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Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Arsenate(m): 4:14pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
mrblessed:They don't feel again. No genuine feeling of joy, happiness or any kind of positive emotions; they are perpetually bitter. That's ONE of the price you pay for numbing your conscience. |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Just a Reminder! To close leg is very easy oooo. Very very easy. Don't open legs for anyone who isn't your husband. Married Husband not Husband to be . Close legs Biko and stop wasting lives! 4 Likes |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by rosalieene(f): 6:20pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Ifyyy25:forget what social media says. |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by samsolite(m): 7:30pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Saintmary: You understand that women are the gatekeepers of sex, right? Evolutionary biology has made us understand that the woman bears most of the consequences of unplanned pregnancy: 9 months of changing physiology, difficulty of labour, and time it takes to raise a neonate (years) to a child. The male only cares about depositing semen and his job is done. That's why it seems like females are been held at a higher standards of responsibility, and they should, because they bear the most risks of pregnancy in cases where the father is not ready to commit resources for the care of the mother and child. It's not fair; but such is life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by samsolite(m): 7:50pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
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Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Bosch10(m): 8:34pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Houseofglam7:pls I'll like to know you more |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
mrblessed:It's so funny that these same sort of people will condemn rapist or seek death penalty for rapist but would coddle murdering babies. |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by LadySarah: 9:08pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Ariza: And you think ppl don't abort in marriage? Lol. Married ppl abort more than singles. When you have the desired no of children and fp fails... Go figure 7 Likes |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 9:26pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
LadySarah:The op obviously isn't Married. When a Married woman opens similar thread we will know what to type. Close your legs! 1 Like |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
That you you felt guilty for murdering a baby is good. Don't mind murderers telling you that you did nothing wrong or you didn't make the wrong choice, the truth is that you did. First was fornication and then murder. these things people of our generation do not count it as evil but before God it is a sin that demands justice from God. Every sin people commit draws God's judgment no matter the happiness or peace people delude themselves with, God is still God, He is Holy, righteous and true, and there is no darkness in him. But still He still loves you and provided a way for you to escape sinful living that leads to death and that is through Jesus Christ. I assumed that you are a Christian First you have confessed that you have sinned but this sin is first of all against God. Read the book of psalm 51, David was a man after God's heart but yet he sinned, He killed a man and took his wife, when he was confronted by the prophet Nathan, he didn't justify himself like many folks do today but he admited his sins, He was remorseful for it, and turned from it. Psalms 51:3 For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me. A lot of people might condemn David for his sin but David was a man who admitted his sin and he wrote psalm 51. what God want is not offering sacrifices but brokeness Psalms 51:6 Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom. 51:14 Deliver me from bloodguiltiness, O God, thou God of my salvation: and my tongue shall sing aloud of thy righteousness. 51:17 The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise. lastly I want you to read 1John 1 John 1:5 This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. 1:6 If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth: 1:7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin. 1:8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1:10 If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us. Jesus loves you and I do too 3 Likes |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by goldbim(f): 10:25pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
0Brien:I don't want to sound rude but I think you need to take a chill pill..she's not finding it easy right now,don't add to her wound ,please..what she needs is soothing words for now..let's not add to whatever she's going through,please..thanks!!! 1 Like |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by 0Brien: 10:43pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
goldbim: I'm not adding to anything. She's an adult not a kid. Speak to her like an adult that she is not like a baby. This wasn't a mistake! Two adults having sex should know that sex results in pregnancy and be prepared on what to do about the possible pregnancy. That is what I would do. Instead of whining after, putting up a victim mindset expecting consolation for their clear-eyed actions. Don't encourage or sympathize with irresponsibility. 1 Like |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Saintmary(f): 10:54pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
samsolite:Soooooooo, men are the gateknockers of zex, right? |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Righteousness89: These are not truths |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Estellie: 12:40am On Jul 11, 2020 |
I don't even know where to start from.. Op, I wish I could speak to you privately, can I send a DM? |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Houseofglam7(f): 1:10am On Jul 11, 2020 |
Bosch10:Lol Okay |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by REALretep(m): 8:52am On Jul 11, 2020 |
Keep it up OP. It's good you have initiated your healing process. What has happened has happened. It's time to move on. You have recognized your mistakes and taken responsibility... that's a great step towards healing. Your healing journey will definitely be a long one... but I will be honest with you... you may not completely heal from this. You may however learn gradually how to manage your situation and your life as a whole. You will learn how to accept whatever happened to you and be at peace with it. Keeping this as a secret you will take to your grave will truncate your ability to heal/manage your life. You should be able to talk about this dark part of your life to people...in order for you to continue your healing journey adequately... though it might take quite a while before you reach this final healing stage... probably after you would have gotten married, had kids, and become respected in the society. Keep it up OP. I send you warm hugs from here. God is fully aware of what you are passing through... Jesus is a sure friend, refuge, and stronghold that can help you in this journey. Best wishes dear 3 Likes |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
Ifyyy25: Lol, how can you take what these trolls write online seriously? The world is more beautiful than what those frustrated people paint it to be, trust me on this. You just need to love your child dearly and take care of him or her, and you'll see people envious of what you have. And the right man will wish to enjoy the same attention you give your child. He will want to keep you. But ensure he loves your child too. 2 Likes |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Tripitaka: 5:05pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
Ifyyy25: Hello. Where do you live? I ask because your story sounds like that of a family friend who lives in Kaduna now. |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Alexaonfleek: 9:51pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
0Brien:This isn't a thread to judge,assistant Jesus!!! She regrets her actions,and has resolved never to do it again He who is without sin should throw the first stone |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by 0Brien: 11:49pm On Jul 11, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:No, it's a pity party thread, Where all those who can relate gather to console one of their kind. 4 Likes |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by armyofone(m): 1:46am On Jul 12, 2020 |
Don't forget to also join in preaching condoms while at it okay. 0Brien: |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by ifko: 9:43am On Jul 13, 2020 |
Ifyyy25:The problem single mums have is that most of you usually have hidden soul tie with your babydaddy which scared away potential suitors. I pray God in his infinite mercy will give you your own husband and pls be faithful to him. Shalom 1 Like |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 9:56am On Jul 13, 2020 |
Ifyyy25: How old are you now!!! |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Ifyyy25: 2:07pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
I’m 25 marriagebyigbo: |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Ifyyy25: 2:15pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
I don’t and will never have any soul tie with him, we don’t talk at all he’s not in my child’s life ifko: 2 Likes |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Ifyyy25:Reply my mail |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
ifko: Exactly... Ifyyy25 no matter how u claim strong... The truth is if that guy comes back, he might still get u back again... One problem with single mothers... Just one big problem.. Despite the hardship he put u, u might still take him. Back if he comes U can't control it, ladies are meant like dt |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Ifyyy25: 3:10pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
I don’t know for others, every situation is different so is my own case, as for me there’s nothing between him and I anymore, he got married when I was pregnant, his wife today was pregnant before we met marriagebyigbo: |
Re: Living With The Guilt Of Abortion by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Ifyyy25: Ask dt we exchange Contacts but u refused . Probably u don't want to be known and I av no intention for that really 1 Like |
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