Siena:

If a girl's quite polished, but her boyfriend, whom she professes to love has poor spoken / written English, then she should educate him. If she loves him that much, and he loves her.

rita@NL:

M spoken english and written is bad bt my husband took his time to tutored me.So if you love him,help him.

Sonofpeace:

Are we Nigerians or English?

Sonofpeace:

Are we Nigerians or English?

ademiller:

i once had a boyfriend who was a banker, he worked at oceanic bank. Now this guy was okay, cute, financially aiight, but he dint know ow to flow well in english. now i would have coped wit him and try to correct his flaws but the guy never wants to learn, for example here is a conversation we once had dat pissed me off : Mummy, (i resemble him mama for osun state?) i know im not your class, but i try to make u love me but u dont want to try to love me, alright, em, eh hen, tis dat im not good for your class? (  which class we day classroom) there is an adage that tell us that ti omo ba (switches to yoruba proverbs that i dont even understand ), Dis is the most annoying part, he keeps reminding me saying " im not ashamed of masef, becos i be village boy, i grow for village, i trek come lagos from my village, i use to farm and i use to see my dead GRANDPAPA's Brother,  haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, i stopped trying and i scooted, if na u NKO? 

freecocoa:

Poster is it as bad as this?he came to your house to check on you and you weren't around and he calls you later and says,i go to your house to check at you and they tell me you didn't around i mean you didn't dey,where have you go i mean where did you be?2,you went to see him and you said baby how was your day 2day,what did you do for fun?and he goes mummy my day is just dey there o,i didn't did anythings o,infact this prace is making me boring,lets went out.if its not this bad then you can cope,afterall na u gree to date am.Cheers.

freecocoa:

@kay,hey sorry påpì,it happens naw,you never jam people wey the kill english?i don see them tire.

Ikenna351:

Its so unfortunate and shameful the way and manner our ladies are becoming fake. God! I hate that with passion. Why on earth would you consider an African, who happens not to flow well in another tribe's language inferior? Wonders shall never happen. Anyway, the disease most of our ladies suffer from is MENTAL COLONISATION. What a disgrace to your root. Why not question God why you were brought into this world by a Yourba, Igbo, Hausa, Ijaw, Ghanian, etc. Most of you Ladies cant even make a straight simple sentence in their Tribal Language, yet you are not ashamed of your self for been a failure to your root, people that made you to exist.

Is English Language what will make your husband to be faithfull to you for the rest of your two lives together? Will English make him a loving husband, who adores you more than his own mother that gave him breath through God? None of you will understand all these until you get married, then you will know what it takes for two individual to live together and live happily ever after or live in regrets for the rest of their lives because of useless decisions they made in their lives just so to impress others. You live your live for others, just to impress them , you lose the most precious thing God has design for you to have, a loving partner, which we all desire.

I might not know how to speak english fluently today, but tomorrow, I could be the President of the country, representing the whole country in the International Arena. I dont blame guys that use some ladies and drop them like rags because they deserve to learn through the hard way.

Ikenna.