wonlasewonimi: It's a spiritual problem. Take her to your pastor, there are devourers in her system.

MRbrownJAY:

But all your points are based on the fact thats she eats 3 times a day, isnt it? And that's where we have a problem understanding you.

walexybaba: Its a shame 4 a lady like u talking this way, courtesy demands a lady act lady like to keep her charm, so would u order 4 an extra plate of rice at Biggs on ur first date with a guy? Even if its ur husband would u?

oparah chi: Hello nairalanders,
Please I cld use some advise here. There's a prospective babe, and we most likely are going to date even though we already act as though there is an intimate relationship. However, there's something that puts me off about the girl in question. "She eats too much". I have consulted other girls to determine if it was bad for a girl to eat too much and all answers I got were in favour of the girl. I don't remember when last I met a girl that eats three square meal.
The other nite she claimed she was really hungry and needed food. Just before I could get her food, we had a little conflict so we kept silent and put ourselves at a distance. We settled this conflict at about 2am that was after I even woke her up from sleep. Guess what people after the resolution at about 2am, she told me she was still hungry. I had no choice bUt to go look for food around the surburbs.
The reasons for my being paranoid goes thus: 1) the tendency she might get fat. 2) its just surprising to me cause all the girls I have dated in the past don't eat much, plus I know generally girls are light eaters.
Advice please!

REALITY101:

Lmao @ starving someone's daughter, don't you think someone's daughter should fetch her own food?

oparah chi: Ok people it sincerely has notin to do wit finances. My worry is her getting fat and dats wat a lot of u have ignored in my message above. However maybe she's jst normal tho.

yuzedo: Are you guys intentionally trolling the op?

@ Op: From your replies and initial write-up it is obvious you are smart and have a sincere concern. Most people are simply having fun taking your words out of context and misunderstanding you on purpose.

As to your worries; yes, your babe might run into weight problems later if she doesn't exercise culinary discipline. Does she eat small portions? Does she snack between meals? Is she VERY physically active? She needs to chill out. As you said, it is surprising that an adult has such incredulous appetite. She will soon start fad diets and tying her teeth/mouth to prevent food intake and facilitate weight-loss. What's more, her risk of balooning'll be crazy after child-birth!

I suggest you nyash her 10 times a day cos that burns calories. Thank me later bro...

oparah chi: Hello nairalanders,
Please I cld use some advise here. There's a prospective babe, and we most likely are going to date even though we already act as though there is an intimate relationship. However, there's something that puts me off about the girl in question. "She eats too much". I have consulted other girls to determine if it was bad for a girl to eat too much and all answers I got were in favour of the girl. I don't remember when last I met a girl that eats three square meal.
The other nite she claimed she was really hungry and needed food. Just before I could get her food, we had a little conflict so we kept silent and put ourselves at a distance. We settled this conflict at about 2am that was after I even woke her up from sleep. Guess what people after the resolution at about 2am, she told me she was still hungry. I had no choice bUt to go look for food around the surburbs.
The reasons for my being paranoid goes thus: 1) the tendency she might get fat. 2) its just surprising to me cause all the girls I have dated in the past don't eat much, plus I know generally girls are light eaters.
Advice please!

oradee: Help,My boyfriend to be is a freaking glutton. he eats everything and anything edible. he wakes me up by 2am to make him eba cos he says it helps him sleep better. he has a big tommy and i tot it was as a result of drinking but i realised he dont drink but eats like a boffun. My fears is that his tommy might burst before hes forty and honestly,a pot belly is a huge turn off when the clothes finally come off...hes sha a nice guy but im not sure i can handle his 2am cravings when im preggy and sex wif a pot inbetween is pure hell...

andyanders:

Listen my brother.Love is not by force. You said because you do not want her to get fat because of her apatite for food. Love has nothing to do with looks as some people like fat woman than slim girls. It is better you quite the relationship because that is the girls nature and you cannot force her to change. Keep your money in your pocket and look for the relationship that suites your person.Allow her be because it is very difficult to change an adult. Listen, if you force her to change now to accommodate you in order to marry you,I see in the future, she will still fall back to her nature/habit.

Dyt: So eatin square meal is now a crime?
Ow old r u?

2buff: I just freaking eat when I'm hungry, i dont care how many times in the day. Could be 2, 3 or even 5 whatever.
Abeg let her eat.

fried-rice:
My brother poster, don't mind all the stupid responses you're
getting here. Flee from her while you still can. the Babe will definitely embarrass continuously
in public functions, her getting fat is a minor problem.

jenny b: i udstnd where the OP is goin, for 1 i as a lady get irritated wen i see fellow ladies eat like gluttons crying for hunger every minute dis kind of girls always cook and finish it even before it gets done, a lady should have an organise eating habit odawise she may disgrace herself without knowing it.

UmericanGirl: You guys are all missing a point though. He said she was hungry but they started arguing.. At 2am the argument was finally finished leading me to believe she still had not eaten from the moment she was first hungry (way before 2am) until then.. So she did not wake in the middle of the night. She was already awake sitting on her hunger.. If they bleeped then of course she would have wasted more energy being even more hungry.