bigpriik:
*ubunja will say you don't need to do anything to win a woman's love let them choose.

*another lady will leave her boyfriend because he doesn't treat her right but yet you have to do nothing to make a woman love you.

*An average Nigerian guy will say you need money to make a girl fall for you and yet you need to do nothing before a girl can fall you.

tomorrow another guy like illegend will say you need to be mysterious, unpredictable, stingy to make a woman love you .

I don confuse come tire again ..wich one man wan follow for christ sake.



aren't we all confused..

Ifakiland:
OK lemme make it easy for you. To get a girl to love you, do opposite of what she'd expect from you to her.
If it's a rich, indoor girl you need, stead of taking her to some fancy eatery to eat fried rice and chicken, take her to eat amala and ewedu at a buka or take palmy and bush meat at a bush bar. If it's a girl from a rough neighborhood, take her to a posh place, if it's a church girl, be a guy she will wanna change, if it's a hoe, be a guy dat wanna change her... Etc....do dat and see how easy each respective girl you meet will fall for you. Girls ain't the same, but yoy get them via same method....just don't rush, chill, understand her first to see who she is and be what she's not.

Stephenomozzy:
No general law about woman matters; be yourself and go for the kind of woman whose characters you desire...Not primarily the physique, bekos if bad attitude nak you for relationship eh, you wont appreciate the figure 8 you were dying for in the early stage. Understand how she desires to be love and also make her understand how you feel loved (Read the book: Five Love Languages)


Sometimes, people make advice based on their personal experiences or hear say, it doesn't make it universally-binding. Be yourself... And the right woman will value and stay with you

bigpriik:
*ubunja will say you don't need to do anything to win a woman's love let them choose.

*another lady will leave her boyfriend because he doesn't treat her right but yet you have to do nothing to make a woman love you.

*An average Nigerian guy will say you need money to make a girl fall for you and yet you need to do nothing before a girl can fall you.

tomorrow another guy like illegend will say you need to be mysterious, unpredictable, stingy to make a woman love you .

I don confuse come tire again ..wich one man wan follow for christ sake.



aren't we all confused..

bigpriik:


Mr ubunja I know you are one of the most influential personalities on this forum .I have read almost all your write-ups before I signed up for NL but people cannot change their personalities .I notice you hate women a lot because all ur write-ups exudes hatred for women that's one of the reasons I don't buy so Many of your ideologies I have met good and caring woman in my life and I ave met bad and nasty ones too I followed a lot of dating coaches including you on this forum I almost became a robot.I don't think you are really successful with women you ideas are just based on assumptions being nasty with women works yes but it will not stand the test of time you will flop because you are faking your personality.

Ifakiland:
OK lemme make it easy for you. To get a girl to love you, do opposite of what she'd expect from you to her.
If it's a rich, indoor girl you need, stead of taking her to some fancy eatery to eat fried rice and chicken, take her to eat amala and ewedu at a buka or take palmy and bush meat at a bush bar. If it's a girl from a rough neighborhood, take her to a posh place, if it's a church girl, be a guy she will wanna change, if it's a hoe, be a guy dat wanna change her... Etc....do dat and see how easy each respective girl you meet will fall for you. Girls ain't the same, but yoy get them via same method....just don't rush, chill, understand her first to see who she is and be what she's not.

Stephenomozzy:
(Read the book: Five Love Languages)

frenchtoast:
All these online 'rule of thumb' tips are just broad guidelines and aren't necessarily reliable for every situation or to be followed so stringently

You know the women you're trying to attract more than ubunja, so just try your own methods as comfortably and respectfully as you can and try not to be a complete slave to all these self help lists.

ubunja:
this is what we call misinformation.

When a woman uses words like "respectfully" just know its BS. Because its the same women getting wet in the panties when thugs and bad boys call them anyhow and treat them anyhow.

Respecting a woman will get you a friend. Not a Girlfriend. Women are attracted to power and power is never synonymous with respect. But with command. Power is respected. Power itself respects no one.

frenchtoast:

Don't conflate the term respect with doormat behavior

Respecting a woman and maintaining 'power' are not mutually exclusive

ubunja:
while treating a woman like a doormat is what endears her to you....

A woman with self esteem will appreciate and reward a gentleman. But since the staggering majority of women have little to zero self esteem, a respectful gentleman will always lose out to a thug. Fact.

ubunja:
while treating a woman like a doormat is what endears her to you....

A woman with self esteem will appreciate and reward a gentleman. But since the staggering majority of women have little to zero self esteem, a respectful gentleman will always lose out to a thug. Fact.

Jewessgratitude:
Lol

Dont get it twisted.

Now one thing you guys should understand is this..

Like ubunja rightly said, you dont need anything to WIN a woman's love which is very true. if she truly loves you she'll fall for you even.without giving her nothing. Now that is the winning stage. Shes yours truly.

Now another aspect is keeping her. How

Now you WON her but you need to keep her by now giving her something. Yes! No matter how a woman loves you and want to be with you, if you dont take care of her, she'll be wearied and begin to loose interest. Quote me anywhere. WE ARE LIKE THAT! forget any girl coming here to form "I dont ask my man anything" all na wash. It is natural. So you need to give her and take care of her to keep the love you won without a dime.
Hope you catch.

Ifakiland:
OK lemme make it easy for you. To get a girl to love you, do opposite of what she'd expect from you to her.
If it's a rich, indoor girl you need, stead of taking her to some fancy eatery to eat fried rice and chicken, take her to eat amala and ewedu at a buka or take palmy and bush meat at a bush bar. If it's a girl from a rough neighborhood, take her to a posh place, if it's a church girl, be a guy she will wanna change, if it's a hoe, be a guy dat wanna change her... Etc....do dat and see how easy each respective girl you meet will fall for you. Girls ain't the same, but yoy get them via same method....just don't rush, chill, understand her first to see who she is and be what she's not.

ubunja:
while treating a woman like a doormat is what endears her to you....

A woman with self esteem will appreciate and reward a gentleman. But since the staggering majority of women have little to zero self esteem, a respectful gentleman will always lose out to a thug. Fact.

vincentjk:
My dad always told me not to put women first in order to succeed in life

rosy1992:
Just be yourself.

Ifakiland:
OK lemme make it easy for you. To get a girl to love you, do opposite of what she'd expect from you to her.
If it's a rich, indoor girl you need, stead of taking her to some fancy eatery to eat fried rice and chicken, take her to eat amala and ewedu at a buka or take palmy and bush meat at a bush bar. If it's a girl from a rough neighborhood, take her to a posh place, if it's a church girl, be a guy she will wanna change, if it's a hoe, be a guy dat wanna change her... Etc....do dat and see how easy each respective girl you meet will fall for you. Girls ain't the same, but yoy get them via same method....just don't rush, chill, understand her first to see who she is and be what she's not.

ubunja:
while treating a woman like a doormat is what endears her to you....

A woman with self esteem will appreciate and reward a gentleman. But since the staggering majority of women have little to zero self esteem, a respectful gentleman will always lose out to a thug. Fact.