what other people may think but here's what I am convinced about: many of those who jumped into this rape issue are being manipulated, misled and used as pawns in a complex game of chess by those who are adept at using the media to manipulate the gullible.
6. The man who conducted the interview that sparked the outrage is a certain Chude Jideonwo- one of the many crafty revisionists Nair El Rufai, Bola Tinubu and their lackeys employed to market Buhari in 2015. You are entitled to your opinion but I am convinced by Jideowno's involvement that a lie is involved, that a campaign to hoodwink the masses has been set in motion and with what I know of social media- a mechanism for creating a media storm has been activated.
7. The lady is probably dishonest and no rational thinker should believe her without at least asking a few important questions. I consider her motive to be suspect at best- reason being- what does she intend to achieve by coming out to tell a story that sound poorly fabricated, lacking in substance and designed to bring opprobrium to a man she had a choice to either deal with or avoid.
8. Many would remember the old Igbo adage that can be simply translated to imply that a raging ocean cannot drown a man whose feet it did not see. Fact is- Mr Fatoyinbo never dragged or nailed the buttocks of any man or woman to his church. Anyone always had the option of walking away the minute you became uncomfortable with his body body language or suggestions.
9. Mr Fatoyinbo did not just see anyone and grabbed her by the waist neither is there any report that he ever saw anyone on the street and pulled his car by the roadside, pushed her side and "opened his zip"
10. To be certain, I am not one to support the violation of trust by anyone in authority especially people from whom much is expected. Pastors, priests, teachers, uncle's and aunties, office superiors and village elders have a great responsibility to carry themselves with dignity and restraint at all times.
11. I am not one to blame the victim but when forceful sexual acts keep occurring and the victim never summoned up the courage to report to anyone but rather submits herself whenever her molester comes around for me has a different interpretation.
12. To imagine that the said Busola Dakolo kept submitting herself to Mr Fatoyinbo, attending his church, singing in his Choir, and as I heard- allowing him to wed her tells an entirely different story. It does not add up. Mrs Dakolo in my estimation may not have told us the entire story or perhaps she is playing a terrible game.
13. It pains me to see Nigerians swallowing that story hook line and sinker because some known social media influencers bought into it. This says a lot about how we have deteriorated in our capacity to think and reason.
14. When did we sublet our thinking power to social media influencers and celebrities? If these men and women care so much about rape- why are they not protesting against the mindless rape and killing of women by fulani cattle rearer/terrorists across most states in southern Nigeria?
15. If they care about women, where were they when a certain Elizabeth Ochanya was raped to death by a man and his son? How much did today's sudden philanthropists donate to support the prosecution of the perpetrators of what undoubtedly is a grave act of wickedness?
16. How much social media awareness did they raise when Eunice Elijah was killed by a band of lunatics in Kubwa Abuja? Why are they not interested in seeing that those behind the dastardly act are brought to book?
17. Where am I driving to? Again to be clear: I would be eager to see rapists and other criminals or those who violate the trust of young girls prosecuted and made to serve their punishment. But I would do everything I can to stop the triumph of online mob action against an assumedly innocent man.
18. Accusation is never conviction. Speaking emotionally while being filmed does not amount to presenting a hard evidence before a court of law. Has social media replaced conventional courts or is there something I am unaware of? Aren't injured people supposed to take their matter to court?
18. Is Mrs Dakolo seeking for justice, revenge, emotional appeal, to create mischief or just to destroy Mr Fatoyinbo? What exactly is this all about? Blackmail or some publicity stunts because none of it is clear to me.
19. Again I ask: what was the protest about? Was the protest against Fatoyinbo or COZA? Shouldn't a protest against Mr Fatoyinbo happen in front of his house? Why did they go to disrupt church programs at COZA today? Shouldn't COZA and Fatoyinbo be separate entities? How come the so-called lawyers who lined up at Guzape today missed this point? So COZA should be brought down because a certain woman told a disjointed story to Chude on camera?
20. Why are people so silly? Where's Stephanie Otobo? Why did she stop regalling us with tales of how Mr Johnson Suleiman "raped" her in Jamaica?
21. I would conclude by advising everyone to be circumspect about what's presented on social media. Truth is- the social media in most cases is structured to weaken your capacity to think, steal your power of logical and deductive reasoning from you and what else? Make you a fool.
22. Buhari and his handlers understood that it is very easy to sell lunacy on social media and the leveraged it to come to power- Ill prepared, with a vindictive mindset and you know where that has landed Nigeria.
23. Interestingly - the same group that sold Buhari to Nigerians in 2015 are behind this Busola Dakolo rape tale. I insist that there's a whole lot more to this hullabaloo.
24. You ask- what of the other 1000 girls that also accused the pastor of rape? I reply with: when did public opinion become the basis of adjudication in matters that require sensitivity and tack? Remember millions of people have voted for Buhari since 2015. Does that confer on Buhari the administrative skill he does not have?
25. What else? Who remembers the women who came forward to accuse Brett Kavanaug of rape soon after he was nominated for a Supreme Court position? When are we picking the US Supreme Court?
Let me end with an advice: never sublet your thinking to anyone- especially people whose agenda you do not understand. 4 Likes |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by Benekruku(m): 11:29am On Jul 02, 2019 |
[s] vyke2008:
My take.... a criminal act was committed against you and you never reported to the appropriate authorities... several years later, without shame as a married woman you never cared what the aftermath would be on your family, and that of the accused.... you just came out to social media and start wailing as if the act was done last night...
The question is what triggered the sudden burst? family issues? number busy from the alleged perpetrator? Folks, there's more to this that she is not telling... however, bye and large, the truth always prevails.
If she is a lover of God and a Believer she claimed to be, why not leave judgement to God and let the house of God be at peace... because many will lose their faith because of her proclamation. Souls would be lost! then as a child of God, she didn't think through all the pros and cons of her actions??
So even if the Pastor is guilty as she alleged, does she think Heaven is happy with her actions... in putting the church on for castigation!, NO!!! No matter what transpired between the two of them, of course something may have happened, i strongly believe she didn't paint the whole picture.
Something may have led the pastor'e action or inaction, "for every action, there's a reaction" if the whole truth is painted, she will get even more of the blame... Her actions towards the pastor may have triggered biology/chemistry in-between... then in the end... after so many years... he is happily married and you are also... why not move on for the sake of Christ, and the possible stigma on both families, as well as the dent on the house of God... and you are claiming to be a christian... people are busy wasting data and hailing you... pride goes before a fall... whatever we do... let's think it through and be rational and not sentimental! God is love, God is judgement.... Not the court, not the social media!
Someone that has value and respect for the family, the body of Christ, the church won't do what she is doing! People just stay in the church and behave worldly? Whether the pastor committed the crime or not is not the point. The point is handling things like children of God, as we all claim to be.
Report to the congregational authority, and let the church handle it. Unless of course there is more to it!
Let's see how it ends!
And for the record, I'm not a member of COZA... I'm just a concerned christian watching the house of God in the verge of collapse! Yet, people are protesting with their meaningful time!
***RUGA is knocking on our doors, how many of those protesters has hit the street of Nigeria? None! The Fulanis are prepping to plant their roots all over the country, and we don't see a need to protest!!! The country is full of mediocre!
May God help us all!
Cheers! [/s] |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by Martinez39(m): 11:30am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Adeniyii2017: FTC.. Well its heart warming to know that we have people like this in the celebrity domain. People like this should come out often to give speeches not the ones opening their body to gain followers. I believe it will also help our youth. I hope people can now see an unbiased point of view. These are people who think with their heads. Many celebrities are just trying to trend and do eye service. Believe me or not, there is no love or friendship in the music and movie industry, everyone is using each other and competing intensely. Forget all the smiles. Omoni Oboli just won my respect by being objective and staying neutral. Thunder fire Akah Nnani. |
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Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by izzou(m): 11:33am On Jul 02, 2019 |
AngelicBeing: Hmmm Its true naa
Someone came on social media and said a man raped her and fiaammmmm..... Everyone started concurring with her because the man was involved in a similar case with Ese
Ese's own wasn't a rape case so I can't use that as a yardstick to support Busola
Even if we want to use immorality to judge Biodun, Busola still falls into the same category
The same Busola was accused by an instagram comedian of sleeping with pastors in COZA The same Busola gave birth to two children without getting married even as a church worker
Rape is rape, no doubt..... But if you accuse someone, be ready to prove it. Don't attach his pasts as your evidences 1 Like |
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Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by nephemmy(m): 11:36am On Jul 02, 2019 |
this olosho wanna trend too...this is busola's time not urs.. |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by AngelicBeing: 11:36am On Jul 02, 2019 |
izzou:
Its true naa
Someone came on social media and said a man raped her and fiaammmmm..... Everyone started concurring with her because the man was involved in a similar case with Ese
Ese's own wasn't a rape case so I can't use that as a yardstick to support Busola
Even if we want to use immorality to judge Biodun, Busola still falls into the same category
The same Busola was accused by an instagram comedian of sleeping with pastors in COZA The same Busola gave birth to two children without getting married even as a church worker
Rape is rape, no doubt..... But if you accuse someone, be ready to prove it. Don't attach his pasts as your evidences Absolutely, I concur with you, l don't think either of the parties will go to the court because, the court might likely dismiss the lawsuit for lack of evidence, as it stands now, the three parties at the centre of the scandal have destroyed there reputation 1 Like |
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Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by jayson87: 11:36am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Lovelyn451: She was raped...full final stop Celebrity follow follow... Olodo, were you there! |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by chloride6: 11:37am On Jul 02, 2019 |
philip0906:
Are you minding the dumb fvcks? I can assure you, they have absolutely no case. Just noise makers uhmmm I'm not on your side bruv |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by AJIKE93: 11:37am On Jul 02, 2019 |
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Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by jayson87: 11:39am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Martinez39: Many celebrities are just trying to trend and do eye service. Believe me or not, there is no love or friendship in the music and movie industry, everyone is using each other and competing intensely. Forget all the smiles.
Omoni Oboli just won my respect by being objective and staying neutral. Thunder fire Akah Nnani. That Akah Nnani should never be addressed a celebrity, he is a low-life pathetic human being |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by ChiefSweetus: 11:40am On Jul 02, 2019 |
izzou:
Busola is just the catalyst Biodun needs to blow "big time" in this country
The same Nigerians that wore white Polos to protest will still be the same ones to bury Timi's career
Instead of going to a court to get justice, you came to instagram and twitter to shout, forgetting that just as people are using Biodun's past to judge him, they'll use yours to judge you too
We will soon start seeing men that will come forward to say they have had consensual sex with Busola and how she's a nympho
Go court, you no gree... |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by doublecross(m): 11:40am On Jul 02, 2019 |
I don't agree with this stup1d woman one bit. before you make a comment, you should think well and very very well as at that. going by her claim, it means any man will be prosecuted immediately any woman accuses the man of rape. secondly, what if truly there was a rape and the woman isn't well known publicly and not so wealthy? does it mean we can dismiss the fact that there was a rape? this issue of rape is disheartening and will be very difficult to treat till rapture takes place. the best the women/ladies/girls can do is to be very cautious and never walk alone in lonely places if need be. by the way, i've also heard cases of females raping males but no one says anything about it. i was surprised to see senseless nigerians protesting over this issue of rape when they should be protesting the bad governance we've been witnessing for ages. truly Nigerians are the most gullible people on planet earth no doubt. they just don't think.. from the leaders down to the masses |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by Martinez39(m): 11:41am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Lovelyn451: She was raped...full final stop How do you know she was raped? Do you have any evidence? Where you there? 1 Like |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by izzou(m): 11:42am On Jul 02, 2019 |
AngelicBeing: Absolutely, I concur with you, l don't think either of the parties will go to the court because, the court might likely dismiss the lawsuit for lack of evidence, as it stands now, the three parties at the centre of the scandal have destroyed there reputation Nigerian pastors have this possessive attitude and "cult like followers"
COZA will still be there. Biodun has even raised his bar by stepping down... He has given Busola the whole floor to rant. Biodun won't speak anymore
But as for Busola, the protest has happened, the man has been media shamed. What's next? Nothing..
If really he raped you and you can't get him to pay for it, what's the essence?
In a month time, Biodun will be back and give thanks to God for seeing him through his trials. His church members will still gather and disturb us on social media. But Busola foot soldiers will keep reading her story again and again till they see discrepancies
The real loser her is Timi.... Make we dey watch 3 Likes |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by parkinson89: 11:45am On Jul 02, 2019 |
See All of you should take, drink and calm down. |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by Neddstark: 11:45am On Jul 02, 2019 |
executive12:
And this nonsense is coming from a lady? If the intercourse was consensual, why did the girl report it to her elder sister who then informed the family which made the brother to take a knife to go confront the rapist/pastor. It was said that Church elders came to beg the family. Pastor Fatoyinbo is a rapist obviously. Imagine you were raped anally by a pastor, will you still go to his church? Thats if you are not insane |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by AngelicBeing: 11:46am On Jul 02, 2019 |
izzou:
Nigerian pastors have this possessive attitude and "cult like followers"
COZA will still be there. Biodun has even raised his bar by stepping down... He has given Busola the whole floor to rant. Biodun won't speak anymore
But as for Busola, the protest has happened, the man has been media shamed. What's next? Nothing..
If really he raped you and you can't get him to pay for it, what's the essence?
In a month time, Biodun will be back and give thanks to God for seeing him through his trials. His church members will still gather and disturb us on social media. But Busola foot soldiers will keep reading her story again and again till they see discrepancies
The real loser her is Timi.... Make we dey watch |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by King44(m): 11:49am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Chriswazo: My best read on this episode;
COZA Rape Controversy & The Age of Social Lunacy by Dodoh Okafor
1. On what basis did hundreds of people abandon their morning chores this Sunday to go picket the premises of the Common Wealth of Zion Assembly Church in Guzape Area of Abuja and Lagos?
2. Because a certain woman alleged (without any scintilla of proof) that she was raped? Because 5 women said the Church Pastor had inappropriate sexual relationships with them? Or because Segun Awosika said he has "30" women willing to testify against the COZA founder in law court?
3. What really was the essence of the nasty, rowdy, uncoordinated protests? To embarrass the church? To humiliate the pastor? To get the pastor to step down?
4. Pray- are those protesters really interested in pursuing a strong campaign against rape or were they on a vendetta mission?
5. I do not know what other people may think but here's what I am convinced about: many of those who jumped into this rape issue are being manipulated, misled and used as pawns in a complex game of chess by those who are adept at using the media to manipulate the gullible.
6. The man who conducted the interview that sparked the outrage is a certain Chude Jideonwo- one of the many crafty revisionists Nair El Rufai, Bola Tinubu and their lackeys employed to market Buhari in 2015. You are entitled to your opinion but I am convinced by Jideowno's involvement that a lie is involved, that a campaign to hoodwink the masses has been set in motion and with what I know of social media- a mechanism for creating a media storm has been activated.
7. The lady is probably dishonest and no rational thinker should believe her without at least asking a few important questions. I consider her motive to be suspect at best- reason being- what does she intend to achieve by coming out to tell a story that sound poorly fabricated, lacking in substance and designed to bring opprobrium to a man she had a choice to either deal with or avoid.
8. Many would remember the old Igbo adage that can be simply translated to imply that a raging ocean cannot drown a man whose feet it did not see. Fact is- Mr Fatoyinbo never dragged or nailed the buttocks of any man or woman to his church. Anyone always had the option of walking away the minute you became uncomfortable with his body body language or suggestions.
9. Mr Fatoyinbo did not just see anyone and grabbed her by the waist neither is there any report that he ever saw anyone on the street and pulled his car by the roadside, pushed her side and "opened his zip"
10. To be certain, I am not one to support the violation of trust by anyone in authority especially people from whom much is expected. Pastors, priests, teachers, uncle's and aunties, office superiors and village elders have a great responsibility to carry themselves with dignity and restraint at all times.
11. I am not one to blame the victim but when forceful sexual acts keep occurring and the victim never summoned up the courage to report to anyone but rather submits herself whenever her molester comes around for me has a different interpretation.
12. To imagine that the said Busola Dakolo kept submitting herself to Mr Fatoyinbo, attending his church, singing in his Choir, and as I heard- allowing him to wed her tells an entirely different story. It does not add up. Mrs Dakolo in my estimation may not have told us the entire story or perhaps she is playing a terrible game.
13. It pains me to see Nigerians swallowing that story hook line and sinker because some known social media influencers bought into it. This says a lot about how we have deteriorated in our capacity to think and reason.
14. When did we sublet our thinking power to social media influencers and celebrities? If these men and women care so much about rape- why are they not protesting against the mindless rape and killing of women by fulani cattle rearer/terrorists across most states in southern Nigeria?
15. If they care about women, where were they when a certain Elizabeth Ochanya was raped to death by a man and his son? How much did today's sudden philanthropists donate to support the prosecution of the perpetrators of what undoubtedly is a grave act of wickedness?
16. How much social media awareness did they raise when Eunice Elijah was killed by a band of lunatics in Kubwa Abuja? Why are they not interested in seeing that those behind the dastardly act are brought to book?
17. Where am I driving to? Again to be clear: I would be eager to see rapists and other criminals or those who violate the trust of young girls prosecuted and made to serve their punishment. But I would do everything I can to stop the triumph of online mob action against an assumedly innocent man.
18. Accusation is never conviction. Speaking emotionally while being filmed does not amount to presenting a hard evidence before a court of law. Has social media replaced conventional courts or is there something I am unaware of? Aren't injured people supposed to take their matter to court?
18. Is Mrs Dakolo seeking for justice, revenge, emotional appeal, to create mischief or just to destroy Mr Fatoyinbo? What exactly is this all about? Blackmail or some publicity stunts because none of it is clear to me.
19. Again I ask: what was the protest about? Was the protest against Fatoyinbo or COZA? Shouldn't a protest against Mr Fatoyinbo happen in front of his house? Why did they go to disrupt church programs at COZA today? Shouldn't COZA and Fatoyinbo be separate entities? How come the so-called lawyers who lined up at Guzape today missed this point? So COZA should be brought down because a certain woman told a disjointed story to Chude on camera?
20. Why are people so silly? Where's Stephanie Otobo? Why did she stop regalling us with tales of how Mr Johnson Suleiman "raped" her in Jamaica?
21. I would conclude by advising everyone to be circumspect about what's presented on social media. Truth is- the social media in most cases is structured to weaken your capacity to think, steal your power of logical and deductive reasoning from you and what else? Make you a fool.
22. Buhari and his handlers understood that it is very easy to sell lunacy on social media and the leveraged it to come to power- Ill prepared, with a vindictive mindset and you know where that has landed Nigeria.
23. Interestingly - the same group that sold Buhari to Nigerians in 2015 are behind this Busola Dakolo rape tale. I insist that there's a whole lot more to this hullabaloo.
24. You ask- what of the other 1000 girls that also accused the pastor of rape? I reply with: when did public opinion become the basis of adjudication in matters that require sensitivity and tack? Remember millions of people have voted for Buhari since 2015. Does that confer on Buhari the administrative skill he does not have?
25. What else? Who remembers the women who came forward to accuse Brett Kavanaug of rape soon after he was nominated for a Supreme Court position? When are we picking the US Supreme Court?
Let me end with an advice: never sublet your thinking to anyone- especially people whose agenda you do not understand. her story lacks facts and accurasy , if it actually happened the way she narrated it, dou I don't think COZA pastor is not really innocent of the crime but I believe Busola is not innocent as well, and her motive was that of grudge and vengeance and to some degree I think Timi is also caught up cos I read they were still attending the church before they got married so the question is what must have happend between them and the pastor?, what would have prompted them to quit the church?, lay back for some years, dig out the past occurrence and then hunt him?, until the pastor narrates his own experience, and witnesses of the incident are ready to speak up including those who know the pastor and Busola very well and have seen them together are ready to speak, this case still remains an accusation with no concrete evidence and to some level a mystery Omoli oboli is not objective enough |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by shizzleStar: 11:50am On Jul 02, 2019 |
partnerbizz5: I will cut to the chase; straight to the point.
There was an intercours.e. Yes there was.
But it wasn't rape. She was spellbound, star struck or hypnotized. She was stupid too even at 17.
WHY IS SHE BITTER NOW?
She feels Fatoyinbo took her virginity without sweating or spending. This is same virginity she could have auctioned even on e bay. Yes, people sell it. Check.
She felt pastor got it very cheap. That's why prostitutees will ask you
" HOW MUCH YOU PAY ME YOU WAN TOUCH MY BRESS"?
HOW MUCH YOU PAY, YOU WAN Bleep DOGGY?
They want you to pay, suffer or work hard to get it.
So Busola now feels cheated. She reasoned that the man is happy now after cheating her. And she came to this realisation not too long ago.
And the only way of paying him back is to hurt him too. And the most effective way of hurting a pastor is seex scandal.
If you allege he stole 2 billion dollars, it would gather no storm.
BUT WHY COME OUT NOW?
The husband Timi, heard of the "rape" lately. Maybe Busola got depressed and mood swings after the RECENT realisation that the pastor cheated her.
And felt bad. He felt cheated too for being served a second hand pusssy.
He could have eaten the pusssy first. So he encouraged her to hurt the pastor. That way both Timi and Busola would feel a bit better.
IT WAS NOT RAPE PEOPLE.
USE your senses.
THAT'S MY ANALYSIS as a self proclaimed behavioral therapist.
LEGAL VIEW:
Rape or even any sexual assault cannot be proven.
You can't prove a rape case without proving that there was a PENETRATION. See the case of Upahar vs State. See S.357 of CC etc.
Nothing will happen to Fatoyinbo. The only damage has happened already. And that's to his reputation.
We will soon forget it. Life goee on.
FINALLY, I DON'T SUPPORT RAPE. IT'S TRAGIC.
That's why it's considered a crime against humanity in International criminal law.
#SAYNOTORAPE.
You are sensible. Kudos for this plausible, logical, intelligent comment Thank you too Omoni Oboli for this very objective, reasonable, non-emotional and well crafted analysis |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by izzou(m): 11:51am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Neddstark:
Imagine you were raped anally by a pastor, will you still go to his church? Thats if you are not insane |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by izzou(m): 11:52am On Jul 02, 2019 |
executive12:
And this nonsense is coming from a lady? If the intercourse was consensual, why did the girl report it to her elder sister who then informed the family which made the brother to take a knife to go confront the rapist/pastor. It was said that Church elders came to beg the family. Pastor Fatoyinbo is a rapist obviously. And Busola kept going to the same church
Served in the choir.... Married there and even was gifted a car by the same rapist that the church elders begged for Abi?
There are always three sides of a story. You just heard one. Stop concluding |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by AngelicBeing: 11:53am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Chriswazo: My best read on this episode;
COZA Rape Controversy & The Age of Social Lunacy by Dodoh Okafor
1. On what basis did hundreds of people abandon their morning chores this Sunday to go picket the premises of the Common Wealth of Zion Assembly Church in Guzape Area of Abuja and Lagos?
2. Because a certain woman alleged (without any scintilla of proof) that she was raped? Because 5 women said the Church Pastor had inappropriate sexual relationships with them? Or because Segun Awosika said he has "30" women willing to testify against the COZA founder in law court?
3. What really was the essence of the nasty, rowdy, uncoordinated protests? To embarrass the church? To humiliate the pastor? To get the pastor to step down?
4. Pray- are those protesters really interested in pursuing a strong campaign against rape or were they on a vendetta mission?
5. I do not know what other people may think but here's what I am convinced about: many of those who jumped into this rape issue are being manipulated, misled and used as pawns in a complex game of chess by those who are adept at using the media to manipulate the gullible.
6. The man who conducted the interview that sparked the outrage is a certain Chude Jideonwo- one of the many crafty revisionists Nair El Rufai, Bola Tinubu and their lackeys employed to market Buhari in 2015. You are entitled to your opinion but I am convinced by Jideowno's involvement that a lie is involved, that a campaign to hoodwink the masses has been set in motion and with what I know of social media- a mechanism for creating a media storm has been activated.
7. The lady is probably dishonest and no rational thinker should believe her without at least asking a few important questions. I consider her motive to be suspect at best- reason being- what does she intend to achieve by coming out to tell a story that sound poorly fabricated, lacking in substance and designed to bring opprobrium to a man she had a choice to either deal with or avoid.
8. Many would remember the old Igbo adage that can be simply translated to imply that a raging ocean cannot drown a man whose feet it did not see. Fact is- Mr Fatoyinbo never dragged or nailed the buttocks of any man or woman to his church. Anyone always had the option of walking away the minute you became uncomfortable with his body body language or suggestions.
9. Mr Fatoyinbo did not just see anyone and grabbed her by the waist neither is there any report that he ever saw anyone on the street and pulled his car by the roadside, pushed her side and "opened his zip"
10. To be certain, I am not one to support the violation of trust by anyone in authority especially people from whom much is expected. Pastors, priests, teachers, uncle's and aunties, office superiors and village elders have a great responsibility to carry themselves with dignity and restraint at all times.
11. I am not one to blame the victim but when forceful sexual acts keep occurring and the victim never summoned up the courage to report to anyone but rather submits herself whenever her molester comes around for me has a different interpretation.
12. To imagine that the said Busola Dakolo kept submitting herself to Mr Fatoyinbo, attending his church, singing in his Choir, and as I heard- allowing him to wed her tells an entirely different story. It does not add up. Mrs Dakolo in my estimation may not have told us the entire story or perhaps she is playing a terrible game.
13. It pains me to see Nigerians swallowing that story hook line and sinker because some known social media influencers bought into it. This says a lot about how we have deteriorated in our capacity to think and reason.
14. When did we sublet our thinking power to social media influencers and celebrities? If these men and women care so much about rape- why are they not protesting against the mindless rape and killing of women by fulani cattle rearer/terrorists across most states in southern Nigeria?
15. If they care about women, where were they when a certain Elizabeth Ochanya was raped to death by a man and his son? How much did today's sudden philanthropists donate to support the prosecution of the perpetrators of what undoubtedly is a grave act of wickedness?
16. How much social media awareness did they raise when Eunice Elijah was killed by a band of lunatics in Kubwa Abuja? Why are they not interested in seeing that those behind the dastardly act are brought to book?
17. Where am I driving to? Again to be clear: I would be eager to see rapists and other criminals or those who violate the trust of young girls prosecuted and made to serve their punishment. But I would do everything I can to stop the triumph of online mob action against an assumedly innocent man.
18. Accusation is never conviction. Speaking emotionally while being filmed does not amount to presenting a hard evidence before a court of law. Has social media replaced conventional courts or is there something I am unaware of? Aren't injured people supposed to take their matter to court?
18. Is Mrs Dakolo seeking for justice, revenge, emotional appeal, to create mischief or just to destroy Mr Fatoyinbo? What exactly is this all about? Blackmail or some publicity stunts because none of it is clear to me.
19. Again I ask: what was the protest about? Was the protest against Fatoyinbo or COZA? Shouldn't a protest against Mr Fatoyinbo happen in front of his house? Why did they go to disrupt church programs at COZA today? Shouldn't COZA and Fatoyinbo be separate entities? How come the so-called lawyers who lined up at Guzape today missed this point? So COZA should be brought down because a certain woman told a disjointed story to Chude on camera?
20. Why are people so silly? Where's Stephanie Otobo? Why did she stop regalling us with tales of how Mr Johnson Suleiman "raped" her in Jamaica?
21. I would conclude by advising everyone to be circumspect about what's presented on social media. Truth is- the social media in most cases is structured to weaken your capacity to think, steal your power of logical and deductive reasoning from you and what else? Make you a fool.
22. Buhari and his handlers understood that it is very easy to sell lunacy on social media and the leveraged it to come to power- Ill prepared, with a vindictive mindset and you know where that has landed Nigeria.
23. Interestingly - the same group that sold Buhari to Nigerians in 2015 are behind this Busola Dakolo rape tale. I insist that there's a whole lot more to this hullabaloo.
24. You ask- what of the other 1000 girls that also accused the pastor of rape? I reply with: when did public opinion become the basis of adjudication in matters that require sensitivity and tack? Remember millions of people have voted for Buhari since 2015. Does that confer on Buhari the administrative skill he does not have?
25. What else? Who remembers the women who came forward to accuse Brett Kavanaug of rape soon after he was nominated for a Supreme Court position? When are we picking the US Supreme Court?
Let me end with an advice: never sublet your thinking to anyone- especially people whose agenda you do not understand. |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by tayofrank87: 11:53am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Wetin Concern you people |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by 27Pushing30: 11:54am On Jul 02, 2019 |
daddytime: Without a shadow of a doubt there were incoherencies and loops, but let's just attribute that to the time gone and her inability to recall events as it happened.
Sensible and very plausible submission. Why not call it what it is... careful selective choice of words! |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by gassbee: 11:54am On Jul 02, 2019 |
this babe just succeeded in saying nothing |
Re: Omoni Oboli Reacts To Busola Dakolo, Pastor Bidoun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegation by dannyjesutofunmi(m): 11:54am On Jul 02, 2019 |
Ok |