This question has really sparked arguments between my friends and i.it really bothers on marriage.many believed that we marry to raise offsprings,some even claim the sweet taste of sex in them can neve be underutilized.are these true?i will come back with my stance shortly after each of your replies

Seriously, I have really pondered this issue.

With the present state of deceit, I really don't get it?
Why would a single person want to marry? Or why would a married person stay married?

I think the real reasons may be to hide their evil character behind the institution of marriage, the ceremonies behind it or for some it could be just for bearing another man's name.

I really don't know but seriously,I do wonder sometimes!

Women
money
money
comfort
respect
kids
security
money
lonely
sexx

man
sexx
sexx
respect
more sexx
lonely
house maid
more and more sexx

fools and kids
love

Flashaldrin: Women
money
money
comfort
respect
kids
security
money
lonely
sexx

man
sexx
sexx
respect
more sexx
lonely
house maid
more and more sexx

fools and kids
love

why do some still get poorer even after marriage then?

AmBeautiful: Seriously, I have really pondered this issue.

With the present state of deceit, I really don't get it?
Why would a single person want to marry? Or why would a married person stay married?

I think the real reasons may be to hide their evil character behind the institution of marriage, the ceremonies behind it or for some it could be just for bearing another man's name.

I really don't know but seriously,I do wonder sometimes!

well,you may be right

Some guys marry just to see them as a responsible man,why do people always think unmarried men are not responsible?

@OP,ask google

To procreate

amyg: @OP,ask google

must you comment?

hornipipe: To procreate

is that all?

Sunebanty:
is that all?

do u have any apart from that in mind?

jayjam: why do some still get poorer even after marriage then?

poor golddigging skills. Goldieluks can never fall prey.

hornipipe: do u have any apart from that in mind?

not really just want to know yours

to be counted among the married community

The reason(s) we marry are individualistic and varies.For me it is for procreation,companionship,love,productivity ie 2 are better than 1 concept,to add value to each others life and lots more.

Sunebanty: Some guys marry just to see them as a responsible man,why do people always think unmarried men are not responsible?

perhaps,a reverend father is irresponsible?elucidate me

Flashaldrin:
poor golddigging skills. Goldieluks can never fall prey.

i pray u dont date ondo ladies then,u wil kiss golddigging bye

hornipipe: To procreate

why then are there incessant cases of divorcement and bigamy mostly ocassioned by the couples inability to procreate,perhaps they were nt meant to be toghther?

jayjam: why then are there incessant cases of divorcement and bigamy mostly ocassioned by the couples inability to procreate,perhaps they were nt meant to be toghther?

you shouldn't get married if ure unable to procreate.
Procreation remains the main purpose of marriage

hornipipe: you shouldn't get married if ure unable to procreate.
Procreation remains the main purpose of marriage

Really? Can be done outside wedlock, too.

FOR WOMEN
money
car
house
pickins
respect
for men
yanshing
yanshing
and more yanshing

carefreewannabe:

Really? Can be done outside wedlock, too.

what is your own reason

Flashaldrin: Women
money
money
comfort
respect
kids
security
money
lonely
sexx

man
sexx
sexx
respect
more sexx
lonely
house maid
more and more sexx

fools and kids
love

This settles the argument

hornipipe: what is your own reason

honestly?

love and children. I think so, too.

however, people also have offsprings outside marriage.

men with their concubines and women with their lovers. however, as far as women are concerned, their husbands often do not know.

carefreewannabe:

honestly?

love and children. I think so, too.

however, people also have offsprings outside marriage.

men with their concubines and women with their lovers. however, as far as women are concerned, their husbands often do not know.

procreation still the main purpose.

hornipipe: procreation still the main purpose.

It's not that much procreation as a set of beliefs, cultural norms and tradition.

We could procreate like animals without marrying but we believe that it is better to raise children within wedlock due to religious and / or cultural beliefs or simply the assumption that it is better for children to be raised by a married couple.

hornipipe: To procreate

Not everyone is catholic you know

Mynd_44:
Not everyone is catholic you know

whatever makes you think i am catholic

carefreewannabe:

It's not that much procreation as a set of beliefs, cultural norms and tradition.

We could procreate like animals without marrying but we believe that it is better to raise children within wedlock due to religious and / or cultural beliefs or simply the assumption that it is better for children to be raised by a married couple.

You believe it is better to raise children within wedlock or is it that i don't just get your point.

jayjam: perhaps,a reverend father is irresponsible?elucidate me

mister,read my comment very well,am not concluding,am asking a question

jayjam: i pray u dont date ondo ladies then,u wil kiss golddigging bye

whats wrong with ondo babes?illuminate pls

hornipipe: whatever makes you think i am catholic

cos that's a stance the catholic church has been pursuing for a long time