KingOfNairaland: [size=14pt]And she was being honest with u o [/size]

shymexx:

So, you salute the buffoon for being an uncouth coon??

I guess birds of a feather flock together..

poweredcom: Haha see dem pastor pikin they are all the same everywhere if you like be pope pikin - divorce can come your way no body is perfect jare-

Oo pastor jakes will be ashamed of the brat now what!!! She got pregnant at 14 wat tha Bleep +o and married at 19 haba what does this gal knows about marriage - before she go reach 35 she go don marry 3 men and divorce her kitty go don burst slack and born bastard everwhere haha american dream

JeSoul: Lol. No I salute him because he is the kingofNL, or can't you see his name?
*some ppl are so wound up tight they cannot see a joke staring them dead in the face*

JeSoul: Fellas fellas, pls stay on topic & no insulting of others. KingofNL, I salute you

Uyi Iredia: That's bad. What will the rest of T.D Jakes congregation learn from this ?

shymexx:

Ola one:


Omo buruku. Your posts have been hidden.

I let her off because she could be moi wifey, you know. Women? I don't chide them, at all

Hahahahah! Lmbooo

KingOfNairaland: Kindly "HIT" your head against the wall. I think that would solve your problems.

obadiah777: THATS CUZ THE CHILDREN SEE THE HYPOCRISY BETWEEN THE MANS REAL LIFE AND HIS ELEVATED SPIRITUAL STATUS AS A PASTOR. THAT STUFF MESSES WITH THEIR MINDS. THESE PASTORS ARE ALL SNAKES. THE KIDS ARE REBELLING

k2039:

That's what I keep telling people marriage is far mor than what meet the eyes(Not just love)

This is where the will of God come's in(marriage instituted by God)
Not like God's will marriage will be all rosy but He will provide a way out during the storm.

MARRIAGE NO BE BEANS OOO

The disciples said to him, "If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry."Matthew 19:10

shymexx:

But Christians are still the most unintelligent folks out there...

Why do you guys always quote what some stone age prophets said??

When are we going to start seeing facts and not allegories?

Answer my questions before I take my money and go seek 'salvation' in the strip club...

By the way, I love the book of psalms and the songs of Solomon - ex-Christian..

*I love big batty*

ayo ade: As much as God hates divorse Malachi 2:16, and clearly states that Marriage is a life long affair,Matthew 19:6 and 1Corinthian 7:10-11,there is only one reason my God would permit divorse- unrepentant marital infidelity (mainly sexual immorality)on either side.

'It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement. But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery'Matthew 5:31-32. You can also read Malachi 2:10-16, Matthew 19:3-9,1 Corinthians 7:10-15

If any of this parties fall into the shameful act of extra marital affairs, if he/she repents and the agrieved party is willing to forgive, the bible encouraged forgiveness if we confess our faults to one another. However, if the sinning partner refuses to repent and he/she becomes agressive, abusive,dangerous or absconds,then divorse is allowed.

It's a difficult decision to make and painful path to take but think of a husband that sexual abuse his wife and children.That even get physical dangerously with them. Think of the late Titi that eventually lost her life on the altar of 'I dont want to leave him'. same people would blame if very bad things happen to her or the children eventually.

In her own case, the foundation was wrong and whatever is built on it will definitely not last,as it has turned out to be. We only pray that God we give the strenght survive this times and changes in her life.

Super1759: bro,get it straight. Most american pastors are passing through hell in their marriages. Was it not days back that benny got back to his family? Juanita bynum who got married to another minister,after a period of time divorced tooo. So many of them.
These people have changed lives and destinies and devil is seriously using their families to pull them down.
Anyone in the street can divorce,but coming from role models,mentors. Bro its wrong and should be dealth with

obadiah777: LEAVE THE DEVIL OUT OF THIS.

JAMES 1 VS 13-14 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil, neither tempteth he any man: But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed

Super1759:
Devil is really at work,attacking pastor through their families.

Thats right, blame the devil. Its always his fault anyway.
Curse him, go to that mountain full of fire and say ''u bleeping devil, die!die!die''.
Even though u are the one who went to the kichten and was tempted to steal a piece of meat, despite ur conscience knacking the heck out of u to not take it, u still did.
But its not ur fault, it never is.
Its that bleeping son of a gun trying to steal ur destiny through ur mother in law.
Go on and curse him alright?

inurmind:
Dude u are really funny.
When Chris okotie married his latest wife and said it was the will of God i guess he was wacking palmwine.
Or when Benny Hinn married his wife and even claimed that what who God revealed to be his wife with signs self, he had been on crack right?
Even this mighty(take that literally pls) past TD Jakes, so God didn't reveal to a whole him that that wasn't the guy for his daughter?

inurmind: Lastly since when did love become what ''meets the eye''.
If lust is what u see as love then u really have a lot to learn.
Love is far deeper than material possessions; lust, or what meets the eye; and going to ur pastor to ask whether he or she is the right one for u.

inurmind: And i'm guessing what u meant by God showing them a way out is divorce as depicted by ur religious leaders and family. Just guessing.

musKeeto: Slowly, the hypocrisy on which Christianity is built is beginning to fall apart....
When real life test person, bible verse go start to dey transform...
Glory..

musKeeto: Slowly, the hypocrisy on which Christianity is built is beginning to fall apart....
When real life test person, bible verse go start to dey transform...
Glory..

Lenny5000:

When people talk out of ignorance they tend to believe their own stuff. What do you or others actually know about Christianity? In a short form, Christianity is about having direct access to your Maker.. A father-Son relationship and not a Master-Servant one. A belief system that ask you to treat and love others like yourself. A believe system that ask you not to revenge ills against you. Now tell me what is hypocrisy about all these? If others don't do these, does that in anyway diminish the belief system of Christianity? I guess you are one of those that believe Big name Pastors..etc should be seen as the embodiment of Christianity... In the Christian belief system each of us are running our own individual race and will give account of it someday, so don't get it twisted. In your rush to Condemn and Judge, did you even bother to read the lady's reason for Divorce? Because from it you could discern there might be huge Violence and Sexual Immorality going on.. I don't advocate Divorce neither do I support Domestic Violence.

k203:
Those guys are human,it's not like they are perfect.

It thought christians always like proffessing to be supernatural and exraordinary and special stuffs like that.

Proverbs 24:3 It takes wisdom to build a house, and understanding to set it on a firm foundation.
Anyone can claim it is God's will,but by their fruit you shall know them(result of the marraige)
How come you didnt list the pastors that have their marriage working.(Pastor Adeboye,Bishop Oyedepo,Joel Osteen,etc)

How are u sure their marriages are really working. U don't live with them. It might just be the pressure of the church and nothing more thats keeping them together. U don't know if Dav Oyedepo slaps the hell out of his wife when she misbehaves, or if past Adeboye bores his wife with the same old stories or something even more serious. U just don't know.



Sorry to say this,but I think you should brush up your idiom 101.

''meets the eye'' is an idiom

Kx: Does the word marriage have different meanings between Americans/Europeans and Nigerians?

A good percentage of Nigerian Men openly indulge in adultery, 2nd, 3rd and 4th wife,concubines, runs etc to the knowledge of their legally married wives yet they keep their homes and marriages;but at the drop of a hat, an American would hurriedly divorce sighting adultery and irreconcilable differences. Why?

Yomieluv: Nairalanders are funny people,because she is a pastor's daughter,she must die in a marriage not giving her peace?.......

dasparrow:

That is because americans are not hypocrites that believe in smiling and suffering like Nigerians. Not only that, americans are concerned about STDs like HIV/AIDS and no one would want to stay married to an unrepentant cheat for a spouse. What Nigerians consider marraige is not what God considers marraige. Marraige ought to be between a man and his wife and the bible permits divorce if a spouse will not stay faithful. There is a reason why Africa continues to remain the HIV/AIDS capital of the entire world. It is because many African men and women engage in very risky sexual behaviour knowing fully well that there is no cure for HIV/AIDS should they contact the deadly disease from their cheating spouses or lovers.

MacDaddy01:

Nice one, Buzugee.

Stop claiming the devil and take responsibility for your lust!