So you want the guys to pay for not bringing up your kid in the right way

She should be grateful she didn't see herself at Ogun. The heading wouldn't have been pleasant at all.

why am I finding it very hard to believe this story?

We have been saying it not today, if at all you have to meet someone you met via online chatting stuff, make sure you do the following things:

Take someone with you
Meet in a public place like a coffee shop - not a train station
Let the staff know you are meeting someone from online
Make sure others know where you are going
Have your cell phone with you, fully charged, turned on, and within easy reach
Do not go anywhere else with this person
Tell friends and/or family members to call you during the time you are to meet
Do not tell him where you work or live
Do not tell him where anyone you know works or lives
You are free to be rude and leave
You are free to make a scene if he tries to prevent you from leaving.

For the mod that deleted my first comment, you have to be careful and use your head very well.

kikero:
Whatever you do , don't meet anyone via facebook.

The internet is a wild wild place. Anyone can pretend to be anyone. The girl was too trusting.

A friend of mine met his wife via Facebook

safarigirl:
I will never understand women who travel to meet men on their own turf? What kind of stupidity is that?

As a woman, you're already the weaker sex, then, you further turn the odds against you, by meeting a man on his own turf? That is like Eibar going to play Barcelona in Camp Nou, the odds are logically against you.

If you and an acquaintance must meet, women, do so on a neutral ground, or on your own turf. Stop making silly mistakes like this, especially on a continent that doesn't protect women or victims

This was a 17 year old girl though. However, right now or by tomorrow, more girls would still embarking on the same journey. Sadly no one can stop it. Women are moved by what they hear...& the excitement that comes with it.

A bright female friend of mine had once told me she'd be willing to go visit a male friend in Lagos... Someone she met on Facebook too. All the way from Akwa Ibom State where she resides. She did mention that she'd not be in her period when she get there, meaning she was ready for the highest request the guy would make - Sex.

However, most females do not take into consideration that such decision could them their very lives...

It is sad. Very sad.

Very bad, on the part of the guys. The first was probably a fvck date but since the guy regressed on their agreement and chased her out( breach of contract and her being underaged) then it can be termed rape. As for the remaining guys they were opportunist taking advantage of a damsel in distress.

There is never a valid justification for rape, but some girls/ladies/women can be so stupid. You can't put yourself at a disadvantaged position and expect not to be taken advantage of by an opportunist perv.

alllivesmatter:



This was a 17 year old girl though. However, right now or by tomorrow, more girls would still embarking on the same journey. Sadly no one can stop it. Women are moved by what they hear...& the excitement that comes with it.

A bright female friend of mine had once told me she'd be willing to go visit a male friend in Lagos... Someone she met on Facebook too. All the way from Akwa Ibom State where she resides. She did mention that she'd not be in her period when she get there, meaning she was ready for the highest request the guy would make - Sex.

However, most females do not take into consideration that such decision could them their very lives...

It is sad. Very sad.

I was 17 once, and I could never have done such a thing. A 17-year old is not a child, that is not enough.

As old as I am, I can't go anywhere without informing someone, what kind of liver did a supposed child eat, to do something that foolish?

This scenario has played out multiple times over the years, and has been reported; women who travel to see men getting raped, and even killed. It is disheartening that in 2020, we still have such a case, and it will continue many more years ahead, because foolishness is everlasting. I am sure not every lady that guy spoke to, fell into his trap, but see this girl, falling into a trap that is older than her, and making herself another example to people who won't hear word.

If something has happened to others, and it happens to you, then, you have your own share of blame. It may be painful to hear, but it is factual, especially when you live somewhere you are not protected.

Your female friend was clearly going to have sex with that man, I hope we don't hear any story of sexual assault in the coming years, because this is where we have found ourselves.

**The girl sat her KCPE exams in 2017 and was staying with her aunt after failing to secure secondary school admission.**

Can somebody help me explain the above ^^^


At 17 she failed to gain admission into secondary school or what?

Where does that happen?

tutudesz:

Why will a young girl travel 210km to meet someone unknown to her, even friends rape friends, family rape family members, talkless of someone on Facebook. You should be advising girls, even boys to avoid such useless movement

So she deserved to be raped,you people are just insensitive and odd,you're condoning rape and you're proud of it,I'll see how you'll react when it happens to your loved one

dapsoneh:
Ogboko daran

Funny comment, but I won't laugh

17 years!!! What kind of mistake is this? I hope they have not infected her with HIV Sha. And good thing her life was spared. She has learnt her lesson

Mutaultope:
So you want the guys to pay for not bringing up your kid in the right way

Na dem

So if you see a stranded girl in your street, you have the rights to take to your house and defile her because she was not properly brought up?

Lamanii22:
The girl's to be blamed.... Reminds me of my friend who went to visit a girl she met on Facebook... She actually saw a guy who claimed she's the girl's brother... That one took her to a bar, thank God she ordered for only water... So the guy now asked for her phone, he claimed he doesn't have airtime on his phone to call his sister... He feigned network problem while using my friend's phone... He stood up and went outside the bar... She waited for like 30mins he never returned lol... She just jejely paid for the water and left.... Imagine that one raped her... She couldn't even tell her family about it...

Who understood the above pls the genders are mixed up

Some people are funny, so because people are castigating her for travelling a long distance to meet someone she met on facebook, that means they support rape. Please let be reasonable on this platform, even if it was my sister or family I will blame her first. That doesn't mean I support rape

safarigirl:



what kind of liver did a supposed child eat, to do something that foolish?

Scorpion liver.

Trust me, ma, it works.

Mobalajibig:

You people are foolish and insensitive, you did not focus on the 3 people that raped her ,you're blaming the girl for trusting a man,your likes encourage rape daily

King Solomon said "The shrewd one has seen the calamity and proceeds to conceal himself but the inexperienced pass along and suffer the penalty" (Proverbs 27:12)

If a man walking down the street at 2am is attacked and robbed, and I said he was stupid for roving st the time, Am i supporting armed robbery?

If a man left his luxury jeep packed and unlocked on a street in Mushin all night and it gets stolen, will 8 be supporting car thieves of I said he was stupid?

We live in a wicked world. There's a rape epidemic out there and there are high risk actions that make you vulnerable to becoming a rape victim. Hers is a prime example.

Security experts warn us especially young ladies to be wary of strangers they meet on social media and for good reason. They are vulnerable. Sexual predators prey on the vulnerable.

I hate rape and that's why one should protect his or herself. When I was in the North during my service, a man stopped to give me a lift in his Honda. I declined and said I was fine.

I heard homosexuality was prevalent up there and I was scared of getting raped. He might actually have been friendly gesture or might even have tried to make an advance (I would have turned it down as I'm not gay) but never rape but I couldn't just take the chance.

Practical wisdom is necessary

alpharoyalty:
17 years!!! What kind of mistake is this? I hope they have not infected her with HIV Sha. And good thing her life was spared. She has learnt her lesson

LOl...

That dude was a big clown back in the day.

dominique:


Na dem

So if you see a stranded girl in your street, you have the rights to take to your house and defile her because she was not properly brought up?

I have said my mind ...... I don't indulge in that nonsense and won't ever support it

Some human beings are now more wicked than satan. If satan gives you one thing, he may take ten from you. But these ones took everything from her without giving her anything...

Lamanii22:
The girl's to be blamed.... Reminds me of my friend who went to visit a girl she met on Facebook... She actually saw a guy who claimed she's the girl's brother... That one took her to a bar, thank God she ordered for only water... So the guy now asked for her phone, he claimed he doesn't have airtime on his phone to call his sister... He feigned network problem while using my friend's phone... He stood up and went outside the bar... She waited for like 30mins he never returned lol... She just jejely paid for the water and left.... Imagine that one raped her... She couldn't even tell her family about it...

Your friend (a girl) went to visit another girl she met on facebook? For what? Hookup?

dominique:


Na dem

So if you see a stranded girl in your street, you have the rights to take to your house and defile her because she was not properly brought up?

She went there without the knowledge of the mother to visit a Facebook friend ....... whose fault ?

Perhaps if she had kept her asss in one place none of these would have happened.

Xda59:


Your friend (a girl) went to visit another girl she met on facebook? For what? Hookup?

For friendship... She is that plain... She trusts people easily... Girls usually seem innocent...

prostitutees cannot be raped, the how is crying because she was not paid the agreed sum.

Do rape victims travel to be raped?

amuwo1980:


Who understood the above pls the genders are mixed up

She was supposed to meet up with a girl.. But a guy showed up claiming he is the supposed brother of the girl my friend was supposed to meet..

Hmmm

the story is complicated

Mutaultope:


She went there without the knowledge of the mother to visit a Facebook friend ....... whose fault ?

She was raped by two different men while she was stranded. She could have been stranded anywhere, that doesn't give the men the rights to take advantage of her. Anybody can get stranded anywhere, anybody that takes advantage of such person in such vulnerable situation is beyond evil and anybody that justifies such action is insane.

Lamanii22:
The girl's to be blamed.... Reminds me of my friend who went to visit a girl she met on Facebook... She actually saw a guy who claimed she's the girl's brother... That one took her to a bar, thank God she ordered for only water... So the guy now asked for her phone, he claimed he doesn't have airtime on his phone to call his sister... He feigned network problem while using my friend's phone... He stood up and went outside the bar... She waited for like 30mins he never returned lol... She just jejely paid for the water and left.... Imagine that one raped her... She couldn't even tell her family about it...

When we tell women that their actions and inactions at times, can make them disposable to rape, they would call the eprson a Rapist.
Why lie to your parents that you are going to visit someone and then go visit a guy?
Why go to another guy when you had a problem of Rape already, instead of going to report to the Police?
And then after the second one, still went for a third guy? dem swear Rape for you nii or what?

Mothers, instead of allowing all these feminnists to derail you, teach your daughters properly on how to not make themselves a candidate of Rape!
- Let your whereabouts be known at all times, including who you are meeting.
- Stop making faceless friends on Social media
- Stop running after strange men because of money
- Dress properly and decently, whenever you go out or take pictures, dont attract the wrong crowd with your exposing your private body parts.

As for those rapist, l hope they are caught and severly punished.