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ckhelvin: If u try that one for my country Nigeria ehn..na suffer wey no get rival u dey..u go too dey their so tey nah beggars go they come check mayb dem fit help yhu..so op it's not applicable to my country Nigeria..sorry

Sorry for yourself.

In most cities in Nigeria, banks are often sited along a stretch of popular streets/roads. And banks employ all courses. No exemption.

Have you ever woken up one morning as a job hunter and printed up to 30 copies of your CV and start dropping them off with all the banks and employers along the way ? This is done on foot.

I wonder how some of you will get these jobs you claim to hunt.

When one million people are pursuing only 100 vacancies, you have to be exceptional to make it to the 100...

That's how it is in Nigeria .

He got to the cross roads.

He took the decision. He took the bold step and it paid off.

Tough times require tough measures.

Summary of this thread is...

Women don't like spending money

Even on their wedding..

Nah for my own you go con spend am ?

bukatyne: Did she write to ladies or to people?

The only one specific to ladies is No 2 so what is your post about?

I am sure that when pastors are teaching husbands love your wives, some men are hearing wives love your husbands

I guess you never marry, let's start from known to the unkwown..

Okay should I love her with recharge cards ?

What can you say of a lady telling her man to spend more on her as she is yet to be impressed by him. Yet you hear her telling different guys, thank you, I saw the recharge card you just sent ?

Now suitors paying for love ?

Women, una no go kill us..

Julie9093: Vanity upon vanity.

I will buy you such a house only if...

IrishKez: Sir this cut both ways

As a guy, I have to date ladies and not my fellow guys. So I don't know how effing phu.cking up guys are doing in their relationships.

You have a guy who can singlehandedly take good care of you yet you still opt to maintain numerous men whose relationship with you, cannot be explained..

Many girls definition of a relationshop is a time bomb..

Jennydoris: 1. Never Deprive your spouse with attention, Love and
affection. These Three ingredients are necessary in every
relationship.

2. Never Leave Your Role As A Wife To Housemaids Or
Personal Staffs Even If Your Husband is a King Or a
Pastor.

3. Never Encourage Long Distance Relationship In Your
Marriage. Work Hard To Make It As Short As You Can If
You Have To. Never Neglect Your Spouse Thinking that
Money Can Keep Her Warm At Night And Play Fatherly
Role To Your Kids.

4. Celebrate Every Occasion With Your Family~ Christmas,
Sallah, Anniversaries, Birthdays etc. And Don't Forget To
Celebrate Your Spouse In Every Given Opportunity You
Have.

5. No Matter How Holy Ghost Filled And Tongue Talking
Christian You Are, Listen and Apologize When You Are
Wrong And Make Amends Before Your Marriage Breaks.
Make Changes On Time, When You See It Is Not Working.

6. Court Is Not A Solution To Family Problems, The
Solution Lies In The Spouse. If Only The Spouse Can
Reduce Their Pride And Ego And Accept Their Wrongs and
Make Amends On The Areas That Are Not Working, They
Will Live Happily Ever.

7. Never Forget To Recognise Your Wife As The Most
Important Being In Your Life After God, And Never Forget That Your Husband Is The Most Important Being In Your Life. That's Why
Michelle Obama Is Always Beside President Barrack Obama.

A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE REQUIRES- GOOD RELATIONSHIP, TOLERANCE, UNDERSTANDING, GOOD COMMUNICATION, ACCOMODATION AND ABOVE ALL THAT WHICH SURPASSES ALL THINGS-LOVE! SAVE YOURSELF THE SHAME AND SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE BECAUSE THE EARLIER THE BETTER.

I commend your write up.

I doubt if most ladies will understand what you just wrote.

Those type of ladies whose preoccupation is wearing the latest fashion and acquiring as many boyfriends as possible to ensure constant supply of recharge cards of MTN, GLO and Etisalat networks.

Converting a residential area to commercial purposes, worse off a zoo.

I will just add like 8 blocks ontop of the demarcating wall between his compound and mine.

Stu.pid boy

I thought you have changed...

Good one.

Enugu has money..

GOD is watching.

Playing politics with the liives of men.

Some men think that by virtue of being blessed by God financially or politically, they were also granted the right to take people's lives.

Stop daydreaming.

Get to work.

These things are tactical maneuvers …

The former crime capital...

CharlesPhc: So the suspect was not apprehended abi? or he was allowed to go home and inject another victim later? If a US Air Marshal can be freely accessed and attacked then hmmm...!!!

The earlier report said he had a group of travellers with him.

How will this attack be possible if he wasn't alone ?

gatiano: You are right, all you are saying in context is only a few should be allowed loans from the bank, and the rest to be subjected to a few. you may be right or perhaps right but i doubt it that banks can loan based on ideas. i think you are wrong, the world around you are developed starting with ideas, ideas manifest into materials or physical structures by help of finances. the bank should lend to common people, not to dangotes, and ovias and otedolas etc only, but to all that are capable.

I am not saying that banks cannot lend you N1m for your small business but you must be a customer with at least 6 months existing turnover and your business type and address verifiable.

You don't enter a bank managers office and start telling stories of your idea.

Okay..

OohMpa: [color=#808000]Rule no 1 of a player....

Once a bïtch comes visiting, you get rid of any evidence. Don't SECURE!!!, DELETE

#Sai[/color]

Rule for boys who still want to play...

gatiano: that is not a good news. yes, that situation will provide little space for employment, 10 to 100 people, slaving morning and day and night. and 1.4% of the profits goes to dubai, that builds their economy and also provides employment for their people more than it will for nigerians. why can't the banks give credit or loans to any nigerian with a good idea? why most they give peoples' savings to a few? that at the end of the day won't refund. to me, it is not a good move, Ogbeni Dangote, the God of Dangote group of companies, sir be very careful of the vultures and swines. there are a lot of nigerians with great and wonderful ideas trained and breed in nigeria. help them to help you. nigerians fight the banks, the churches collecting loads of tithes should give loans too without interests.

The banks help those who help themselves. They don't finance ideas. They finance business. They see N100m turnover on your account, then they give you N50m to increase that turnover..

1. Banks don't finance start ups(unless you are a dangote starting a refinery).

2. Banks consider big lending more secure than small lending(A bank will rather give N10bn to Dangote than 100 million to 100 small $ medium businesses).

3. You must have turnover for banks to recognize you.

4. Making money is an art, small profit, quick returns is the way to growing big.

5. Banks don't lend to insincere people, most Nigerians treat borrowed money as theirs and therefore won't pay back(My fingers have been bitten before).

From my own experience as a former lender and a current businessman, It is never wise to borrow as a starter in business but with time, one has to finance expansion through borrowing and you must have a track record of paying back before banks would listen to you.

Working hard day and night to get there.

Cement , transportation, Importation, Contracts, Agriculture.

Dangote is a good example of a complete businessman who knows that income flow from only one type of business isn't enough.

Cement which turned him a Forbes recognized billionaire was not his first or second venture in business.

rawpadgin: it beats my imagination how some dudes handles their girl
my girl wouldn't be bold enough to check my fone

Good guy.

E be like say I go adopt this style..

No nonsense..

It is not wise..

I won't feel anything but I will not do it..

I will never play the possessive card with any lady again.

Its a waste of time..

The more you care, the more you turn mugu..

Broda, hoes ain't loyal.

Just impregnate her.

If you are keeping a girl saying you will marry her and waiting till marriage day, o boy, another man close by is servicing her.

One lady shocked me recently that she has not gone to bed with her bf for good 5 months but she was serving my bed for no fee.

Girls are very wicked !

So your roommate is female and you are male ?

Your mum should not suspect anything at all ?

himkers: [size=13pt]if your girl does that to you, then 3 things are involved: (1) its either you cheated in the past (on her) or.... (2) she seriously suspects that you intend cheating on her, Or.... (3) She cheats on you. it takes a thief to catch a crook. [/size]

either ways, just play your cards well and she wont catch you in the act.

Even a lady that hasn't been to your house.

To me, its a bad habit if actually they do it to fish on the partner.

When a lady picks my phone like that, I just pick hers to play games..

My number one problem be say any babe i toast no dey believe say i no get girlfriend.

This phone checking ish, I was not seeing it as anything till I just discovered a lady I was quarreling with the other day started listing all my phone contacts asking me who they were to me ?

I answered by saying that i have never called any of those numbers in the past one month. She said that I do not need to call them, that they just walk into my house since they know where I reside. I laughed really hard.

I now remembered why she always visits me without any information. She dey find way to catch me red handed. She even deleted some of my contacts. Hmm. Yet always acting confident...

You wan catch pu.$$y cat ? E no easy !

WOMEN ARE MORE INSECURE THAN MEN !

DailyNews: @op, u are correct and the major reason is this; most beautiful ladies get carried away by their physical beauty and fail to develop their inner beauty- their character, such that it scare most guys ready to marry away, leaving them with fun-seekers looking for flings, dating and part-time affairs.

Some pretty ladies who have good character too do send the wrong signals to potential suitors.

Men are insecure, more insecure than u can think of, especially when they want to settle down- they want a reserved and not-so-bling lady.

Now, how do some pretty ladies scare potential suitors away while attracting numerous boyfriends and sugar-daddies

1. Via what they wear- leg chains, tattoo, nose ring, tongue ring, belly ring, etc.

2. Big wig like masquerade
3. Too revealing clothes, etc.

I am not trying to be religious here o, I am being frank o...and I know that some very enlightened guys and ladies will come after my head now, so let me be on my heels before they arrive

Stay put, you said the truth.

I am with my pistol to ward off any cockroaches..