I’ve worked so hard as a man and currently in my late twenties (29) and the least I deserve is a woman that is well to do to an extent. I don’t want to carry anyone’s burden or anyone’s family problems on my head. I know this is certainly gonna annoy a lot of y’all but I don’t care.

Nigerian men should begin to do better by looking for a woman with class rather than women who are classless and see a relationship as a job opportunity. There’s nothing wrong with assisting your woman but only when she brings something more than sex to the table.

I avoid broke girls like a plague. They have absolutely nothing to offer you besides some worn out pussy.

Do you guys now see the reason why I always tell you guys to avoid broke ass women? They’ll run you into debt cos they have absolutely nothing to offer you or your life but some of y’all are just plain stupid & will never learn. Why should a man struggling to build his life be made to part with money he barely has? God will never allow me meet such a useless girl from such a hungry & greedy family.

Those who arrested and sentenced Isaac Adaka Boro to death for declaring Niger Delta Republic were neither Hausa-Fulanis nor Yorubas but two supposed brothers of who were supposedly his Biafrans brothers named, Gen Aguiyi Ironsi & Col Odumegwu Ojukwu. Great Uncle Adaka Boro saw the goings, he saw d future & declared Rep Of Niger Delta, Ojukwu on d order of Ironsi unleashed terror on Boro's troops, he wiped out 150 Boro's soldiers & got Boro arrested, he stripped him half naked as seen in d picture above, then Ironsi govt sentenced him to death by hanging but while d hero was awaiting his death, d counter coup by some northern military officers took place &Adaka Boro, "The Man who saw Tomorrow" was freed.

Adaka Boro was not a Yoruba nor Hausa/Fulani but from the south south which the Igbos carved in their map as part of Biafra. He would have been executed if not for the Northerners, the Gambaris as they are called. So who betrayed who? Boro wants secession, u killed his men & sentenced him to death because you were in power & dont wants others freed, now you are shamefuly calling for secession because the Fulani or Hausa is in power, then you will be here telling us that you are angels and saint. "What is good for d goose is good for the gander"

Who betrayed who? Who is wicked? During d reign of d Prime Minister Tafawa Balewa, the Chief of Defence Staff was from the East, so were the Chief of Army Staff, Navy, IGP, Internal and External Affairs Ministers and many other cabinet ministers. Yet an officer from Igbo A Major Kaduna Nzeogwu who was brought up by the same premier as a son, he loved and cared for him, sent him to NDA and he was called Uncle by Sardauna 's children while Sardauna called him son. D same Nzeogwu planned d 1st could in Nigeria &killed d man who made him He cold blooded lunch myseres him, killed a pregnant mother, a woman who called him son. A visit to their residence 3years ago still showed a preserved stain of blood on d wall for history. Brigadier Shidehinde a Yoruba Commander at 1Div was earlier wasted before the Premier 90% Of Army officers wasted were from the North and South West. If not Gens Yakubu Danjuma, Gowon &co, there would have been a total annihilation of all Northern and south west/South south officers in d Nigerian Army by Ironsi and Ojukwu then we would have all b slaves for life.

So who betrayed who, who's against secession? Late Obafemi Awolowo &Sardauna prior to the independence were moving for secession clause in d constitution then, but Late Nnamdi Azikwe &some Igbo brethren berated them, on another pressure by d duo for the clause, Zik set them up Awolowo was jailed, the North and South West/south south were termed enemies of the colonialists by the then mole Dr Nnamdi Azikwe. If not for his treachery d secession clause would have been in our constitution &that could have made it easy for even d Biafra to go.

Adaka Boro who saw tomorrow could have lead d way 2ru Rep of Niger Delta& possibly Biafra could have been a reality but Biafra in charge of govt Wasted Uncle Boro's men, mostly Niger Deltans &Yorubas, then naked Boro &sentenced him to death. Now u are talking about secession Through what laws, the one you betrayed Awolowo and Sardauna for or the one you wanted to hang D hero Adaka Boro for after wasting his men? Who is the traitor, who is the green snake under the green grass, who is the betrayal if not d Igbos?

Before I forget, the constitution, d type of govt been ran as at when Nzeogwu struck gave autonomies to the region until Gen A Ironsi organised constitutional amendment with his brother Prof Ben Nwabueze now our elders stateman, whose Comitee altered d constitution And took the power to the centre, so that the wealth &the power, authorities of this nation would be in d hands of the Ironsi and by extension the Igbos, that was how power got to the centre. Now you are among for restructuring. Have you asked "Who de-strucutred it before? " So when next u will called other tribes traitors,slaves or whatever remember what evils some of yur elders dead& alive has done &stopped creating more enemies for yourself. No region or tribe can do it alone, "All needs All" "U can't alone vote for yourself &win u need others"

Marine54:
Speak for yourself!

abeg shut up. I speak for all of us.

Whatever that means?

Those who arrested and sentenced Isaac Adaka Boro to death for declaring Niger Delta Republic were neither Hausa nor Yorubas but two supposed brothers of his and Biafrans named Odumegwu Ojukwu and Aguiyi Ironsi who were still on the side of Gambaris and still trying to please them as at then. For declaring Niger-Delta Republic Ironsi, the then military head of state, ordered Ojukwu to get Isaac Boro arrested for treason.

Ojukwu, in an attempt to please Gambaris, fought Isaac Boro for 14 days within which he used federal might of “one-Nigeria” to kill 150 soldiers loyal to Isaac Boro, caught Isaac Boro, stripped him naked and sent him over to Lagos where Ironsi charged him to court and within just 2 months got him convicted, at the Supreme Court, of treasonable felony of trying to break away from Azikiwe’s one Nigeria, got him sentenced to death by hanging. While Ironsi​ and Ojukwu did all that to Isaac Boro​, they left untouched their own Igbo brother soldiers who planned a coup with which they killed Innocent Hausas, Yorubas, Niger Deltans, Middle belters leaving Igbo politicians unharmed despite they, like Zik and Okpara, were part and parcel of the corrupt Balewa government.

However, before Ojukwu and Ironsi could execute their sentence on Isaac Boro God intervened and the counter coup happened. Ironsi was overthrown and killed. Gowon took over declared Isaac Boro innocent and released him. But just fifteen months later Ojukwu too declared Biafra Republic due to the way Igbos were being killed in the North. In declaring Biafra, rather than first apologise to Isaac Boro for what he earlier did to him and then ask for his cooperation in fighting to realize the Biafra dream, Ojukwu did nothing like that but without consulting Boro at all went as far as arrogantly including in his Biafra map the very Niger Delta areas which Isaac Boro earlier tried to pull out of Nigeria and which he (Ojukwu) nearly killed him for

This angered Isaac Boro and Ken Saro Wiwa who both pledged support for Gowon in order to teach Ojukwu a bitter lesson for his arrogance and dishonesty. That was why Isaac Boro and Saro Wiwa fought on the side of Gowon during the war. Naturally Isaac Boro couldn’t have come out of prison to join the Ojukwu who jailed him and fight against the Gowon who released him. It would have been absurd. No rational human being does that.

This is the truth of what happened and which Igbos hate to hear but prefer to blame everyone else as if they themselves were 100℅ innocent.

Igbos must learn to say the truth because if the Biafra/Niger Delta Republic they now seek is founded on lies and deliberate falsehood, like Nigeria, it will not stand but will soon become a failed state like Nigeria. We can’t leave Nigeria for another Nigeria.

But we however know that Igbos allergy to truth is incurable, therefore Niger-Delta states will never be part of Biafra.

P.S. Some y’all think I hate Igbos but I don’t. I can never hate my fellow man. We can be brothers in arms but it’s not a must we must live together in the same country.

I know a lot of ladies here are gonna be angry with this post but try learn from it.

Men!!!!!!!!
Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?I know some still don't understand what I mean by Broke Girls.

I mean:
A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.

A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.
Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime even when you know you just sent her airtime.
I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of? Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?
Am not saying this because am working but it's what I see in most ladies.
No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men. See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.
Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.

Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.
Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.

There are actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.
So don't ever think of settling for less brother.
One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...

Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way worse than not having money.
I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post, they won't like or comment in it .
But
Ladies please don't blame me... I just want to make sense common. 2020 Common sense

NOTE! Let your emotions be built on qualities and not physique..

SARS are one of the reasons I’ve not visited Nigeria in a such time. I fear for my safety.

Sometimes dating a girl who's not well to do isn't bad if she's industrious and has something doing. There are cases where women who are not rich brought progress and helped their men grow. These type of women are an exception and they make up 10% of the population.

Broke and entitled females are worse than the 12 plagues of Egypt and have absolutely nothing to offer to you or your well-being cos they're nothing but parasites, rats, vermins and abslute nonentities. Date or marry a woman that can add to your financial, mental, spiritual and psychological growth as a man.

P.S when i talk about men I'm taking about Real Men and not Weak Ass Men.

I work 10 hours Mondays to Fridays and i know the level of sweat and blood i put in to earn a living. As a man you have absolutely no business being with any woman who doesn't understand your struggles or any woman who isn't trying to get money the same way you're trying to get money.

I met this lady on Facebook September last year. She sent me a request and i accepted her request. She thanked me for accepting her request (an act quite common on the book). Sometimes she chats with me once in awhile and i always replied her well. So i noticed towards the end of 2018, our chats became more frequent. I didn't really mind cos i felt its just one of those social media buddy thingy. At this point she was already asking me where i reside and what i do for a living which i told her. When i asked her what she did for a living she said she was a student.

We were still commincating as friends then she popped the question and asked if i had a girlfriend and i told her No. She said she didn't believe me and the truth is i don't have a relationship anywhere. Haven't been in a relationship since Nov 2014 due to personal reasons. I noticed she became asking me if I'd like to date her and stuff and normally i thought it was one of those Facebook relationships that end on Facebook so i never took it serious anyway. Fast forward to today when sent me a mesage on my messenger telling me that she had accomodation issues and that she wanted to move from her current place to secure another accommodation.

So i asked her how much she needed to secure a new apartment stylishly and this girl told me she needed 750k. That was exactly when i knew this girl must be a comedienne. I asked what needed 750k for and she said she needed to get an apartment, buy a new phone and use some for her upkeep. It was at this point i told her point blank that if she needs money she should go get a job and as usual she called me Stingy.

What's really wrong with most of these females?

mightyhazell:
how u take know say na son?

Bros he was a boy. I feel very sad. I decided to stay off sex till now.

You're crazy. Were you forced? The decision to do an abortion was solely decided by you. The man in question is a wicked human being. I still regret the abortion one of my exes did for me while we were still dating. My son would have been 4/5 this 2019 if I hadn't pressured her into getting an abortion. No one has to go through such but killing an innocent child is wrong. Till this day whenever I think of my son I feel very sad. I decided to stay off sex and relationships even till now until I'm married.

Abortions:
Whish Stupid Cut off mark All this Broke Arss boys feeling funky sef... Mtcheeeeeeew

how much do you have to call someone broke? You're very stupid.

Even in a presidential system of government, the Executive, Legislative and the Judiciary can be on the same page. What anyone should be advocating for should the Independence of these tiers. Federal Government tends to intervene too much in the activities of these three tiers and in the process prohibits them from operating at their own pace.

wintersnow:




Calm the Fuc down! Are you Tryna say all Australian chicks are perfect angels? whores exist everywhere.. In Nigeria girls venture into prostitution as a means of survival.. Which is quite reasonable.. Whereas in other developed part of the world most girls do it for fun.
Nigerian ladies have class too..

I wasn't gonna reply your ass but I will this time. What stupid means of survival? Most Nigerian girls can sleep with a man over anything. Are they the only people struck by the harsh economic conditions prevalent in nigeria? Aren't others still surviving without selling their bodies? Don't come here with the survival thingy. Everyone is entitled to his or her choices. At least the average Australian lady doesn't see a relationship as a job opportunity but their average Nigerian counterparts are lazy, useless, hopeless, and unproductive and see a relationship as the only way out. So please don't come.hwre defending these tramps and lowlifes who have obviously refused to be useful to themselves but instead want to be parasites living off a host. What class are you talking about? Is it the class that involves shamelessly begging for money, recharge cards or phones or is it the class of being entitled when they have nothing to offer other than sex

funmisticqueen:

don't get your panties in a twist, aussies have wierd customs and culture, what may fly here,wont fly there. don't use that your mentality to color your view. You end up being just as myopic. whatever made an edo boy or his parents run far far far away to Australia must be very strong. if you cant make it in your country, then you are not a truly successful person.

Allow me to educate your uneducated ass. I went to Canada as an international student and not as an illegal migrant. I studied at the University of Manitoba and lived in Canada for more than 4yrs before I was offered a job in Australia. For your info, Aussie ladies got class and aren't professional beggars and underground prostitutes masquerading as girlfriends and expecting to be paid while in a relationship. Don't get it twisted. The word "Entitlement" is far different from the word "Relationship" cos Entitlement means Parasitic while the word Relationship is Symbiotic. Your kind are parasitic and have nothing to offer other than some mucus infested vagina. You've got no class and that's why you're broke. So please bitchh do yourself a Fucking favour and go get useful. I don't give me to online beggars. For the records, I'm a Health, Safety and Environment Supervisor/Coordinator/Advisorand and not some illegal migrants living undocumented in Australia. Migration is part of human existence so hump the Bleep off and go service your customers.

funmisticqueen:
I do not blame the woman, first impressions matter a lot. responsible adults do not leave the house looking unkempt and wearing bathroom slippers,you would be treated like you are a depressed beggar, riffraff, homeless person, mentally ill or area boy. he was treated like such

ladies know that rule and always dress to impress, the same way men will approach a more beautifully dressed chick, than someone who dresses like she cares less about her apprearance. Stop being hypocritical, the guy should dress how he wants to be addressed, why couldn't he wear a nice pam or sandal. You can look casual and still look good. come to me with bathroom slippers and hair dyed green or an abnormal color which mismatches your complexion, and I will treat you like a leper with manic disorder.

if you think you should look broke to test women as if you are a primary school teacher, I have news for you, you will be like the proverbial trash that attracts flies, not the flower that attracts bees and butterflies. the true test of a man's character is when he is rich,not when he is too broke to afford character.

cc
uyiekpenn
jayslicky
dairykidd

if you had a penny to your worthless name and hopeless existence then I wouldn't mind but since you're broke and everything about you is useless as the letter "P" in Pneumonia then you've got absolutely no right or moral standing to dish out advice of any form. The brain cells of the average Nigerian is myopic and completely microscopic. Guess what I met the Prime Minister of Australia at Maddington train station with just shorts and flip flops waiting to catch a train to Sydney. This was the most powerful man in Australia but you'll never know. But wretched paupers just like you are very quick to rant like a hyena on heat period over shitt that are irrelevant. The funniest thing about people like you is that you're the type to want to set standards that you're even too broke to maintain. Pls do us a favour and shut the Bleep up or better still face your ashawo business and stop mentioning my moniker here from now henceforth. I'm not your type. I'm way too cool for your kind. The goal is to make money and take care of our mothers cos they're the real MVPs not some not self entitled hoe like you and your kind. If you're too broke to afford pants then you've got no reason to be in a relationship. Silly shapeless amoeba.

I had a similar experience while I was in Nigeria last year. I live in Australia and because most times it's very hot in Australia especially if you're living around Perth and due to that we tend to wear less clothing. I tried connecting with an old friend when I arrived the country and we agreed to at Kada Plaza in Benin. I wore a regular blue Tee, black short and flip flops. So she decided to bring two of her friends along. You should seen the way her two friends looked at me like I was some plague when I tried to shake them. I couldn't help but laugh at their hopeless and worthless existence. People can be naturally stupid. At the end of the day I discovered both girls were dirt poor and squatting with each other.

funmisticqueen:
Are you a lady? so my opinion does not concern chicken change broke boys like u

shut your dirty mouth there. You don't even have 10k to your worthless existence and you're making noise. You call someone broke when you don't have a penny to your dumb name. Show your statement of account and let's see if you're not broke. slowpoke.

highqueen:
Nawa.
This is serious, must you disgrace yourself before you prove a point?



Mtchew, to be appraised by our nl misogynist?

let her go and work for her own money. I'm happy with the awareness that's currently taking place. Now men are waking up to damn reality that a relationship isn't a poverty alleviation program. If you want equality then you must fend for yourself.

funmisticqueen:
dear ladies, this is why you must employ pay before service on every man who has expressed romantic interest. Let him prove his commitment by investing in the relationship and not with empty promises, poortential or simple errands . At least even if he is of the chop and clean mouth ministries, you wont be on the losing side.

Secondly broke men get no cookie ever. it is better he thinks you are a virgin or you are high maintenance than to fvck you for free.

only a prostitute reason in this manner. I'm not surprised though. Majority of females in nigeria are prostitutes

Saffi:
Did I say there’s anything special about it? This is something I’ve had since birth I could give to shits about it. The fact is that some stupid idiots on this thread tried to categorise me as the typical Nigerian gold digging bitch, when clearly I live a decent that I can sustain for myself. Then the next claim was that I’m a fake London babe, so sometimes you have to go the extra mile to prove a point. Thank you for your time.

don't know about others but from the comments I read here it seems you were sorta supporting the gold digging attributes 90% of Nigerian females possess. You don't live in Nigeria. You weren't born here. I left Nigeria when I was 19 and I can categorically tell you how most of these females behave in nigeria. They see a relationship as some form of paid employment and that's not what relationships should be about.

Saffi:
Is there anything else that you idiots want to claim? You wretched souls want to force your nonsense on me. It will nottttttttt workkkkkkkkk

so what's special about having a British passport? I've got an Australian and New Zealand passport.

Saffi:
Oga it’s your mother that’s a hoe ohh. Let me just jejely give that information to you now lol.

just like your mama and all the women in your dam lineage.

Saffi:
Shaattaapp

oh shut up you Hoe.

rosalieene:


the first mistake you made is posting this crap on nairaland
most NL chap would and are insulting the poor girl

you don't need anyone to tell you that naturally women love to be showered with gifts and money.
its now left for you to decide if you would give her or not.
if she leaves you because you don't give, fine and good, you would find someone who don't share that idea

shut your dirty mouth over there. Shower you with what gifts? Thunder fire your life there for that comment. If you want money go and back and stop being a liability

Saffi:
Cook for yourself, sex yourself, and las las do not ask any woman for any damn thing. Why is it always broke guys that are miserable and bitter? The comfortable ones never complain because they are financially smart enough to budget and deduct what is needed to satisfy their woman. We can all be selfish and and stingy but the truth remains, offline you guys still make it rain. D

I've been observing your comments here and I can boldly say that you're a broke ass nitwit, vagabond and bitch. Wake up from your stupidity cos 2019 is already here and people have started waking up. Go and get a job and stop being lazy. I know you're hopeless but at least be useful to us around you.

PrimadonnaO:


They are really just deceiving him, when in actual fact they do otherwise in their own relationship.
The girl in the OP's story is quite annoying...her matter-of-factly entitlement.

The truth is that the things that happen in a relationship are all unwritten codes, but we operate by them. Y'all are deceiving yourselves if you feel you can be in a relationship and not spend money... It's nothing about a woman being lazy, far from it, because even working class ladies and business women have expectations of their man, too. It's one of the ways women feel cared for. We've from time immemorial come to see men as primary providers. While women, on the other hand, are primary caregivers. But it doesn't mean that a woman doesn't assist, too. As a matter of fact, a woman usually goes the extra mile for a man she loves and who in return makes her feel loved. Trust me on this one.

All of these guys whining, they are either broke or badly bruised... not anybody's business, neither does it change the fact.

What I do have an issue with is a woman who won't do anything for herself... and would in fact, be in a pathetic state without a man giving her money.

I work and I earn, and can sort out my basic needs and a bit of indulgences for myself, but no, I won't be with a man who's tight-fisted, a man who doesn't understand that he should be supportive and occasionally do random stuff for his woman whether or not such was requested.

I mean, that would stifle my natural inclinations of goodwill. I'd feel stupid if I cooked such a man a sumptuous dish as a treat with my money...I'd feel silly if I saw that nice shirt and got it for him because I felt it would look great on him. I'd feel overzealous if I arranged a surprise for his birthday. Nahh...can't be with a man like that.

What I won't do however, is tell a man I expect a portion of his salary. Lol. It's actually laughable... Neither would I ourightly be slamming him with bills. I'm a lil too proud to do that.

For y'all vile men all over Nairaland, slamming ladies and selling out wack ideologies, I hope you find a solution to your problems pretty soon.

see who's calling others broke? Are you not broke as well? See this hungry fellow. Prove you're not broke lets display our statement of accounts. That way we would know who's the broke person. I'm waiting.

sexybaby22:


The men don't realise that its not called spending when you are with someone you are committed to, its called 'investing' in her.

God punish you there. Investment kill you. Don't go and look for a job.

Princedapace:


U are right, most naija men caused this.. Most naija men have low self esteem. They feel moneh is the easiest way to get and keep a woman..

U will still hear them say go and make money and get any woman of ur choice.. Now the thing is getting out of hand.. Ladies can't afford their basic needs and they wnt u to afford it for them..

as in eh it boils me down to my bone marrows when I see the rubbish these so called men do in the name of being in a relationship. How can I be dating a girl and she's still expecting me to pay for being in a relationship with me? That's absolutely preposterous. I'm an Australian based Health, Safety and Environment Supervisor /Coordinator/Advisor and I know the hours and efforts I put in everyday just to earn a living to start sharing my hard earned sweat with one vagabond who has refused to be productive and useful to herself but wants to use sex as a leverage to expect payment while in a relationship. Who does that?

bokmal:


Guy. You must have a very big car to “walk” someone out of it

it doesn't matter the type of car that I have. What matters is that I was able to put an entitled broke ass female where she rightly belongs