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Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by femijck(m): 1:35pm On Oct 09, 2012

Don't knw maybe dis wil work fr u o...but fr me mehn na d tablet i dey use b dat.

just get anoda one ASAP even if u knw u dnt av any future wit ha..cal ha wen u feels lyk talking to a girl ,spend time wit ha ,and use ha to wipe away ur free time...bt be careful coz u may end up falling in luv o...BOL

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by pweeryambre: 1:35pm On Oct 09, 2012

CHESSBOARD: If you r in Lagos visit 3rd mainland bridge and jump into the lagoon, mstscheew

Haba easy nah, not everybody dat has dsame temperament or enduring spirit like u do,. Meanwhile if everyone acts according to wat is expected, the world is just going to be too boring don't u think.

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by greatgod2012(f): 1:37pm On Oct 09, 2012

thinking about ur ex like dis means u really love her so much, i think all u have to do is to forgive her and move on with ur life, always get busy and develop a good atitude towards everybody, move on with ur life, there is always a better person, but find time to be patient in finding another persson i.e be careful in finding another person. Above all, dont think of committing suicide, life goes on........

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 1:42pm On Oct 09, 2012

sexkillz: Delete her from your life. . . Delete all photos, contacts, unfollow her from twitter, Facebook and everywhere. Avoid places you visited together, avoid songs that reminds you or her.

Rearrange your house. Change the position of your bed, sofa, TV, whatever it was that you are used to seeing her in.[i][/i]

Get very busy. Buy a game console, play a very challenging game, read a book, learn a skill, etc. Just keep your self so busy that you hardly have time to think about her.

AVOID thinking of replacing her. . . Stay out of love.

It won't be easy but don't give up the fight. . .

Sexkillz, this is serious o. Na war ni?

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Acecube(m): 1:45pm On Oct 09, 2012

you no well grin

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by dabrake(m): 1:46pm On Oct 09, 2012

Anytime such memory flashes itself, counter it by imagining the cost of garri production. It works

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by igosee: 1:50pm On Oct 09, 2012

[quote author=CHESSBOARD]If you r in Lagos visit 3rd mainland bridge and jump into the lagoon, I bet you, you wont even remember ur ex in the next world mstscheew[/quote

You must be wicked and heartless....you have never fail in love before hence your comment, idiot

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by DrGboy(m): 1:54pm On Oct 09, 2012

4gt about her totally by spending your time studying, no tym 4 love.when it's tym, u'll find d ryt 1. grin

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 09, 2012

ik121: Broke up with my ex close to a month now. We dated for 18 months. Currently now am single and sort of enjoying my freedom. She was double dating and at the same time telling me lies lies lies.

I found out and d break up turned nasty. She didn't really give a hoot about the breakup because she wanted me to read in between the lines but i failed to.(avoiding me, giving excuses, stopped calling and wouldn't return my calls/sms, etc)

She seems to be very happy wit her new dummy. Now the problem am having is how to get her outta my system. Her thoughts always creep into my mind during my quiet moments (the good times we shared together, the sexx, money lavished on her, the deceit, lies, etc) and it makes me so sad.

It's obvious we r never going to get back together. Am trying so hard to resist the temptation of calling her(i have her number up in my head). I've disposed of everything that reminds me of her but her thoughts keep coming back.

Please how do i ward this off.

Thanks a lot.

My Advice -- Go to Church and hook up with a Sister! wink

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by pastorprosper(m): 2:00pm On Oct 09, 2012

Get born-again if u are NT and if u are become more involved in church, trust me it works like magic.

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Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Oct 09, 2012

pastor prosper :
Get born-again if u are NT and if u are become more involved in church, trust me it works like magic.

I don talk am Before na grin

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Hemanwel(m): 2:15pm On Oct 09, 2012

OP,y u dey fall my hand nah??Gurls yakpa!Abi u worwor ni?
Better still,get a correct soap n do SOAPY(self-service ur life out).U wont r'mba any Oshere,one bit!
Gurls??Dia fada!!!

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Oct 09, 2012

Hemanwel: OP,y u dey fall my hand nah??Gurls yakpa!Abi u worwor ni?
Better still,get a correct soap n do SOAPY(self-service ur life out).U wont r'mba any Oshere,one bit!
Gurls??Dia fada!!!

How many Meters away from Civilization Bro? undecided

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Hemanwel(m): 2:29pm On Oct 09, 2012

El Guapo:

How many Meters away from Civilization Bro?

Wu b dis one wey dey mumble?Dem shit u or dem vomit u?

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Oct 09, 2012

190: DUDE WHAT EVER YOU DO DONT COMMIT SUICIDE

GADDAMNIT! 190 shocked

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by kunletade(m): 2:36pm On Oct 09, 2012

i believe with time you will get rid of her taught... mine was something that affected me for close to three weeks here is my story:

There is this girl i have been eyeing for quiet a while, one day i summoned courage to woo her not knowing that my taught have also been in her mind for quiet a while to cut the long story short she signed the contract.

we started calling each other, i called her close to 5 times before the day runs out and she calls me like twice a day for me that is a good start, sometimes we spend the whole of the night talking about our crazy childhood and stuff like that.

i finally invited her to my house and she came so yours truly was going through her contact when i started seeing names like: honey, sweet pie, my boo, honey love, and so on, my heart racing and my palms suddenly became sweaty i confront her and she boldly told me she had close to 35 boyfriend, by this time my eyes had turn red and only if i blind tears will have roll down from my eyes, she notice the sudden change and she even told me that "She believed that i am man enough to compete with the other guy" at this point i feel like killing sum body.

After that day i promise myself not to fall for any girl again in my life... So Mr. Man get used to it... life goes on...

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by sunkoye: 2:38pm On Oct 09, 2012

gazilion: You'll always have the flash backs except the soul tie between both of you is broken.
If you are born again, pray this prayer points please.
1. Every evil between me and my past sexual partners, break break break in the name of Jesus.
2. Every soul tie between me and my past sexual partners, break by the thunder fire of God in the name of Jesus.
Alternatively, you can go to any mountain of fire and miracles ministry for counselling and helps.

u just missed a vital part of op story. person dey shine congo u dey ask am if he don born again. abi na so ur own born again be? abeg open eye joor!

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 2:40pm On Oct 09, 2012

ik121: Broke up with my ex close to a month now. We dated for 18 months. Currently now am single and sort of enjoying my freedom. She was double dating and at the same time telling me lies lies lies.

I found out and d break up turned nasty. She didn't really give a hoot about the breakup because she wanted me to read in between the lines but i failed to.(avoiding me, giving excuses, stopped calling and wouldn't return my calls/sms, etc)

She seems to be very happy wit her new dummy. Now the problem am having is how to get her outta my system. Her thoughts always creep into my mind during my quiet moments (the good times we shared together, the sexx, money lavished on her, the deceit, lies, etc) and it makes me so sad.

It's obvious we r never going to get back together. Am trying so hard to resist the temptation of calling her(i have her number up in my head). I've disposed of everything that reminds me of her but her thoughts keep coming back.

Please how do i ward this off.

Thanks a lot.

DONT SWEAT IT HOMES. IT WILL HAPPEN GRADUALLY. KEEP BUSY , GET A HOBBY( GET a life)

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by mallorca(m): 2:46pm On Oct 09, 2012

Guy u get time oo

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Joyland(m): 2:46pm On Oct 09, 2012

Thank God that she did not infect you with any disease (STD).

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by AngelaUdoka(f): 2:48pm On Oct 09, 2012

U can get over ur ex by taking Green-tea alwaz

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by sluch333: 2:52pm On Oct 09, 2012

well i will say sorry cus such is bound to happen. its a deep pain in the heart, you loved her so much and you trusted her such that you believe she can't betray you, am a victim too, so learn this tactics. 1. no matter what she must have done to you, please forgive her
2. if you are a christian, give your life to christ, with him you have lost nothing
3. concentrate on new developments in your life
4. give yourself a break about relationships
5. pray always for God to lead you to your future partner
like i said earlier, my Ex was cheating on me way back and i never said anything cus i so much loved her and finally she told me she has found someone else, imagine 3months after, she called me that she was so sorry and if i can get her a place of work, begged me for money which i gave her, and that she want me to take her back, and you know what, just when she left me, more than 30 girls came knocking on my door for relationships and i kept laughing at them and to God be the glory my place of work relocated me abroad, she heard and was asking me to send things to her, i know am better now than without her. Good luck my friend

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by hyelhira: 2:53pm On Oct 09, 2012

gazilion: You'll always have the flash backs except the soul tie between both of you is broken.
If you are born again, pray this prayer points please.
1. Every evil between me and my past sexual partners, break break break in the name of Jesus.
2. Every soul tie between me and my past sexual partners, break by the thunder fire of God in the name of Jesus.
Alternatively, you can go to any mountain of fire and miracles ministry for counselling and helps.

What the mango? break, thunder, fire - on top what? Common! undecided

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by ceejay80s(m): 3:00pm On Oct 09, 2012

@ OP, try and visit the brothel regularl after short time u go 4get ur ex b4 u reach house

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Oct 09, 2012

2makeit: This is what i did when my happened.

1. First i forgave her, don't hold a grudge (which is really hard)

2. Break up is never one person's fault, i am not taking side but learn from this experience.

3. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

See it has Pain to Purpose....the reason for the breakup is because there is someone better (there is always someone better)

Peace Bro.

You are very correct with the point that says, ''there is someone better''.

Your target should be meeting someone better than the lost gal as fast as possible..

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Oct 09, 2012

dabrake: Anytime such memory flashes itself, counter it by imagining the cost of garri production. It works

Madness no good for afternoon.

The best thing you can do to a heartbreaker is getting a more beautiful, shapely, caring and loving girl by all standards and innocently flaunt your new catch in front of her. By doing this, you have spoken volumes. Levels must continue changing in an upward progression.

Re: How Can One Get Over An Ex? by Nobody: 3:24pm On Oct 09, 2012

@OP: I had a relationship of 4 years I ended mid-last year, I thought I would never get over it but now I am very much gone - though I miss the poosi tongue

I'd advice you Bleep as many as possible, just keep fucking - do this for like a month and you'd forget she ever existed.
Just my 2 cents grin

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