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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by chinchonglee(m): 10:48pm On Oct 26, 2019
Starz825:

Bros...don't be surprised that the bolt driver could later straff the lady in the nearest future...don't trust ladies...most of them don't know wat they want....
2ru talk..

But dating is different frm straffing. She wont be comfortable telling her friends that her boyfriend is a mere Bolt driver.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 10:56pm On Oct 26, 2019
Basher8583:


Please he asked to be a friend and not a lover. There is a difference. They might have had a sound and lively interaction in his vehicle which explains why he wanted to see her again. Its normal and I clearly don't see stalking there. After all was it not the same mobile number the lady used to call him?

Back in Europe you will offend any uber driver if you seat at the back seat while he drives. He can insult you and not give a damn. They also love interactions while driving.
Friend or no friend thats unprofessional,dude u clearly dont understand what is breach of privacy.Is like touching a ladys boobz without her permission n exactly wht d guy did.
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 10:59pm On Oct 26, 2019
IamCharles123:

Not necessary, he doesn't do that to his client. He probably like the girl and hoping to build a relationship with her. She could be his soulmate. So you saying he shouldn't talk to a girl he likes cause he met her while doing business.
Dude read again n comprehend.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 11:17pm On Oct 26, 2019
Fyi0:

Guy shift!!!!! Talking rubbish.
U rather shift bcuz u lack ethics n u sound aggressively indiscipline.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 11:19pm On Oct 26, 2019
BluntBoy:


It is just a matter of speaking, not a legal thing. You don't need permission to call anyone. Moreover, except you work for a network service provider who have details far beyond just your phone number, there is very little of your details available to a Bolt driver. You can't steal numbers. There is nothing called "stealing numbers" under any jurisdictions.

And, it appears like you think it is more legitimate to chat up a customer who was still in your vehicle and who under company policy could not be said to be able to give consent?

What he did was safer than what you are suggesting he should have done. His relationship with her while she was still in his vehicle was quite different from when his dealings with her had ended.
He stole re number n thats breach of privacy.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by planetx: 11:21pm On Oct 26, 2019
magicminister:


The bolded is a huge lie. I have been to a lot of European countries and never ever had a driver complain about me choosing to sit at the back.
Me too I was wondering what the hell the person was talking about
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 11:31pm On Oct 26, 2019
Neddstark:


The guy did no wrong. I know an uber driver who is presently married to someone he met in his hustle
So bcus one succeeded,then its now a legit right for evry online biznes driver to go about stalking all their female clients for marriage/date.rubbish talk.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by ChristineC: 11:33pm On Oct 26, 2019
post=83484297:

Sending her a WhatsApp message 1.21am in the middle of the night?!
Absolute rubbish!

He will be the loser at the end of it all!
I'm curious, what will he lose?
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 11:38pm On Oct 26, 2019
grandstar:


What the guy did was wrong professionally but the lady's response is haughty and condescending. She sounds like a snob. Our reaction to an action speaks for us too.

And what if the guy was genuine and wanted to build a home with this chick? His action would have been pardonable and acceptable.
This is pure sentiment.
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 11:41pm On Oct 26, 2019
abbiboy:

He stole re number n thats breach of privacy.

Breach of privacy

A number already known to the driver? If Bolt felt the need to protect privacy, they would introduce the number masking technique that they use in some countries.

Please, you people should stop misusing words.

I could agree with you that he misused the privileges accorded drivers, but to say he stole a number that had been shared with him by Bolt is nothing but silly to say the least.

Even riders agree to have some of their personal details shared with drivers. How can you steal a detail that had been shared with you?

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 11:42pm On Oct 26, 2019
BluntBoy:


So, one must ask permission to call/text someone?

In what jurisdictions does one need permission to ring someone up or to text? How does call permission even work?
U would not survive in a sane country beyond 24hrs.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbey621(m): 11:45pm On Oct 26, 2019
m140:

Lolzzzz, why u dey karamo US like this , i go visiting chicago almost every year,

Visiting is different from living here o, no let the bright lights, fancy talking fool you, the situation of the black race in America is pitiful.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 11:45pm On Oct 26, 2019
abbiboy:
U would not survive in a sane country beyond 24hrs.
Why? What are your reasons?

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 11:46pm On Oct 26, 2019
abbey621:


Try traveling out of the country and stalking a citizen, na then you go know say khaki no be leather. Phone number, name, date of birth and so on are personal information that the law protects, it's just that nigeria is a zoo so no consequences!
Super cool reply,pls enlighten that zoo boy that thinks all nation on earth is a zoo like nigeria.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 11:48pm On Oct 26, 2019
abbiboy:

Friend or no friend thats unprofessional,dude u clearly dont understand what is breach of privacy.Is like touching a ladys boobz without her permission n exactly wht d guy did.

It is not the same. Stop blowing this out of proportion.

People slide into people's DMs and people send friend requests even to strangers without batting an eyelid. He didn't steal her personal details, not from a register or worksheet. It was shared with him by Bolt.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 11:49pm On Oct 26, 2019
[quote author=BluntBoy post=83492336]

Why? What are your
Ur reply was too myopic...wht u take as joke in this country is seriously frown at in other sane country.
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by abbiboy: 11:52pm On Oct 26, 2019
BluntBoy:


It is not the same. Stop blowing this out of proportion.

People slide into people's DMs and people send friend requests even to strangers without batting an eyelid. He didn't steal her personal details, not from a register or worksheet. It was shared with him by Bolt.
My brorher go n read wht is privacy n google facebook saga on data privacy then u will get a beta idea of wht that means.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 11:53pm On Oct 26, 2019
abbey621:


Try traveling out of the country and stalking a citizen, na then you go know say khaki no be leather. Phone number, name, date of birth and so on are personal information that the law protects, it's just that nigeria is a zoo so no consequences!

My God, so a few exchanges is now stalking?

Nawa for una o. No wonder they have no respect for Nigerians and Nigerian educational institutions abroad.

Better learn to research words before you use them with so much confidence.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by gnykelly(m): 11:56pm On Oct 26, 2019
post=83484297:
This is just so UNPROFESSIONAL of the bolt driver .

Real guys never mix business with pleasure.

It is dangerous for business

Sending her a WhatsApp message 1.21am in the middle of the night?!
Absolute rubbish!

He will be the loser at the end of it all!

Modify: Reading the messages of some mannerless/lazy youths supporting the driver is appalling for real.
This shows you how the mind of an average Nigerian youths work.
But it is good to see some youths comment reasonably, that shows there is still hope for this nation.

We can find love anywhere

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 11:59pm On Oct 26, 2019
abbiboy:

My brorher go n read wht is privacy n google facebook saga on data privacy then u will get a beta idea of wht that means.

Bro, the law is never straightforward. So, don't assume that you know what constitutes breach of privacy.

Misappropriation of personal details does not necessarily constitute a breach of privacy.

He had her personal details, but did not share with anyone else. He only used it to make a move on her. He also did not use her number in the way that would constitute identity theft.

Prove to me how that is a breach of privacy?

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by iPresh4s(m): 12:07am On Oct 27, 2019
The Guy No Get Benz. Leave unprofessional out of it

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 12:08am On Oct 27, 2019
abbiboy:

Why? What are your
Ur reply was too myopic...wht u take as joke in this country is seriously frown at in other sane country.

This is the story of a woman who slept with 3 Uber drivers. Mind you, it happened in one of your so-called sane countries. The third Uber driver was actually the one who asked her out. She didn't make a big deal out of it.

Enjoy:

By this point, I’d developed something of a reputation amongst my friends, and it was this reputation that ended up scoring me my third Uber sex story.

I was with a group after a night out when we got into an Uber together to ride home. The driver was not exactly my type, but certainly cute.

We started talking and laughing, and one of my friends, who was a bit drunk, giggled and warned him to look out, as I’d slept with a few drivers.

He raised one eyebrow and said it wouldn’t be the worst way to end a shift.


After we dropped her off, he asked if I wanted to go out for coffee. I said while he seemed really nice, I wasn’t looking for anything serious, so I was only really only interested in a quick "coffee"
at mine.



Alll I can say is he might not have been my usual type, but I DID get to finally try something I’ve wanted to for a while – sex with a guy that could lift me up off the floor and keep going until I was done.
https://www.whimn.com.au/love/intimacy/ive-had-sex-with-three-of-my-uber-drivers/news-story/b8e2b6b13a32e897ba48b5e36634dae4
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Tellemall: 12:11am On Oct 27, 2019
BluntBoy:


Why? What are your reasons?


The reason is that as a Nigerian you have a weak approach to the rights and choices of others around you. There's this feeling of entitlement. It is the reason market traders feel it is their right to feel up any female passing their shops, because who are you? Are you made of gold? You aren't even attractive, so you should let them feel you up. The same reason a man goes to a club and touches a woman without her permission, then he gets others to support him because she's ugly and so what if he did. The same reason female students complain about sex for marks and you need a BBC undercover operation to expose it, and even when they do, you can see a lot of males think it is a setup and that the girls are making a fuss and they should let the lecturers have their way, or that the lecturer is innocent as nothing happened.

What makes you think the driver has the right to be responded to politely when he is clearly failing in his ethics as a driver and as a right thinking individual? The lady said she was uninterested, why did he press on? She repeated again, her disinterest in his attempt, after his confession of sleepless nights over her, and he still pressed on!

Do you understand harassment? The problem is that in Nigeria people violate others privacy with impunity and feel it is their right. Outside that little hole, it is a crime and he is trespassing her right to be treated with professionalism. She didn't ask to be bugged after her trip, he decided to misuse her contact details to his unethical advantage of scoring. To make matters worse, when she refused he resorted to the moral high ground of inferiority complexes "are you looking down on me because I'm a driver?". He feels entitled. Why can't he look elsewhere?

With her information, imagine if he decided to threaten her rather than his oppressive love messages? How right would you think he is? That will give you the answer to how right it is to use her information without her permission. Forget all the "girls are rude" misinterpretations, what would you do if you were in her shoes?

People have the right to be asked their permission for certain things. Even your device apps need your permission. They aren't entitled to it or a good response from you when they violate it. Even if a million other people accepted it, once you say no, it means no.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by BluntBoy(m): 12:27am On Oct 27, 2019
Tellemall:


The reason is that as a Nigerian you have a weak approach to the rights and choices of others around you. There's this feeling of entitlement. It is the reason market traders feel it is their right to feel up any female passing their shops, because who are you? Are you made of gold? You aren't even attractive, so you should let them feel you up. The same reason a man goes to a club and touches a woman without her permission, then he gets others to support him because she's ugly and so what if he did.

What makes you think the driver has the right to be responded to politely when he is clearly failing in his ethics as a driver and as a right thinking individual? The lady said she was uninterested, why did he press on? She repeated again, her disinterest in his attempt, after his confession of sleepless nights over her, and he still pressed on!

Do you understand harassment? The problem is that in Nigeria people violate others privacy with impunity and feel it is their right. Outside that little hole, it is a crime and he is trespassing her right to be treated with professionalism. She didn't ask to be bugged after her trip, he decided to misuse her contact details to his unethical advantage of scoring. To make matters worse, when she refused he resorted to the moral high ground of inferiority complexes "are you looking down on me because I'm a driver?". He feels entitled. Why can't he look elsewhere?

With her information, imagine if he decided to threaten her rather than his oppressive love messages? How right would you think he is? That will give you the answer to how right it is to use her information without her permission. Forget all the "girls are rude" misinterpretations, what would you do if you were in her shoes?

Can you read, and how good are you in differential analysis?

How do my points suggest a sense of entitlement or match the images of men who feel up women in the guise of advertising their goods?

The detail was already in his hands; would it make any difference if he resigned his job, waited some months and rang her up pretending to have gotten her number by some other means?

And what do you mean by an advantage of scoring?

If you were in a court of law, how would you explain that a man who has misappropriated a personal detail has an advantage over the woman as regard sex? What is unethical in wooing a woman even if you only want to have sex with her consensually?

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by leofab(f): 12:32am On Oct 27, 2019
Na wah
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Bjornson01(m): 12:47am On Oct 27, 2019
post=83484297:
This is just so UNPROFESSIONAL of the bolt driver .

Real guys never mix business with pleasure.

It is dangerous for business

Sending her a WhatsApp message 1.21am in the middle of the night?!
Absolute rubbish

He will be the loser at the end of it all!

Modify: Reading the messages of some mannerless/lazy youths supporting the driver is appalling for real.
This shows you how the mind of an average Nigerian youths work.
But it is good to see some youths comment reasonably, that shows there is still hope for this nation.
the wise one

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by pyro62(m): 12:57am On Oct 27, 2019
post=83484297:
This is just so UNPROFESSIONAL of the bolt driver .

Real guys never mix business with pleasure.

It is dangerous for business

Sending her a WhatsApp message 1.21am in the middle of the night?!
Absolute rubbish!

He will be the loser at the end of it all!

Modify: Reading the messages of some mannerless/lazy youths supporting the driver is appalling for real.
This shows you how the mind of an average Nigerian youths work.
But it is good to see some youths comment reasonably, that shows there is still hope for this nation.

We do not know how water enter your coconut.

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by pyro62(m): 1:00am On Oct 27, 2019
abbey621:
Nigerians and unprofessional behaviors! You are working, the rider is a paying customer, HOW DARE YOU USE HER PERSONAL INFORMATION THAT WAY! In a sane country, he would not only be fired but could face possible lawsuits/jail time, this rubbish has to STOP!

So who says you can't meet a spouse while going about your business.. Na your type dey enter friends zone anyhow. You go carry the girl and her boyfriend go spar for free sef. HYPOcrite
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Nobody: 1:00am On Oct 27, 2019
My type of girl.. don't smell what u won't eat. What's the use entertaining the mofo? That's how he will get too comfortable with the situation and one day take advantage of her against her will. Fvck being nice to these thirsty idiots. Sometime be fvcking rusty blunt... nonsense angry

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by gare2510(m): 1:02am On Oct 27, 2019
Conduct from the guy was unprofessional

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Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Nobody: 1:08am On Oct 27, 2019
abbiboy:

U rather shift bcuz u lack ethics n u sound aggressively indiscipline.
Nonsense
Re: Bolt Driver Text Lady After A Ride, Lady Shares Chat by Nobody: 1:19am On Oct 27, 2019
BluntBoy:


Can you read, and how good are you in differential analysis?

How do my points suggest a sense of entitlement or match the images of men who feel up women in the guise of advertising their goods?

The detail was already in his hands; would it make any difference if he resigned his job, waited some months and rang her up pretending to have gotten her number by some other means?

And what do you mean by an advantage of scoring?

If you were in a court of law, how would you explain that a man who has misappropriated a personal detail has an advantage over the woman as regard sex? What is unethical in wooing a woman even if you only want to have sex with her consensually?



Oga go and sleep.. after the different clear reasons u have been given u still dey here defending rubbish.. Is there something wrong with ur head. She say she no need am. I know ur type, stealing girls contacts to dey do try ur luck... to whip u plank just dey hungry me now. Potential rapist. You probably do think a gynecologist has the exclusive right to fvck any of his patients too given his position & line of work... Take ur time oo angry

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