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Sirchiboy:No. She is my mum. I love her unconditionally. Especially as a man. But, just because I can put up with her shenanigans and palaver does not mean I will entertain it from another person's daughter. It is like asking me if I can accept the noisy cries from another person's child. No. I hate it. I cannot. But I noticed that I do not mind kids who are my nieces and nephews crying. In fact I find them fummy when they bawl their eyes out. But I do seriously mind and I totally hate it when other people's (stranger's) kids cry and bother me. So the answer is NO! I MAY NOT WANT TO MARRY someone like my Mum. What I permit from my Mum who is my parent, birthed me, catered to and for me, nutured me and etc is not the same thing I will entertain from a woman I am marrying. Two different people. Two separate situations/circumstances. Yes I am Toxic Man, Wicked Man, Narccisistic, Mysoginistic, Unintentional Man, An Unreal Man, Stingy/Broke Arse Man, etc etc. I wear those Tags with pride and will judge you on your past, present and future and hold you totally accountable for every step that you take as a WOMAN. You will not get a hall pass because you have a vA GI NA AND OTHER COMMON BODY PARTS. |
Evaress:Yes! (1) Sexual Pleasure and Companionship and (2) to have a woman/someone agreeable that they Lead & Rule over! Funny enough Genesis after the fall, (NLT) says: "And you (the woman) will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you." It sounds funny. But the human intelligence has led us to garnish something so fundamentally simple with fancy words and fantasies because these cover the bitter ugly truth that the process of human procreation is so disgusting and nasty and so transactional that without these fantasies sorrounding relationships like dating and marriage, our intelligence will not even want us to try. Many men have observed women from childhood. Men did not just spring up from nowhere. Many men did observe women and girls from childhood and eventually, men realize they really arent attracted to women for anything else. Not their brains, not their brawn and not thier strength. Not their general ability to innovate, and survive on thier own without trying to rely and hope on someone else. Not their sense of humor. The usual factor is the prospects for sex and to validate self about being able to cater to/lead a woman (so that it promotes the possibility of sex in future). Many men will come lie to you. Because they want to be validated as nice and so called ''non-toxic'' and ''intentional'' guys. I do not care about all that. Finally, one thing is sure - almost all women have a vagina and boobs...It is a dime a dozen out there. But not all men are successful/capable and being mentally mature and emitonally grounded! |
OK LET US ASSUME THAT WE AGREE. WHAT OF A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT OWN A HOUSE EITHER ? IS SHE ALSO USELESS AND A FAILURE ? WHAT OF A WOMAN WHO HAS NOT SECURED AND MARRIED A DECENTLY SUCCESSFUL MAN AND HAD AT LEAST ONE (1) KID? SHE MUST ALSO BE A TOTAL FAILURE ! A CATASTROPHIC FAILURE ! A DISATER !! BECAUSE WHEN WE LET THE HAWK PERCH WE SHOULD ALSO LET THE EAGLE PERCH..WHICH EVER ONE THAT SAYS THE OTHER SHOULD NOT PERCH LETS ITS WINGS BREAK IN 100 PLACES. |
Evaress:They have decided to make valuable use of their time. Unfortunately, no matter how women feel, wish and complain, it wont change what men value in women. There will never be a day when women will force men to accept what they think a relationship, friendship, etc should be. A man's time, attention, energy and resources are all important to him. The time they waste in hanging out with you is the time they could have used to be productive. Or devote it to another lady/ladies beyond platonic hanging out. Argue as much as you can, men put up with a lot of women as company purely for sexual access. Many women are hardly funny. Argue without logic. Pushed by emotions. Want to be pedestalized. Hardly interested in what men want to talk about. You say you are different? That you are good company. Well that is you blowing your own trumpet and trying to claim being cool..But why should I take your word for it? Why? You are human and humans lie. Women lie and hide their true nature and flaws the most to fit into the society. So, it is when I hear from the men I can conclude. When men want female company they are NOT looking for a ''gee''. At all. They are not seeking a buddy. If they put up with this which means they have hopes of something else. Bestie-bestie na with the hope of say pant go shift one day. Without that prospect they will not waste their time and resources. They are not looking for all that ''almost-tomboyish'' or ''full-tomboyish'' energy that I percieve you bring. You are trying to fit in like you are their ''guy''. You are projecting masculine energy. Meanwhile that is not the vibe they want. What you bring, how you act, whan you do and how you behave is possibly a misrepsentation of the energy that they expect from a female. Many men lauhgh and smile and all that, but we hardly find many of you as smart, funny, intriguing or the harbourer of critical and beneficial information that will better our lives. We tolerate these because the desire for something in bwteen your legs is driving us. Another dimension is that men do not value a woman that other men have easy access to. Not to talk of the woman who is the one gaining the access by her own self/hands and initiaing the interaction with men. That is an uncontrollable woman. Totally. Argue all you want, men associate such a person to being promiscous and having no self control and self respect. Men know what drives other men. Even when a woman does not want to put herself out there men are chasing and trying and watching to pounce. Not to talk of the one who exposes herself to various men in the name of hanging out and having fun. Naaaaah. When it comes to female interaction men expect a challenge before access. Men want to hunt ..But You...You are like an animal that instead comes to die at their doorstep. They wont be pleased and they wont appreciate that. They assume something is not right with you. Many hunters will reject the animal and bury the animal because they do not know what illness has made it act strange and leave the protective solitude of the forest where it is protected a bit at least, to come die at the doorsteps of the hunter. Let us even assume they decide to eat the meat , they will be skeptical. YOU MIGHT ARGUE AGAINST THESE, BUT LET US REVIEW THE RESULTS FROM YOUR OWN WORDS. BASED ON RESULTS ALONE, THE MERE FACT THAT YOU HAVE MENTIONED THAT THEY GHOST YOU AFTERWARDS REVEALS THAT THEY DID AND DO NOT NOT FIND YOU INTERESTING OR YOUR COMPANY BENEFICIAL IN ANY WAY. IT IS A WASTE OF THEIR PRECIOUS TIME. EVEN WITH THE FREEBIES THEY HAVE SAID ''NOPE....WOULD RATHER SPEND MY TIME ON SOMETHING MORE BENEFICIAL''. |
WhiteIverson:From a purely scientific perspective there are more microbes in the mouth than a woman's vagina. So..... Dont worry ..no need to argue... Just verify and see. ![]() |
bixton:Unfortunately, I do not know and will never recommend any of these training centers to anyone. And I cannot really speak about any of them. I can only provide enough information to enable readers make an easy choice (I guess). For me, my Basic Fire Fighting came as Part of my BOSIET/HUET Training with Prime Atlantic (Ogun State) and then Renewed at Charkin (Rivers State), then renewed again at Prime Atlantic. I have also been sponsored to be trained by the fire service for general high rise buildig fire safety and emergency respnse plnning and management. I have not undergone any advanced fire training. a. IF A TRAINING CENTER IS RECOGNIZED BY THE OIL AND GAS INDUSTRY REGULATORS (NUPRC & NMDPRA) THEY MUST HAVE THE OGISP (Oil and Gas Industry Service Permit) and an accreditation, after the permit. b. By the PIA, 2021 and other Legislations NO BODY CAN OFFER A SERVICE IN THE PETROLEUM INDUSTRY IN NIGERIA WITHOUT A PERMIT. AND NO OIL COMPANY SHOULD ISSUE A CONTRACT OR RECOGNISE A SERVICE FROM ANY COMPANY THAT DOES NOT HAVE THE OIL AND GAS INDUSTRY SERVICE PERMIT. So it is safer to have your training and certificate from a recognized and accreditted training facility if your target is the oil and gas industry. c.For the Upstream Petroleum Sector in Nigeria, the Nigerian Upstream Petroleum Regulatory Commission (NUPRC) regulates this. Go to this webpage to see the list of current accreditted training service providers ( https://www.nuprc.gov.ng/health-safety ) . They always update this list. You will also see types of trainings that these companies have been accreddited and approved to offer. d. For the Midstream and Downstream Sector, the Nigerian Midstream and Downstream Petroleum Regulatory Agency (NMDPRA) , regulates this and if I am not mistaken they through this through a system under MISTDO. NMDPRA MISTDO stands for the Minimum Industry Safety Training for Downstream Operators. It is a program that is a mandatory safety certification program designed for personnel working in Nigeria's downstream oil and gas sector. I think they have this webpage as well ( https://mistdo.nmdpra.gov.ng/home/calender ) PLEASE NOTE THAT ATTENDING THESE COURSES DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU A JOB. THERE IS NO GUARANTEE. NOTHING IS GUARANTEED YOU EVEN IF YOU SPEN 1 BILLION GETTING CERTIFICATIONS. This is so that you have very realistic expectations. Good luck. |
ebubeson:Starch I find too soft. Prefer my swallows moldable. And why is there no pounded Yam, Cocoyam, Unripe plantain? All of them apart from Starch, please. Thank you. When should I expect them with the corresponding appropriate soups? 1) Akpu + Okra (2) Eba (Garri) + Eguisi (3) Semo + Efo / Afang /Edikaikong (4) Amala + Ewedu (5) Wheat + Efo / Afang (6) Starch + ewwwww! (7) Tuwo Masara + Eguisi 8. Pounded Yam /Cocoyam/ Unripe Plantain + Efo / Afang/Edikaikong |
dearpiriye:Yes. The plan is let her: -Get ISPON -Get NEBOSH IGC -If she wishes even get a Masters -Immerse herself in the discipline through various means (social medial, etc) -Get mentors and valuable professional network -Get busy with experience -And if she wishes, go from being a worker into being a consultant. She can even work and consult as a side hustle. As for me, besides working oil and gas, I chose to teach the discipline and consult as my own side hustle. I am invited by many training centers to come take courses and offer consultancy service for HAZIDS,HAZOPS, Bow ties, and usage/deployment of specialized tools like PHAST & SAFETI. Consequence Modeling and Quantitative Risk Assessment is my thing. I hope her path is blessed with success. Good luck ! |
Uselessness in Low Places. But then… It is content and productively generates revenue to and for someone. Content has come to stay and useless content will become more prevalent. Complain a billion times, when you follow the money, you will realize that it will only get worse. Eventually, many will develop apathy to the nonsense. Many will be swayed by it. A few will remain quietly stoic and conscious of its uselessness to one’s existence. Many others too will protest against its possible influence in the society. It won’t stop. It won’t go away. One’s attention is the new currency and time is money and valuable. YOU GET GOOD AT WHAT YOU SPEND YOUR TIME ON THROUGH DISCIPLINE. CHOOSE & DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO SPEND YOUR TIME ON USEFUL THINGS SO YOU CAN GET GOOD AT THEM. |
Kola5281:None that I know of. And most of the other strong professionals here like myself will advise you to be careful before you go pay for a certificate that will not be recognized when it matters the most. Always Use credible accredited training service providers. |
dearpiriye:The HSE Discipline and Profession needs to be understood. There is the general appreciation knowledge and skills. Mainly under occupational health and safety. And there are other in-depth and specialist knowledge and skills that require certain background knowledge like in Engineering. Let me give you an example. If you like have 10000 NEBOSH IGCs FROM THE MOON. I WONT LET YOU TOUCH A VALVE IN MY PROCESS PLANT. NEBOSH IGC It is just a high level HSE Appreciation/Basic OHS course. It is not Chemical Process Safety. No. To be proficient at Chemical process safety it is usually good to have an Engineering degree. So this discipline has General Areas and Specific Areas. Tell your sis she can work as an OHS Officer/Professional/ Advisor and other fancy names. Job Opportunities ——————————- 1.It is really difficult to judge the demand for HSE Professionals right now. Nigeria for many reason does not have, create or keep records. 2. HSE culture is poor and many industries are poorly regulated. Consequently many companies see HSE as a problem. And with poor HSE regulation there is nothing encouraging companies to comply. First there must be regulators, then the rules, then companies will need dedicated HSE Teams. For now I can tell you that with unserious regulators no one is compelled to hire HSE professionals as much as they would have done if regulators and inspectors where busy. It is a difficult question to answer. She should complete her program and give it a shot. She can also try to work as a consultant too. Or get a job first in a consulting company before eyeing the Oil Companies. No one knows her “Chi” or her “Ori” . We can only encourage her to give it her best and hope. Also she should first get ISPON. It is law that she gets that before even practicing in Nigeria. But as Nigeria no serious who send? Nobody cares. Besides ISPON will enable her immerse herself in the fundamentals of the discipline before paying for NEBOSH. Tell her not to forget to subscribe to HSE groups on LinkedIn and get feeds from this niche. These will help her immensely immerse herself in the profession. |
bixton:1. Fire Fighting training comes at various levels. From Basic Fire Fighting to Advanced. 2. Depending on the industry, some industry regulators accredit trainers and will not recognize any certificate from a non-accredited training center. Please beware of this. For instance the oil and gas industry depending on whether UPSTREAM or MIDSTREAM&DOWNSTREAM the trainer must have an OGISP from NUPRC or NMDPRA. A must. Do not listen to any stories a training school tells you or lies they lie to you. Be sure you are selecting the right choice depending on your circumstances and why you need the training. Determine the level and the context. Good luck! |
They have no basic fear, regard or respect for Nigerias. So these lawmaker are telling that a lawmaker that works for 8 years for instance wants lifetime pension which will be larger than that of a civil servant who worked for 35 years. Meanwhile the salary and benefits of this same lawmaker per yearwhile he was in service as a lawmaker could be larger that the civil servant's 10 years salary and benefits put together. We havent even counted the oppurtunities they have to steal (and practically all of them do and did steal) public funds. In hundreds of millions and into billions. So in any case the Politician wins. They have no fear of Niegrians. And they have no conscience to guide them. |
Dogalmighty17:The money you will use to raise a child that isnt yours for 18-25 years is more than that amount. I am an advocate of 3 Peace of Mind Tests: a. Immediately the child is born (First Paternity Test) b. Immediately you leave the Clinic and take the baby home (Do not trust Nigerian Hospitals) c. Final confirmatory Test Three (3) Tests per kid. |
EmmyMaestro:''USELESS'' MEN ARE EVERLY READY O. JUST GIVE US DATE AND TIME AND PLACE... MAKE WE TAKEK ALOMO ABI MAKE WE NO TAKE? ![]() |
Kalatium:WHY CAN YOU JUST TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY YOU WERE A ''LONG THROAT'' NO ONE DID ANYTHING TO YOU. YOU WERE A LONGER THROAT... JUST SAY ''NO THANK YOU'' WHY BLAME OTHER PEOPLE WHEN GREED MOTIVATES YOU ?!!! |
[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139435993]“If any man keeps malice with me for just 3 days, I’ll sleep with another man” – Lady declares A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing her controversial opinion on relationships while reacting to the alleged cheating scandal involving singer Chike and the ex-wife of media personality Frank Edoho. In a viral video shared on X (formerly Twitter), the lady defended women who cheat in relationships, claiming that prolonged silence and unresolved issues between couples often push women into the arms of other men. According to her, no woman would remain completely loyal for too long if her partner decides to keep malice instead of resolving problems in the relationship. In her words, she said: “If any man try to keep malice with me in a relationship because we’re having issues, the highest I can be loyal for you is three days. Me and you are dating and we’re quarrelling. I no talk to you, you no come beg me, the highest I can promise you that I won’t give out my body to another man is three days. “So Chike we love you, thank you for being a shoulder for her to cry on when she needed you, we love you and we’re proud of you. For once the men should be proud too. So if you keep keeping malice with your woman, another man will take your place.” Her statement has since generated mixed reactions online, with many social media users criticizing her stance on infidelity, while others argued that communication are important in relationships. The controversy follows ongoing social media discussions surrounding allegations involving Chike and Frank Edoho’s ex-wife, which have continued to trend online. !!!!!!! HALLELUJAHHHH .....WHAT WE HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR. SEE ENJOYMENT IS COMING ON ITS WAY. MAY IT BE UNTO HER AS SHE HAS PROFESSED...MAY IT BE UNTO YOU OOOO...AND MAY THE CONSEQUENCES OF THIS FOOLISHNESS NEVER LEAVE YOU BUT MEET YOU IN FULL MEASURE. PLEASE GIVE YOUR BODY TO MEN.... WE ARE HOPING AND PRAYING THAT YOU ALL WILL BE LIKE THIS..... PLEASE, ALL MARRIED WOMEN IN NIGERIA WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR.....? SOME OF YOU HAVE STAYED 1 HOUR WITH YOUR HUSBANDS KEEPING MALICE... PLEASE MEN ARE AVAILABLE WITH ALOMO BITTERS SOME WITH CONDOMS AND SOME WITHOUT... PLEASE GIVE US THE DATE AND TIME..... |
demolagilbert:I strongly share the same opinion. Should I decide to marry, and we separate, or my wife passes, I am never marrying agian. Naah... |
It is interesting being Nigerian.... I dont wht but the best I can do for now is just to laugh.... ![]() I just cannot help it but laugh. Wahala dey sha.... |
Lij (Ras) Tafari Makonnen ! |
BlackViper:Foolishness at its peak. And who says Dangote too must know Chemical Engineering and Food Processing Technology....? DO NOT HATE SOMEONE AND SPEAK BAD ABOUT THE PERSON JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE ANGRY... TINUBU TOO OR TRUMP SHOULD KNOW ALL THE PROFESSIONS REQUIRED FOR ALL MINISTRIES, DEPARTMENTS AND AGENCIES... |
uche87:Stupendous confirmation bias. DEATH IS NOT THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO A MAN! Please give me the data of the thousands that slept and woke and some even did this and retired peacefully and happily in that UK. Now give me the thousands that sletp in Nigeria and did not wake up ( JUST WITHIN 24 HRS IN NIGERIA...DONT GO TOO FAR). AGAIN....DEATH IS NOT THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO A MAN! I WOULD RATHER TRAVEL TO THAT OBODOD ABROAD, WORK THREE (3) JOBS AND BE USEFUL AND PRODUCTIVE FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE THAT ENDURE A SYSTEM SET OUT TO PREY ON ME, FRUSTRATE ME, AND PRACTICALLY DESIGNED TO KILL MY INNOVATION AND MAKE ME FAIL. Now you can argue that some people are here Nigeria making it. I agree. But Biko what is the probability that if i start a business in Nigeria and another starts a business in UK for instance, the UK system will not support the business? Unless the person is ignorant about the avrious grants, supports etc. Many Nigerians run from these because their intentions here is to ''scam'' the system. If you are honest in your dealings there are resources here to suppport your innovation. You will be held to ery high standards. In canada, USA, UK, Australia (for instance) there are assistance programs, etc that are set up to ensure businesses survive, with the Directors not asking a girl entrerprenuer to come to a hotel and sleep with them if they want the grant. LIKE I WILL ALWAYS SAY. I LOVE THAT I AM FROM A TRIBE IN NIGERIA. THE COUNTRY ITSELF, I HATE THE WAY IT IS ADMINISTERED. BUT YOU SEE YOU GUYS WHO COME TO MALIGN AND VILIFY THOSE THAT CHOSE TO LEAVE THE COUNTRY? ONE DAY UNA GO PASS IELTS. Because it is when MOST OF YOU HAVE FAILED OR ARE NOT QUALIFIED TO JAPA THAT YOU GET ANGRY AND GET BITTER. If this is not the case then these posts are government propaganda and it is useless. The pull factors (overseas) and push factors (in Nigeria) are so strong that many people, not oppurtuned to set up businesses and get good jobs and live a comfortable, would rather leave the country. |
Lovelink1991:P I G !.....
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Rep9jaCom:I choose to remain unmarried, If these are the options available today.
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Whalis:Confined space entry + toxic gas exposure issues... |


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