sexkillz: It's ok. . .

In an online forum as big as this, it's normal to have a degree of negativity from some peeps. The onus lies on you and your ability to compartmentalize and sieve out useful posts and comments that relate to your situation, and disregard the useless ones. . .

sexkillz: It makes sense to critical thinkers like me. . .

If she had a real reason to leave her husband, for example if he was a cheat or a wife beater, any excuse at all she would have used as reason for leaving him, she would have done so. Therefore, in the absence of any real reason to leave her husband, she left him instead. . .

Your suspicions are baseless and irrelevant. . .

Next!

logo77: I had a similar issues; what I did was to avoid contact with my "EX".
What motivated me was the fact that I know the consequences involved and I was not ready put my marriage through such a storm.
My sister, start by deciding not to mess up both marriages and by extension your life.

Then have a frank discussion with your ex. (he doesn't have to agree with you) on the need to call-off your relationship with him.

Finally reduce the frequency of your calls and other forms of contact with your ex.

If you don’t take active steps to save your marriage now; I'm sure you don’t need an oracle to tell you the repercussions.

ossaii: Tell the woman to add me. Ill help her 25edc8b8

freecocoa: Come sexkillz does this mean she was cheating on her hubby or what? How can she leave one for the other if she wasn't with both?

Nmaemmy: Tpiah ur really an unlearned person who can't read thru d lines n decipher simple meanings to words. I'm not cheating on my hubby.little minded idiot

cyril83: you want to add salt to her injury anyway I so much understand why you want to have close relationship with her,you know she can't hold her urine when its coming,so when her hubby and so called Ex r not arnd she can easily bring her puna to you...badt guy

sexkillz: From what i gathered from her post, she had an ex. Her ex is not married. She is married. She and the ex re united when her hubby travelled.

freecocoa: Killz go back and reread her post.

The only reason she left her ex is because she has no reason to leave her hubby so she left her ex -meaning she was cheating but because she can't leave hubby,she left ex.

Now her ex is married but they still see each other constantly yet she's still claiming she didn't cheat or isn't cheating,her story isn't well put together,Tpia is right.

sexkillz: When did she get married and when did the ex get married? If they are both married, it seems more likely that the former lovers reunited after her husband travelled. The temptation to continue from where they stopped was there, but then, she had no reason to cheat on her husband, so she refrained. Me still thinks her husband is still outside the country and she is overwhelmed with feelings of loneliness and cannot help but reminsce on her past escapades with the ex and is not missing him more now, since she obviously sees him often and cannot express the feelings she is having as a result of not having any reason to cheat on her husband. . .

freecocoa: Are you asking me when she and the ex got married? See wahala o

She wrote her story in simple english and whoever understands the language can only but see that she cheated so stop using long talk to modify her story jare.

sexkillz: She wrote her story, and in her story she did NOT cheat. Where did you get the "cheating" aspect from?

freecocoa: Having no reason to leave her hubby so she left the ex.

Now the ex is married and they see constantly but just as fiends,means what to you please?

henry_chidi: what u need 2 do is jst
1. Make a decsion dat u dnt wnt 2 contiune wit ur ex again
2. Put it in prayer, ask God 2 help u out wit ur dession
3. Call dat ur ex nd sort tins out wit him, mk him understand.
i wish u succes as u do dis. Tk kia

sexkillz: I believe she used "cheating" in her story to mean adultery which she says she did not commit.

But emotionally, yes she is cheating, according to her story. Now, which cheating were you referring to?