i have a female friend who says she doesn't care if her husband cheats, as long as he respects her to keep it away from her.
i was amazed. Does it mean that a woman's problem with cheating is only when its rubbed in their faces.
So if your man keeps it on the downlow, you chics won't mind at all. Abi is it only her.

Why do you ask? Are you interested in keeping a string of girls after you get married?

your female friend is living in the land of denial

she seems very confident to me. she says she knows a man will always cheat, so shes resigned herself to it. when she was single she dated a few married men herself. she doesn't believe a man can ever be truly faithful. so as long as he keeps it away from her. she 'll pretend it doesn't exist.

Well there you have it. She's cheated with married men before so she's in no position to judge or make any noise. She knows what goes around comes around, she's just quietly expecting her lot, and so she should.

You are right on that @ Rhodalyn, well as far as I'm concerned, my partner could cheat like they want provided it doesnt get ridiculous , to the extent of me knowing, cos me too no chance say I wont do my thing by the side as well,

da is such a senseless marriage

gentleaura:

, my partner could cheat like they want provided it doesnt get ridiculous , to the extent of me knowing

thats my piont. some girls are resigned to the fact that men will always steal some on the side. So since they can't do anything about it. At least they just dn't want to know.

I don't think I'll ever cheat. I f my wife does I'll be really livid if I get to hear about it. I'll only sit her down and ask her why she did that when I still love her. From there, it depends on her response. . .

Just remember that some girls doesn't equal all girls. Why be in a 'relationship' if all you're going to do is be disrespectul and keep fxxking around? You make your partner look like a fool, and you make yourself look like an @$$.
The next guy who cheats on me will be needing to have his dxck surgically removed from his own @$$

What you don't know would not hurt you, but then again like Rhodalyn said she could be doing her own thang on d side.

maybe shez cheating too

@ Onyibaby
I think that's a misconception. What you don't know can hurt you. Think HIV/AIDS. That's real & I've met women who got it from their husbands. Also an STD like HPV has been linked to cervical cancer. Syphilis can kill you. The list goes on.

Do you really want to leave yourself open to this? I don't think most women would be accepting of this. I wouldn't for one. I mean, I don't gamble with money, so why gamble with my life

@ 2cantango
Your last post was right on the money. Why even be in a relationship? I really don't get it.

well that's it,

we should cheat behind my back but not infront me

if he cheat let it be behind my back

2cantango:

Well there you have it. She's cheated with married men before so she's in no position to judge or make any noise. She knows what goes around comes around, she's just quietly expecting her lot, and so she should.

exactly, you reap what u sow

All men do not cheat. Alot of men take thier marriages seriously and work hard at maintaining it. People will be tempted including women. Your friend was selling herself to the highest bidder before she got married. Her husband probably knows that so he probably has no respct for her. If she had no problem sleeping with married men, I can guarantee you that her husband is cheating thinking in his head that she too is more than likely cheating also.

@poster

i think ur female friend is just trying to avoid hypertension

@poster!

That is a very smart woman! I like her principles and by all indications, I think she will have a very successful marriage. You never have to worry about a stray dog. He will always obey his master's whistle. Dog na dog!


The fact that a dog smells has never deterred people from owning them as pets!

AJ, this is an old thread love. . . the poster is long gone.

efuah:

AJ, this is an old thread love. . . the poster is long gone.

I'm sure she has caught him by now

lol JK . . . how u doing?

efuah:

lol JK . . . how u doing?

I'm good jare & u?

doing gr8, thx.

jennykadry:

@poster

i think your female friend is just trying to avoid hypertension

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i dont know why a woman would ever feel that a man would never have an extra marital affair, men are made that way just like most other species, men will stray, as simple as night and day no matter the status.so i think its better to just go ahead and be a wife and if your man not bringing any drama home, sope tie

Quoted by: nightrider

I have a female friend who says she doesn't care if her husband cheats, as long as he respects her to keep it away from her.
i was amazed. Does it mean that a woman's problem with cheating is only when its rubbed in their faces.
So if your man keeps it on the downlow, you chics won't mind at all. Abi is it only her.

thats what I told my bf before. I told him that if he has ever cheated me, ensure that he clear his tracks and dont let me know. Its because I really love him and I could not bare to see the bad side of him. thats why, yeah. . . but this dude dey tell me everything and many times he made me really upset. . .

alexbragga:

i dont know why a woman would ever feel that a man would never have an extra marital affair, men are made that way just like most other species, men will stray, as simple as night and day no matter the status.so i think its better to just go ahead and be a wife and if your man not bringing any drama home, sope tie

good. I hope you guys maintain it that way so that we ladies would have space kept for us in heaven when we die. Happy meeting with satan and Hitler.

She is one of kind.

It has once been said,'All dogs dey chop shit, na the one wey use am rub mouth na im dem dey catch'.

So in the real sense 'All' men cheat (or so they say) but only those that get caught are labelled as cheaters.

I ain't a cheater though. . .

It has once been said,'All dogs dey chop shit, na the one wey use am rub mouth na im dem dey catch'.

So in the real sense 'All' men cheat (or so they say) but only those that get caught are labelled as cheaters.

I ain't a cheater though. . .

old post or not, i'd drop mine

@ poster this is what lot of nigerian women do
this is cos in Naija we make excuses for our men. "its a guy thing" "they are dogs" blah blah

@2cantango its not about whther she cheated in the past or not. in fact experience and life has shown that in most cases its the 'good' ones who this happens to. take an example from my aunt she married her husband a virgin never cheated on him alwasy efficient and all that, but now some 20 years on, he is an aristo father he doesn't 'put it in her face" but he's bin caught a couple of times. i wld spare you the other tales i have.

@ everyone who thinks all men cheat- not all men cheat, you just have to knw that.

anyways if he's cheating on you whether he's caught or not or you hear things from pple the truth is you wld know, word.
whether you wanna deny it while you know he's cheating which is what most pple do is up to you, but for me oh, karma is it