190: brother its not easy
the incessant fone calls,
the plotting, planning
dividing your self
scheduling appointments, dates, everytin
but the beauty of it is youre in control, cos any small mistake from any of these gurls
snap shes off - not wen ure even killin urself to be wif her in d first place


menh. . its not easy to be a player abeg
attimes na so my fone go ring from morning till evening 7 different gurls 7 different wahala

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Hmmm, guys re really serious wit this player thing. Well, i have loads of good lookin female friends in which i can easily choose one if my girl messes up, if not d pain of heartbrakes re very turmentin oo, i've been there b4, most of my friends re female nd re all matured in thinkin.. If am hurt by a girl, i make a call! Am not a player just keepin watch over heartbrakes, cos girls re very bad oo... Can som1 tell girls to stop heartbraking plsss?

Lil_tim: Avin multiple partner s now old skul, boyz don upgrade...
D latest tin s appear as a nice guy, her drim guy, show dem d luv, carin, kip her in suspense but dont toast. Always sit on d fence & b4 u kno it sh!Tz started happenin n everybody s cool. Dat doesnt mean am bad.

ladunsky: [b]I remember back during my undergraduate days............ I did it..... And i must confess it got me into an embarrassing situation..... Anytime i remember i always laugh at how stupid i was..... I had Guy A who i was so in love with but he was working, and then Guy B, who was a student.
March 16th dat faithful year was Guy A s bday and i decided to get some bday things including a cake..... I called him and he was like i should come over.... I called a cake shop in Lagos and booked a cake... Got to Lag to pick it....... Kept calling Guy A s Phone but he wasnt picking. Guy B called and asked wer i was and i said i was in the room..... ...... meanwhile a friend kept telling me to follow her home to see her mum and dat Guy A didnt deserve all wat i wanted to give him..... Cos she felt he was going to stand me up.......... I acted like i was deaf and carried on wth my plans...... Got to Guy A s house and i was stranded........ Called him said he needed to get a new car battery and didnt knw when he would be home..... And it was getting dark... My atm wasnt dispensing cash....... To cut the long story short,i had to call Guy B to come pick me from where i was..(in the room) ..... I almost died.......... Yu could imagine what happened after.............![/b]

Spicyhawt:

rofl,,,but did u cling to the cake or you threw it away before Guy B came....

I STILL CLUNG TO THE CAKE O.......... MY DEAR.......... THAT CAKE NA MONEY O........ WHEN WE GOT TO HIS HOUSE IN LAGOS HE OPENED IT O....... I TOLD THEM TO WRITE "TO MY LOVE, GUY A" NA SO HE LAUGH............and i really felt bad cos a week later was his own bday and i didnt av anything for him....even the TM shirts i got for GUY A couldnt had fit him cos der both had two different statures.....

Zeebah23: Y did u bring up dis story,just wen i'v concluded my plans on going getting a 'Guy B'? U just discouraged me. *just joking* ur story is really funny.

If i say yu should go ahead..... I will be termed A BAD INFLUENCE to be frank my dear the ball is in your court.......... But its not good to double date ....... But see he came to my rescue .........

acidtalk: How Do Guys Cope With More Than One Partner?

I find it amazing when I hear or see guys who boast of having up to 3 girls friends at a time (not flings). As a guy this is something i have never bothered trying. Once I am in a relationship, I stick to that partner (Emotionally and financially). Not that I don't get to have steady flings from time to time, but keeping up to 3 girl friends at a go is killing.

I would be the type of guy that will be termed 'very responsible'. Meaning I cater for my woman's basic needs and a little excess when the money is available. Even if the lady is richer, older and more sophisticated. It has always been my way.

I treat her like a brother, father, friend and lover by sharing experiences and advicing her. So doing all this with two other girls will probably drive me nuts.

Guys please how have you managed to cope with 3 steady girl friends over a period of time?

drnoel:

Reading ur post turned my belly upside down. Although u meant well by what u posted but I wonder how u can different having 3 gfs with what u accepted with ur own mouth, I mean u said "Not that I don't get to have steady flings from time to time". Have u had a lady hurt herself cos she found out u cheater, have u had a lady drink herself silly just cos of the same reason. I would have hailed and supported u but 4 this thing u posted. Look, women are not games 2 play with and in case u 4get, its an honour for one to agree 2 date u. Once u start respecting ur woman and our sisters, u´d be faithful without having ur side flings. Those side-flings are not healthy but can be dangerous cos ma broda AIDS is real. u shouldn´t try to belong or say that anyway guys do it so why shouldn´t I do so. Men, besides ask urself what a woman and the side can give u that ur woman can´t. Or ask urself what sex style she can give u that u can´t teach ur woman if she doesn´t know how to. Men should really learn keeping their pee-pees buttoned-op and not putting into any hole (shudders)

MRbrownJAY: As a man who perfected the art of cheating (lol) I always stood by ONE RULE: know your worth as there are so many women to pick from out there that you shouldn't care if you get caught or not.......BUT It was too stressful to juggle all these women in such manner.

So as a perfectionist, I realized that there was no need for lies etc, and that you should be fully honest with these babes. You guys have no idea how simple Nd rewarding it is to tell a woman that you are not exclusive with her and what you give is as much as she would get from you. Why lie about yourself? why being ashamed of YOU?

Every woman in my life know one another, there is no shame in my game. Why should I creep in the dead of night like a criminal? If women gladly accept polygamy, why do you think they won't accept to do the same on r/ship? The only difference is that I dont have to live with all of them under the same roof. Wake up guys, we will always be in a position of power with women, ALWAYS!

MRbrownJAY: As a man who perfected the art of cheating (lol) I always stood by ONE RULE: know your worth as there are so many women to pick from out there that you shouldn't care if you get caught or not.......BUT It was too stressful to juggle all these women in such manner.
So as a perfectionist, I realized that there was no need for lies etc, and that you should be fully honest with these babes. You guys have no idea how simple Nd rewarding it is to tell a woman that you are not exclusive with her and what you give is as much as she would get from you. Why lie about yourself? why being ashamed of YOU?

Every woman in my life know one another, there is no shame in my game. Why should I creep in the dead of night like a criminal? If women gladly accept polygamy, why do you think they won't accept to do the same on r/ship? The only difference is that I dont have to live with all of them under the same roof. Wake up guys, we will always be in a position of power with women, ALWAYS!

Zeebah23: Rescue indeed. Woo(yoruba) u got me lafin. I can't double-date,i don't av enuf luv 2 offer 1, talk more of 2.
NB: D guy u date is different 4rm a guy u just run 'package' with. *Zeebahpedia*

mystikal: Where the time and energy na. Plus my woman already has like 6 different personalities inside her, that alone feels like dating 6 different women. That would do.

Goldieluks: Multiple partner equals multiple trouble.
Acidtalk you are a good and responsible fellow.
Keep it up!