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Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by ferhyntorlah(f): 2:47pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
bootstrap: My Gf has these painful periods, one month I got so irritated that I asked her if "she was d only girl that has painful periods"( note worthy tho, she still hounds me with that statement Guy, different women with different systems. Some do have MP while some don't. It varies and the variation comes with different degrees-some mild and some severe. My friend told me of a classmate of hers that missed school whenever she had her monthly period. This lady usually spend days in the hospital because of the severity of the MP. What do you have to say about that, ehn? bootstrap: Have you ever heard of pregnancy hormones? These hormones work involuntary; no one can control their action. Better start preparing yourself for that nine month journey. If you know you can't handle it, don't embark on it. Maybe you should read the book What To Expect When You Are Expecting; it will enlighten you. |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by ferhyntorlah(f): 4:31pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
sub_zidi: Hi sub_zidi, I remember your post. So happy you and your hubby are doing great! |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by dayokanu(m): 4:42pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
Ujujoan: @ Poster Since the woman would be the one to introduce violence into the relationship, I hope she can go the whole lenght when everything in the house turns to fistcuffs and exchange of blows. Its funny you think the wife can resort to violence and get away with it Remember this is Nigeria, Wife beaters get away with it even the society would ask you whats new in husband beating wife. With most of these approach the wife would eventually lose. I dont think a 9 month pregnant woman should be courting violence |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by DBestDoc(f): 4:49pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
Wow! its not easy sis,the Lord is your strength. May the Lord Most High grant you safe delivery. fantababy: |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by DBestDoc(f): 4:55pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill:^^^^ I beg no kill me with laugh. I guessed as much |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by DBestDoc(f): 5:05pm On Aug 09, 2012 |
Jonwesley: I think you are just lazy, perhaps naive too and living in ur past. Ur first pregnancy, and the heavens must fall becos u claim ur husband isn't caring enough. The ladies wld obviously support ur naivety, but that won't help u anyway. Ur husband may not do all u said, becos he is what he is while u are a melancholy, who prods for trouble where non exists. Do u think it is better to be single? Do u not know what is is to be a wife? This is common among underaged or inmature ladies who expects their husbands to praise sing for them becos they don carry belle. Who sai, na u be the first or wetin? Abegi. There are more things u ve not said but only painted the facts that u want us to hear. I advise u brace up to ur marriage and avoid anything that cld create bad feelings and crack to ur marriage. Marriage is not a bed of roses, if u hear other pple's stories u will come and praise ur husband. Keep quiet. Im so shocked there are still men with this kind of mentality. I have six brothers and none of them think this way. My brothers help out in the kitchen,help with some little things like sweeping the house and that does not stop them from being men My elder brother helps clean his wife's car even before he does his own, and it still does not reduce him. Oga i beg change your mentality. |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by Nobody: 4:46am On Aug 10, 2012 |
Abeg Op stop being lazy jor! U get belle no mean say guyman go turn U to Oracle wey dem dey worship. Sometimes sef e good make men begin look the way of the multi-tasking Akwa Ibom girls to avoid these kind lazy wives. |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by Nobody: 9:12am On Aug 10, 2012 |
dayokanu: Dont you get it? She's already in serious pains. It's not untill a man hits you before he kills you! You see it as violence, I see it as taking a tough stand. Wife beaters are truly cowards in disguise. Show them a tough skin and they'll back down . . . . Fact! Remember the bible passage . . . "since the days of John the Baptist the kingdom of God has been suffering violence, and ONLY the violent can take it by force". Even Jesus knew that to save mankand, he has to allow himself to be killed! If my husband treats me the way OP hubby treats her, me and him will put one leg in the same trousers! |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by Jonwesley(m): 9:52am On Aug 10, 2012 |
D_BestDoc: I'm not surprised by all the attacks on me for speaking against this young lady in question,and the fact that these outbursts came from the women is just making or lending credence to all i ve said. Look i bare my thoughts to help u, and not to join the band wagon. Isn't the truth bitter? This is not a war of sexes and so it is better to balance the opinions posited here. Did this lady mention how sex has become in this family? Like i said, there are more things that she has not said, only painted what cld be easily condemned. I will just not want to raise further dusts and wait for my time. Good luck. |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by bolseas(f): 10:05am On Aug 10, 2012 |
To those people saying there is no big deal in pregancy. i mean what is there in taking care of your pregnant wife for just nine months? or is it not the same woman who has been taking care of you for years before she got pregnant and will continue a few weeks after putting to bed? we know you are men but you dont need to rub it in our faces. |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by ferhyntorlah(f): 3:04pm On Aug 10, 2012 |
What is going on here? I came back to see so many hidden posts, why now? Fantababy o jare, I hope you are enjoying yourself wherever you are? We are all entitled to our opinions but when I read some comments here, I can't just help but SMH. Ladies and gentlemen, if you still believe in marriage, please genuinely seek the face of God before you enter that institution called MARRIAGE! There are too many tales of woes flying around these days. |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by Ariyke: 11:36am On Sep 06, 2012 |
i cant help bt cry after reading ur post infact i dont knw what to say cus my heart is bleeding hard. i cant imagine a man treating his better half the way urs does, he is suppose to b there for u no matter what because u both made it happen anyway God is ur strenght and i pray He intervenes in ur marriage" wish u safe delivery and want u to knw we'll be praying for u. *hugs* |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by Kobojunkie: 3:12pm On Sep 06, 2012 |
OMG!! I almost cried this early momo after reading this . . . una dey suffer ooo . . all in the name of marriage. |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by hannydarl(f): 11:00pm On Sep 06, 2012 |
My dear I feel your pain. With my first, hubby was like come on it can't be that bad. I couldn't keep food down for 3months he was saying I was pretending. He did not sacrifice anything to comfort me. I decided to go home to my mom cos I thought I would die. Then I fainted. Spent like 2wks in the hospital. Baby was dead and I was almost gone. Then he started crying saying he was sorry and blamming doctors for not helping with my mornning sickness and telling him it was normal. I lost almost 20kg in those 2 and half months. When subsequent pregnancies came, he was the best of men. Back scratching, racing to get me phernegan, accompany me to scans, washing all clothes bringing bucket for pukes etc. Most men think pregnancy is easy just like cooking and sweeping. Their mothers have 15kids so why complain about 1. He may change for the best. Don't lose hope |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by hannydarl(f): 11:14pm On Sep 06, 2012 |
Jonwesley: SEX kwa? Can you boink your wife when you have typhoid that is almost finishing you? Or when you have serious malaria? See for some women pregnancy is a sickness worse than typhoid that will last for a month. Its just like an alien takes over your body and no mater how you try you just can't get it back. I know cos I was one of the "lucky" few that nature blesses with every symptom of pregnancy known to man(some women are lucky they scale through with little or no discomfort). Nausea,headache,pelvic pain,heart burn, inshort every undesirable symptom was there. Just support your woman. No woman wants to be confined to bed. Believe her when she says it hurts and be grateful you are not the one making that sacrifice she is making. My dear its not easy we just brave it and will brave it more when you men give us suport. |
Re: I Am Pregnant, Depressed And Want To Be Pampered by Baaby: 5:02pm On Feb 20, 2013 |
let him in the labour room when d baby is coming, maybe dat will make him become a better hubby when next.... |
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