nyameke: exactly my point.. To me it is the natural thing to do and shouldn't be looked at as oppressive. I probably wouldn't have too much issue with a woman having a hyphenated name but as far as the kids that's a no no ..

ok so even if the father's last name comes last you would still have a problem with the hyphenated thing?

OT: i know in spanish speaking communities its a bit more interesting because it is standard to have both your maiden and surnames.

the thing is the father's last name comes first, then the mothers.
to me that is a bit odd.

*Kails*:


ok so even if the father's last name comes last you would still have a problem with the hyphenated thing?

OT: i know in spanish speaking communities its a bit more interesting because it is standard to have both your maiden and surnames.

the thing is the father's last name comes first, then the mothers.
to me that is a bit odd.

for my wife I would be resistant to it unless the reason is very legitimate and not reasons of because of property owning thing.. For the kids no way..

And the Spanish thing is odd

@ kails inbox me your yim

Mrs..Chima:


Cheater!!

You dumped me for lefulefu....

Lord_Reed:

You dumped me for lefulefu....

You obviously didn't see the thread...I AM NOT IN LOVE WITH LEFULEFU!

*Kails*:


ok so even if the father's last name comes last you would still have a problem with the hyphenated thing?

OT: i know in spanish speaking communities its a bit more interesting because it is standard to have both your maiden and surnames.

the thing is the father's last name comes first, then the mothers.
to me that is a bit odd.

You already know...some men do not care as long as their name is in the picture SOMEWHERE...it could be on the license plate, coffee mug, or even on booty cheeks.


Matter fact...I may have to rethink the hyphenated names thingie...hmmm.

I have seen children with hyphenated names and some of them were nice combos. There is a child's name...Something Aire-Love and I was digging it!

Mrs..Chima:


You obviously didn't see the thread...I AM NOT IN LOVE WITH LEFULEFU!

@ chima.

sis this topic must really mean something to you.
i dont want to be personal but do you and your hubby have the same last name?

.

Lord_Reed:

Yeah things are pretty ok here. I hope the move was to your advantage.

sorry for not responding earlier.
was too busy giving ppl who don't deserve it, my attention.
im just now responding to replies.

anyway...

yes sweetie it was.
it's very quiet and peaceful.

*Kails*:


sorry for not responding earlier.
was too busy giving ppl who don't deserve it, my attention.
im just now responding to replies.

anyway...

yes sweetie it was.
it's very quiet and peaceful.

Sweetie You got one mo gin!

Mrs.Chima:


Sweetie You got one mo gin!

lol! geeeeze!

btw thanks for holding it down tonight azz usual.
im gonna stop paying these cyber chicks any mind,
that was some REAL hater type *ish!!

#AintMyFault.

hmmm....

*Kails*:
@ chima.

sis this topic must really mean something to you.
i dont want to be personal but do you and your hubby have the same last name?

Actually it doesn't from a personal standpoint and to answer your question...I am Mrs. Chima right? THere are other threads that speak about the surname upon marriage but it was from a biblical standpoint. My thread is from a cultural/expectation/acceptance standpoint because as I stated in the thread not everyone is Christians and not everyone are believers of the Bible so therefore how does it apply to those who are not "believers" or followers of the Bible or any other religions that expect women to change their surname upon marriage?

I meant to create this thread some time ago but what really drove me is when I saw some comments a while back from a different thread states that it is culturally appropriate addition to what people feel the Bible means. My friend who is a lesbian married a woman in California and invited me to attend her reception. She changed her surname to her wife/husband and people were yelling that homosexuals shouldn't engage in marriage nor change their surname because it is not recognized by God.

My stance on this is why is it a big deal that some women (straight) keep their father or mother's surname and homosexuals changing their surname to their partner's

You know I don't put my deep/personal business out like that so it wouldn't be anything about my personal life.

*Kails*:




lol! geeeeze!

Yo Msdarkskin or whatever the fvck your handle is, don't ever get me involved in crap again and don't ever mention my handle again...

What the fvck is wrong with you and your obsession

You guys are weird, yo.... Your e-bf was so weirdo, NL got the faggit sectioned for life...

Keep me out of your shyte with Shollypopz... God saved you I slept off yesterday..

This is going to be my last warning to you, weird bastard..

lol gotdamn chima.
i refreshed the page and saw a damn novel!

And don't ever mention my handle again...

I don't converse with you, do the same..

lol um sir, or maam, which ever...

"God saved you" from what exactly? YOU?!

you really decided to come on here to post that lame shyt?

really though? lol move on.
you're old news and so is the issue, scoot.

i dont even want you on the same thread as me.

*Kails*:
btw thanks for holding it down tonight azz usual.
im gonna stop paying these cyber chicks any mind,
that was some REAL hater type *ish!!

#AintMyFault.

Which one are you talking about.....the Alternate ID having King or The Ghost from the Past?

lol @warning me.

i dont think ppl know my age..

nobody warns a grown azz woman.

like i said, be out.

Mrs.Chima:


Which one are you talking about.....the Alternate ID having King or The Ghost from the Past?

LMAO!! girl bye...neither one is relevant.
not even worth typing about.

#itAINTmyFault...

LMAO@it is early morning and YALL STILL FIGHTING!

Mrs.Chima:
LMAO@it is early morning and YALL STILL FIGHTING!

i don't fight my dear!

i argue, there is a difference!
lolz...

seriously though who does that?

"im warning you!"

bytch bye!

anyway, its like 5 am over here, and im not even tired.

*Kails*:


LMAO!! girl bye...neither one is relevant.
not even worth typing about.

#itAINTmyFault...

You are right...I read it and was gon respond to you when you said stop reviving old shit...then I said to myself if I respond I will be reviving old shit!

It is obvious somebody is STILL LYING and HURT. I guess my words do cut deep huh? Folks want to take shots/snipes and I gently remind them to stay in their lane.

*Kails*:


i don't fight my dear!

i argue, there is a difference!
lolz...

seriously though who does that?

"im warning you!"

bytch bye!

anyway, its like 5 am over here, and im not even tired.

Girl I went to bed laughing when I saw ole boy wanted to fight Royal. My husband was like what you grinning for? I also laugh when SOME PEOPLE want to blame THE WHOLE GROUP because they have been hurt/whipped/tagged by the one person in THAT said group.

Black Americans have really suffer because of mouth/fingers!

This is my last warning...

Your faggit ar.se bf went nuts trying to get back at me, I'll fvck up mentally as well, if you don't keep my handle outta of your Gary Coleman mouth..

I warned you, slag...

Fvck off!! So lame you can't even fight Shollypopz without getting me involved.. Bwahahahaha

Weaklings!!!

Mrs.Chima:


You are right...I read it and was gon respond to you when you said stop reviving old shit...then I said to myself if I respond I will be reviving old shit!

It is obvious somebody is STILL LYING and HURT. I guess my words do cut deep huh? Folks want to take shots/snipes and I gently remind them to stay in their lane.

Amen. if i didn't run the night dude did what he did, why would i run because someone mentioned it? its natural someone would use it against me.

but like i said, the REAL ISSUE...ain't my fault.
lemme stop. I'm just glad i know you and royal real.

good to have winners on my team.

shim-mex

why the fck are you still here though?
this is like your third warning in three minutes fam.

crusty lips aka bubble neck, be out. we have NOTHING to discuss.
why are you still poppin shyt when im talking to chima?

Viewing this topic: *Kails*, Mrs.Chima(f) and 5 guest(s)

wow! ok im used to seeing 1 guest follow me around because i know who that is..love you lolz.

but this is sick!

Mrs.Chima:


Girl I went to bed laughing when I saw ole boy wanted to fight Royal. My husband was like what you grinning for? I also laugh when SOME PEOPLE want to blame THE WHOLE GROUP because they have been hurt/whipped/tagged by the one person in THAT said group.

Black Americans have really suffer because of mouth/fingers!

lol..slayed and laid the fck out trying to flex muscles on me.
it's all good though. it's to be expected from the mentally r3tarded.

anyway though, you talk to d?

*Kails*:


wow! ok im used to seeing 1 guest follow me around because i know who that is..love you lolz.

but this is sick!

Sis...I have a question...if you view any thread as a guest...does it show on your profile when you were last login? My detective mode is kicking in.

I will explain to you on YIM.