freecocoa: Don't pull that crap with me young man,cheating is cheating so don't just try using 5ex to qualify anything here.

Finally you agreed she cheated,for her to say she left her ex for her husband and now that he is married they are just friends but the feelings are still there,suggests they did a little more than just staring into each others eyes before she called it quits.

Nmaemmy: I'm a newly wed who hasn't been able to get over her ex. I met him when my present hubby travelled out of the country. My ex is everything a woman would dream of. The only reason I left him was because I didn't have any real reason to leave my hubby.

Now my ex is married yet we still see each other constantly not as lovers but as close friends. We just can't stay away from each other.

My feelings towards my hubby isn't 100 percent anymore. I've tried to get my ex off my head but he just won't go away. I really want to keep my marriage.

Please NL don't start insulting me because I know there's someone out there going thru d same thing as I am. Please advice me on what to do.

Thank u.

frank3.16:
If I were ur ex, I will strategically plan on how to eventually Zap u hard (which is what he is plannin if he has nt succeeded) and still go back to my lovely wife and ensure her ex is no where around her while pitying the mumu of a husband of urs (ofcourse that's what he will think of ur husband)
Bottom line, ur ex will never allow his wife to see her ex, yet he sees u knowing u are somene else's, does this sound like a man who is worth all these trouble?

I'm a newly wed who hasn't been able to get over her ex. I met him when my present hubby travelled out of the country. My ex is everything a woman would dream of. The only reason I left him was because I didn't have any real reason to leave my hubby.

Now my ex is married yet we still see each other constantly not as lovers but as close friends. We just can't stay away from each other

ooseven:

...forget it, this story = not worth my time.

mejai: most babes don't think b4 jumpin into marriage. After d fun of marriage is over(couple of months), una senses go begin work over time; ryt now am experiencin such wit my ex-babe dat is married. She wants me 2 buy her BB(bold 5); and she has surrended her whole body 2 me. Well, no BB 4 her and i will bleep her wit annoyance. God will definitely 4giv me & punish her cos i dey my lane & she carry her wahala come. Ladies!!! Pls always wear ur thinkin cap b4 leavin dat boyfriend.

sexkillz: From her story, she hasn't slept with him after she got married. So in that aspect, she did not cheat. Emotionally she cheated.

If her ex is married, how will you justify her leaving her ex for her husband? Where was the ex's wife?

This is a case of the reunion of married ex lovers and not presently. Presently they are not sexually attached. . . So it seems.

karpentar:

Tpia and freecocoa are right. It’s really amazing that only two of them (out the whole lot of commentators here) could pick the absurdity of this story. The entire story makes no sense whatsoever.
There are two likely scenarios and none of them makes any sense:

1 She left her ex before getting married: If this is the case, then the reason for leaving the ex is not because of not wanting to leave her hubby as she claimed. There was no hubby to leave then.
2 She met this so called ex whilst in marriage: Then, he’s not an ex for heaven’s sake. You can call someone you met while in an affair or marriage an ex. In fact, if she eventually goes to this guy, then, her the hubby becomes the ex.
This story is as confusing as saying that you shot a bird and her mother flew away.

freecocoa: Well,you still don't get it,i really think you. Should read the story again,this time more slowly.

She was married when she was with the ex,she chose her husband over him and left.

Now that he is married they are just friends,how hard is that to understand? Who said anything about cheating with the ex when he was married?don't even answer.

I'm off to get a nap,the weather demands that.

sexkillz: If she was married when she was with the ex, how come she says she doesn't want to cheat on her husband if she has been cheating on him already?

You need the nap nne. . .

karpentar: I am not even bothered yet about the cheating aspect. The whole story doesn't just add up: Look at my post again:

There are two likely scenarios:
1 If she left her ex before getting married, then the reason for leaving the ex is not because of not wanting to leave her hubby. There was no hubby to leave then.
2 If she met this so called ex whilst in marriage, then, he’s not an ex for heaven’s sake. You can't call someone you met while in an affair or marriage an ex.

freecocoa: Nna eh you dey shock me this afternoon.

-I met ex when my hubby traveled abroad.
-The only reason i didn't leave hubby for ex is because i had no reason to so i left ex to stick with hubby.
-Ex is now married and we see constantly not as lovers but friends.

All this and you still argue mikey?kai you fall my hand today

Thought you were napping already.

sexkillz: Thought you were napping already.

frank3.16:
If I were ur ex, I will strategically plan on how to eventually Zap u hard (which is what he is plannin if he has nt succeeded) and still go back to my lovely wife and ensure her ex is no where around her while pitying the mumu of a husband of urs (ofcourse that's what he will think of ur husband)
Bottom line, ur ex will never allow his wife to see her ex, yet he sees u knowing u are somene else's, does this sound like a man who is. worth all these trouble?

mejai: most babes don't think b4 jumpin into marriage. After d fun of marriage is over(couple of months), una senses go begin work over time; ryt now am experiencin such wit my ex-babe dat is married. She wants me 2 buy her BB(bold 5); and she has surrended her whole body 2 me. Well, no BB 4 her and i will bleep her wit annoyance. God will definitely 4giv me & punish her cos i dey my lane & she carry her wahala come. Ladies!!! Pls always wear ur thinkin cap b4 leavin dat boyfriend.

freecocoa: My dear eh,the only excuse that can be accepted here is that the OP doesn't know how to construct and write in proper english,hell she doesn't even understand english.

But there's no disputing that she cheated on her hubby. EOD.

val_dee:

Simple, most Nairalanders can't keep a relationship.