190: this OP must be freecocoa in disguise

190: this OP must be freecocoa in disguise

190: this OP must be freecocoa in disguise

kunletiwoo: Worry-less, cheer Up! And patiently wait for your own time.

190: ^ I just saw your pic, I think i understand why they are breaking your heart

190: ^ I just saw your pic, I think i understand why they are breaking your heart

190: ^ I just saw your pic, I think i understand why they are breaking your heart

ednut1: are u thinkin what am tinking

joeydozzy:

190:

amygreat24: Sometimes I ask myself is not like am d worst person on earth!

Why am I this lonely! Why do men find it difficult to appreciate me,why

am I bein taken for granted!

Why are the bad ones getting everything good nd very happy Nd d good ones depressed,sad Nd lonely Dis thing called life!

amygreat24: Sometimes I ask myself is not like am d worst person on earth! Why am I this lonely! Why do men find it difficult to appreciate me,why am I bein taken for granted! Why are the bad ones getting everything good nd very happy Nd d good ones depressed,sad Nd lonely Dis thing called life!

Life is only unfair if you let it get to you. . .

If you dwell on happy thoughts, happiness will always come your way. Remain positive and never allow any negative sentiments dispel your positivity. Happiness comes from giving. I am not asking you to give money or gifts, but start with seemingly little and inconsequential things like, a smile. Give a smile to someone down, and receive a smile yourself. Share your time with people that will appreciate it. I do not know about you, but a "thank you" from someone i made smile, makes my day anyday.

Learn to love and respect yourself and your body, and people will respect you for that. Distinguish yourself from your contemporaries and let there be this aura of happiness, a noticeable difference about you. You cannot give what you do not have.

Realize that there are some things you cannot control or cannot change. So, do not try to change the unchangeable. Be responsible for yourself first. Love yourself and make yourself happy then your happiness will radiate and draw happy people to you. Do not waste your love on anyone that will not reciprocate it. If anyone does not appreciate you for who you are, it is their problem and not yours. Don't force anyone to like you, else they would notice it and take undue advantage of you. . .

Life is good, but with challenges. Maintaining positivity entails that you accept whatever challenge life throws at you and make it advantageous to your self. Learn from your experiences and mistakes and help others avoid the mistakes you made. It's a race that never ends. It only ends when you give up, so never you give up. . .

Loneliness is quite normal sometimes. Instead of dwelling negatively on your loneliness and getting sad over it, turn it to an advantage. Read a book, learn something new like how to cook a different kind of dish or something challenging or worthwhile. If you hate yourself, you will remain sad. That you have been hurt before doesnt mean you would be hurt again, but how would you know that if you decide to remain stuck up in that cocoon you have spun around yourself? How would you know if you have refused to move on? Why should you allow yourself to be weighed down by things you cannot change? Things you have no control over? Why should you allow someone make you sad? Sadness is normal, but you should fight it. Remaining sad is abnormal.

Life is not fair but people derive happiness and satisfaction from it. You can too. The bad ones are not happy. . . That is just an illusion. The bad ones find it difficult to sleep at night, but they won't tell you. . .

Remain positive about life, my dear, and things will turn around for you, even if it may seem slow. Turn obstacles into stepping stones, and try to see the blessing in every disappointment. . . I know you can do it. I can feed you, but it is up to you to swallow the food. . .

MRbrownJAY:

CLUE #1: this person doesn't think too highly of herself, and instead of embracing the great person that she is, she is here putting herself at the bottom of the ladder with the worst out there....... Yet expects others to value her, when she doesn't even value herself.



CLUE #2: this person only values her life thanks to the appreciation that MEN will have of her. MEN are the only medium she uses in deciding whether she is happy or not, MEN is the only medium she uses when deciding what fulfillment is all about..... And we can certainly conclude that the opinion of MEN is everything to this rather sad person.



CLUE #3:this person expects men to value her regardless of the image she projects to the world. She "claims" she isn't the worst out there, yet probably never showcase what's GREAT about her, BUT she expects the attention of men nevertheless.......Who would want to be with a miserable negative person that looks down on themselves? Is life a gamble now?



CLUE #4: she now focusses on other people's lives claiming that THEY are bad yet happy, as if this will either solve the problem or bring clues as to what is wrong in HER life. Who gives a damn what others do in their lives?! The important part is that, as much as you want to look down on their person, THEY are happy while you aren't.

CONCLUSION: the day you start to focus on YOURSELF, the day you start to love YOURSELF, the day you start to value YOURSELF...... Is the day you will have half a chance on attracting the right person to your life.

amygreat24: I just want u to know that u put a smile on someone's face today, I will never forget those words,am grateful! Thnx sexkillz *hugs*

You are welcome. . . I put a smile on your face, it has automatically put a smile on mine. You see how that works? Hakuna Matata. . .

sexkillz: Life is only unfair if you let it get to you. . .

If you dwell on happy thoughts, happiness will always come your way. Remain positive and never allow any negative sentiments dispel your positivity. Happiness comes from giving. I am not asking you to give money or gifts, but start with seemingly little and inconsequential things like, a smile. Give a smile to someone down, and receive a smile yourself. Share your time with people that will appreciate it. I do not know about you, but a "thank you" from someone i made smile, makes my day anyday.

Learn to love and respect yourself and your body, and people will respect you for that. Distinguish yourself from your contemporaries and let there be this aura of happiness, a noticeable difference about you. You cannot give what you do not have.

Realize that there are some things you cannot control or cannot change. So, do not try to change the unchangeable. Be responsible for yourself first. Love yourself and make yourself happy then your happiness will radiate and draw happy people to you. Do not waste your love on anyone that will not reciprocate it. If anyone does not appreciate you for who you are, it is their problem and not yours. Don't force anyone to like you, else they would notice it and take undue advantage of you. . .

Life is good, but with challenges. Maintaining positivity entails that you accept whatever challenge life throws at you and make it advantageous to your self. Learn from your experiences and mistakes and help others avoid the mistakes you made. It's a race that never ends. It only ends when you give up, so never you give up. . .

Loneliness is quite normal sometimes. Instead of dwelling negatively on your loneliness and getting sad over it, turn it to an advantage. Read a book, learn something new like how to cook a different kind of dish or something challenging or worthwhile. If you hate yourself, you will remain sad. That you have been hurt before doesnt mean you would be hurt again, but how would you know that if you decide to remain stuck up in that cocoon you have spun around yourself? How would you know if you have refused to move on? Why should you allow yourself to be weighed down by things you cannot change? Things you have no control over? Why should you allow someone make you sad? Sadness is normal, but you should fight it. Remaining sad is abnormal.

Life is not fair but people derive happiness and satisfaction from it. You can too. The bad ones are not happy. . . That is just an illusion. The bad ones find it difficult to sleep at night, but they won't tell you. . .

Remain positive about life, my dear, and things will turn around for you, even if it may seem slow. Turn obstacles into stepping stones, and try to see the blessing in every disappointment. . . I know you can do it. I can feed you, but it is up to you to swallow the food. . .