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Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Nobody: 11:27am On Jan 01, 2020 |
Jewessgratitude:Interesting story. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by GodblessNig247(m): 1:19pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
vickydankal: What's been born again? |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by mafnv9: 3:09pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by wallchat: 5:25pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
FanOfMyself:this reply off me. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Frankicent(m): 5:41pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
ManAmongMen: lol disco green light...lwkmd... It's because of birthday she remember you. My brother what is wrong with you. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Sososo(f): 7:49pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
What if the guy is the one giving you greenlight . Like someone staring at you for over three months now without saying a word to you. He makes eye contact with you and even attracts people's eyes to you in the process because of the way he stares?this is happening in a church 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Sososo(f): 8:00pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
ubunja:what do you do when a guy is the one giving the green light by staring at you without saying anything and you like the guy and you can't talk to the guy. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by ubunja(m): 8:19pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Sososo:never make the first move cause you'll be rejected. He'll take you for a cheap girl. What you do is you MAKE IT EASY FOR HIM TO MAKE THAT FIRST MOVE. Next time he stares give welcoming signals that indicate he's invited to approach. That is, if you're sitting with friends stand up and go somewhere he can follow you, eg go to the Loo. If he's fast he'll make sure to intercept you on your way out. But DON'T make it obvious you separated to give him a chance. If he has the slightest hint you're initiating or making the first move he'll lose interest and think you're a cheap slut. Dont stare back and don't smile. You can use your phone screen to see his moves by using it as a mirror while pretending to be texting someone. If you're sitting alone adopt welcoming and inviting body language that he'll pick up on a subconscious level and respond to. Eg don't cross your arms, don't look too busy on your phone. Appear relaxed. Smile to guys who greet you as they pass, it will make him see you ain't hostile. These are just the basics. The goal is to appear as approachable as possible. If after all this effort he's not making a move,LET IT GO. HE'S EITHER INTIMATED (which will make him a weak partner even if you initiate) or HE ISN'T WOOWED BY YOU ENOUGH (which means his attraction level in you is not that high enough to be of any use to you). When a guy gives you a green light never respond to it. Give him your own green light. Guys must initiate otherwise their ego can't handle it. So make it easy for him to initiate. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 8:51pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Jeweltz: You are normal. At least you didn't deny the fact that you love ripped muscles. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by ubunja(m): 9:03pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
Jeweltz:I forgot about this question until my bro responded triggering a mention. A woman has two hearts. One between her legs and another in her chest. When you love a guy because he's smart, kind etc it's the heart in the chest talking. That's the heart that complies to society's standards of what a good man is. Its the safe choice everyone approves of. But things like muscled men, bad boys, thugs etc, when they turn you on its the pussy taking charge and making selections based on evolution etc. Usually these choices are frowned on by Society so women feel guilty making them and usually tend to these in secret. These have a pull on the woman especially in her early years, 25 to late 20s. Hope I'm not being cryptic. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by vickydankal(f): 9:29pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
GodblessNig247: A renewed and regenerated person who have given his life to Christ, popularly known as Christian. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by SolarKing1: 7:58am On Jan 02, 2020 |
vickydankal:Better still, men who don't destroy other human beings but make their best effort to make other lives better. Unfortunately, just like satan deceived Eve, he has deceived many ladies to see the kindness of such Men as weakness. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Jeweltz(f): 8:54am On Jan 02, 2020 |
ubunja: You're correct @ the part I've bolded I've always like the roughness and the harsh indifferent behavior those Bois pulled, but I can't consider them for long term relationship ( marriage) 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by lirusehn(m): 9:03am On Jan 02, 2020 |
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Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by GodblessNig247(m): 12:13pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
vickydankal: Oh I see. Thank you |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by ubunja(m): 12:51pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jeweltz:yes. A woman has two dating strategies. Short term dating and Long Term dating. Short term is the one night stands, NSA flings etc - sexual relationships that don't go anywhere. But these are the best sources for the best genetic material as they are with those Bois you mentioned to be rough and harsh : The Bad Boys, thugs etc. They are the best sperm donors genetically because that roughness and harshness makes the best babies strong enough to take on the world and survive. But these men themselves make terrible long term partners. Marriage to them would be too toxic both for you and the child. So an ideal situation for a woman is to get pregnant for a bad boy, thug then marry a good decent man once the baby is born. So that baby gets the best of both worlds - superior genes and a superior fathering. I went in depth into this topic in this writeup: https://www.nairaland.com/4949684/ubunjas-miseducation-woman-2-hearts 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Jeweltz(f): 5:43pm On Jan 02, 2020 |
ubunja: You wowed me . Sincerely |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Kryptonvinyl(m): 12:28pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Thegeneralqueen: Don't generalize pls. A girl once told me she has a crush on me! That was bold. I know of other girls that crushed on me but never said anything. Me gan sef kukuma no dey ready for relationship now sef. I told her that and that we can be friends. Later she told me she loves me. I never took her for granted. I even found her attractive sef. Now na she be my heartbeat |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Digmygold: 8:49pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
ubunja: "Woman this, woman that" lol. Thats all in your blank pvssified brain. That's why you ended a loser. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by ubunja(m): 9:16pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Digmygold:I'm very sorry your father is a deadbeat baby daddy who dumped your mother and left you when you were little, but lashing out at every guy who leaves his woman and kid is not going to bring your father back. Go get counselling bro. Life goes on. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by ManAmongMen: 10:16pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Frankicent:�� nothing is wrong with me oo .she had always been close and friendly even B4 her birthday..I didn't even buy her any gift, didn't text nor call to wish her happy birthday yet she never stop talking to me.. |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Depressedkidd: 11:54pm On Jun 25, 2020 |
Quality20:I'd just get creeped out and leave the class or change seats |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Depressedkidd: 3:04pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
ubunja:Lmao. This is absolute evil. That's how you'll miss a good guy cos he's shy and driver's seat de scare am. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by lardor(m): 3:40pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
vickydankal: sorry , some guys eh! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by emmanuelewumi(m): 3:47pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
vickydankal: Sharp woman 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by AlphaSoul: 6:22pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Varlfott:Subtle...and crazy! |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by AlphaSoul: 6:32pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
vickydankal:"Attack him"...huh? 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Babara1994(m): 7:55pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Jodha:Stingy rat 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Babara1994(m): 7:56pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
Jodha:Be using style to advertise urself. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by placeofallure(f): 8:36pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
N MrBrownJay1: You're correct. I'm everything you mentioned above. I believe a guy should work for it. However if I like you so much, I'll just be my normal nice girl who greets, smiles , no tantrums throwing, then no more.. If you can't catch the signal still, then I'll forever hold my peace. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by placeofallure(f): 8:36pm On Mar 02, 2021 |
N MrBrownJay1: You're correct. I'm everything you mentioned above. I believe a guy should work for it. However if I like you so much, I'll just be my normal nice girl who greets, smiles , no tantrums throwing, then no more.. If you can't catch the signal still, then I'll forever hold my peace. The feeling will pass. |
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