you can put the money u r willing to spend on a gift card instead the u give that to her so she can get what she wants

mondi_cheeks: you can put the money u r willing to spend on a gift card instead the u give that to her so she can get what she wants

u too like money!!!

Les: u too like money!!!

its best she buys something she likes than for her to keep ur gift behind her old clothes...its common sense...its a gift card she cant exchange it for cash!

Women and cash policy...they are surfacing!

Les: u too like money!!!

''She'' dey for ur bedroom?

nekaa: I dont know o..buh my ex gave me a wallet.....that same wallet almost made me lost my house rent for oshodi today.....

L̳̿Ö̤̣̇☺ː̗̀ː̖́☺Ö̤̣̇ L̳̿......am seriously looking for an accomodatIon around Oshodi,cos that's where ma office is. Please I won't mind if you can help with it .tnx. My no is 07064983344.

How do you give people cash? Its pointless

Shollypopz: It's hard for anyone to be a terrible gift giver when I'm involved, I tell u what to get me! Shikena!

If u buy rubbish, make sure you hv the receipt, cos we're returning it. No cos for headache

Try that with me . . .

zoedicus:
Try that with me . . .

And what will happen??

Shollypopz:
And what will happen??

You are a regular "every black man's nightmare"

Strong, black, educated, independent and female

bad combination

190-the-clown:
Shollypopz drop the-pipe sweethart

What are u on about 190??

Mynd_44:
You are a regular "every black man's nightmare"

Strong, black, educated, independent and female

bad combination

*Blushes* .... Oh wait, should I be blushing or shaking my head?? Oh well, *sigh*

Shollypopz:
*Blushes* .... Oh wait, should I be blushing or shaking my head?? Oh well, *sigh*

I don talk my own

Well,don't think giving gifts to ladies should be a problem when there are lots of options available. I like buying perfumes for ladies most times but some sexy lingeries,teddy bears,customised jerseys,etc wont be out of place.

Well,don't think giving gifts to ladies should be a problem when there are lots of options available. I like buying perfumes for ladies most times but some sexy lingeries,teddy bears,customised jerseys,paintings,etc wont be out of place.

Mynd_44: How do you give people cash? Its pointless

ask am o. I fit use 1 or 2k buy cheap but beautiful gift but i cant giv d gal 1k or 2k as gift na, she go just de wonder, which kind hungry man we de give better babe like just 2k- u know? Something like that. So she wont appreciate it just d same way she wont appreciate it if i give her gifts she dont like. Dear mondi, if she likes, let her keep it in her water closet system, so far she reciprocates dat act of gift sharing, it's fine by me. Who cares wat she does wit it, dat's y it's called gift- give it free, thanks!

Les: ask am o. I fit use 1 or 2k buy cheap but beautiful gift but i cant giv d gal 1k or 2k as gift na, she go just de wonder, which kind hungry man we de give better babe like just 2k- u know? Something like that. So she wont appreciate it just d same way she wont appreciate it if i give her gifts she dont like. Dear mondi, if she likes, let her keep it in her water closet system, so far she reciprocates dat act of gift sharing, it's fine by me. Who cares wat she does wit it, dat's y it's called gift- give it free, thanks!

but in the end its money wasted. its better u give her a small amount she can actually use cash or a gift card

Shollypopz:
*Blushes* .... Oh wait, should I be blushing or shaking my head?? Oh well, *sigh*

funny lol you blushing on a bad compliment Smh

fijiano202:

funny lol you blushing on a bad compliment Smh

How are you sure it was bad?

And what makes you think it was a compliment?

Now its my turn to SMH

Les: ask am o. I fit use 1 or 2k buy cheap but beautiful gift but i cant giv d gal 1k or 2k as gift na, she go just de wonder, which kind hungry man we de give better babe like just 2k- u know? Something like that. So she wont appreciate it just d same way she wont appreciate it if i give her gifts she dont like. Dear mondi, if she likes, let her keep it in her water closet system, so far she reciprocates dat act of gift sharing, it's fine by me. Who cares wat she does wit it, dat's y it's called gift- give it free, thanks!

guy you give her the 2k in such a way shes gonna appreciate it ,like telling her to go do her hair or the spa and later take her to a bar with pool or hotel where she can swim shekinah.if her friends ask her how it went she would surely say you took her to the salon and later took her out,this ladies sometimes makes us use our brain more than we ever imagined cos you have to think and think for a way to make everyone gain-gain

cecilia.udoh:
i dont care abt any1s gift.giving 2 me is a voluntary act,as it pleases, i dont lack

it is a voluntary act but it still reflects how u value a person.

Mynd_44:
How are you sure it was bad?

And what makes you think it was a compliment?

Now its my turn to SMH

guy dont break ur neck with all this shaking, thats a true defination of a girl all nigerian guys dont wanna date or marry

fijiano202:

funny lol you blushing on a bad compliment Smh

KAI! My brother why no get sense like this naw??

It is an indirect compliment to me, the only reason why I should be shaking my head is that it is also pointing out a flaw in black men.

Why she no give me gift, meself dey fine who won give me gift, should it always be about ladies only why not guys too

fijiano202:

guy dont break ur neck with all this shaking, thats a true defination of a girl all nigerian guys dont wanna date or marry

Perhaps she is not in Nigeria so does not care

Lmao.....your jst nuts

Shollypopz: It's hard for anyone to be a terrible gift giver when I'm involved, I tell u what to get me! Shikena!

If u buy rubbish, make sure you hv the receipt, cos we're returning it. No cos for headache

A girl complained that when she asked a Nigerian Igbo guy for financial assistance, he gave her N5. But he spent over N1, 000 on a plate of food and a bottle of coke in her presence same day. The guy was toasting her for a relationship. That really scared her and she kept on saying that he was stingy until she married another person and that was how he lost her. Small tokens of gifts would have been enough to win her confidence in him.
What most women want in every relationship are just two very important things; comfort and security. And gifts are comforting to women.