Almost all ladies i ve met theses days are really pressurizing me on settling down,@ 27 though a federal worker with lots of family responsibilities i still have lots of issues to sort out before marriage,i am presently out from a relationship because of this...she wan book me for marriage..wetin i go do now? maybe i have to go back to sweet 16

well everyone knows you shouldn't give in to any pressure whatsoever cos it's entirely your decision but what you fail to realise is that she's ready for marriage and you aren't. When you're ready for one, do you think she'd wait for you? You might lose out on your soulmate cos of your decision. You just need to sit down, set your priorities straight. If you feel you ain't ready for it, fine. If you think your issues can only be sort out before marriage, fine but always think about the long run effects

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youngalex: Almost all ladies i ve met theses days are really pressurizing me on settling down

You mean almost ALL the ladies you've met?
Are they pressurizing you to marry them? Or marry someone else?

'Almost ALL ladies!'
Bro, can you spare a brother some of your excess Phone Numbers?

why i said almost all is that the ones i met few months ago said they are not ready to wait that long(like 5 years),i discovered one natural fact about women,they will convince you that you don't need to have the whole world before you marry after the marriage if you fail to provide for them she will literally make you hypertensive by her incessant derogatory statements ....i choose to remain single till am emotionally and financially ready for marriage

youngalex: why i said almost all is that the ones i met few months ago said they are not ready to wait that long(like 5 years),i discovered one natural fact about women,they will convince you that you don't need to have the whole world before you marry after the marriage if you fail to provide for them she will literally make you hypertensive by her incessant derogatory statements ....i choose to remain single till am emotionally and financially ready for marriage

@bolded- you seem to have it all under control- can't see the pressure here

Realistically, u ar 27,employed. U ar nt 2 young 2 start ur own family.

Don't allow yourself to be pressured, you have to be ready first.

http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2012/10/7-things-to-work-on-before-you-say-yes.html

Myne White: Don't allow yourself to be pressured, you have to be ready first.

http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2012/10/7-things-to-work-on-before-you-say-yes.html

Msheeew

youngalex: Almost all ladies i ve met theses days are really pressurizing me on settling down,@ 27 though a federal worker with lots of family responsibilities i still have lots of issues to sort out before marriage,i am presently out from a relationship because of this...she wan book me for marriage..wetin i go do now? maybe i have to go back to sweet 16

D best advice i'm gonna say 2 u is dt u shd date younger girls like 19years old.They wont query u abt marryin dem.....