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Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Allshadesfemale: 7:57pm On Aug 31, 2019
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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:19pm On Aug 31, 2019
Morality has gone to the dogs, some people think celibacy is the weirdest, craziest thing ever, like it's unheard of, like one is not complete without constant sex, while from infancy to age 16 or 18 they never had sex, I don't see how going back to that era is a big deal.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by nlPoster: 8:22pm On Aug 31, 2019
op, your quandary is not my problem!

Whether you live your profligate lifestyle, you use or don't use condoms, you are addicted to brothels and unsavory habits, or you can't see any woman without losing your self control and blaming them for your issues, it's your problem how you choose to deal with your problem!


If your mentors are ok with your brothel addictions and uncouth behaviour, then it's not my business to say otherwise.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Allshadesfemale: 9:03pm On Aug 31, 2019
Preach sister!
Biglittlelois:
Morality has gone to the dogs, some people think celibacy is the weirdest, craziest thing ever, like it's unheard of, like one is not complete without constant sex, while from infancy to age 16 or 18 they never had sex, I don't see how going back to that era is a big deal.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Allshadesfemale: 9:04pm On Aug 31, 2019
Hmmmm
nairalandposter:
op, your quandary is not my problem!

Whether you live your profligate lifestyle, you use or don't use condoms, you are addicted to brothels and unsavory habits, or you can't see any woman without losing your self control and blaming them for your issues, it's your problem how you choose to deal with your problem!


If your mentors are ok with your brothel addictions and uncouth behaviour, then it's not my business to say otherwise.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by victorian(f): 9:27pm On Aug 31, 2019
Celibacy is not wierd.

I'm loving it.


I'm tired of constant sex.

Moreover contant sex does not add to my bank account and that's the koko.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Allshadesfemale: 9:32pm On Aug 31, 2019
Yasssss!
victorian:
Celibacy is not wierd.

I'm loving it.


I'm tired of constant sex.

Moreover contant sex does not add to my bank account and that's the koko.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Aug 31, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Morality has gone to the dogs, some people think celibacy is the weirdest, craziest thing ever, like it's unheard of, like one is not complete without constant sex, while from infancy to age 16 or 18 they never had sex, I don't see how going back to that era is a big deal.
what is morality? Is it objective or subjective? Is people doing what they wish to do to their bodies as long it doesn't hurt others immoral or against the laws of the land?
Please kindly answer this questions,thanks

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Allshadesfemale: 10:55pm On Aug 31, 2019
The post didnt focus on morality..notice spirituality wasnt mentioned either. It was more of treating your mind and body right....which is subjective as well
Michellekabod2:
what is morality? Is it objective or subjective? Is people doing what they wish to do to their bodies as long it doesn't hurt others immoral or against the laws of the land?
Please kindly answer this questions,thanks

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Sep 01, 2019
Allshadesfemale:
The post didnt focus on morality..notice spirituality wasnt mentioned either. It was more of treating your mind and body right....which is subjective as well
I guessed as much biglittlelois will vanish like a puff of smoke without answering my questions. As it is obvious,from her posts that she has a problem with people doing with their body what they wish. I have read several of her posts and she imposes her own subjective opinion of morality on others....
I have taken up celibacy....infact being single for years and I intend doing that for like a decade. But that is a personal choice I made,a path I chose to follow. I will not frown at people for the choices they make or feel they should view morality from the lens I use...
Needless to say,any body who is of age (18 and above) choosing to give his/herself pleasure via involving in sexual activities, or intimacy gadgets without breaking the laws of the land has done no wrong!
As for the treating your body and mind right,what makes you think having sex or not will affect the well being of your body or mind as long you are well protected and the sex was consentual?
Nobody ought to be a sheriff of people's pant!
Biglittlelois, I know you can read this, kindly note that whatever humans chose to do with their bodies within the confines of the law is not your business!

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Biglittlelois(f): 4:03pm On Sep 01, 2019
Michellekabod2:
what is morality? Is it objective or subjective? Is people doing what they wish to do to their bodies as long it doesn't hurt others immoral or against the laws of the land?
Please kindly answer this questions,thanks

Is this post about morality or celibacy, and if you noticed well, I focused the remaining part of my comment on celibacy, I am yet to see where me saying morality has gone to the dogs means people shouldn't do what they feel like with their body.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Sep 01, 2019
Biglittlelois:



This post is it about morality bit celibacy, and if you noticed well, I focused the remaining part of my comment on celibacy, I am yet to see where I me saying morality has gone to the dogs means people shouldn't do what they feel like with their body.
How are you doing Lois? I trust great! My post was not just in response to this but your several other posts as regards to what people do with their bodies
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Biglittlelois(f): 4:22pm On Sep 01, 2019
Michellekabod2:

I guessed as much biglittlelois will vanish like a puff of smoke without answering my questions. As it is obvious,from her posts that she has a problem with people doing with their body what they wish. I have read several of her posts and she imposes her own subjective opinion of morality on others....
I have taken up celibacy....infact being single for years and I intend doing that for like a decade. But that is a personal choice I made,a path I chose to follow. I will not frown at people for the choices they make or feel they should view morality from the lens I use...
Needless to say,any body who is of age (18 and above) choosing to give his/herself pleasure via involving in sexual activities, or intimacy gadgets without breaking the laws of the land has done no wrong!
As for the treating your body and mind right,what makes you think having sex or not will affect the well being of your body or mind as long you are well protected and the sex was consentual?
Nobody ought to be a sheriff of people's pant!
Biglittlelois, I know you can read this, kindly note that whatever humans chose to do with their bodies within the confines of the law is not your business!


I am just seeing this, now read this correctly, from the comment Op quoted, someone was obviously surprised and amazed that the other is celibate, as if it is a big deal, saying it is crazy thing to do, so why did you chose to pur on my comment, am I in anyway advocating for celibacy or instead I'm making a case for celibates?, even if I am, is there a way I can force others to follow suit? Sure whatever one chose to do with their body is their business, same way if one chose to be celibate is also their business, so why is someone who isn't celibate calling one who is CRAZY? If i should go with your kind of thinKing, means the person sees celibacy as old school, as a celibate not well in thinking and body for being that, and therefore he/she should be not celibate correct? So is it not her body? Is it the person's business what she does with her body? If you have a problem with any of my comments cos it's obvious you stalk and wait for it, move along without quoting, cos I WILL continue to say what I feel is right or wrong regardless,

Lastly MORALITY to some people is staying away from whatever defies them in whatever way, and to some people, it is doing whatever they feel like with their body, not everyone has your kind of thinking, some have mine, and since this is a public forum, everyone can chose what suits them fine.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Biglittlelois(f): 4:23pm On Sep 01, 2019
Michellekabod2:

How are you doing Lois? I trust great! My post was not just in response to this but your several other posts as regards to what people do with their bodies


And I have answered above.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Sep 01, 2019
Biglittlelois:



I am just seeing this, now read this correctly, from the comment Op quoted, someone was obviously surprised and amazed that the other is celibate, as if it is a big deal, saying it is crazy thing to do, so why did you chose to pur on my comment, am I in anyway advocating for celibacy or instead I'm making a case for celibates?, even if I am, is there a way I can force others to follow suit? Sure whatever one chose to do with their body is their business, same way if one chose to be celibate is also their business, so why is someone who isn't celibate calling one who is CRAZY? If i should go with your kind of thinKing, means the person sees celibacy as old school, as a celibate not well in thinking and body for being that, and therefore he/she should be not celibate correct? So is it not her body? Is it the person's business what she does with her body? If you have a problem with any of my comments cos it's obvious you stalk and wait for it, move along without quoting, cos I WILL continue to say what I feel is right or wrong regardless,

Lastly MORALITY to some people is staying away from whatever defies them in whatever way, and to some people, it is doing whatever they feel like with their body, not everyone has your kind of thinking, some have mine, and since this is a public forum, everyone can chose what suits them fine.
Firstly,I myself practice celibacy as I feel sex is overrated. We both share the same choice in keeping one's self(correct me if I am wrong on this)but the difference here is that you tag those that choose otherwise as not practising morality.
Secondly,my quote was in response to that "morality has gone to the dogs" statement and nothing more . The op post of shaming ladies that are celibates is very wrong,and I condemn it wholeheartedly. So I stand with you were you talked of the Op post being wrong for shaming a celibate choice.
Thirdly,there is no difference between you and the one that shams the celibate choice.you have made posts condemning the acts of people who have sex outside marriage,you had the right to view sex outside marriage (stand to be corrected) as wrong,and that is how whoever choses to see Celibacy as wrong is also entilted to his/her opinion.so don't cry foul whenever someone condemns celibacy because you yourself condemn other peoples choices of having sex as they wish.
Fourthly, I don't stalk. Even if I do, off course not you. Nah! Mostly active in the religious section. The fact I have bumped into your post about thrice doesn't mean I stalk you
Fifthly, could you please answer the questions I asked previously (not asking to argue or judge but to Know your views which will always be respected)


Cheers!
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:13am On Sep 02, 2019
Michellekabod2:

Firstly,I myself practice celibacy as I feel sex is overrated. We both share the same choice in keeping one's self(correct me if I am wrong on this)but the difference here is that you tag those that choose otherwise as not practising morality.
Secondly,my quote was in response to that "morality has gone to the dogs" statement and nothing more . The op post of shaming ladies that are celibates is very wrong,and I condemn it wholeheartedly. So I stand with you were you talked of the Op post being wrong for shaming a celibate choice.
Thirdly,there is no difference between you and the one that shams the celibate choice.you have made posts condemning the acts of people who have sex outside marriage,you had the right to view sex outside marriage (stand to be corrected) as wrong,and that is how whoever choses to see Celibacy as wrong is also entilted to his/her opinion.so don't cry foul whenever someone condemns celibacy because you yourself condemn other peoples choices of having sex as they wish.
Fourthly, I don't stalk. Even if I do, off course not you. Nah! Mostly active in the religious section. The fact I have bumped into your post about thrice doesn't mean I stalk you
Fifthly, could you please answer the questions I asked previously (not asking to argue or judge but to Know your views which will always be respected)


Cheers!


I will ignore most of what you typed since you clearly didn't comprehend my long comment, as for your questions, the answers are right there, if you still don't get it, look for answers somewhere else,

This is my last response to you.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 9:18am On Sep 02, 2019
why do i av these strong feelings few of these ladies opting for celibacy are doing it for a means to an end, not becos they are upright or even a saint.
i believe purpose defines as act/choice .... @michellekabod2, biglittlelois, victorian & others i believe the purpose of u been celibated is borne out of furstration i.e feeling used n dumped , is not as if any of you don't want or like sex but you its seems like the only way to trap a man for marriage.
its not a coincident that few of these ladies opting for celibacy are not even virgins,considering age pressure its was a decision after avin fair share of dickS, one man must pay for the sins of others grin @OP most gurls on celibacy list are not crazy they're only furstrated
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by victorian(f): 10:01am On Sep 02, 2019
ericsmith:
why do i av these strong feelings few of these ladies opting for celibacy are doing it for a means to an end, not becos they are upright or even a saint.
i believe purpose defines as act/choice .... @michellekabod2, biglittlelois, victorian & others i believe the purpose of u been celibated is borne out of furstration i.e feeling used n dumped , is not as if any of you don't want or like sex but you its seems like the only way to trap a man for marriage.
its not a coincident that few of these ladies opting for celibacy are not even virgins,considering age pressure its was a decision after avin fair share of dickS, one man must pay for the sins of others grin @OP most gurls on celibacy list are not crazy they're only furstrated








Well you are deluded.

I'm. Not trying to trap any man with been celibate.

My celibacy is an agreement between me and God. Which Im fully prepared to keep to the letter T. I have turned off 5 guys since last month til this morning. They were all professing undying love but constant sex before marriage and my answer was no!

Two of the guys claimed they want somewhere more cosy, so we can have meeting up in hotels. I laughed. I was like really? Come and carry my pussy, because u were the ones who created the pussy inside of me. Come and carry Ole!

Pussy dey hungry una abi? Thief! Come and fucvk! Ode!

Even apart from my agreement with God. I rather remains single for life! Than allow a guy use my body anyhow for years and later come up with one useless story that doesn't add up, or probably dissappear into thin air.

If I'm desperate to hook a guy. The word marriage would have made me given my body to any of those 5 guys. But I told them all to go to hell, where they belong.

U can't come and pull down the grace of God which I have been enjoying since I became celibate because of sex. I have total piece of mind, being with friends who do not see sex as a criteria to date me. Yes such guys still exist. Not every guy is hung up on u must fuckv o!

Come and carry pussy, Ekpa!

Does sex add any. Money to my account?

Do u think, I give a damn about sex?

My dear, shove your sex up your assz! I don't need it.

My bank account is increasing and biz flourishing because I kept away from sex!

I rememeber when I had sex in the past, that's how those demonic exes who claimed they were in love and want marriage pulled down my life and biz from up there to zero level. Some guys are cursed from the pit of hell. U sleep with them, a successful woman will become. Penniless in a twinkle. Of an eye, with bad lucks here and there.

Some. Guys badluck no be here, carrying demonic spirits upandan looking for whom.to destroy.

Holy Ghost firee!!!! I dodge all. Of una pass with one useless sex! That's brings sorrows and collapse in one's biz.

Let one guy come and talk about sex to me again in the name of marriage. Na plank I go use hit his demonic head.

Rada rada.. Smhhhh

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 11:19am On Sep 02, 2019
[quote author=victorian post=81840051]

My dear, shove your sex up your assz! I don't need it.

My bank account is increasing and biz flourishing because I kept away from sex!



I thot these was supppse to be a conversation, considering ur age why should i need sex from you when i can easily get fresh blood with firm boobs n soft body. no be two breast n one pussy u carry ..so why are you alway feeling like ur celibacy they pain the world.
these your delusion is synonymous with women in there 30s above, buh urs is a lil bit strange & hiliarious ... so its becos of celibacy God blessed you not becos you're hustling. Try something stop hustling or stop going to work ... lets see how celibacy will credit your account, you are alway quick to use bin rich to justify celibacy but there is absolutely no correlation ... wealth is determined by ur potentials i.e profession/skill.
i don't av a problem with any woman celibacy convenant or sexcapades (oja oyingbo no know say one pesin no come). buh saying you're rich becos of celibacy is nothing buh a fallacy, there so many bitches out there making money too, that a gurl have sex with her lover does not means she is not decent .. my gurlfriend is doing fine in her career, making money n ofcus we are have sex every weekend grin
The fact that a man wants sex from you before marriage doesnt justify he can't marry you, victorian is not a virgin so what the assurances you are not hiding something ..a woman with no womb can also trap a man into no sex till marriage, an infertile man can accept sex till no marriage bullshit ... every choice has its own risk & demerit, can you live with it ?
My prayer is you decide not marry sef, my joy is some men av already fvcked you when u were succulent, whatever you decide know that men did not lose.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by victorian(f): 11:25am On Sep 02, 2019
[quote author=ericsmith post=81842416][/quote]







Story for the gods



*yawns*

I don't need to elaborate on some guys who carry bad luck like a cloak! You could even be in such category. So swerve abeg.
Have had enough misfortunes sleeping with the wrong guys and it's not stamped on their foreheads.

Some guys dey carry curses dey waka. God forbid!


Anyways Is that all? cheesy
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by victorian(f): 11:33am On Sep 02, 2019
And when I get married. It will be to a guy who believes in celibacy and sees sex as fornication and great sin against God.
A true born again Christian, not these cursed infested guys wey dey waka upandan looking for whom to destroy las las.

Like I said I rather remain single than to marry an unbeliever.
I dodge una pass!

Such guys will not pull my glory down again. Never!
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 11:42am On Sep 02, 2019
ericsmith:
why do i av these strong feelings few of these ladies opting for celibacy are doing it for a means to an end, not becos they are upright or even a saint.
i believe purpose defines as act/choice .... @michellekabod2, biglittlelois, victorian & others i believe the purpose of u been celibated is borne out of furstration i.e feeling used n dumped , is not as if any of you don't want or like sex but you its seems like the only way to trap a man for marriage.
its not a coincident that few of these ladies opting for celibacy are not even virgins,considering age pressure its was a decision after avin fair share of dickS, one man must pay for the sins of others grin @OP most gurls on celibacy list are not crazy they're only furstrated
You are entitled to your beliefs!
If you read my posts,you will realise that I had nothing against those who have sex before marriage. I even tried reasoning with @biglittlelois that there is nothing wrong with doing with your body what you wish ,but she cluelessly folded up like a wrapper because she had no intellectual point to offer. The same person that says sex is overrated and condemns sex before marriage is rather the same person who cries foul when another person condemns celibacy.isnt it hypocrisy?

Back to your points..

Virgins/celibates feel entitled to marriage because that is all they feel they have to offer and not good character or smartness . But blame then not! Aren't you guys the ones that sham non virgins?That call them hoes? Aren't you the ones that place high value on virginity and respect gals that are virgins? So why would other gals not aspire to be virgins?

I chose celibacy for a reason. Not just celibacy but to be single. Not for any reason (I am an atheist,so I don't live by a holy book telling me what to do) other than focus on my career. It's demanding and I barely have 5 hours of sleep per day. I don't even have time for family and friends. Dating/sex will be a distraction for me.
No one has dumped me and neither am I frustrated

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by victorian(f): 11:43am On Sep 02, 2019
The fact that a man wants sex from you before marriage doesnt justify he can't marry you, victorian is not a virgin so what the assurances you are not hiding something ..a woman with no womb can also trap a man into no sex till marriage, an infertile man can accept sex till no marriage bullshit ... every choice has its own risk & demerit, can you live with it ?




Ericsmith,
At your quotes, u feel one is hiding infertility issues ? No wonder baby mama and baby dads full everywhere like ants. No proper family unit. Guys giving all the promises They can't fulfil all because they want the pussy, And have disappeared. Leaving the girl to carry the baby alone. Some. Who can't afford to care of the baby, kills the child before term. Or after its born. Having murder in their hands. And that's life to you? You better change.

Anyways if my Christian husband is infertile, God is a miraculous God, and thank God for science, we will have babies in due course. So I don't believe in leaving my husband cos of such issues. Both science and our faith in God will pull us through.
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 11:57am On Sep 02, 2019
victorian:









Well you are deluded.

I'm. Not trying to trap any man with been celibate.

My celibacy is an agreement between me and God. Which Im fully prepared to keep to the letter T. I have turned off 5 guys since last month til this morning. They were all professing undying love but constant sex before marriage and my answer was no!

Two of the guys claimed they want somewhere more cosy, so we can have meeting up in hotels. I laughed. I was like really? Come and carry my pussy, because u were the ones who created the pussy inside of me. Come and carry Ole!

Pussy dey hungry una abi? Thief! Come and fucvk! Ode!

Even apart from my agreement with God. I rather remains single for life! Than allow a guy use my body anyhow for years and later come up with one useless story that doesn't add up, or probably dissappear into thin air.

If I'm desperate to hook a guy. The word marriage would have made me given my body to any of those 5 guys. But I told them all to go to hell, where they belong.

U can't come and pull down the grace of God which I have been enjoying since I became celibate because of sex. I have total piece of mind, being with friends who do not see sex as a criteria to date me. Yes such guys still exist. Not every guy is hung up on u must fuckv o!

Come and carry pussy, Ekpa!

Does sex add any. Money to my account?

Do u think, I give a damn about sex?

My dear, shove your sex up your assz! I don't need it.

My bank account is increasing and biz flourishing because I kept away from sex!

I rememeber when I had sex in the past, that's how those demonic exes who claimed they were in love and want marriage pulled down my life and biz from up there to zero level. Some guys are cursed from the pit of hell. U sleep with them, a successful woman will become. Penniless in a twinkle. Of an eye, with bad lucks here and there.

Some. Guys badluck no be here, carrying demonic spirits upandan looking for whom.to destroy.

Holy Ghost firee!!!! I dodge all. Of una pass with one useless sex! That's brings sorrows and collapse in one's biz.

Let one guy come and talk about sex to me again in the name of marriage. Na plank I go use hit his demonic head.

Rada rada.. Smhhhh


Very fierce! You must have real anger issues.

You know, you could still have made your point without all the vulgarities.

You sound like a broken girl trying to pick up the broken pieces of her life from several heartbreaks. If so, good luck.

But don't sound like guys are evil because they're not conservative about sex like most of you girls. Men are not ashamed to go for what they want and desire. They're not afraid to express their sexuality to the full. For guys, sex is fun and not a BIG DEAL.

Don't worry, keep your pussy for yourself and for God if you like. There are lots of women in the world. If they don't get it from you, there many girls out there who are not prudish about sex and ready to have fun and enjoy themselves.

Our body is not firewood like yours.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Sep 02, 2019
victorian:





Ericsmith,
At your quotes, u feel one is hiding infertility issues ? No wonder baby mama and baby dads full everywhere like ants. No proper family unit. Guys giving all the promises They can't fulfil all because they want the pussy, And have disappeared. Leaving the girl to carry the baby alone. Some. Who can't afford to care of the baby, kills the child before term. Or after its born. Having murder in their hands. And that's life to you? You better change.

Anyways if my Christian husband is infertile, God is a miraculous God, and thank God for science, we will have babies in due course. So I don't believe in leaving my husband cos of such issues. Both science and our faith in God will pull us through.



You av misconception issh, babymama is a trend becos of women convetousness & sometimes out of desperation some gurls get pregnant thinking it will trap a man into marriage ... sex is neutral & fundamental to nature , our intentions around sex is what should be judged as good or bad.
Men make promises n say all sort of lies becos women ask for it, directly or indirectly ... i once fell in luv,ALOL! omg , these gurl almost got me with the no sex bullshit buh with time she couldnt resist, on our 1st sex she asked me to promise i will marry her, ofcus i love u i'll marry you n i was sincere ...but later as a town boy i heard about her other sexcapades & boyfriends. imagine so women to also fvck up not just men.
We men love sex, buh our criteria to see a woman as a wife goes beyond sex. we consider a woman's attitude/behavour, impacts & compatability 1st... sex is jus a preliminary grin[b] a woman's money can also make are unfavourable for marriage, [/b]everytin is not just blame sex. a blessing might be a curse @times

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Sep 02, 2019
[quote author=Michellekabod2 post=81843102]
You are entitled to your beliefs!


Back to your points..

Virgins/celibates feel entitled to marriage because that is all they feel they have to offer and not good character or smartness . But blame then not! Aren't you guys the ones that sham non virgins?That call them hoes? Aren't you the ones that place high value on virginity and respect gals that are virgins? So why would other gals not aspire to be virgins?


i agree with you to some extent but you are entitled to ur belief as well, buh lemme make correction for others.
Virginity & celibacy are not the same, one is a condition by nature while celibacy is a condition by choice, circumstances, motive or frustration.
it easy for a man to honour a virgin no sex till marriage than consider one gurl that had sex all along buh decided to stop for reasons only favourable to her .. men reasoning by logic
i can buy a brand new car without even test driving before paying but a tokunbo or naija used(jesu) i must test drive o! men celebrate virginity not celebacy.
A gurl that slept with 100 guys n a gurl start slept with one guy are not different .. virginity or nothing

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Sep 02, 2019
victorian:




Story for the gods



*yawns*

I don't need to elaborate on some guys who carry bad luck like a cloak! You could even be in such category. So swerve abeg.
Have had enough misfortunes sleeping with the wrong guys and it's not stamped on their foreheads.

Some guys dey carry curses dey waka. God forbid!


Anyways Is that all? cheesy



these chick is so full of herself, among those EX you consider badluck how many of them are richer than you .... can you call the rich ones bad luck. i think its best you marry ur money, honestly marriage is not for you.
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 1:27pm On Sep 02, 2019
[quote author=ericsmith post=81845729][/quote] no one is saying there are the same...!
If I get you right ,you are implying that a non-virgin should not take up celibacy because she will still not be valued right?
Well,that is for nut crack heads!
Didn't say virginity is an assurance for anything or celibacy ....
My point here is: people should do with their bodies what they wish as long as is within the confines of the law! And as for females,the choice should not be for the applause or acceptance of men but what they feel is right for them
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by victorian(f): 2:58pm On Sep 02, 2019
Nnaabros:



Very fierce! You must have real anger issues.

You know, you could still have made your point without all the vulgarities.

You sound like a broken girl trying to pick up the broken pieces of her life from several heartbreaks. If so, good luck.

But don't sound like guys are evil because they're not conservative about sex like most of you girls. Men are not ashamed to go for what they want and desire. They're not afraid to express their sexuality to the full. For guys, sex is fun and not a BIG DEAL.

Don't worry, keep your pussy for yourself and for God if you like. There are lots of women in the world. If they don't get it from you, there many girls out there who are not prudish about sex and ready to have fun and enjoy themselves.

Our body is not firewood like yours.







All well and good. I'm not broken, maybe angry? Yes u can say I'm angry. Cause a dumb toaster made me angry very early this morning, talking about spending a day and night on the island, then later lodge in a hotel. For Christ sakes! Must sex and sleeping over night always pop up? Can't he just zip up?

Anyways like you rightly say, there are lots of animashaun ladies and u guys can have as much fun as u deem it fit.

My pussy and body is meant for God and a particular man who's a good friend, not for every dick and Harry, that whispers I want to marry you. Nah!

And It's a huge relief he believes in celibacy, and being best of friends. thank heavens for that.

So I'm not that weird after all.
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Sep 02, 2019
Michellekabod2:
no one is saying there are the same...!
If I get you right ,you are implying that a[b] non-virgin should not take up celibacy [/b]because she will still not be valued right?
Well,that is for nut crack heads!
Didn't say virginity is an assurance for anything or celibacy ....
My point here is: people should do with their bodies what they wish as long as is within the confines of the law! And as for females,the choice should not be for the applause or acceptance of men but what they feel is right for them


i am not asking any non virgin not to celibate if that is what they feel is best to do, the women population is just too much for us to be avin that kind of conservation, catholic need more sista/nuns abeg
You claim to be indifferent yet you are calling some people "crack heads" for what they beiieve.
Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by victorian(f): 3:02pm On Sep 02, 2019
ericsmith:




these chick is so full of herself, among those EX you consider badluck how many of them are richer than you .... can you call the rich ones bad luck. i think its best you marry ur money, honestly marriage is not for you.






I'm not full of myself.

I'm simply realistic and yes I will marry a man who is celibate and have a good divine relationship with God. He's not broke, he's highly blessed and favoured by God almighty. He adores God and have a marvelous voice.

It's already in the works sef

So don't worry Im fine.

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Re: Celibacy! Are You Crazy? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Sep 02, 2019
ericsmith:



i am not asking any non virgin not to celibate if that is what they feel is best to do, the women population is just too much for us to be avin that kind of conservation, catholic need more sista/nuns abeg
You claim to be indifferent yet you are calling some people "crack heads" for what they beiieve.
but you also tagged celebates....or didn't you?
The nut crack heads are for those who sham celibates for their choices and not for those who have beliefs in pro-celibacy or anti-celibacy.
so what do you have against me??

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