I know this is kind of odd and maybe not a lot of girls in nigeria behave manly, however i have seen it a lot. Some girls go for the guys instead of the guys going for girls. Hot guys know exactly what am talking about. They will like to take advantage of you even if you have a girl friend.

Recently I meet one girl in my local bar who works for exxon mobil. Very smart girl but my problem with this girl is that instead of me being the man and trying to impress, it was the opposite and she is planning to move in with me this summer. I am getting "it" but i don't feel confortable in this type of relationship. What do you advice?

Though I'm sure your problem's probably sorted itself out now, (A whole year has passed)

You want to be in charge? Try and figure out what exactly makes you feel uncomfortable, do you want her to depend on you, and need you? Do you want her to take a seat back, try talking this out with her, don't approach it as if you want her to change, but you want her to understand that she should involve you more in the decisions made in the relationship.

Bro, why are you ressurecting dead ancient threads ? Are you okay?

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I guess this is called civilization. The world is changing and maybe soon men would give birth to babies.

I'm confused. What exactly is the problem here?

what's with the old threads

Topup didnt get the memo, but the exxon chick moved in with Larger and the fruit of that union is almost 2yrs old.

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