190: And what makes u tink ure d only one wif superman's chest

Idowuogbo:
U don't ave it! Mr Jelly stop hating.

sexkillz: This is the true life story of my best friend.

He fell in love with a lady. The lady in question had a boyfriend who travelled out of the country. The family of the lady and her boyfriend were well aware of the relationship. The lady was honest enough to tell this my friend that she was in a serious relationship with a guy abroad and she has plans of marrying him when he comes back. At this time, the boyfriend has spent 3 years already abroad. My friend did not give up. He continued dating this lady. The D day arrived, the guy came back after 5 years, and by this time, my friend and this girl had dated for 2 years. She told my friend her sweetheart is back and the relationship had to end. My friend took it in good faith.

The day she met with her boyfriend after he came back, was the day she broke up with him. The guy had changed after 5 years, and already had a daughter with a "whitey". . . She felt nothing for him anymore. My friend had already done damage to her heart, and she swore never to leave him. Fast forward 12 years later, my friend is married to this lady, and they have 2 kids.

Now, while i am not saying your story will turn out the same, you have to understand the damage long distance can deal to a relationship, and use it to your advantage. Be there for her when she needs you. Be her trusted friend and confidant. Do not pressure her to date you and allow her to make her choice. Do not give up.

If the girl is not worth it, discard whatever i said. But if you deem her worthy, fight for what you already have. If you have made an impression on her already, she will not be in a hurry to forget that. Yes, there are many fishes in the river, but not all of them are edible. Why should you give up on the one you have supposedly caught?

Back to my story. My friends wife told me in her husband's presence that he was the least handsome out of all the men she dated, but she fell in love with his personality. . . I learn alot from that couple daily.

So, OP if she is worth it, give it a try. Don't expect her to forget him so easily bro. With time, you will make her forget about him completely. . . Your choice.

Wizee: Sexkillz u jst said it all,very good advise...

xynerise:
who is d original poster? your comment is longer than the poster's

hornipipe: @ op is this girl good in bed?

Sunebanty:
lol,we've not been intimate

Wizee: Sexkillz u jst said it all,very good advise...

goofie:

Really? but what if this girl is not like his friends wife? dt wld mean a period of heartbreak followed by hatred for the womenfolk.

poster, check urself. what is ur spirit telling u? if not u'l waste some good years.

Sunebanty: [/color][color=]
b4 i open this thread i was thinking of leaving her but my friend(he also know the girl) adviced me to stay that its just like competition and he can assure me i will soon make her to forget the guy.

goofie:

if he turns out to be wrong,wont u blame him for misleading u? i think u shld make d decision urself based on ur own judgement of d situation. ur friend will only apologize n get on wit his life if things turn sour.

but u will be left with urself and a whole lot of regret.

Sunebanty:
true talk,thanks bro

Sunebanty: Hi friends,i met this girl on a social network,one thing led to another and we started dating,i really love her and she claimed to love me,after like 2months of dating she came to me oneday and said he cn't leave her ex(she said the guy travelled for like 5months and he did not call him thats why she taught the guy has forgoten her but the guy is now back and explained why he couldn't get in touch with her)so she said she cn't stand her conscience if she jilt the guy and she would'nt like to loose me.
I tried to convince her to forget about the guy and she pleaded and said she will,but she later came and said she cn't just do such a thing for the guy.i decided to tell her its over until i told a friend who said i should not do it that way that i should continue with her bt it will be like a competition between i and the guy so it depends on who wins.(though she said the guy has travelled back again,and he will be back ones a while)fellow nlanders pls i need ur advice here.should i quite or continue?

free2ryhme:


You met a girl on social network abi..... Ok ooo Dont you ever learn? Do you know if she is a witch or demon possessed human being and one thing led to another you wan a relationship ?

goofie:

its sis

free2ryhme:


You met a girl on social network abi..... Ok ooo Dont you ever learn? Do you know if she is a witch or demon possessed human being and one thing led to another you wan a relationship ?

free2ryhme:


You met a girl on social network abi..... Ok ooo Dont you ever learn? Do you know if she is a witch or demon possessed human being and one thing led to another you wan a relationship ?

sexkillz: Sunebanty, na you wear this shoe, na you know where e dey bite you. as long as a woman is not married, she can be won over by anybody. Countless girls have left their boyfriends for another boy that showed them more attention, and that is, guys that are present with them in the country, and that they see from time to time, not to talk of a guy that a'int in the country. . . pass tha mic jorh. . . Like i said before, i do not know this girl, i do not know her qualities, neither do i know what you are looking for in a lady, therefore, if this girl has what it is you are looking for, you better hang in there. . .

Remember that you have absolutely nothing to lose. She already has a boyfriend abroad which you know of, and she has feelings for you as well, so why not fight for it? Worst that would happen is that it wont work out the way you plan it, but then, how many of our affairs as humans work out the way we plan them? All we do is plan, have faith and hope, and then wait. abi no be so? So why should this case be different? Have a positive attitude, nigga, and have a back up plan if things fail and you will never be disappointed. . . The only means of communication they have is the electronic media, and i can categorically tell you right here that calls and emails and skype or whatever type of messenger facilities available, are not enough. After a while, it becomes stale. I have been in a LDR before so i as well know what i am saying.

All you need do like i said earlier is act as if you are not interested in asking her out, but be there for her when she needs someone to talk to. Earn her trust, so that when she has problems with the abroad guy, she will come to you for advice. Yes! Quarrels and misunderstandings happen a lot in LDR's, so when she eventually comes, give her good advice that would actually help her. See, humans are emotional. It is very important that she sees you as one she can trust and talk to. Very soon, she'll ask herself what she is doing with someone that keeps making her come for counsel, and she'll rather stay with the counselor and be free jare. . . Thank God she likes you already. . . The guy over there may also fall in love with another over there, or can anyone here deny that fact?. . . I guess not!

She has you as her plan B, yes, nothing bad in being a plan B, and there is no crime in having a plan B yourself. . . This situation is 50:50, if she is worth the risk, take the gaddamn risk, else, when things actually turn out in your favor, you may not be there to claim her anymore. . .

You and i know say you know better than that kain fvck up. . .

Mrs..Chima:
Time will heal and she will soon forget him. She is lonely right now.

sexkillz: Sunebanty, na you wear this shoe, na you know where e dey bite you. as long as a woman is not married, she can be won over by anybody. Countless girls have left their boyfriends for another boy that showed them more attention, and that is, guys that are present with them in the country, and that they see from time to time, not to talk of a guy that a'int in the country. . . pass tha mic jorh. . . Like i said before, i do not know this girl, i do not know her qualities, neither do i know what you are looking for in a lady, therefore, if this girl has what it is you are looking for, you better hang in there. . .

Remember that you have absolutely nothing to lose. She already has a boyfriend abroad which you know of, and she has feelings for you as well, so why not fight for it? Worst that would happen is that it wont work out the way you plan it, but then, how many of our affairs as humans work out the way we plan them? All we do is plan, have faith and hope, and then wait. abi no be so? So why should this case be different? Have a positive attitude, nigga, and have a back up plan if things fail and you will never be disappointed. . . The only means of communication they have is the electronic media, and i can categorically tell you right here that calls and emails and skype or whatever type of messenger facilities available, are not enough. After a while, it becomes stale. I have been in a LDR before so i as well know what i am saying.

All you need do like i said earlier is act as if you are not interested in asking her out, but be there for her when she needs someone to talk to. Earn her trust, so that when she has problems with the abroad guy, she will come to you for advice. Yes! Quarrels and misunderstandings happen a lot in LDR's, so when she eventually comes, give her good advice that would actually help her. See, humans are emotional. It is very important that she sees you as one she can trust and talk to. Very soon, she'll ask herself what she is doing with someone that keeps making her come for counsel, and she'll rather stay with the counselor and be free jare. . . Thank God she likes you already. . . The guy over there may also fall in love with another over there, or can anyone here deny that fact?. . . I guess not!

She has you as her plan B, yes, nothing bad in being a plan B, and there is no crime in having a plan B yourself. . . This situation is 50:50, if she is worth the risk, take the gaddamn risk, else, when things actually turn out in your favor, you may not be there to claim her anymore. . .

You and i know say you know better than that kain fvck up. . .

Sunebanty:
thanks bro,i can tell you am totally in control,just that am a retired player*LOL* so just want to stay with one girl for now,i dnt want to go back to my old ways but with all this i think i now know better.

Sunebanty:
thanks bro,i can tell you am totally in control,just that am a retired player*LOL* so just want to stay with one girl for now,i dnt want to go back to my old ways but with all this i think i now know better.

tpacalipse: You are reaping from what you have sown ;DYou are reaping from what you have sown

D-Explorer:

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D-Explorer:
This topic is so dear to you.