REALITY101:

Lol @ calm down. . Some of my comment up there was on sarcastic.

Oh the news is your sister Nicki Minaj and your Aunt Mariah Carey were punching f word at each other today at American Idol audition in NC. As our celeb mod I just wanted to let you know

The first time I heard Nicki was going to Idol judge I was like WTF.

slimyem: Real virgins almost never talk about it...
#fact!!#

slimyem: Real virgins almost never talk about it...
#fact!!#

WAM?:
You are right virgins might not talk about it- because it is not the popular thing to say. However keeping quiet does not make it right.The way people speak up against slavery or corruption as being wrong is the same way people should speak up that being a virgin might not be the order of the day but it is in line with the word of God and certainly the right thing to do. I can't count how many young ladies have found this information beneficial.
Let me add there is nothing wrong in telling a guy straight up where you stand- it makes the elimination process easier and also you avoid uncomfortable situations. A guy shouldn't feel comfortable talking trash to a girl who has clearly stated where she stands. If you for whatever reason try to go with a guys flow - then don't feel disrespected if he does or says anything stupid.

Metalgoong: Virginity is something to be proud of in this era when the so called Christians are jumping from one bed to another before marriage. . .

jmoore:

generalization is wrong.

REALITY101: Shit is stressful mehn. Btw some of em virgins are bottom up stupid. Giving your so called virginity to dudes like us(me) after less than 2 months of meeting you smh.

slimyem: From my "cupboard research",most virgins usually give it up to guys who clearly don't deserve it!
The "why" is what i cannot explain!

slimyem: From my "cupboard research",most virgins usually give it up to guys who clearly don't deserve it!
The "why" is what i cannot explain!

obowunmi:

Not having sEx clouds your judgment..

slimyem: yes,it is but it is not to be announced to the whole world or to be a replacement for "hello!"
The truth is most of the people who come out to delare their sexual status like that without any reason and cause just do it for the attention!.
If you need your status as a model for young lives,find their gatherings and do it humbly,go anonymous online and garnish your status with words that'd touch your readers so much it won't be just read and trashed!!
There's absolutely no point in constantly throwing it in peoples faces and making noise about it!!

slimyem: Real virgins almost never talk about it...
#fact!!#

slimojas89: WHAT'S WRONG WITH VIRGINS? THICK HYMEN

bennyraz: and your point is

nikkyshyne:
And her point is, if a guy wanna fully date a lady, she should say it straight up. "Hey dude, I am a V, this is where I stand. Are you ready to respect my decision??"

It is left for the dude to take a decision. If he insist on still dating, the lady won't be held liable for starving him of sexx. Afterall, she told you at the beginning. He should deal with it.

ItsModella: Because they are not virgins either physically or mentally. Like Slimyem said, real virgins almost never talk about it. Real virgins would never declare openly "I am a virgin" if they don't have an interior motive. Many girls claim virginity because they think it sounds cool and would attract more guys to them. Some might not be virgins but claim virginity for the same reason. I understand it's a thing of pride but it's not something to declare openly to some random person.

WAM?:
This is funny and very lame if you would ask me. If I went to school to be a Dr and I introduce my self as Dr whatever- how would that be an issue. M[b]y dear the worst person to lie to is yourself. If you are a Christian ; say it act it. If you are a virgin say it if you choose to- its a free world[/b]. Why should you be attacked for saying who you are. If you are not a virgin- say it if you want to..If you are a hoe- say it and be proud of it. We all have been given choices and we all would have to live up to the consequences of our choices. Shikena.

berem: Can't remember the last time I heard of the word "virgin" until I started reading Onila's pro-virgin rantings! Being a virgin before marriage isn't an omen but I hate when it sounds as if other women are w.h.o.r.e.s cos they ain't virgins! Gosh!

Goldieluks: A real virgin is suppose to keep the details to herself and her future husband. Only a freak, I repeat a FREAK would come on a socia site such as this, to claim they are virgins.

Who cares if they are mother mary miss virgin?? They declare it to the world because they are desperate to get hooked to an online entity. Even if the so-called virgin is looking to hook a guy online with her virginity, why not send a private message to that particualr guy, singing songs of your virginity to him?? Do we all have to know?? Does being a virgin guarantee a blissful and 'happily ever after' fairy tales??

Am not here to discourage our virgin marys, but do well to keep your sanity to yourself, it is your own personal treasure, and not for the public to feast on. Nuff said!