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phorget:
His Yoruba brothers won't have nothing to say now, the likes of Adeboye are all silent and even that grey hair cultist man that was ban from entering America. Reno O'mockrey is hiding inside his shell waiting for Obi to cough so that the cough can be analyzed and scrutinized.

franchasofficia:
If you are born into a poor family background, as in, your parents are not rich, please don't marry just because of love.

Love is a fallacy that led so many men into marrying ladies that ended up hampering their lives and keeping them poor or dragging them backward on daily basis.



If your parents are not rich as a guy, marry with purpose and future in mind.


Go for financial, career, business focused lady.


Marry a lady with the potential of helping you become better financially not one that will drain you and take you back to square one.


In summary, if your parents are not rich, when you want to marry as a young man, consider:


1.) The girls family background

2.) The girls career or job

3.) Her source of income

4.) Her academic background

5.) If she have a western country passport to help you Japa if push comes to shove

6.) Is she financially wise and smart


7.) Is she a money maker or a layback, lazy, unambitious girl that just want to eat, sleep, have sex, get pregnant and give birth and be monitoring you her husband to know how many girls you are chasing outside. If she is one run for your life

8.) Until you have secured a good job, career or established a thriving business, don't ever keep a girl in your house. Don't have a live in girlfriend. Let her come and go. She must not spend more than 2 days in your house until you re ready to settle down.


9.) Make use of condom a habit as a single guy until you marry to avoid marrying the wrong girl out of pressure of "I am pregnant"

makerandcoder:
I'm looking for resources or platforms that offer affordable robotics and coding kits for students and schools in Nigeria. With the growing importance of STEM and hands-on learning, I believe introducing kids to tools like Arduino, sensors, and programming basics can make a huge difference.

Has anyone used platforms like Maker and Coder or something similar? Are there local distributors, online stores, or educational initiatives in Nigeria supporting this kind of learning?

Any recommendations for beginner-friendly kits or school programs would be greatly appreciated!

Gerrard59:
On the basis of biology, he's largely correct. However, religious doctrines, cultural norms and economics deter some men from exercising their biological rights. Personal discipline also comes to play.

To truly know if a man wouldn't have sexual intercourse with a woman other than his main woman, let him have money.

Lastly, Muslim men are entitled to four wives. Do we exclude them from other men or are they "not "
men enough"?

Hausa:
If you don't mind rephrasing your number 2, please.

Do you mean showing up means it can help you have vision or you'll lose your vision?

Gerrard59:
May the best party win. As some have said, too much information these days dey make people dey on guard. Nevertheless, men do marry. I see them on Facebook. Should the economy improve, our men will marry, and obviously, they will marry our women.

I still maintain the stance that it is our women who will stay off marriage as their incomes improve.

Gerrard59:
The poverty rate across the continent is freakingly high. One of the causes is too many children and wives. Committing to a woman is expensive let alone women. Many men, just like many human beings, are average. Yes, testosterone has to be satisfied, but keeping side chics has a lower cost line than marriage. The only men who should have many wives should be well-to-do men because even with the many wives, these men still have side chics.

RodgersAkpafu:
NO SELF RESPECTING BLACK MAN will grant audience to a White Supremacist wasteman like Matt Walsh.

Where is the lie?

Sentiments aside, Asian are top, followed by Caucasians and the rest when assessing the average intellect of racial groups...even Hispanics are rated higher than blacks.

Even our economy and continents shows we are the bottom of the races on an average... reason why you ran away to a foreign land, built by White men.

I doubt if he advocates for the use of violence

From your moniker, i can guess you are from the southsouth part of Nigeria precisely your state of origin should be Delta State, where Ijaw and Iskekiri cant live in peace and harmony, and have a bitter unreconcilable differences since time immemorial.

Which do you think is more shameful?
People of the same ethnic close leaning bickering or black versus White...

Not even totally two different tribes, same ethnic/tribal relative

Gerrard59:
Thank you for the video.

One wonders if the Pew Organsiation is a red pill supporting firm.

It is women who are gladly staying out of marriage, whether in China, Korea or the West. In the rest of the world, where cultural freedom isn't widespread, they grudgingly marry but ensure they have fewer children.

Additionally, I like that Matt replayed a five-year-old video where the now 32-year-old lady labelled men as trash. It relates to a post I made in my diary.

One group of women cannot consistently label men as trash for a decade, then get surprised that the same men today are not "men" again or don't want to marry. It is funny a then 27 year old lady wants to marry a trash now that she is 32.

C for Cognitive Dissonance!

As for Nigeria, I have always stated it here: should we become as rich as Malaysia, many of women would not marry. A whole lot would stay off marriage, starting with Igbo women. 🤣🤣🤣

RodgersAkpafu:
Matt Walsh is a racist White Nationalist

I find it putrid and hilarious that any self respecting black man grants this potato audience

Gerrard59:
Well, so far, women are deciding not to even marry at all. So, women have avoided the single mother tag and at the same time aren't birthing the next generation.

As I do say, modern day women have won it in life. This generation is so goooood for una.

pansophist:
A girl once messaged me to remind that her birthday is in two months time, that I should prepare to give her something from her wishlist.

I said okay, then reminded her that my birthday is actually in three weeks time, and I would be expecting my birthday gift. She didnt respond.

My birthday arrive, but she didnt wished me a happy birthday and she didnt give me anything. In my mind, I already knew I am not giving her anything, and she sensed it.

When her birthday arrived, she didnt remind me to give her anything because my own just pass and she didnt give me anything.

Even if she give me a boxer, I would have given her something that worth more than her gift, but she rather forego anything I will give to her, just because she dont want to give me anything.

The kind of greed that is common with lots of our women is out of this world. They are greedy even when it is in their interest.

They do not want to play by the natural law of give and take, but they want it to only be take, take and take.

Gerrard59:
You mean the same women who shout with a response like "I no fit give man money o".

I don't believe it's a man's world, but rather a woman's world. It is why every man should strive to make his money and spend it MAJORLY and FIRST on himself before anyone else.

Mekuseh11:
That is life... it aint fair and perfect

Its left for people to learn and adapt.

Women relationship shelf life is perishable in fulfilling their reproductive proclivity that is hard wired in every human being, that is reality.

From 35y/o above they become susceptible of geratic pregnancy, so their best fertile years is in their 20s.

The woke virus mindset has told people espercially women to not see marriage as an achievement to live their life and chase career over being a loyal wife and mother.

But in the west women who are above 35y/o, unmarried and childless are the highest consumption of SSRIs/antidepressant medication, from tracking their purchase.

This trend is creeping gradually into our African society.

My stand is our boilogical hard wiring by God aligns with the standards traditional societies of every civilization since time immemorial has created.

Yes, its not a straight line, life wont be fair to everybody but these are the foundational standards rooted in our natural boilogical proclivities.

dederocs:
Jesus Christ who they worship didn't marry...some humans have low IQ and most are bitter from their unhappy miserable lives, ignore and avoid them.

Mekuseh11:
Are you due for marriage because you are 40 Or because you genuinely want a companion and life around you?
Sometimes we allow societal standards determine our course of action. Don't be pressured into anything.
Your priority now should be getting a stable source of income and then you can find a partner to build with ( there is someone out there for you).
Afterwards you can get married and still enjoy your life.

franchasng:
Despite having the exercise equipments, no zeal to use them and going to gym is not an easy routine

betabread:
Its a waste of money building walls or fence to secure a farm...... Security on large farms should be around low bulk high value goods such as diesel, fuels and machine parts..... It's better to use natural geographical features like streams or virgin forest to show demacation

DIVINEEVIDENCE:


the redpill happened

Deal with it babygyal

pansophist:
The final stage is invincibility lol

Firstly women enjoy waves of attention from their late teens to like 24. At that age, she is celebrity, every man wants her number, and will be spoilt by rich men who will increase her taste, which she will confuse as standards.

Then from 25 above, men will still be coming, but she notice that the intensity men are coming with have reduced, and at this point, most men wont put pressure if you decline the first time.

From 30's, she realise that men actually have standards for the women they take serious. All her life, men ignore their standard just to fork, but now she wants to marry, she realise for the first time that she is broker than the men she calls broke, and men will hold it against her.

From 35 upwards, she will begin to feel the invincibility men generally feel. Men at 35 years of age will go for girl even 10 years younger. Just like she went for men over 10 years older than her.

If she enter 40, then if it is not over, it is a miracle to bag a quality man. Then the real pain, loneliness, and sadness becomes a norm. Whats more painful is that she has gotten used to la vida loca since her teens, then now will be like grace to grass.

Better use your time wisely as a woman.

Men are not the problem, it is just nature and the laws of seasons. Most men suffers theirs from birth till even 40's, and women that are still single at that age will pass through it.

And the more beautiful and spoilt she is, the harder she falls.

DeeScan:
Try alcohol..

Be a quarter tipsy .. you won't give a shiit and be active as hell ..

emmanuelewumi:
Presco, you will still buy Presco for N2000 per share