Mrs.Chima:
Lord reed.....

You dont run nothing.

What does that mean?

Mrs..Chima:


Kim Kardashian isn't Black and she is more endowed then some of the Black women regardless of skin color.

well some Armenians and Persians are naturally endowed.. most endowed girls of countries like the Italians, Portuguese , Spanish have black blood in them anyway.. ..

Btw you made some points in your earlier responses I will address them when I get home. Left home Using my phone right now. Only do short responses with my phone

Lord_Reed:

What does that mean?

Exactly what it said...you don't run nothing.

nyameke: well some Armenians and Persians are naturally endowed.. most endowed girls of countries like the Italians, Portuguese , Spanish have black blood in them anyway.. ..

Btw you made some points in your earlier responses I will address them when I get home. Left home Using my phone right now. Only do short responses with my phone

There is no such thing as black blood and in fact many theories have stated that Whites came from Blacks originally and they were byproduct of albino babies left in the wilderness to die because Blacks in ancient times thought pale babies were demonic or infected.

Mrs..Chima:


Exactly what it said...you don't run nothing.

Sure I am not a gun runner or drug runner or love-vendor so yes you are right, I don't run nothing.

Mrs..Chima:


There is no such thing as black blood and in fact many theories have stated that Whites came from Blacks originally and they were byproduct of albino babies left in the wilderness to die because Blacks in ancient times thought pale babies were demonic or infected.

ok don't play dumb you know what I meant . We all know at least some of us, that humanity came from one common ancestor or one man..

Mrs..Chima:


Kim Kardashian isn't Black and she is more endowed then some of the Black women regardless of skin color.

HER AZZ IS FAKE.

nyameke: " most" endowed black women do I just think iMO that darkskin women fits the rod better.

i have noticed that too.

but there are some thick light chicks. i guess because i am used to seeing dark chicks who are, whena light chick is thick, she looks "extra thick". Like "Deelishis" from Flavor of Love...her bootay isn't as big as Buffy the Body but it looks huge!

well good cuz one I have a high metabolism and love to eat and now know our kids won't go hungry. . what's your favorite food and recipe..

our kids? lol na wah!

i just like good food.
i do prefer caribbean and asian food though.
haven't tried a lot of african.

Mrs..Chima:


Exactly what it said...you don't run nothing.

lol stay telling someone off.

Mrs..Chima:


I disagree with your response to number 2 because I know several women who have kept their father's surname as an honor to their late fathers and they love and respect their marriage to the core. I even asked the husbands how did they feel and they were like it is just a surname and I respect her decision to keep the father surname and all of the children has HIS SURNAME because both agreed PRIOR to marriage.

I have an African friend who is married to an African woman and they both have different surnames and the children has hyphenated surname of both parents. They have been married for 22 years. Don't look like they are living as two people to me.

interesting post.

hyphenated last names are in deed common.
and regardless of how anyone looks at it, from a historical point of view, last names were invented to "name property".

*Kails*:


i have noticed that too.

but there are some thick light chicks. i guess because i am used to seeing dark chicks who are, whena light chick is thick, she looks "extra thick". Like "Deelishis" from Flavor of Love...her bootay isn't as big as Buffy the Body but it looks huge!

no wonder my man flavor couldn't handle the deelishious love... you right about thick light skins though.

our kids? lol na wah!

i just like good food.
i do prefer caribbean and asian food though.
haven't tried a lot of african.

most definetly. I'm thinking a basketball team too .... You should try some more African food.. I love Jamaica food though. One of my friends mother makes the best curry goat..

Mrs..Chima:


I disagree with your response to number 2 because I know several women who have kept their father's surname as an honor to their late fathers and they love and respect their marriage to the core. I even asked the husbands how did they feel and they were like it is just a surname and I respect her decision to keep the father surname and all of the children has HIS SURNAME because both agreed PRIOR to marriage.

I have an African friend who is married to an African woman and they both have different surnames and the children has hyphenated surname of both parents. They have been married for 22 years. Don't look like they are living as two people to me.

" ...a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.".. im sure you have read or head about this quote... Yes there are numerous people doing what you just said but i say it still doesn't make it right. just because the husband is ok with and still love each other( which they should)doesn't make it right for the woman to come into the unit with her fathers name. A wife's identity and future lies with her husband and not the father. a married woman becomes one with her husband and their destinies one so to speak

Mrs..Chima:


Some slave owners treated their slaves better than some husbands have treated their wives. Don't lie. It doesn't matter how you spin it....you know damn well many of you men view your wives as commodity. The moment a man say that she is to be submissive and subservient to me turn into a boss/employee aura.

ok i dont think you understood my point at all because you are making the point i was making but in a different way. i said no one dares actually maltreats the things or people they love. Now if a husband treats their wife badly and demeans them does that sound like love to you.

here another quote for you..."However, let each one of you love his wife as himself" So now if a husband views his wife or so called soul mate, one supposedly coming from own ribs, as a commodity, does he appear as one who loves his wife or even himself since it is written that a husband and a wife becomes like one flesh..

btw are you suggesting that just because some slave owners treats their slaves better than some husbands, it makes their inhumane acts right and should be applauded?

Just like you said...husband and wife become one...how is the man the head if the wife is one with him? A person can't be the head and equal to those beneath him. It is like trying to chew and swallow at the same time.

mami the man being the head of the family does not mean he is greater or more important than a woman. head here means leadership. The only difference between a man and a woman are the roles but both are important and equal in status.it is always the nature of the fimenine to be led and the nature of the masculine to lead. The man leads, protect,direct and above all loves and cherishes his woman and the woman follows, helps, nurtures, grounds and also loves her man.

the man is the head and the woman the body and heart. its like your conscious and subcouscious mind. when the two are in harmony and each is doing their job the sky is the limit.. so by head i was not talking about greater in rank or equality. its only ignorants that thinks that way.

yes the man seems to have the greater power because the decisions making abilities lies with him as the leader of the union. but we all know with great power comes great responsibilities. and you know what happens when we don't make those important decisions correctly, all hell breaks loose

Nym....

You said:

" ...a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.".. im sure you have read or head about this quote... Yes there are numerous people doing what you just said but i say it still doesn't make it right. just because the husband is ok with and still love each other( which they should)doesn't make it right for the woman to come into the unit with her fathers name. A wife's identity and future lies with her husband and not the father. a married woman becomes one

My answer:

This applies to those who are followers of the Bible and therefore is not applicable to those who DO NOT FOLLOW the Bible and in fact the above quote is for those who practice Christian tenets. Please give me something else that doesn't involve something you read in a book. Thank you very much.

Nym.

You said:

tw are you suggesting that just because some slave owners treats their slaves better than some husbands, it makes their inhumane acts right and should be applauded?

My answer:

Neither should the husbands who beat/mistreated their wives and later repented shouldn't be applauded either. Either way it doesn't change what was done therefore are we going to punish them in totality?

Nym....

You said:

ami the man being the head of the family does not mean he is greater or more important than a woman.

My answer:

Tell that to the manbitches that think otherwise.

Mrs..Chima:
Nym....

You said:

" ...a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.".. im sure you have read or head about this quote... Yes there are numerous people doing what you just said but i say it still doesn't make it right. just because the husband is ok with and still love each other( which they should)doesn't make it right for the woman to come into the unit with her fathers name. A wife's identity and future lies with her husband and not the father. a married woman becomes one

My answer:

This applies to those who are followers of the Bible and therefore is not applicable to those who DO NOT FOLLOW the Bible and in fact the above quote is for those who practice Christian tenets. Please give me something else that doesn't involve something you read in a book. Thank you very much.

you dont have to follow the bible to know that when a positive and a negative charge meet they stick together

Mrs..Chima:
Nym....

You said:

ami the man being the head of the family does not mean he is greater or more important than a woman.

My answer:

Tell that to the manbitches that think otherwise.

i tell those that care to listen.

Mrs..Chima:
Nym.

You said:

tw are you suggesting that just because some slave owners treats their slaves better than some husbands, it makes their inhumane acts right and should be applauded?

My answer:

Neither should the husbands who beat/mistreated their wives and later repented shouldn't be applauded either. Either way it doesn't change what was done therefore are we going to punish them in totality?

i never said they should be applauded. thats my stand all along. but i think you re comparing apples and oranges here in my opinion

@chima are you using your husband surname or your surname?

nyameke: [size=44pt]you dont have to follow the bible to know that when a positive and a negative charge meet they stick together [/size] ;Di tell those that care to listen. i never said they should be applauded. thats my stand all along. but i think you re comparing apples and oranges here in my opinion

And yet you have many fallen Christians. I guess you can't give me anything else without retorting to the Bible. It is okay...I figured as much.


And to your last sentence...it still won't change facts.

nyameke: @chima are you using your husband surname or your surname?

My children will honor their father's...it was agreed prior to marriage.

Any more questions?

Mrs..Chima:


And yet you have many fallen Christians.

what do you mean by fallen christians. i believe there are alot of ignorant christians though
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I guess you can't give me anything else without retorting to the Bible. It is okay...I figured as much. wink

lol if it is quote you want tell me what you believe in and i will help you. theist, atheist, agnostic i got you..

And to your last sentence...it still won't change facts.

what facts?

Mrs..Chima:


My children will honor their father's...it was agreed prior to marriage.

not the answer i was looking for but i get the picture lol

Any more questions?

so in your case what made you want to keep your fathers name and was there resistance from your husband before he gave in?

Story story, story. Once upon a time, time time.

Ain't gonna change the price of fish or any couples names.

This is just intellectual claptrap.

lol this is intellectual claptrap yet you are more concerned with the price of fish.
are you a market woman,hungry or by any chance a starving somalian?

Lord_Reed: Story story, story. Once upon a time, time time.

Ain't gonna change the price of fish or any couples names.

This is just intellectual claptrap.

Why you mad boo?

nyameke: lol this is intellectual claptrap yet you are more concerned with the price of fish.
are you a market woman,hungry or by any chance a starving somalian?

He is not Somalian and he is Nigerian.

nyameke: what do you mean by fallen christians. i believe there are alot of ignorant christians though
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lol if it is quote you want tell me what you believe in and i will help you. theist, atheist, agnostic i got you..what facts? not the answer i was looking for but i get the picture lol

so in your case what made you want to keep your fathers name and was there resistance from your husband before he gave in?

Where did you see that I kept my father's name? I spoke of children not me. Keep up suga.

chima i spoke to d-sense today.
got cursed out as usual.

Mrs..Chima:


Why you mad boo?

Me mad? Don't get it twisted, I already dismissed the thread as dustbin material.

nyameke: lol this is intellectual claptrap yet you are more concerned with the price of fish.
are you a market woman,hungry or by any chance a starving somalian?

And you are paid to comment I suppose?

LORD REED!

I DEY VEX!

Look at how many times you see and not speak!

*Kails*:
LORD REED!

I DEY VEX!

Look at how many times you see and not speak!

Why you dey vex na? Wetin I do?

Lord_Reed:

Why you dey vex na? Wetin I do?

you acting like you can't speak.

how are you? it's been a while bro.

*Kails*:


you acting like you can't speak.

how are you? it's been a while bro.

Yeah sis been a while. What you been up to? Howz work, gaming and all?