Women say they want a nice guy, yet usually end up dating bad boys. Here’s why.
Not real: Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real”. Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart.



Respect: No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect = No attraction.

Predictable: Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable + No excitement + No challenge = I prefer a bad boy.

Mother Nature: Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think that will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved.

Fixer-Upper: Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.



Sperm wars: Women are designed to procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave.

Fear of intimacy: If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary.

Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re not familiar with.

Sex: Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.

Hot: Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot”.
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After reading the above, I decided to bring it here for deliberation. I think the ladies in the house are the ones that would say if the above is true or false.

bullcrap

Oh I find this post too good to be true with the kind of walking creatures among nigerian men.
When I meet that mr nice dude as potrayed in ur post. I shall be back to share my testimony.

Op,naturally I'm nice,so if your post is anything to go by,I will likely not have women on my heels.

The whole post is laughable.

k2039: Op,naturally I'm nice,so if your post is anything to go by,I will likely not have women on my heels.

The whole post is laughable.

You are nice

***Stammering***
I don't get it...

I will choose a nice guy any day over a jerk.

candygosh:
You are nice

Yes,I said that in my post.

I am nice to ladies but have been keep that part due to bad experiences from the ladies.

There some elements of truth in the op and I explain when I get power supply. Na darkness i dey hia so, i cant type on my laptop.

Crap!

cindyrella: Crap!

it is no crap

Biggest load of poo I have seen in a while

In addition to the OP's post, most 'bad boys' are extremely extrovert, so never find it difficult to start up a conversation with any lady. While the Nice guys are always timid/shy,so conversation with them is seen as boring.

99% of nice guys are fugly guys.