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Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by DameB(f): 9:31am On Aug 06, 2019 |
nonut:Ayam a day older today.... Yippeeeee.... |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by freemi(m): 9:36am On Aug 06, 2019 |
FinanceBiz:what is wrong wt u na. |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Ryan03(f): 9:36am On Aug 06, 2019 |
ElsonMorali:Physical abuse is not the only issue with marriages, mental issue is just as bad. It leads to depression, and if care is not taken, harm can either be done to self or the partner involve 9 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by banio: 9:36am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Why did she snap herself like a slay queen. Only slay queens love selfie. I think she is a slay queen. Thank god the husband left her. She is a slay queen and would have given the husband STD. If you want to be a good wife, do not password your life. Be open and faithful to your husband. Then your husband will lay his life for you. When you password your life, it makes your husband to lose confidence and that gets him angry. Thus after his patience runs out, his anger will surface. Marriage will collapse. Women be obedient to your husband. Support him in all things. Period 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Lovelyn451(f): 9:37am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Shes trying to tell us that coming from a good home doesn't guarantee that we'll have one 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Nobody: 9:37am On Aug 06, 2019 |
All this one na plenty talk,clearly you got married to him because he had money and he's d1ck was good,don't cone here and preach.oh and a lot of our ladies this generation will experience this too,no be curse but it's fact |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by nonut: 9:37am On Aug 06, 2019 |
TSRC:You could be right. Some of these "I'm OK" ladies are as horni as fvck. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by DameB(f): 9:40am On Aug 06, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: .... Na who God create you just donkeylize like that? 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by ElsonMorali: 9:42am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Ryan03: Physical abuse means you aren't in control of harm done to you. In the case of mental health issues, isn't that when partners are meant to stick together even more and help their significant other get better healthcare and live quality and long lives together? Or what do you think the words "...for better for worse" means? If the mental health challenge is such that endangers your life and that of your kids through physical abuse, then, it's still covered by my first post. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Deepthoughts: 9:42am On Aug 06, 2019 |
IssaGist:when ladies like this talk of been incompatible with their partners due to different direction of life what exactly do they mean,is it that you love the church n the man is an idol worshipper,you are heterosexual n the man is gay,you love to sleep on mattress n the man love the mat,you don't like farm work n the man like going to farm,you enjoy prolong banging but the man has low staminayou love the flashy life n the man is low profile n conservative or what really?, ladies keep disturbing the airspace with all sort of vague narratives without making much sense of the issue,or has anyone made out any useful meaning to mumbo-jumbo above?, personally I haven't. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by bullabong(m): 9:42am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:Nobody can truly be happy after a failed marriage. What could have been will always be lurking at the corner. She just doesn't know what true happiness is. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by deltateam: 9:45am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Amakavula: Awon feminist. Awon follow follow 100%. 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by deltateam: 9:46am On Aug 06, 2019 |
She's beautiful btw. |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by bennynaza(m): 9:46am On Aug 06, 2019 |
FinanceBiz: Dated for 3 months then got married. The kids came during the marriage not the 3 months courtship 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by CoolAmbience(m): 9:46am On Aug 06, 2019 |
luvyaself95: Oga, there are no set timelines for courtship anywhere in the world. My wife and I didn't court for up to two months before getting married. We are happily chasing ten years of marriage together, and everything fresh like say na today palm wine....Lol. Marriages fail, partly or wholly, because the parties, either singly or jointly, are not ready to put in the right amount of dedication, patience and sacrifices required to make it work. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by bennynaza(m): 9:47am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Oil dey your head. Even if one must leave a marriage, it is stupidity to brag about it 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by golddeejay(m): 9:47am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Without knowing the details, from her post the lady seems highly opinated and not ready for compromise. Two people can't drive a car at same time. Marriage/relationship is about compromises and bending your standards. It is both way, but I have experienced how a woman that is never ready for some submissions with love can drive a man nut and ruin a marriage. Wise women understand "na man mumu pass", it just requires sense and some patience. Most ladies now have watched many movies and feel very knowledgeable, a man should be at their beck and call. There is no point getting into marriage if you want to freedom of a single. But three months of long distance relationship summed up the whole thing sha...no time and opportunity to see the red flags. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by dangotesmummy: 9:47am On Aug 06, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:gbammmmmm Always speaking my mind 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by banio: 9:49am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: She even took a selfie. So that the world could place a face. I guess she is shameless. Divorce is OK, But ranting on social media makes it abnormal. 3 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by dangotesmummy: 9:49am On Aug 06, 2019 |
golddeejay:so being opinionated is now an offence.these men sef. You don't even know what you want.if you see the one wey dey yes sir to everything you say you will say she doesn't have a mind of her own,she lacks intelligence.thos one is now opinionated for saying what she wants You act like you're all perfect and have the answers to all questions of life 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Ryan03(f): 9:55am On Aug 06, 2019 |
ElsonMorali:Lol, i think you confused my post which actually is my fault. I was referring to mental abuse. Its a very bad thing 4 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by golddeejay(m): 9:55am On Aug 06, 2019 |
dangotesmummy:you only see opinionated and not been ready for compromise. Just continue using your Papa's name if you have the two mentioned above. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by ImaIma1(f): 9:56am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Amakavula: Marrying that quickly plus it was a distant relationship is so short sighted of her. She didn't even know him |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by greatcrown: 9:56am On Aug 06, 2019 |
............. "I tried to make it work, we both did but in the end, I was so miserable (we both were)." I really don't think this woman understands the statement above. There is no way both would tried to make it work that it will not work. The good thing is as they grow older, they would see where they both got it wrong and would wish they had been more patient or trusting or believing in each other. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by sonofElElyon: 9:58am On Aug 06, 2019 |
She don't accuse the man of ill treating her at all. Just said incompatibility and unwillingness to accommodate each other's differences and compromise on each other's rigid principles.. I think they should have sought help from counsellors and marriage committee of their church.. If they attended one! Bottom line also is that she was the one who walked out of the marriage.. Not the guy... She wanted her freedom.. In marriage, you must lose some of your individuality and freedom.. It appears she wasn't prepared to lose any fraction of hers at all IssaGist: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by golddeejay(m): 9:59am On Aug 06, 2019 |
dangotesmummy: Just reading the last part you added. You assumed that from my post. Typical! |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by CoolAmbience(m): 9:59am On Aug 06, 2019 |
theButterfly: Know each other? That's actually a concept that I can't understand. Two mature people should be able to make individual attitudinal adjustments to make their union work. We have seen marriages fail despite courtships that lasted over 10 years. A friend of mine courted his wife for 15 years and they have a 13 year old son together. They only just got married two years ago, but na everyday we dey mix cement take patch the marriage.... Longevity of marriage is essentially based on dedication, sacrifice, tolerance, loyalty, forgiveness, respect, understanding, partnership and friendship... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by Stillthebest: 9:59am On Aug 06, 2019 |
What exactly has she said than justtifying why she is a single mother than she's has pretensively unwanted. Imagine someone wrote all these 'thesis' yet still not communicating. 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by dangotesmummy: 9:59am On Aug 06, 2019 |
golddeejay:and what is wrong in answering your papas name? The ones that left their papa name to go answer another person name wey con say them no do again nko? Did the world come to an end? 2 Likes |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by obentenyson(m): 10:00am On Aug 06, 2019 |
from her epistle, she's definitely a proud woman with feministic mentality who isn't ready to sacrifice and submit herself to her husband... She should continue to search for a man that have or share same dreams with her... Jesus is coming soon. even Jesus doesn't share in her dreams n purpose. she will remain single for the rest of her life and a bad ensample to her daughters.... 1 Like |
Re: Lady Who Married After 3-Month Long Distance Relationship Speaks After It Ended by dangotesmummy: 10:01am On Aug 06, 2019 |
Stillthebest:that is because you are judging her from the lenses of the society.get down from your high horses and be a Nigerian woman for just an hour Even the ones judging sef you will think they have a perfect character 1 Like |
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