Busta:

@topic,

and wats the big deal in washing plates?

None I guess

Lord_Reed:

I don't ask her to do stuff for me like that. Even though this sounds like am blowin my own trumpet am very romantic when it comes to askin for stuff like that. D other day we were in the kitchen together cooking a meal.
As for song n dance this is a[b] forum[/b] if I may remind u where we[b] discuss[/b] issues.

Thats what we are doing now, we are discussing.
U make it sound like its a taboo that she asked u to wash the plate.

In ur haste to reply don't over look my previous replies.
To recap some:
I mentioned her tone of voice.
I DO WASH THE DISHES.
The discussion is about wat should be the outlook in such matters in a relationship.
Thanks.

Na division of labour, just keep it up idiot (mumu)!

@poster
2 sum it up, its d undastanding u both av in the relat'shp, i rily dnt c anytin wrng in askin u 2 help wit d dishes,as u later concluded''we both laffed ova it''
@faitymine
kindly reed thru b4 pstin RUBBISH,

@ thoniaslim, ur reply or comment is rude yet when other lander comment thus in post, u rain abuses. dont expect this from cos u shud know better. No harm intended.

@ poster, I dont see anything wrong wit most especially when she said please! and to crown it all u said ur girl not ur wife so u are not even married to her so wats the big deal instead u wud hav made it known to her rather than been worried. In my own case i do my washing, cooking, name it, even though she is most willing to do them thats just my way there is nothing wrong wit dat it has to be u and wat u want so u shud be able to carry that next person beside u along, my girl understand dat she does quarrel dat like she use to do wen we started initially, mind u i am real traditional man if u know wat i mean.

1 luv.

listen man, don't let nairalanders make you pick up a a quarrel with your wife a majority off them are very unreasonable and are just very insultive in nature, besides many of them can't handle girl friends how much more a wife, well just talk to your wife like the man you are; tell her that you took offence to the way and manner she spoke to you and you wouldn't entertain any more of that, tell her that even she wants you to do her a favour there are better ways to go about it and forget the whole issue

Lord_Reed:

In your haste to reply don't over look my previous replies.
To recap some:
I mentioned her tone of voice.
I DO WASH THE DISHES.
The discussion is about what should be the outlook in such matters in a relationship.
Thanks.

Ok sorry.
I understand what u mean now - but u said u looked at her with a tone as well and she understood.
I dont think it will happen again.

poster

if not because today is my friend's burfday. . .i'd have said u r stupid but i wont say it


the day my gf tries that with me. . . . . .then we gon have a problem. . . . trust me!. . .

what's the problem with a man washing the dishes? na wa o.

Simple, tell your girl that you do not like her tone of voice to tell me what to do! Be nice with calm voice asking me your favor to do wash her plate, then i will do wash it for her!

Simple, it is not hard to say something and this is what the committed relationship is all about!!!

noel76:

@ thoniaslim, your reply or comment is rude yet when other lander comment thus in post, u rain abuses. don't expect this from because u should know better. No harm intended.

Another one don come again? you all are just so pathetic. Whatever.

what a topic!!!!


and @ tonia2000:

housegirl too dey become wife o.

tori plenty o.

its good to pamper the guys but one should still have ones eyes wide open.

A fool at 20 is a fool forever!

@thoniaslim, wen ll u ever learn, grow up sister.

LMAO.

Fools would always be fools.

The fool has to do at last what the wise did at first.

Keep ranting, wen you get tired. you would stop.

And Silence is the best answer with to a fool

If washing plates will be the only problem in my relationship then I'm blessed.

Ol'boy! if e vex you that much, then switch to paper plates!

wonder how you'll act over something more serious!

She asked u to wash plate?? Then Wash it! - i already like her sef

buzzgonz:

And Silence is the best answer with to a[b] fool [/b]

Ain't that the Fruity Truitty?

_{Instigator---E be like say you like the "fool"!!!}

If you hate the girl then its a big deal,but if u like/love her its no biggie.

At least girls aint slaves,I wonder for the way some guys reason sef

[sub][/sub]hisses and walks out!!

MsCee:

hisses and walks out!!

** pulls her back in!**

@ ~Sly~(*_*)
I won't disguise my comment: You are a silly person who has to pretend wisdom in order to be noticed. When u have more constructive comments post in the meantime I suggest to take a hike n learn.
@Faitymine
With your big head like coconut do u have a life? Go n get one n then u can come n tell what it's like meanwhile SHARRUP! n give chance 2 people wit better tins 2 say.

To all those who have contributed their worthy comments thanks appreciate.

really there aint any big deal in plate washing. it was in the olden days that women do all the house chores. no adays, i see me giving the children a bath wen going to school just to help the wife out. nowadays there is a division of labour in a relationship/marriage. in the olden days, it is that man that fneds for the family in all respect regardless of how much the woman earns but now adays the family spendings is shared but with the man putting down the bulk. if that is the norm now, i dont see a reason why a man cant help out with the house chores. at least she said pls help me wash the plates not go and wash the plates. if a woman can feel so free to do that, that means thats a good relationship.

i will do the house chores if i get married

@Poster
I think the real issue here is that of understanding. Sometimes your girl may use an annoying tone of voice just to see your reaction. If that was the case, I believe you failed the test because you reacted pretty negatively. Don't judge a book by it's cover - I mean, don't judge the health of your relationship by the tone of her voice at that instance. You could spark off a war you didn't ask for.

Cheers

To be honest i don't see anything wrong in that. why do people like to take unnecessary thing so serious.
@poster sit down and think about it again and you'll see there is really no big deal about it.

Please make una no fight, the guy has explained himself and even apologised for sterotyping women as plate washers.
@D-reloaded, tnx, girl, nice atching out.

You are seriously sick with stupidity. So what, God never born the kind man wey go come tell me this kin rubbish, I swear.
Once more, So What? She asked you to wash plates and thats enough to start a whole thread. Abeg comot make we see men.

AISHA2 URE LEVEL IS TOO TIGHT!!
LMAO

Soon,women will want us to eat from their hairy plates

Gone are the days when women only spoke when they were spoken to.Would my grandmum ask my grandad to wash plates? What an outrage!

yes. gone are those days.

nothing wrong with guys washing plates or a woman asking the guy to do dishes. na wah for men sef.

after eating, what's the big deal doing your own dish?? leprosy or withlow abi na weakloo catch your hand?