Cheating is part of we humans. The only reason why we stick to the one we are with is because of one reason or the other.

If you claim you've never cheated let me see you hands up Ok then how come about 95% of people never marry their first date?

akinluyi02: It's in the Nature of man to cheat! No long story...

Are men d only ones that cheat? All these sugar mummies advertising their contacts in the newspapers aren't dey pple's wives?
That by the way, pple only cheat for their lack of contentment and some others for their uncontrolable libidos. There is no justifiable reason whatsoever behind cheating.
Period!

Billyonaire: Who wrote Corithians and Thessonians. The answer is Paul. What does Paul know about Nature and God. Just some extremist who went about killing christians and getting illuminating lights of the cosmos and start preaching. Dont take him seriously.

Billyonaire: The whole of New Testament is based on the 3 yrs life of Jesus. We knew nothing about the life of Jesus between 13 to 29 yrs, those years should be the most important focus. His 3 yrs before the murder-crufixion paradox is not enough to disband the mosaic laws, even Jesus, said he didnt come to change the mossaic law, then who are you to go against it ?

Are you a christian?
I need to know,before I can respond to your post(so I know if it's worth responding to,or not)

Richiy: Cheating comes in various forms and honestly, I am most astonished by cheating in examinations.

i tell you,
the thing surprise me,
i so hate it,
yuck

Human beings are imperfect, hence reason they cheat cos they love adventure, especially the men.

Men have more tendency to cheat than women, all things being equal. So it only takes the special grace of something extraordinary for someone (especially a financially comfortable man in today's world) not to cheat. If anyone says cheating runs in the blood of men or that men are naturally like that, don't doubt the person, doubt the fact that not all cos some, though very rare and minute, resist the urge and temptation to cheat!

AmBeautiful:
Am sorry hon,
I just have to disagree.
Though weakness is part of it,
People also cheat because of greed,lack of contentment!
People cheat because of lack of discipline and self control, money, power!
And people also cheat to follow the latest trend- 'others are doing it now'!
And others cheat to revenge!

My take!

sunshine, you are right about all the reasons you posted but the main issue is WEAKNESS.......... you have to look at it the right way.
everybody can find ANY excuse whatsoever to cheat (the most common one being:"BECAUSE I WANTED TO" ) and they would be right. the difference is that, since they are in a r/ship, they should do what is RIGHT. if they are strong minded individuals then they wouldnt mind all the stuff you mentionned, but because they are WEAK, thats the ONLY reason why they can fall for all these things.

you have to be STRONG MINDED to have discipline in a r/ship, you have to be STRONG MINDED to have self control, you have to be STRONG MINDED to not be enticed by money, you have to be STRONG MINDED to look at a nekkid man/woman (who is inviting you for sex) and say no, you have to be STRONG MINDED to do what is right in a r/ship, you have to be STRONG MINDED to stand for what you believe instead of following the latest trend.

as for the revenge part, that's just foolishness for people to do that. just because someone has no moral or respect towards you, does not mean you should lower yourself to their level.

@thread
as for the people who brought the bible into this thread, let us all be clear on something....... married men were allowed to have CONCUBINES etc, not sneaking like thieves to cheat. most of these guys who had multiple women in biblical times did that OPENLY, and that should not be compared to cheating. cheating is when your partner does NOT know that you are having other women, if your partner fully well knows about them (or live with you) then it cannot be considered cheating.

hmmm

These are reasons why men cheat. Most men (unlike Adam) have seen the full unclothedness of over 200 women either directly through sex or indirectly through pornography or even the partial display of buttocks and breast by women. This sticks on and leads to either masturbation or extra-marital affairs. This is the root of it, others are mere excuses for our inability to control what our eyes sees. The other reason is the lies we tell each other...can you recount the lies you have been told...like slim ladies are sexier and taste better and all those scrap. For me that is it, change that mind set and you are free...stop stirring at breast...its primary purpose is to produce milk for babies...[/quote]

xcitedjay:

What if you both are married?

I guess most of the responses are from singles. Whatever causes divorce can cause cheating.

1. Lack of love
2. Maltreatment
3. Infidelity
4. Denial or rationing of F***
5. Lack of care
6. And so on.

noffiin but stupidity

Flygeriansteve: And with your kind of grammar, if I was your gf, I'd cheat on you!!

L☹L

case study: ...like my next door neighbour is doing now and disturbing me with their moans and squirky sound of their bed! Aaaaaaaaaaaargggh!!!!!!!!

You need to relocate.

freecocoa: Evil spirit.

From which state

Billyonaire: Cheating is the natural way of life; How nature intended. There is actually something wrong with someone who is not cheating!

[b][i] Jux call a spade a spade n dnt try 2 justify evil because u swim in it (VICTIM)

Nothing. Only a weak person cheats.

Oh boi! Na poverty b dt.

Trail blazer: [b][i] Jux call a spade a spade n dnt try 2 justify evil because u swim in it (VICTIM)

A lot of people here actually know what am talking about. And they only fail to identify themselves or allign with me because they are hypocrites. The question is, who has not cheated before ?

Mrs.Chima:
Nothing. Only a weak person cheats.

Weak, on what ground ?

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1. INSECURITY.
2. IMMATURITY.
3. INFERIORITY COMPLEX.[/size]

People who cheat, do so because they want to.

simple.

De-Genius:
People who cheat, do so because they want to.

simple.

What pushes them to "want to" ? That's what the OP seeks.

When it comes 2 men u give excuses,but when it comes 2 ladies topic,u give them difff names.

Monogamy is not the nature of the beast

Firstly, the society has permitted cheating. So most people see it as inevitable. Secondly, those who have accepted the idea try hard to enforce it on others for lame excuses like, lack of attention, money, distance e.t.c. When i was an undergraduate,as decent & discipline as i was & still am, 2 of my female hostelmates, who have boyfriend tried so hard to seduce me. One was just for fun, the other i realised was madly in luv & wanted to leave her bf. Some people cheat for just no reason and it doesn't really bother them(for fun),while others cheat and look for lame reasons to excuse themselves. For my likes, we don't have any reason to. When a relationship is not working out, we quit, breathe some fresh air to clear our minds, before going into another.

stpat1: Cheating is part of we humans. The only reason why we stick to the one we are with is because of one reason or the other.

If you claim you've never cheated let me see you hands up Ok then how come about 95% of people never marry their first date?

u'r funny dude! U mean u can't differentiate btw cheating and failed relationship/marriage?

Freiburger: In Nigerian porverty in the women's side, on the men's side, too much money.

That's so myopic to say! Poverty? So ladies from wealthy homes in Nigeria don't cheat on their partners? Get serious

lack of money
lack of care
inability of getting what you want in time from your partner.

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The only reason why people cheat is because they find what they want and there partner does not have in another person. You don't just jumb into relationship with someone you just me and you don't no his or her character that's why am taking my time. I would really like to meet people online and discuss with them and see if there is any connection between us. Smart257 on 2go or 2324cec8 on BB

xcitedjay:

What if you both are married?

still dump, it does'nt matter if you are married.

I think from my own point of view it is not being satisfied and conveteousness. SIMPLE

berem!:
Cheat ke! Animals cheat not to talk of we humans.cheating is part of us.we can't do without it.abi?

Dats a flimsy excuse!

AmBeautiful:

i tell you,
the thing surprise me,
i so hate it,
yuck

as in eh! Its disgusting how sum ppl cnt jst face the answer sheets. My motto is: dnt ask me cos i neva ask. I 'd rather submit a blank sheet. Av dne it b4 nd wl do it again if nid arises.