Chrisbenogor:

I get the impression that you are one of the many girls that wanted a wedding and not a marriage.

Nmaemmy: I'm a newly wed who hasn't been able to get over her ex. I met him when my present hubby travelled out of the country. My ex is everything a woman would dream of. The only reason I left him was because I didn't have any real reason to leave my hubby. Now my ex is married yet we still see each other constantly not as lovers but as close friends. We just can't stay away from each other. My feelings towards my hubby isn't 100 percent anymore. I've tried to get my ex off my head but he just won't go away. I really want to keep my marriage. Pls NL don't start insulting me because I know there's someone out there going thru d same thing as I am. Pls advice me on what to do. Thank u.

Nmaemmy: Tpiah ur really an unlearned person who can't read thru d lines n decipher simple meanings to words. I'm not cheating on my hubby.little minded idiot

frank3.16:
If I were ur ex, I will strategically plan on how to eventually Zap u hard (which is what he is plannin if he has nt succeeded) and still go back to my lovely wife and ensure her ex is no where around her while pitying the mumu of a husband of urs (ofcourse that's what he will think of ur husband)
Bottom line, ur ex will never allow his wife to see her ex, yet he sees u knowing u are somene else's, does this sound like a man who is worth all these trouble?

tpia1:



this statement makes no sense, therefore, i think the thread is suspect.

Nmaemmy: I'm a newly wed who hasn't been able to get over her ex. I met him when my present hubby travelled out of the country. My ex is everything a woman would dream of. The only reason I left him was because I didn't have any real reason to leave my hubby.

Now my ex is married yet we still see each other constantly not as lovers but as close friends. We just can't stay away from each other.

My feelings towards my hubby isn't 100 percent anymore. I've tried to get my ex off my head but he just won't go away. I really want to keep my marriage.

Please NL don't start insulting me because I know there's someone out there going thru d same thing as I am. Please advice me on what to do.

Thank u.

frosbel:

Pray , you have a demon

ooseven: @OP

You know the right thing to do, you don't need any Nairaland advice.

The reason life with your ex is exciting now is because it's 'wrong'. Remember, stolen waters are sweet. However, I can assure you that if you want to go 'American Style' and follow your heart, you will lose out both ways.

As far as I am concerned, you have already cheated on your hubby in your heart and its not fair on the poor, faithful guy,who has treated you right (If not you would have left him in a hurry. Trust me it's all about the physical with Ex's, nothing more...just hormones and hard ons.

Nmaemmy: I'm a newly wed who hasn't been able to get over her ex. I met him when my present hubby travelled out of the country. My ex is everything a woman would dream of. The only reason I left him was because I didn't have any real reason to leave my hubby.

Now my ex is married yet we still see each other constantly not as lovers but as close friends. We just can't stay away from each other.

My feelings towards my hubby isn't 100 percent anymore. I've tried to get my ex off my head but he just won't go away. I really want to keep my marriage.

Please NL don't start insulting me because I know there's someone out there going thru d same thing as I am. Please advice me on what to do.

Thank u.

ooseven: @OP

You know the right thing to do, you don't need any Nairaland advice.

The reason life with your ex is exciting now is because it's 'wrong'. Remember, stolen waters are sweet. However, I can assure you that if you want to go 'American Style' and follow your heart, you will lose out both ways.

As far as I am concerned, you have already cheated on your hubby in your heart and its not fair on the poor, faithful guy,who has treated you right (If not you would have left him in a hurry). Trust me it's all about the physical with Ex's, nothing more...just hormones and hard ons.