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Foreign Affairs / Re: Meghan Markle’s Black Mum Fights Tears As Daughter Recites Wedding Vows (pics) by PurestBoy(m): 9:28am On May 20
Olifiz:
She was actually sitting alone. No relation or children etc or mayb cos she’s black they only acknowledged her cos she’s brides mum

Report said she was the only bride's family invited, I still do not understand that, I'm still baffled
Science/Technology / Re: The World’s Oldest Tortoise Is Still Having Sex Daily Aged 186 by PurestBoy(m): 4:10am On May 13
tdayof:
There's a tortoise that has been living at the shoun of Ogbomoso palace for over 300 years.

That's Alagba

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Technology Market / Re: 10 Karat Original Gold Chain For Sale(selling For Someone)SOLD SOLD by PurestBoy(m): 12:34pm On May 11
raobiisstores:
How about 15k.
Wicked
Education / Re: A Department With One Student In FUTO by PurestBoy(m): 6:59am On May 11
InansBobo:
A senior friend of mine wrote Further Mathematics during his SSCE and got A1.
Further Maths is taught only in SS1 in the school, he studied his way and got A1

I went to a local school in Mokola Ibadan where he hardly had basic subject teachers let alone further Maths, due to my love for Physics and Maths then, I picked a book on further Maths, studied it myself and wrote the exam with very few other guys only in the centre and got C5. That was year 2000
Sports / Re: Saudi Cleric Calls On FIFA To Ban Sign Of Cross, Twitter Fires Back Immediately by PurestBoy(m): 6:57pm On May 01
Lalasticlala how far bro?
Sports / Saudi Cleric Calls On FIFA To Ban Sign Of Cross, Twitter Fires Back Immediately by PurestBoy(m): 6:41pm On May 01
Saudi Cleric Muhamad Alarefe, A hardline Saudi cleric has called on football’s governing body, FIFA, to prohibit players from making the sign of the cross in celebration on the field. As expected, not only have his calls fallen on deaf ears, but he has also been lambasted online.
Mohammed Alarefe boasts 17.5 million Twitter followers, which, though impressive, is unlikely to hold any sway with FIFA’s elite.
“I’ve seen video clips of athletes, soccer players running, shooting and when they win they make the symbol of the cross on their chests and my question is do FIFA’s rules not forbid this,” he tweeted.
Players and fans alike quickly pointed out the inherent hypocrisy in Alarefe’s statement.
“Even Muslim players celebrate their own way, FIFA brings us together,” wrote one user.
Another person also emphasized that sport is the great unifier and said Alarefe shouldn’t be a spoil-sport. “Muslims also bow down to celebrate victory... where is the problem?”
One user took things a step further, highlighting the extremist undercurrent to the cleric’s remarks.
“ISIS also forbid making the sign of the cross, when Baghdadi becomes FIFA president, I might consider it,” he tweeted.
Religious symbolism has been a hot topic for football in 2017, which has seen Champions League regulars Real Madrid agreeing to remove the cross from their official merchandise sold in six Middle Eastern nations.

https://www.rt.com/viral/388317-saudi-cleric-fifa-muslims/amp/?__twitter_impression=true
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 8:57pm On Apr 15
eyinjuege:


He needs to be kept busy at home, positively busy. Get a lesson teacher for him, (i know he's still young, but he really needs to channel all that energy into something positive), help him pick up skills like swimming, tennis.
It will cost you money and time sha, but it will still benefit your child at the end of the day.
If you have parks around you, take him to the park once or twice a week to run around. Maybe he will develop a love for sports.

Actually I wish to get him a private lesson but paying his tuition is a huge task and doesn't even pay as at when due, we hardly spend together sef cos man has to go out go hustle. Most times when I drop him at school, he would have slept by the time I return and the cycle goes like that.
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 7:47pm On Apr 15
onatisi:

this must be a joke .
so you are not happy that your boy doesnt cause you unnecessary medical bills shocked shocked

I'm grateful to God for that I must confess, he has only fallen sick twice since his birth
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 7:08pm On Apr 15
redsun:
Did you say beat him? You don't beat a child for being active,it makes his situation, you have to grow some senses and learn how to manage him without being a typical nigerian-inherently violent. Break the circle and bring up your child interactively and sensibly without having to lash out every time he acts like a child,a child that he is,innocent.

You should probably think twice about all those indomie and sugary drinks you ply him with,if you do.

To be honest with you, beating him has not made soft because no matter how much you do, he doesn't cry for more than 5 seconds and most time he'll quickly hug you and say 'I love you " before you beat him, I'll just be weakened and free him

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Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 6:52pm On Apr 15
pimper24:
this is nearly my son's attributes. The difference is that he's just 3. Im now more scared cos I think he would outgrow these at 4. My first, he graduated from friso Gold to Golden morn and likes it like he must take it after any meal. I was advised on this forum not to worry for he's still a child. I'm now wondering if I should stop the Golden morn thing. He has really improved I must confess (I won't deny God of his Glory) after I made it a point of prayers.

He takes Golden Morn every morning before his main meal from when he was 1yr old
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 6:50pm On Apr 15
mytym:


Honestly I tell you.
He's hyperactivity is just an expression of what the brain feeds the muscle. Other factors may be responsible too like sugar content in meals and all...but after i read the part that said the boy is a lefty, I saw a different thing- avalanche of intelligence looking for expression.

Let him learn Pianoforte or The Pipe Organ from a good disciplinarian/Organist. You'll be proud of him by the time he's 7.

Oversabi is worrying him, he believes he knows too much and corrects elderly people when they make blunders, I feel embarrassed sometimes when he corrects my friends
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 6:47pm On Apr 15
eyinjuege:
What are his teachers saying about him in school? If his teachers say he's disruptive and cant concentrate, you may need to take him to be assessed by a behavioutal therapist. If the teachers say he's engaging in school, when given tasks, he might just need to be engaged in something more productive at home.
Register him for a swimming lessons, piano lessons, get a teacher for him to come once a week to teach him.
Make sure he's engaged every day of the week doing something positive.

Their teachers never complain, he's obedient and active in school, no negative complaints from the school so far
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 6:43pm On Apr 15
Obas101:
You no Sabi beat ur son. Imagine your wife is even doing it better than smh. Be the man, get a small cane and beat him till he cries, then punish for some minutes let him feel remorse. He may hate you, when you eventually free him. Later that evening talk to him nd make him realize what he is doing is bad then let him reflect on it. Also, it's possible your son is this way because of the freedom you give him to relate with other stubborn kids in the neighborhood

He doesn't even step out to compound to play because you can't leave him alone unmonitored. Even when kids come around to visit us and you allow them to play outside, he'll start running around picking objects he sees and fights them
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 8:14am On Apr 14
Lucid1:
Na wah

My neighbours son is like that, I dey fear the boy pass SARS, I have to sneak in and out of their house to avoid him. He'll jump on my head, climb on the dining table, beat his elder sister up and many more.

The hyperactivity will wear off as he grows older, be strong and endure.

Peace cool

Sure I believe cos it was worse than this when he was younger.
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 8:12am On Apr 14
momodub:
nice suggestions . But all the beating uncalled for na

Bro, what's the essence of beating a child who would have calmed and ride on while you the beater is still resting from the beating exhaustion? I'm tired of beating
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 8:09am On Apr 14
ststyreal:
Your child might be displaying one of the autistic spectrum which is being hyperactive. I am talking from experience and if care is not taken the younger one will toll his path. Get a therapist to access him as soon as possible. God bless our children.

Lol, he even beat the 11 month guys, Kevin is left handed and his brother is already using his left hand
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 8:06am On Apr 14
Ranchhoddas:
Probably attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

I'm just hearing this for the first time, I'm going to discuss it with some doctor friends
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 8:04am On Apr 14
dominique:
I'm not seeing any issue here, most children that age are naturally defiant. It's just a phase and he will grow out of it. You can consult a child therapist and have him checked for ADHD (Attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder), where are you based please?
May God be with your family

My wife gave birth to him at Molly Hospital Idiape with best medicare, I'm going to see some doctors there on Monday
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 7:59am On Apr 14
cynthia1111:
Is good you are in Ibadan, take him to special education department in U.I for diagnosis. For the main time engage him in activities that will make him get tired and sleep. Think of something he can use his energy to do.you can tell him to repeat the activity until he is tired. All the best

I appreciate your comment ma but can I bring him to you to spend a day with you, I just need to meet a nairalander who can corroborate my story. This boy doesn't rest and hardly get sick
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 11:05pm On Apr 13
dominique:
I'm not seeing any issue here, most children that age are naturally defiant. It's just a phase and he will grow out of it. You can consult a child therapist and have him checked for ADHD (Attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder), where are you based please?
May God be with your family

Dominique, I've know you for years on this platform even though I hardly comment again, I'm happy for your contribution. I'm based in Ibadan

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Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 11:03pm On Apr 13
ststyreal:
Your child might be displaying one of the autistic spectrum which is being hyperactive. I am talking from experience and if care is not taken the younger one will toll his path. Get a therapist to access him as soon as possible. God bless our children.

Thanks I'll do that, he's left handed and his younger brother has started using his his left hand too and get aggressive whenever you tamper with his toy or whatever he wants to grab

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Family / Re: Parents With 2 or More Boys How Do You Cope? by PurestBoy(m): 9:32pm On Apr 13
Firgemachar:


You are a weak man.
Your son has already started exploiting you at such a tender age.
Too bad!
I don't like seeing him cry, most times I stop his Mom from flogging him cos he runs to me, he behaves quietly when I'm not home but the moment I'm home, he goes haywire
Family / Re: Parents With 2 or More Boys How Do You Cope? by PurestBoy(m): 9:24pm On Apr 13
Firgemachar:


The mere sight of a cane, pankere, does wonders.

Do you have one at home?

Yes I do sometimes he plays with it, he'll quickly hug you whenever you want to beat him and say (in his word) "don't you know that Daddy doesn't beat use to beat son" and takes the cane away from you
Family / Re: I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 9:20pm On Apr 13
Lalasticlala, pls help me push this to front-page, I'm an old boy and and active since 2007. Do this for me bro

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Family / I Need Help For My 4-Year-Old Son by PurestBoy(m): 9:18pm On Apr 13
I have 2 boys, Kevin and Alvin, 4 and 1yr old respectively, both were on 6-month exclusive breastfeeding, Had Cow&Gate2 baby formula, Kevin is just too active, he doesn't doesn't even walk at home, he runs even when I take him out (cos he doesn't even play in the compound), he can't stay in a place for 2 minutes except he's watching his favorite cartoon channel GoTv 60, no matter how you beat him he doesn't cry for more than few seconds, he learns too much that he even corrects me his father but the problem is he's too active (I don't want to use the word stubborn). His 11+ mths younger brother is already following his footsteps, their mother shouts and beats Kevin every minute for jumping around in the house like monkey. He even engages in fight with me whenever I want to watch my favorite channels except I beat him thoroughly, he wouldn't allow anyone touch anything that is his. Their mother is fed up and losing weight and she's afraid his Alvin is already acting likewise. I don't know what to do because you can't leave Kevin alone in the house without closed monitoring for a minute else something bad and injurious might happen. All my life, I've never see a kid like my boy, I need advise on what to do, it was worse when he was younger. I don't like beating him like his Mom does but won't have peace at home due to excessive shouting and scolding except he's asleep. Anyone with ideas on how to curtail this?

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Family / Re: Parents With 2 or More Boys How Do You Cope? by PurestBoy(m): 9:06pm On Apr 13
I need help also, I have 2 boys, Kevin and Alvin, 4 and 1yr old respectively, both were on 6-month exclusive breastfeeding, Had Cow&Gate2 baby formula, Kevin is just too active, he doesn't doesn't even walk at home, he runs, he can't stay in a place for 2 minutes except he's watching his favorite cartoon channel GoTv 60, no matter how you beat him he doesn't cry for more than few seconds, he learns too much that he even correct me his father but the problem is he's too active (I don't want to use the word stubborn). His eleven month younger brother is already following in his footsteps, their mother shouts and beat Kevin every minutes for jumping around in the house. He even engage in fight with me whenever I want to watch my favorite channels except I beat him thoroughly, he wouldn't allow anyone touch anything that is his. Their mother is fed up and losing weight and she's afraid his 11-month old Alvin is already acting likewise. I don't know what to do because you can't leave Kevin alone in the house without closed monitoring else something bad and injurious might happen. All my life, I've never see a kid like my boy, I need advise on what to do, it was worse when he was younger. I don't like beating him like his Mom does and won't have peace at home due to excessive shouting and scolding except he's asleep. Anyone with ideas on how to curtail this?
Politics / Re: We Pay N1.5billion To Poorest Nigerians Monthly - VP Osinbajo Says by PurestBoy(m): 9:13am On Apr 13
buhariguy:
Idiotic pigs of Biafra don't even know anything because of hatred.

Able VP save your strength, this idiotic pigs of Biafra will not listen to your beautiful sermon


What has happened to this beautiful platform I joined in 2007? Where are those brilliant minds I used to read and learn from their comments then? Seun, Mukina2 and other mods, if you keep accommodating lost kids like this that talk off point, nairaland will lose its glory

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Phones / Re: GOODBYE: Lenovo And Motorola Say To African Markets by PurestBoy(m): 10:15am On Mar 27
I'm currently using Moto G4 Plus, very strong phone and been using it for over a year now, was sent from Brazil and haven't seen it in Nigerian market.

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Travel / Re: ₦116Billion, World's Tallest Statue Set To Complete In India By October(Photos) by PurestBoy(m): 2:29pm On Mar 26
That's a statue of their own Indian man unlike ROCHASIS who kept erecting statues of other nationalities
Celebrities / Re: Dushon Monique Brown Dies At 49 by PurestBoy(m): 7:36pm On Mar 24
Csami:


Stop misleading people. She was the nurse close to Micheal Scofield's doctor girlfriend Sara.

Oh my bad, I thought the nurse was fat besides it's been very long I saw the movie
Sports / Re: SHAME Jordon Ibe Offered The Chance To Play For Nigeria At World Cup by PurestBoy(m): 5:10pm On Mar 24
Jidibia:

How is ibe a Yoruba name?

Not Ibe, his Yoruba name is Oluwafemi
Celebrities / Re: Dushon Monique Brown Dies At 49 by PurestBoy(m): 4:46pm On Mar 24
kingchris30:
may her soul rest in peace but I don't remember the part she played anyway.

She was the olosho girlfriend of Michael who later betrayed him by calling the police for the reward bounty on their heads

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