tracyxx: He shows me so much love n care but still cheats on me, and tell me lies. It really hurts,I love him so much that I can nt cheat on him,so I really don't know if the love he shows me is real.I want to know if true love accomodates cheating.

Mynd_44: You can't love someone and cheat on the person. Its not possible

tracyxx: @ crazyman,thanks.I will continue to try my best to get my man totaly back to me because it hurts when someone else is sharing your love wth you

190: OP

Dont you get it, MEN MUST CHEAT!!

You better manage him that way or continue increasing the number of males

strolling in and out of your legs life

tracyxx: Mind you am married so cheating is nt accomodated in marriage.Tanx

tracyxx: That is what I believe to but at times I get confused with the way he shows me lv

190:


hehehehe

there is nothing you can do, you cant eat all the money alone

there is love in sharing

Shaw007: At this stage wer at. . .21st century-ish,most ppl cheat,its becoming normal. . .as much as u dont want 2 think about this he might actually be bored with your marriage. . .just talk 2 him about this,as his wife. . .he should yield,if doesnt now he will. . .

And,how old is ur marriage?

tracyxx: I know your type,one that can never be faithful.God help your spouse o

Mynd_44: No man will love you and cheat on you.

frank3.16:


Oga pls stop makin statements u are not sure of. A man can love u and still cheat on u.

Like I said in a previous post men have sexx with women (including their wives or girlfriends) not because they loce them but because they want to satisfy their hunger For sexx, and therefore it can come in differnt veraities, but men marry u, care for u, buy u gifts etc because they love u. But women cheat with their emotions hence the story is different.

@poster, find a way to let him know he is hurting u. U must have evidenec that he is cheatin on u, do this smartly and let him know it hurts his reaction will tell u he loves u or not. Bt I still think he loves u and u know it, hold that one first, it is more important.

Mynd_44:
So you mean a man who promises to stick with a woman through think and thin and goes back on that promise loves her?
Please stop defending a bad thing

Mynd_44: No man will love you and cheat on you.

omosexy1:

Oga oga oga, this is the 3rd time I am reading this from you. I disagree with you wholly and exclusively.

frank3.16:


I am not defendin bad thing, neither am I saying cheatin on ones partner is right, I am just stating the obvious. Men can love u and cheat on u, to them sex is not love, but to women the feel sex comes wit love.

Few women who know this fact make better wives and concentrate on more important things that makes marriage work. If ur husband is keeping a woman, caring for her and stuffs like that, and cares less for u, thhen that's another story.

If u say a man can't love and cheat his wife what then do say to about 90% of men who cheat on their wives. U mean they don't love their wives? Oh forget about vows, it has become formality over time.

I love my woman but have cheated on her a couple of times, bt she is alway my number one.

omosexy1:

Your comment alone should make front page. No breaking news CNN. Practically said and not from a book or idea. Sex to a man is like food, chop, get satisfied, clean mouth and move on. It is when a man begins to do what he ought to do for his wife to someone else that is where the problem starts. I highlighted some of your valid points especially for women to learn.

frank3.16:


I thank God there are Nigerians who think like u. Not a whole lot of bunch here who live in denial. Here is a post I sent some time ago, clearly difining this cheating thing and why it is so.



Well as apsychologist I found out that the problem lies in the diference in the average man and womn's sexuall orientation.
Here are d differences:
The man see sex as a mean of satisfaction like hunger, its is not sometin emotional to them. They Be Intimate becaus they want to feed a intimate appatite. This is why majority of men can sleep wit any girl and foget her name, no emotions attached. I always tell women "your husband haves sex with u not because he loves u but because he just want to satify his intimate urge. Bt he buys gift for u and do other loveable tin because he loves u.

Now for d women: the average woman sees sex as sometin emotional. She wants to b attached to de one she haves sex with. And so when a woman wants to satisfy he intimate hunger she does so with only the one she loves or de one she is convinced loves her, she jst does not give it to anyone just like de man does. Even if she has 2 or 3 guys she works on her emotions to believe she loves them ot they love her. Now don't get me wrong we have women who are different I.e LovePeddler or runs
girls bt who will call such girl an ideal woman anyway.

Now if u ask why men cheat take ur time and understand their intimate orientation. Most time they don't feel they are actually hurtin d woman they love since they have no emotions for the one they cheat on her with. They get awy with it without feelin guilty and hence it could happen over and over again. But when a woman cheats she knows she gave her heart to the one she cheated on her lover with or she knows she is a slot who slept with d man for money and hence they guilt and blame. And that is why d man reacts more when his wife cheat than wen ne does, because he knows tht for his wife to cheat on him wit another she had either given her heart to him or she is a slut for money and material tins.

This is just my own thinkin though I hope it makes sense.

deniyor: You do have some points but i think you are wrong. While it is true many men and women feel that way when they cheat, it is just excuse for you to feel better about yourself when you cheat.
You cheat because you have the opportunity to cheat AND because you have no real respect for the feelings of your partner.
Frank3.16, will it be okay if your lady cheats on you if she has no emotional attachment to the person she is cheating on you with? If she does it for the exact reasons you do it, will it make it acceptable to you? Or do you really think it is unacceptable just because she is a woman and you are the'better sex'?
Will it be okay for her to do so if you are temporarily unable to perform your sexual duties as long as she chooses a guy only for his dyck and no emotional feelings? Or cos she is Hot while you are at work and she needs it like food.
Pls stop that b.s. about cheating as in hunger.

deniyor: When you cheat on a woman, you disrespect her. You chop away her self respect and she confidence. You kill her soul and essence. You kill her slowly. You destroy your chance at trust and having a fulfilling relationship?
How would you feel if your own woman you deeply love cheats on you? Why the hell do you think the feeling is different btw men and women? Or you just don't care about how they feel cos they are women?
Stop thinking it is okay or acceptable for men to cheat just cos they are men.
Or are you the type of low esteem man that has to put women's confidence down just so you feel on top?