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Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by NewDelhi(m): 10:39am On Jul 20, 2020 |
ekevwe: Cc TonyeBarcanista this is exactly what I was saying. A certain age will come when you try to flog a child and he'll hold your hands or hold the cane. As a parent, you should realize such child is already getting mature and he/she feels he shouldn't still be beaten like a kid. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:40am On Jul 20, 2020 |
officialfestus:You threatened to beat your father? |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by teemanbastos(m): 10:44am On Jul 20, 2020 |
NewDelhi: well said sir. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Thazard(m): 10:46am On Jul 20, 2020 |
magicminister:You think we are in America |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:51am On Jul 20, 2020 |
NewDelhi:As long as you didn't "fight" or "beat" them, you are fine. If you did, you are wrong irrespective of who was the cause of feud. Their discipline, though not really rational sometimes, but the objective is to mould us to better people and be better than them. When I was age 7, I lied against myself to my mum, I admitted to stealing in the house when I never did. My Mom paraded me around police barrack in Ikoyi like a common criminal, flogged craze out of my life and humiliated me. My Dad, a policeman, returned from work and continued part two. See Bros, that corporal punishment alone thought me that stealing has great consequences... While beating me, my mom said, "instead of make government execute you, na me go do the job ". Years later, when I was 15, I reminded her, and told her that the beating was unjustified because I never really stole. To my shock, she said I deserved it for lying that the liar and the thief are one of the same. As a grown up, I understand her point more. Saw your post , you said they still flog you at 30 years old? That's ridiculousAge 30 ke I chop my last beating when I was 20 lol... |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:52am On Jul 20, 2020 |
NewDelhi:I get you! As long as you don't beat them to show them that you are of age |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by ekevwe(m): 11:22am On Jul 20, 2020 |
NewDelhi: Verily verified bro |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Sunrise258: 11:59am On Jul 20, 2020 |
My father beats me with all kind of electric cables and that made me hated him much. He shouted at me anyhow and at a time, in secondary school, I stopped being afraid of him. He was scared the day I first confronted him - he never in his wildest dream expected that from me. Since then, he minded how he talked to me till he demised. Problem with drunk dad is countless. I will never raise my child that way. For me, all forms of spanking stops at 8 or 10. And the spanking would be made in china. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Jotrade: 12:13pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
I was nerve flog only correction |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
My own no get age o...As I old reach, my father burn me slap for driving "recklessly" while he was in the car. Imagine speeding at 120km/h o, is that one reckless driving? |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by jaeyking(m): 12:57pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sparro: now read your quote again. and ask yourself with all the highly discipline. where did it all end.. A highly disciplined govt running a corrupt system |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by jaeyking(m): 12:59pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
luminouz: I hate it when the older dudes keep on shouting on how indiscipline the younger dudes are. yeah am a 90s kid. so what. the so called discipline 80s, 70s and co are running the govt yet it's very corrupt so where dah Bleep is the discipline dey always rant about. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
jaeyking:Point of correction, a highly disciplined people running a corrupt system. The system is corrupt and that is it. Change the system and see the people change |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by jaeyking(m): 1:11pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sparro: so a HIGHLY DISCIPLINED people are running a corrupt system.. Abeg oo. nairalanders can someone who is highly disciplined run a corrupt system. lol. mtschew yeye dey smell 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by officialfestus(m): 1:23pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista:enough is enough bro... I see for the man hand no b small |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by lexxxino(m): 1:34pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
MichaelBlake40:My old man got no chill |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by tunize(m): 1:49pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
around 14 shall but my Mom u still see her call me as i don still grow sey guy forget u don grow i go still play u if u fork up and i will jst keep wondering. Africa parents are lovely. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Gariga: 1:50pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
An elderly woman once slapped her son. This son had a police escort because he was a serving commissioner in one of the states in Nigeria. When the mobile police saw what happened to his oga, he quickly stepped back and was guarding his oga from afar off. The people who were around and witnessed the slap pointed out to the mother "mama, don't you know that your son is a big man, that's why he has a police escort". The mother retorted,"he is the one that knows what he is doing with the a policeman. As for me, Idon't have any need for any police escort." The astound commissioner just stood helpless gazing at his mother. The orderly and the driver also stood helpless feeling sorry for their oga. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by nasbiafra(m): 1:56pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Am 25 years old.though am not living with my parents again.but if i still provoke my father at this age the man will beat the hell out of me. my father can beat for africa |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by helpfindbolu: 2:24pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Hamdy6: 2:30pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
When I was doing my NYSC |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Neville660: 2:31pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Bonatheripper:This is the funniest shit, I've seen in a while. We have some Nollywood parents in our house's. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
jaeyking:I don't blame you o. Low level IQ is not for everyone. Your loss, not mine |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by ndiuelish(m): 3:14pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy:seems like we have the same mum |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Deepthoughts: 3:16pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Mikkymilli:my principle is very simple,if you choose to behave like an animal then you should be treated as one irrespective of your age,but if you Know you are a human being n behaves as a reasonable one you should be accorded all the respect n dignity you truly deserve.its as simple as that. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Princessogaraya(f): 3:18pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
17yrs my parents don't want to know your age ooo,once your offense don reach their neck you go collect am |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Rat66: 3:31pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by SonofLincoln: 3:32pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista:Whooping a child can have a negative effect. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:36pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
SonofLincoln:No negative effect! Forget that talk my brother |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by meobizy(f): 3:41pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
while majority (on twitter and nairaland) were in support of the father disciplining his daughterNairaland is now a place people take seriously? Lol. Take here as truth to your detriment. A lot of the members see this place as only a playground. I can’t speak on Twitter since I don’t care for the platform. Flogging of any sort is meant to stop at age thirteen. By then if you did a good job parenting (which many Nigerian parents fail at but choose to blame everyone else for), the child will imbibe your teachings first before anyone else’s influence. Teachers are another case because those frustrated idiots will flog your child at any age so far he/she is still in secondary school. Someone can turn twenty-two in senior year and still receive strokes of the cane from sadistic teachers. All the floggings Nigerians received as children is why they don’t respect any authority which does not dish out violence. Our people reminisce on the days of dictators when physical beatings were the order of the day. We’ve unknowingly grown into sadistic savages from learning to continuously endure pain. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Stephenomozzy(m): 3:55pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ndiuelish: That's nice.. They're our personal angels o. My best regards to yours. |
Re: At What Age Did Your Parents Stop Flogging You? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Goloinu: Lol...pls, y don't u check and see wat causes d beatings so dat u can correct it since u wil soon get married...? |
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