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Una dey make me laugh. Listen WOMAN, Let us not even make it an African thing. It's not African. It's a GLOBAL thing that DOUBLE STANDARDS is reality and will never stop being a part of life! Cry all you want. Fight it all you want, it will never go away. And you will get hurt and damaged and pay the consequences. There will never be a day humans will be treated equally across:

- Class
- Power and Authority
- Age
-Race
-Tribe/Ethnicity
- Faith
- Gender
- Marital Status
- Educational Status

That day will never come!!!

If I go and steal with Seyi Tinubu you think the law will treat us the same way? You foolishly think the society will be fair enough to treat us the same way? Hahaha. Idiocy oooooooo!!!!

Let's be honest with ourselves. All over the world, from America to Europe to Asia to Africa men get away with cheating more than women do. Cry all you want. IT WILL NEVER STOP TILL THE WORLD ENDS 5000 times over !

REALITY is different from wishful thinking. A man cheats, people will say "men are scum", "he's a dog", but after 2 weeks, people move on. His job still respects him. His family still welcomes him. In many cases his wife still stays.

A woman cheats, even in America, even in London, she is labeled, shamed, dragged, her character is finished. Her husband, no matter how much he loved her, struggles to ever look at her the same way again. It's biology, it's ego, it's how men are wired globally.

So this idea of "he cheated, so I will cheat back to show him" is the most foolish revenge you can take as a woman. Men with joysticks will ever be ready. INFACT ANY WOMAN THAT WANTS TO CHEAT SHOULD PROVIDE DATE, TIME AND PLACE. NO BE ERECTION? MEN ARE READY, HAUNTY. BRING YOUR MOTHER, SISTERS AND DAUGHTERS ALONG SEF!

Because you are playing a game where you know the rules are not equal. You know that when a man finds out his wife cheated, 99% of the time, that marriage is over. Dead! He will not keep you. He will not take you back the way you took him back. So who are you really punishing? Him or yourself?

You had the moral high ground. You had the sympathy. You had the power to decide whether to forgive, separate with dignity, or make him work to earn you back. But the moment you cheat back, you threw all that away. You gave him freedom. Now he is the victim. Now YOU are the one crying, begging, pleading, writing epistles, calling his family to beg him, because you thought he would react the way a woman reacts.

Men don't react like women. A woman can find out her husband cheated and still stay and fight for her home. A man finds out his wife cheated and in his head, you have disrespected his manhood in a way he can never forget. It is not about Africa. It is about men globally. Men get away with it. That is the ugly truth. Cry and die all you want o. It wont change.

So you have two choices: Be RIGHT on the internet about double standards, or be WISE in real life about consequences.

If you like revenge cheating. Men with big joysticks are always ready and willing . And we will praise and envy the man he is cheating with and massage his ego and call him warrior names. Only foolish women cheat back and believe the man will still take or keep them the way they took him.

Lovelink1991:
A 28-year-old lady has revealed why she is not yet married, saying she is still searching for the kind of man she truly wants.

Her statement has sparked conversations about love, marriage, and whether it is better to wait for the right partner than to settle for someone who doesn't meet your expectations. 💍❤️

What do you think? Is it better to wait for the right person or compromise and settle down?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diPsq3XVkGE

GOD FORBID!



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GOD FORBID!!



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GOD FORBID!!!


I WOULD RATHER MASTURBATE !!!!


GOD FORBID!

L1TTLE:
Why does it feel so awkward when you ask a girl out and she says no, even if you don't resent her nothing is the same anymore.

It is because you feel rejected!


And a lot of people (especially men) attach their self worth to having a woman select them to mate with them.

Men are also aware that a regular woman sees something in your to accept your advances.

When men are rejected many of them feel defeated and feel that it means they carry zero value.

Truth is , this is not so. The reason she rejected you has no bearing on what you are now and what you will achieve in future.

Laugh about it. Let her know that at least you tried and focus on creating value.

Caaz:
As the topic implies,can you finish these two lunch at once if given the chance or you re going to eat one and leave the other.


And after eating it what are you going to do next?

Are you going to sleep or ask for more.

Sorry Sir

But you forgot to add/include a Bottle of Drink. Or two cans of Diet Pepsi. Or a Pack of Juice. And may God allow them to be original.

dre11:
https://www.thecable.ng/taiwo-oyedele-fg-will-introduce-fuel-tax-when-economy-stabilises-income-improves/

SORRY SIR,


OUR PRAYER IS THAT:

YOU WILL BECOME FATALLY ILL BEFORE YOU DO THAT SIR!


THAT YOU WILL NOT EVEN SMELL THAT TIME, NOT TO TALK OF LIVE TO SEE IT SIR.



THAT GOD WILL KILL YOU BEFORE YOU DO THAT SIR!

THAT FOR THOSE WHO UNREPENTANTLY TRY TO FOLLOW THE IDIOTIC MANIPULATION OF FRANCE TO IMPOSE HARDSHIP ON NIGERIANS (DOING MACRON'S BIDDING AND BEING MACRON'S PAWN) THAT YOU ALL WILL DIE SOON SIR.

WE WONT KILL YOU. WE ARE NOT THREATENING YOU SIR.

WE SIMPLY JUST WISH IT AND HOPE AND PRAY SIR.

Igodomigodo419:
I swear i no deserve her forgiveness. But i promise myself from now on i will amend my ways going forward..

You will not.

You get a lot of dopamine hit when you go hunting for girls online and get their attention. It is not only a dopamine hit but it boosts and massages your ego as well.

So leave all this story. You didnt want to stop on your own accord. YOU ARE ONLY FEELING THIS WAY BECAUSE YOU GOT CAUGHT.

The moment she forgives you and that threat of her leaving you is settled and no more,YOU WILL GO BACK TO YOUR WAYS AND EVEN PLAN HOW TO BE MORE CAREFUL.

So do not worry. Anything to do or plan to do will fail. TOTALLY. NO BE SWEAR O. IT WILL FAIL. It will take a long time to wean yourself off the pleasure of chatting with random women online. SO KNOW THAT YOU ARE EMBARKING ON A JOURNEY. AND YOU WILL BACKSLIDE AND YOU WILL FAIL AND TRY AGAIN...ETC ETC

Leemzyy:
Fear that gender with a sagged dick...So sorry gurl 😞

Haba, Haunty!

Even when she is suffering from the consequences of her own greed and her own ignorance and idiocy ?

So any problem of a woman is caused by a Man?

Na wah !


I pity any man foolish enough to believe that Women are Innocent and cannot kill a fly or that women are naturally good and only act badly when triggered by a something else. Especially by a Man.

Only cursed people believe this. Know this and know peace. Women are not harmless angels incapable of evil. In fact they are the birthers of disobedience. Like men, they can be naturally born evil, vile, wicked, rotten, debased, morally bankrupt and totally damaged ! Women DO NOT NEED A TRIGGER TO BE EVIL.
MANY WOMEN (LIKE MEN) ARE EVIL ON THEIR OWN ACCORD AND LED BY THEIR WICKEDNESS, GREED AND PLEASURE IN CAUSING PAIN AND GRIEF AND SORROW.

JUST BECAUSE SHE WEAR A GOWN AND WALKS LIKE SHE CANNOT HURT A FLY..NATURE GAVE HER THAT PETITE AND SMALLER FRAME. NORMAL AMONG PRIMATES FOR HER TO BE SMALLER AND LESS PHYSICALLY IMPOSING. BUT WHAT SHE LACKS IN BRUTE STRENGTH SHE MAKES UP FOR IN DEEP ROOTED EVIL AND MANIPULATION.


WOMEN DO NOT NEED MEN TO MAKE THEM REACT LIKE FOOLISH ROBOTS. WOMEN ARE CAPABLE OF EVIL WITHOUT NEEDING A TRIGGER AND MOTIVATED BY THEIR OWN GREED, SEARCH FOR PLEASURES AND FULFILLMENT OF DESIRES,SEARCH AND QUEST FOR CONTROL, DOMINANCE AND POWER AND SO ON.


This Woman Here did not need a man for the machination of her evil plan. And it backfired. She isnt sorry about her evil plan. She is sorry that it DID NOT WORK.

AND I PRAY SHE IS DEPORTED WITH ONLY HER UNDERWEAR OR DEPORTED NAKED!

Olaolar:
Avoid red flag' avoid red flag" in woman if you're about to settle down for marriage..
My question is that is there any woman that doesn't have any bad habit one or two attach to her??

Like someone gat to wait angle to come down from heaven and marry o..

Because have dated almost like six ladies for the pass four years, haven't found plain one among all ..
Something red must pop up in are attitude.

Not everything is a RED FLAG.

RED FLAGS ARE THINGS THAT WHEN PERMITTED OR IF THEY EXIST IN THE WOMAN THEY ARE SURELY TO FRUSTRATE THE RELATIONSHIP TO DESTRUCTION.


EG:

-TOO MUCH BODY COUNT

-COMES FROM A HOME WHERE THE MOTHER AND DAUGHTERS HATE THE FATHER FOR NO REASONABLE CAUSE

-HAVING A MALE BESTIE OR HANGING AROUND MEN ALL THE TIME.

-PHYSICAL AGGRESSION, ATTACKS AND ABUSE

-VERBAL INSULTS AND INSOLENCE TARGETED TO BREAK DOWN YOUR SPIRIT

-BELITTLING YOUR EFFORTS AND COMPARING YOUR RELATIONSHIP, PROGRESS, ETC WITH OTHERS

-LACK OF A KIND NURTURING SPIRIT. A WICKED HEART WITH NO REMORSE

-LACK OF WORDS THAT BUILD AND WISDOM TO ADVICE AND SHARE HONEST OPINIONS

-TOTAL LACK OF SACRIFICE FOR THE RELATIONSHIP

-LACK OF DOMESTIC SKILLS TO TAKE CARE OF THE HOME FRONT.

-SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICT , DOOM SCROLLER, QUICK TO POST ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS IN HER LIFE ON SOCIAL MEDIA, AND TAKES COUNSEL FROM INFLUENCERS AND SOCIAL MEDIA PAGES.

-BELIEF IN FEMINISM AS OPPOSED TO FUNDAMENTAL HUMAN DIGNITY AND THEREFORE LACK OF SUBMISSION TO THE LEADERSHIP OF A MAN AS HEAD OF THE FAMILY UNIT.

-IGNORANCE AND FOOLISHNESS IN BASIC THINGS AND SOCIETAL MATTERS/ISSUES. SOME WOMEN DO NOT EVEN KNOW THE COLOR OF THE NIGERIAN FLAG, HOW DO THEY WANT TO KNOW COMMON SCAMS, LATEST ISSUES, OPPORTUNITIES AND ILLS OF THE SOCIETY THAT CAN AFFECT THE RELATIONSHIP OR FAMILY

-ADDICTION TO ANY KIND OF PLEASURE. TO FOOD, GAMBLING, GET RICH QUICK SCHEMES,DRUGS, ALCOHOL, PORNOGRAPHY, PUBLIC VALIDATION ESPECIALLY FROM MEN.

-PRIORITIZES MONEY AND MONEY MAKING OVER EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE. BELIEVES THAT AS LONG AS MONEY IS MADE IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO DIES OR AT WHOSE EXPENSE.

-TRIES TO PIT YOU AGAINST YOUR FAMILY FOR NO JUST CAUSE. AND TRIES TO ISOLATE YOU FROM YOUR FAMILY AND PREVENT YOU FROM ASSISTING THEM WHILE STRATEGIZING AND ENSURING HER FAMILY GETS ALL POSSIBLE BENEFITS

-UNGRATEFUL AND FEELS DESERVING OF EVERYTHING. AN INGRATE. COMPARES WHAT YOU DID FOR HER TO WHAT OTHERS DID FOR THE WOMEN IN THEIR LIVES.


You see that these are no simple things like she leaves the toothpaste open. Or She likes wearing my shirt. It is not simple basic annoyances. In fact for those, treat it as what makes them special. She likes taking your boxers? Laugh over it. She likes Indomie in the fried style and not the boiled style, smile over it. But you see serious things like the ones listed above. Run!

How do they know his motive for taking those things. Tramadol abuse is not necessarily because they want to have sex.

Now let us agree without accepting that he did it for sex...

Dear Men.

You are:

1.Trying to IMPRESS DESENSITIZED WOMEN WHO HAVE SLEPT WITH ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING. WHO OUT OF THEIR OWN SIMILAR SEXUAL CORRUPTION AND PERVERSION HAVE INSERTED EVERY AND ANYTHING AS TOYS, BOTTLES, FRUITS, VEGETABLES , etc

2.Planning, Hoping, Orchestrating and Trying to "teach" a/another girl a LESSON AND "DEAL" WITH HER USING YOUR PENIS FOR HOURS so that she will go hime and confess how you "destroyed her"


3.Trying to GET THE LONGEST LASTING AND MAXIMUM PLEASURE FROM COITUS AND SEXUAL INTERCOURSE. TO HAVE THE GREATEST VALUE FOR YOUR MONEY.

Whatever the reason(s).....IT ISNT WORTH YOUR LIFE

Oga we dont do that here ! At all.

I believe you have taken the life of an innocent child after multiple failed attempts, according to the mother.

YOU DESERVE TO DIE!!

Abi you too want to lack accountability and call it hormones!? Ok if that is the case that your hormones make you a raging mad dog, then you also deserve to die ! Oga we are men here. We dont do that here. Your hormones did not tell you to go and save children, or to go jump off a bridge. But you decided to murder a child. YOU DESERVE TO DIE. "We don't use to do like that here"

If you say mental illness then you also do not deserve to be amongst the society.

politicoNG:

VIDEO: Defence Minister Says Every Nigerian Should Undergo Military Training

The Minister of Defence, Christopher Musa, has said that he would prefer that every Nigerian undergo military training to better appreciate the sacrifices made by members of the armed forces.

In a… pic.twitter.com/3V9cPfCpvV

— TVC News (@tvcnewsng) September 23, 2026

Nigerians themselves have suffered a lot. Everyone is paying with their lives. Military and Civilian

Kalatium:
Let’s be honest. If someone offered the average man ₦100,000 for one sexual encounter, how many would genuinely walk away?

Men complain about women making money from sex, but many would happily collect the money if the market worked equally in their favour.

Sex has economic value because there is demand. Men generally create a much larger market for buying sexual access than women do, which gives some women a form of leverage that most men simply do not have.

Society then tells men that they are the ones “gaining” from sex while women are “losing” something. Yet money changes hands precisely because someone desperately wants what the other person has.

You cannot condemn the supply while pretending the demand does not exist.

If men were equally sought after as sexual sellers, we would probably see a very different conversation.

The market does not care about our moral arguments. It responds to demand, supply and willingness to pay.

Frankly, The low level of IQ individuals in Nigeria is very interesting.

Hahahaha... See all the idiocy in the very flawed argument. You guys just go to Satan knows where to grab useless notions and assume you have landed on something profound. Oya, let us even break this down.

That argument is only seemingly sounding smart, but it is foolish. Very foolish. actually pretty easy to poke holes in.

You said men would sell sex if they could make money. But "Haunty", there is already a market where guys get paid for that, and most straight guys say no way because they aren't interested in the people buying, or they think it's gross and an abomination. So, they wouldn't just happily just collect the money. Now listen carefully again...If men were actually jealous and just wanted the cash, they would be flooding the male escort market. Older wealthy men and women do pay guys for sex, but the average guy says no way. He doesn't want to do it, because his pride and his orientation matter more to him than money. It's not jealousy if you don't even want the job. Men are generally not as lazy or as dumb as women who majorly feel their vagina is a meal ticket.

Also are you aware that is even and also way more dangerous for women to live this lifestyle. Your argument acts like it is the exact same thing for a guy and a girl. It is not at all! It is way more dangerous for a girl to go meet a stranger for money. A guy doesn't have to worry about his safety the same way, so you can not compare them.

Most people people do care about their reputation. But here your argument fails because it assumes everyone only cares about cash. But men have been known to walk away and have walked away from that money because they have pride, they care what the world thinks and how they will live with themselves after.

Finally let me tell you something. First see how how lowly and how shallow you think. Listen, just because some yeye people want to buy something doesn't make selling something right!!! No! Saying things like "you can't blame the seller if people want to buy." makes zero sense. It is Olodo sense. NOW LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY.....People want to buy illegal drugs and stolen properties, but we still blame the people who sell them! So no, men are not jealous. And people who buy illegal goods do not always want to open their own illegal goods shops!

Only a foolish man will be envious of women because some men pay for their vaginas. And you be shocked that when it comes to dignity, men protect it more when a lot is at stake. Women on the other hand majorly feel entitled because they have a vagina.

bixton:
Good day, Safety Professionals...
Please can anyone assist me with a prototype copy for "SOP for diesel discharge from a mobile truck into a storage tank".
It can be sent to my email,..... benavoh@gmail.com or via WhatsApp....09027779642.
Thanks and much appreciated.

I hope this got sorted.

Take note however of the use of generic SOPs and if you go get one or ever get one, always try to review and update it to be People, Environment, Machinery/Equipment, Tasks and Site Specific.

Always.

Goodluck.

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=140480560]"I go remain single?" — Military lady laments as civilians fear approaching her

A military lady has expressed frustration over what she described as civilians being too afraid to approach or speak to her whenever they see her.

The military lady said she was confused by the way people interacted with her, claiming that many civilians appeared hesitant to speak to her casually.

She suggested that instead of simply greeting her or calling her by her name, people often addressed her formally as “ma” or “officer”

Military lady questions civilians’ behaviour
Sharing her thoughts, the military lady wondered whether the situation could affect her chances of finding a romantic partner.

The military lady said, “I don’t know what to talk at this point because I’m very confused. I don’t know why some Civilians will see me and be afraid to approach me and be afraid to talk to me.”

She expressed further frustration over the formal greetings she receives, saying, “Una no fit say hi mama or call me by my name. Everytime Good morning ma, Good morning ma, or officer, who be officer?”

The woman appeared to be jokingly encouraging people to feel more comfortable around her, particularly those interested in starting a relationship.

She added, “Una no fit say mama can I have your number or can you be my girlfriend? Why una dey do me like this?”

Military uniform and dating concerns spark discussion
The military lady’s comments highlight the perception of authority that can sometimes make civilians hesitant to approach people in uniform, even in ordinary social situations.

Her humorous complaint about remaining single also adds a relationship angle to the conversation, as she questioned why potential admirers appeared reluctant to express their interest.

The remarks have drawn attention for their relatable and light-hearted take on the challenges some people may face when trying to approach someone they perceive as intimidating.

The military lady did not indicate that she had identified any particular civilian responsible for the behaviour she described.

I can't be a civilian in my own matrimonial home.

Make you misbehave make i come dey fear to correct you. pic.twitter.com/PNUridE9wK

— ÓMÒÉLÉRÍNJÁRÉ (@omoelerinjare) August 28, 2026

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Most of you are vulnerable to your superior officers and your kits wearing colleagues. Most of you will remain and die single. It isnt a curse. In the society today where women are fighting againt the headship and leadership of a man in a romantic relationship, you all will loose a lot.

Now, add the useless, and archaic, idiotic, and low IQ orientation, given to you e.g that Civilians are nothing ; that civilians are "bloody"...civilians are not disciplined...there is just no need wasting one's precious time with any of you at all.

I dont care if your father is a pastor and you are a virgin. Sorry. You are all emotionally damaged and brainwashed too much to even consider you as spouses.

Most of you:

1. NOT FEMININE: Are hardly feminine. Useless men looking and behaving things. It isnt about breasts and buttocks in tight fitting camo.

2. LESBIANS AND BISEXUAL: Mostly lesbians or bisexual. Corrupted in camps and your dirty bedbug infested hostels

3. POOR PERSONAL HYGIENE: Are only clean when it comes to your uniforms and polishing their boots. Most of you ARE FILTHY! Majority lack the ability to make and keep the home front.

4. USED, ABUSED AND DAMAGED: Rape victims from your superiors. Very damaged psychologically. Most of you have observed and experienced Rape, Harassment, Sexual abuse, and you are damaged!

5. PETTY AND ABUSE OF OFFICE: Are quick to drag your colleagues to unleash violence on your partners because you wear a cursed camo. For a profession that attracts mainly the most useless people and biggest failures in the society, the only way most of you know how to express displeasure is being violent and inviting your moronic colleagues to come "discipline" your partner.

6. STRONGLY HYPERGAMOUS WITHIN THE MILITARY CONTEXT: Cannot control your hypergamous nature and will never see a regular civilian male as anything worth respecting unless he command gun totting soldiers and can brazenly break the laws with no consequences.

7. POOR HOMEMAKERS : Hardly good home makers because you stayed years in filthy barracks. Again, most of you are filthy. Cannot cook. And are not nurturing at all!

8. TOO MASCULINE: Feel you can compete and intimidate a man because of a useless profession and uniform. You come with that useless military energy thinking you must impose and assert dominance. Keep that idiocy in your useless baracks that Boko haram takes over anytime they like. Even the idiots who have not seen 1 second of action, are acting tough because our taxes gave you guns. We arent intimidated. We just wont waste our time.

9. LACK OF ANY FORM OF VALUE: Infact most of you so called Military women offer nothing to a man's life as you are at the beck and call of your superior officers. Where a woman will be called a "TEA GIRL" to a Naval Officer for instance. Is that not His personal Ashawo. You all are mad and archaic in thinking and reasoning. My wife will be a "Tea Girl" . You all are basically mad. You and your ogas.

10. NOT SUBMISSIVE: Are obnoxious and will not submit to a man's leadership and as final decision taker in the family unit.

Many of you, You will mostly marry yourselves. Which usually doesnt last. In the barracks you are all sleeping with each other's wives and daughters. Yes. Cases are there always being settled in your barracks and locations.

To the general public, you will only simply be a thing men will fantasize about sleeping with. But men of today who cannot even stand the regular moronic "feminist" wannabes on the street will not then take one who has complimented the "modern woman" idiocy with a Uniform. A uniform associated with the dehumanization, abuse, and the oppression of the public. Men might only put up with you to use you to intimidate other people. That is all. That is all you will be good for.

To any sensible man, It will be too much of a gamble and a risk. No sensible man is willing to take these risks. You will mostly make a good chase, hunt and conquest. But most men wont plan their futures with you. No! Quote this ANYWHERE!

The dynamics has changed dramatically.


Gone are the days when it was just a jealous friend or wicked mother inlaw.


For many today:

A. FOR THE LADIES: it is feminist content online influencing the women.


B. FOR THE MEN: It is Red-pill content influencing the men.

uche87:
https://www.facebook.com/thevillagetowncrier/posts/pfbid0fMzzzkdFgFF65cZAz2tRhGZKfhNmvb6bQhFGFH4CJhoVP3NbyjmZ1Wpxhf7Cv1kcl

He is a common and cheap decietful playboy hiding under the cloak.

He can decieve people and especially women with all the useless pro modern women nonsense, but he does not fool me.

Anyone with commonsense should know this.

These are people who lie with and in God's name nowadays. Because God doesnt strike and kill them immediately anymore.

Mariangeles:
This one dey find person daughter destiny wey im wan ruin.

You see all the bad-bad things wey una dey learn for this nairaland, the way wey e go take blow up for una faces ehn? E go shock una.

You will not be the first person seeking a kid or two without the commitment that comes with marriage.

The problem is getting a like minded woman who also feels the same way and discussions can be had. But it is still not that easy. Why? Because the woman MUST FIRST SEE YOU AS SOMEONE DESIRABLE. Someone she feels is "worthy" enough to carry his genes and go through the near death process of childbearing. So, what I am saying is that:

-It is not only that you need to find a woman that thinks like you. It is beyond this.

-The woman must also desire you - she will have her criteria. She will not want to get impregnated by a lazy man with deformities, poor hygiene, lack of resourcefullness, lack of intelligence, etc. No.

-And you must also desire the woman as well- she will also have to meet your criteria. As a man I know you dont want to mix genes and procreate with a female olosho, runs girl, with zero accountability and no moral credit type of idiot.

I know because I have experienced this more than once. In my case, the women were doi my the seeking. And the sentiment and opinion in my own cases were the same from the Ladies involved. Their offers to me were the same. "If I cant have you all to myself, at least let me have something ( a baby by you) to remember you by- something so dear to me, that if I see it, it will be a consolation and remind me of you". Now these women were all successful. Very. In fact they can take care of the baby 1000% and the kid will lack absolutely nothing. When women love you, they try to make life easy for you when they are in the position to do so. Personally, I am not doing badly myself. So, ''equation balance'' as we say in Nigeria. But they were willing to do this without being a liability or burden to me. And it was the whole package they were interested in.

Now let me warn you. Do not listen to the counsel of people telling you to impregnate an innocent girl/lady who is expecting that upon pregnancy you will quickly perform at least traditional rites. When I say innocent, I am not speaking about age or morality here. A lady who doesnt agree to used as baby mama is innocent. Because If you do listen to the horrible advice asking you to trick a girl int getting pregnant for you, then Uncle, you are no bet ter than a witch or a wizard. A sorcerer. That is premeditated hurt you are planning for someone innocent. Premeditated emotional trauma, stigma, disappointment, etc. You need to understand what women go through when they get pregnant outside wedlock. It is traumatic in many ways. And for many it damages their futures and stunts or stalls their growth, aspirations, mission and purpose. In marriage, many of these personal goals of theirs can be supported by an ever present spouse/husband. Even the child rearing requires intermittent support by the man as well.

So my advise is still as follows:


1. Look for a girl you can pay to give birth and discuss and plan how you can handle the child care after birth and weaning. They are many now. But the required pay is huge and research first whether such form of surrogacy is even legal in Nigeria.

2. Look for a lady with the same purpose that both of you agree and are willing to assist each other.

3. Avoid an ''innocent'' girl that you did not brief of this your plan ab initio and did not agree or has not agreed to this plan hither to. I dont care if she is a street slut or the pastor's virgin daughter. As long as you didnt get her agreement and acceptance of this your plan, then do not do this with any girl. Whether a hook up girl or an innocent girl. Doesn't matter. Dont put misery, suffering, pain and trauma on an unwilling lady through deceit, just for a personal gain. Dont! It will be really bad.

Madam, let’s be very honest with ourselves here. Men are not quiet because your post is an "undeniable truth" or because you gave some groundbreaking revelation. They are quiet because your argument is so riddled with double standards, hypocrisy, and emotional manipulation that it’s exhausting to even reply to.If you want to talk about "being true to ourselves," let’s look at the absolute folly in your logic o. Just flow with it.

1. You are absolving women of all personal accountability because your entire post treats adult women like toddlers who have no minds of their own. As if they are idiots and fools. Unless you agree that they are sha. You are literally claiming that because a man flashed money, a woman is instantly "programmed" "idiotic", "moronic" , an "efulefu" , an "omugo" a big "mumu" to the extent that they the same women "start believing" every man must do the same.

Are women laptops that men can just program with data? If the assumption and argument is also that Nigerian women are supposedly sharp, educated, and highly intelligent. To suggest they lack the critical thinking to separate a bragging show-off yeye man from a humble, hardworking guy is incredibly insulting to your own gender. A woman chooses her standards. If she decides to become transactional, that is her conscious choice, not a curse a man laid on her by spending money. She is just a thief following money. For example I have met people whose standards about certain things in life do not align with mine. I didnt need to change just because I could stand to gain something. No. I stood on principles. Something many women DO NOT KNOW EXISTS. Just say and just simply tell me that majority of you women are not only basic "longer-throat" thieves, but also moronic mumu ones sef at that, and let us kuma call it a day.

DONT BLAME MEN FOR THE CONSCIOUS, GREEDY AND SELFISH DECISIONS THAT WOMEN HAVE DECIDED TO MAKE, BIKO. DONT. Because Imagine that you are hungry. Someone, offers you the option of working to make money to feed. And many others offer you the option of stealing to make money to feed. You decided " (with your fish brain) to go with the people who told you to steal as the way out. You are now claiming and saying and pointing fingers that the same conscious decisions and even immense efforts that you made to steal is the fault of the person who offered it. Hahaha. Like what is the Color, Shape, Complexion, Age, Genotype, Phenotype and Blood Group OF YOUR PROBLEM(S). Tell us? Does your problem need X-ray or ECG?

2. The hypocrisy of "What else do you have to offer?"You started by asking, "What happens when a man can't offer anything else aside money?" But in the very next breath, you again complain that when a struggling man tries to offer his heart, character, loyalty, and time, he is labeled a "bad man who doesn't deserve love." Haunty, You cannot now just "lock the door from both sides" na! Ehn? Stay one place! These two things cannot be right at the same time nah! Ehn? Haba, Which one are we taking?! You yourself have said it and even implied it too that when the men offer character without money, the dating pool rejects them as "unserious" or "broke." When they realize money is the only entry ticket required, they focus on making money and then you again then turn around and blame them for making money their identity.

You are now seemingly trying to penalizing men for adapting to the rules the market demanded. I say "seemingly" because in the real world, your attempts are feeble and of no existential importance to any man. So your argument is that men spoiled women with money, women foolishly started asking for money, so men are to be blamed for women's greedy idiocy?! Lol.. wahala dey o. Men can never be free from blame sha. Never. Anyway, smart men know this fact and know how to adapt to the life that men have come to meet.

3. You are gaslighting the typical average man here by claiming that the "average man" is out there screaming "how much can you finish?" Madam, in this current 2026 economy? With the price of fuel, food, and basic survival? The average Nigerian man is hustling honestly, counting his low-key blessings, and trying to build a normal life.The men you are describing are a very specific, loud, insecure microscopic minority and are usually guys trying to overcompensate for a lack of substance, or people with questionable wealth. By labeling them as the "average man," you are gaslighting millions of decent, respectful men who have never uttered those words in their lives.


4. Let us even face it sef. It actually takes two to play "The Highest Bidder". You called dating a game where the "highest bidder takes the prize home." Let us analyze this properly because it seems like you are speaking in a drunken metaphor. Madam, For a bidding war to happen, there must be a product willingly sitting on the auction block waiting for the highest price.If a woman views herself as a "prize" to be bought by the highest bidder, how is that the man’s fault? A woman who values character, mutual growth, and real love will walk away from a bidding war. If the dating pool is a marketplace, it’s because both buyers and sellers agreed to the prices.

To many men I know they would prefer money to be a tool, not an identity. But the path you are taking on this is just pure scapegoating. You wanted to call out transactional dating, but you didn't have the courage to hold women accountable for their own greed, so you twisted the narrative to make men the sole villains.

So no o. Haunty! Men aren't silent because you are right . They are only silent because you cannot reason with someone who refuses to look in the mirror. You are like the proberbial NOSE THAT CAN SMELL OTHERS BUT CANNOT SMELL ITSELF THAT IT TOO STINKS. Men are sensible and know that women who open their mouths and just vomit nonsense are not worth being taken seriously. A woman will always blame others for her useleness and never want to take accountability for her actions.

Take accountability FOR THE CHOICES YOU MADE, MAKE and WILL MAKE in life.

correctguy101:
That's if the baba does not have scopolamine... Else, you'd be done for...

Lwkmd 🤣🤣🤣

Dont try to argue with what you know little to nothing about.

Wisdomkosi:
Source : https://newsmaxxng.com/another-igbo-billionaire-onwa-global-buries-father-with-200m-copper-casket-draws-crowds-in-imo/

His wealth.
His money.
His Father .
His business.

I wont do that. My father while alive and healthy had given his end of life instructions for us not to do something like this either.

But he has the right to spend his money as he pleases as long as what he has done is not illegal.

DatoDatuk:
Slayqueen narrates how she used juju on a married man and collected all his money


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WM6YZtB7ndM

No woman. No baba.

None. Can make me loose my senses. And take all my cash.

If you doubt me, give me a time and place.

3 tried in the past. Picture put in bottle, padlock and chain and all that crap. In fact on each case after breaking up , heard from friends of theirs that they thought they had tied me. Tied who? Dont you know Gods walk amongst men. Tie who? Control who?

I am smarter than the idiotic deity or any foolish jujuman or dibia that couldnt stop 300 years of slavery and years of colonialism and white supremacy that "blighted" Africa until they decided to even switch into the colonial structure we have today. Your deities did no do shit and many of the figurines and masks are in museums overseas.

You met a foolish man. It is that simple. You met a man without principles. A man who isnt satisfied with himself and in himself. There is nothing special there. You simply met a sucker. A fool for panties and vagina and periodic sex. That's all. Just as some humans are easily scammed and they claim they were bewitched. Because they are ashamed to state clearly that they were scammed because of their own disgusting greed!

Men plenty like that. Women sef dey wey dey mumu like that. In fact we have seen the worst in women who after they are beaten they still use their own money to cook for the men that brutalized them. No be juju the men use. Some people just dey like that.

Some foolish men can become addicted to a woman's private part. Good for them and bad for them too.

So nope. Leave story. All this one na to trend.
You met a man with a weak willpower. Simple and short.

It is arrant nonsense.

Goo0dHardDick:
I Came across a thread which says men should respect their girlfriends because they decided to keep their bodies.

https://www.nairaland.com/8724226/why-men-should-respect-faithful

Understand this, a woman who decides to remain faithful isn't in anyway whatsoever doing her husband or boyfriend a favour. So why do you expect the society to reward her for that? Keeping herself means she respects her body enough not to mess around because women knows very well that their value is in their body. why do you think women lie about their body counts? Because they're ashamed of saying it out for fear of being called a prostitute knowing fully well that their bodies is their value.

Men don't really care how much money you have as a woman. If you like have 100 houses, 100 cars etc, as long as your body has lost its value, it's game over!

So therefore being faithful in a relationship as a woman simply means you respect yourself and your own body enough for multiple men not to have access to it. It instantly portrays you as a high value woman. Why then do you expect people to praise you for keeping your own body? How does that make sense to you?

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

I DONT EVEN KNOW WHY YOU ARE POSTING THIS.

THEY SAY MEN CHEAT SO THEY TOO CAN CHEAT. THAT AFTER ALL THEY ARE ADVISED TO FOLLOW THEIR HUSBAND SO IF MEN CHEAT THEY TOO CAN CHEAT. ALLOW THEM CHEAT IN PEACE NA!

THEY SAY IF A MAN KEEPS MALICE THEY WILL GO TO ''CHIKE''. THEY SAY THEY ARE PROUD DIVORCEES AND NOW PROUD SINGLE MOTHERS. ALLOW THEM TO LIVE THEIR FREE LIFE PLEASE.

MEN WERE SECRETLY HAPPY AND HOPING THAT WHEN THEY WANT TO CHEAT THEY SHOULD JUST TELL US THE FOLLOWING INFORMATION:

-DATE
-PLACE
-TIME
-AND WHETHER WE SHOULD TAKE ALOMO OR NOT
-ARE WE COMING WITH KINKY TOYS TOO OR NOT

AND MEN ARE WISHING THAT AS THEY GO ROUGUE, IF THEY CAN AS WELL BRING THEIR MOTHERS, SISTERS, AUNTIES, FEMALE COUSINS, NIECES AND EVEN DAUGHTERS THAT ARE OF AGE, SO THAT EVERYWHERE GO SOFT.

AND HERE YOU ARE TELLING THEM NOT TO CHEAT. YOU ARE NOW SPOLING EVERYTHING. JUST SPOILING THE WHOLE ENJOY WEY MEN WEY SABI CONSOLE THEM GO ENJOY. PLEASE ALLOW THEM CHEAT IN PEACE.

MEN'S ARE EVERLY READY AND THEIR joysticks HAVE NOT COMPLAINED.

Babatunjo:
They're looking for how love makes them feel. The attention. The affection. The validation. The comfort of knowing somebody wants them.

But love itself asks for something from you too.

Love is finding someone whose needs can sometimes come before your own desires.

Love is staying when they're down and there's nothing exciting about the moment.

Love is giving without calculating what you'll get back.

Sometimes, love is the humiliated self being exalted. Putting your ego down so something bigger than you can survive.

Plenty people want to be loved.

Far fewer are prepared to love.

a) MEN ARE MOSTLY LOOKING FOR SEX AND SEXUAL PLEASURES (AND WHERE POSSIBLE WITHOUT INVESTING OR GIVING UP ANY OF THEIR RESOURCES).

b) WOMEN ARE MOSTLY LOOKING FOR MATERIAL, FINANCIAL AND OTHER RESOURCES (WHERE POSSIBLE WITHOUT GIVING UP SEX).

c) INBETWEEN YOU HAVE THE SITUATION REVERSED FOR A FEW AND A MINUTE EXECPTION.

THE RULE IS SIMPLE:

RULE FOR THE WOMAN --- KEEP YOUR DAMNED LEGS CLOSED TILL MARRIAGE. AT LEAST YOU KNOW YOU DID NOT JUST OPEN YOUR LEGS FOR ANY FOOL THAT STROLLS/STROLLED ALONG. IT IS MORE HONORABLE TO LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY UNDER THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE.

RULE FOR THE MEN --- KEEP YOUR PENIS ONE PLACE TOO, AND GUARD YOUR RESOURCES, YOUR ATTENTION, YOUR PROVISION, ETC PROPERLY. KEEP THESE TO YOURSELF AND SPEND IT ONLY THE WOMAN YOU MARRY. SO THAT YOU DONT JUST WASTE YOUR RESOURCES ON ANY FOOL THAT STROLLS/STROLLED OR COMES ALONG.



BUT YOU DONT LISTEN AND IT IS WORSE IN 2026. MANY MEN ARE GREEDY FOR SEXUAL PLEASURE AND THE BODY OF A WOMAN AND MANY WOMEN ARE GREEDY FOR MALE ATTENTION AND ACQUISITION OF MATERIAL THINGS. THE MEN PRAISE THEMSELVES FOR TRICKING AND BEDDING A WOMAN. IT MASSAGES THEIR EGO. AND, THE WOMEN PRAISE THEMSELVES FOR SEDUCING, MANIPULATING AND FLEECING A MAN. IT MASSAGES THEIR HYPERGAMOUS EGO TOO. BOTH GENDERS HAVE GONE MAD.

IF YOU DO DECIDE TO FOOL AROUND IT COMES WITH RISKS. EVEN MARRIAGE COMES WITH ITS OWN RISK IF YOU MARRY WRONG. EVENTUALLY ASK YOURSELF, WHICH RISK IS WORTH TAKING?

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS ''LOVE''. IT WILL CONTINUE TO BE IMAGINARY. IT IS HOW FOOLISH YOU DECIDE TO BE/GET AND FANTASIES YOU DECIDE TO CREATE FOR THE PURSPOSE OF AND TO JUSTIFY YOUR CONTINUED ACCESS TO SEXUAL INTIMACY, MONEY AND SELF PRIDE FOR LANDING THAT FINE MAN OR THAT FINE GIRL, ETC.

Lalami3232:

This gender is so funny ooooooo, today dem go say marriage no be achievement, tomorrow dem go dey cry online and offline for not getting married. That aside sha, my question be say "wetin a married man dey enjoy for marriage wey me no dey enjoy?". If you look am well eeh, na single guys enjoy pass sef because that your nonvirgin partner eeeh, dem chop am tire when she was fresher and super tight . Now you don marry the leftover wey the single guy chop finish. Now back to the main topic, give me 2 reasons why I should marry? I go spend millions to marry a nonvirgin and still spend millions to do DNA test on my children because a nonvirgin can't be trusted. I have to work harder so I can provide for my nonvirgin wife, else the society will laugh at me. Again i ask yet another question, what is your nonvirgin partner giving to you that she hasn't given to her ex before? Some will say "she's carrying my child and giving me children" . First do DNA test before you answer this queston and for the record, that your nonvirgin partner don carry children for her ex before, just that she no born those ones.
I ask again, WETIN YOUR NONVIRGIN PARTNER DEY GIVE YOU FOR MARRIAGE WEY SHE NO GIVE HER EX?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men about DNA test nationwide.

The worst mistake you can do with a woman. Any woman. Mary, Elizabeth, Ruth, Esther, Laila, Chioma, Halima, Boma, Oiza, Lekeisha, etc.etc. etc etc IS TO LISTEN TO WHAT THEY SAY AND NOT PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY DO AND WHAT MOVES THEM.

FROM ANYWHERE AROUND THE WORLD/GLOBE, THEY (WOMEN) ARE ALL THE SAME AS LONG AS THEY HAVE A VAGINA.

THEY FEEL THEY SHOULD GET WHATEVER THEY FEEL THEY SHOULD GET FOR JUST EXISTING! SO DO NOT GET SURPRISED ABOUT THEIR NEVER STABLE POSITION OR OPINIONS ABOUT MATTERS. WHY THEY CHANGE AND SHIFT AND NEVER RATIONALIZE OR USE LOGIC IN THEIR REASONING IS SIMPLE. THEY DO NOT WANT TO BE ACCOUNTABLE.

THEY WILL SAY WHAT THEY THINK FAVOURS THEM REGARDLESS OF WHETHER IT IS WRONG OR STUPID. AS LONG AS THEY FEEL THAT IT FAVOURS THEM (AND THAT IS THE WORD...FEELINGS....EMOTIONS...) THEY WILL SPEAK FOR IT OR AGAINST IT DEPENDING.

If it is wrong but favours them, they will speak for it.

If it is right and does not favour them, they will speak against it.


SO LISTENING TO THEIR STUPID OPINIONS WHEN YOUR LOGICAL BRAIN TELLS YOU THAT THIS IS JUST PLAIN IDIOTIC AND DUMB, THAT IS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE YOU CAN MAKE AS A PERSON. EVEN THEY HATE THEMSELVES SO MUCH!

SO PLEASE, LEARN AND PRACTICE TO LOOK AT WHAT MOVES THEM WITHOUT TELLING THEM YOU ARE WATCHING AND OBSERVING.

THE MORE ACCOUNTABILITY A WOMAN IS WILLING TO TAKE; THE MORE SHE IS REALISTIC AND READY TO CHANGE AND UPGRADE HER "OPERATING SYSTEM" ; AND THE BETTER FOR YOU AND THE SOCIETY, AT LARGE.

THE SECOMND AND NEXT MISTAKE IS THINKING THAT THEY ARE HARMLESS PRICNESSES WHO CANNOT KILL A FLY. AND THAT IS THE LIE THATHAS BEEN SOLD. BECAUSE THEY WEAR LONG GOWNS AND TINY LITTLE SKIRTS AND TINY TOPS AND WALK LIKE THEY DONT WANT TO CRACK EGGSHELLS ON THE FLOOR, MEN FOOLISHLY THINK THAT THIS MEANS THEY ARE UTTERLY HARMLLESS. THIS IS A BIG LIE. MEN HAVE BELIEVED IT AND IT IS WHY WHEN THE SAME WOMEN ACT WITH SUCH BRUTALITY AND LIKE UNFORGIVING BEASTS , IT SHOCKS MEN.

WHY SHOULD THAT SHOCK YOU. IT IS BECAUSE YOU FOOLISHLY BELIEVED THAT ARE/WERE INCAPABBLE OF SUCH. NAAAH. THEY ARE BEASTS AND THE ONLY REASON THE BEHAVE ARE FOR 3 REASONS:

A. PHYSICAL BRUTE STRENGHT : MEN CAN GENERALLY STRANGLE ALL OF THEM AND SNAP THEIR NECKS

B. MAJOR CONTROL OF RESOURCES BY MEN: MEN CONTROL MOST OF THE RESOURCES AND THEY MOSTLY DO NOT HAVE THE DOGGEDNESS THAT MEN HAVE TO MAKE A LIVING. -BUT SEE THE FEW OF THEM THAT LAND ''VIRTUAL ASSISTANT'' JOB AND PAID 8 DOLLARS PER HOUR. THEY GO MAD BECAUSE THEY CAN NOW PAY RENT

C. SOCIETAL SHAME AND JUDGEMENT: THIS IS NOW BEING LOST AND THEY DO NOT CARE WHAT ANYONE THINKS BECAUSE VIRALITY ON SOCIAL MEDIA IS EVEN PRAISED. IT EVEN EQUATES TO POPYULARITY AND EARNINGS VIA MONETIZATION. SO THIS IS ALMOST TOTALLY LOST TODAY.

D. SENSE OF SAFETY AND SECURITY: WOMEN USED TO MAKE CHOICES BECAUSE ONE WRONG STUPID CHOICE COULD LEAD TO PREGNANCY WHICH PUTS THEIR LIVES AT RISK. BUT TODAY THE RISK CAN BE MITIGATED. STIs CAN BE CURED, PREGNANCIES PREVENTED, ABORTIONS COMMON, BABIES CAN BE SOLD, ETC .

LIKE EVERY HUMAN BEING FORGET THEIR GENERAL LACK OF PHYSICAL STRENGTH. THEY (JUST LIKE MEN) ARE MURDEROUS, LYING, THEIVING HUMANS, LIKE EVERY OTHER PERSON. INFACT EVERYTHING THEY TELL YOU IS TO PUSH AN AGENDA. EVERYTHING IS CURATED AND NEVER SINCERE TO MAKE THEM FORCE YOUR BRAIN INTO THINKING THAT THEY DESERVE

A. YOUR TIME
B. YOUR VALIDATION/ PEDESTALIZATION
C. YOUR ENERGY
D. YOUR RESOURCES
E. YOUR ATTENTION
F. TO USURP YOUR AUTHORITY (DESTROY YOU) AND MOVE TO THE NEXT MAN WHO ALLOWS HER TO DESTROY HIM.

Yep !! Yes o!! I am a/an
-Toxic Man
-Wicked Man
-Narccisistic
-Mysoginistic
-Unintentional Man
-Unreal Man
-Stingy/Broke Arse Man
-etc etc. (Please add your own the list)

I wear those Tags with pride and will judge you on your past, present and future and hold you totally accountable for every step that you take as a WOMAN. You will not get a hall pass because you have a vA GI NA AND OTHER COMMON BODY PARTS. So from when you first notice a girl or come accross a woman you like. Move calculatively. Observe.

EmmyMaestro:
Man laments as lady he met on Facebook disappears after sending her money to come cook for him

A Nigerian man identified as Chiukwudi Sunday has shared his experience after meeting a woman on Facebook whom he initially believed could become a romantic partner.

According to Chukwudi, the pair had been communicating for about a week before the woman contacted him on Friday, August 7, claiming that she was suffering from stomach ulcer and had not eaten since morning.

He said he sent her ₦2,000 to get food and later transferred another ₦3,000 after she said she needed money to purchase ulcer medication.

Woman reportedly promises to visit and cook for him







Chukwudi said the woman subsequently praised him for being kind and told him she wanted to visit him, cook for him and spend time together so they could get to know each other better.

According to him, he agreed and later sent her money to purchase ingredients for the proposed visit.

However, he claimed that after receiving the money, the woman began giving explanations about problems with her phone and eventually became unreachable.

Man says he was more hurt by the experience than the money

Chukwudi said the money itself was not his major concern, explaining that he had developed genuine feelings for the woman and was hoping the relationship would progress.

He expressed disappointment over what he described as her attitude, alleging that her actions made him suspect that she might have used similar tactics on other people.

The account remains the man’s allegation, and there is no independent confirmation of the woman’s identity or whether the incident amounted to fraud.

His post read …

“Is obvious that some girls this day’s are very useless. This girl you are seeing here I met her on Facebook thinking that I am chatting with wife material not knowing that I am talking to a low class hungry bicth

We have been talking for about a week now till on Friday 7th of August she called and told me that she is having stomach ulcer and she have not eaten since morning I feel pity and sent her 2k to get something

After that, she called me again that she wants to get her ulcer medicine I sent her another 3k for that

After that, she was like you a man with good heart. That she will like to visit me and cook for me then spend time together with me and get to know each other more

I was like who am I. Me that is single and searching I don’t even have a girl friend talk more of wife.

She said I should send her money so that on her way coming she buy something that she will cook.

I said okay and sent her the money
After I sent the she began to talk story that her phone is easy buy that the have locked her phone.

That she can’t access her phone again
That was how this bicth ended up fooling herself.

The money is not my problem is that I love this girl so much and I am willing to be with her but her attitude, is like she has been doing this to people. But this is the iend.

NO ONE ATTENDS THE WAKING CEREMONY OF A SUICIDE!!!!

Sureshegsy:
Please help for a medical doctor looking for how to migrate to occupational health with HSE

This is not a request.

Specifically, what do you need help with?

And You say you are a medical Doctor with MBBS?

Well, please make your request a bit more specific and elaborate on what your inquiries are.

Goo0dHardDick:
Our today's story is about Esther.

A guy met Esther and after a little chit chat, she gave the guy her number willingly. As usual guys being guys opted for a meetup and she outrightly rejected him. The guy simply moved on without bothering her. Esther got furious and after some days decided to reach out to the guy on WhatsApp. The guy took about 4 days before responding to Esther's messages and when he responded, it was dried and nonchalant response.

Esther noticed it instantly and then ask the guy why he has been avoiding her. The young man simply responded and said "you said you weren't interested and so I respected your decision and moved on". Esther couldn't believe the response. She wanted him to chase her harder and harder, more like non stop so she could feel special like she was the prize!. Imagine chasing someone you're going to spend on and help her life? Weird right?

Dear women, kindly tell us why you still expect a guy to keep talking to you after you rejected him? How does that make sense to you?

ACCESS FOR THE WOMAN TO ADDITIONAL :

-TIME
-ENERGY
-RESOURCES
-ATTENTION
-VALIDATION
-SUPPORT
-PROTECTION
-PROVISION
-EMOTIONAL ASSURANCE
-BOOST OF SELFWORTH


Without giving litte to nothing in exchange for the above.
Women do not stress men they really want. And hanging around , you are only hoping on luck. It is draining.
Spend the above listed things on more beneficial ventures, activities and peoeple.

Lovelink1991:
A lady has come online to knock men for their presence online (they say one thing online and do another thing offline).

She said men came to her house to lift her big belly to have sex with her.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-fR7yFUYsI?si=IgS26cAKvoB8dRnx

JUST AS MEN LIVE VARIETY AND TO EXPERIMENT SAME WAY WOMEN LOVE ''NEW'', ''DIFFERENT'' AND ''BETTER/MORE''. NONE OF THEM IS AN ANGEL INCAPABLE OF FARTING AS WOMEN WANT US TO SEE THEM.

OF COURSE MEN WILL SLEEP WITH ANYTHING THAT PRESENTS ITSELF. USUALLY, THEY WILL.

BUT WILL THEY VALUE AND BUILD WITH ANYTHING THAT PRESENTS ITSELF. NO. ABSOLUTELY NOT.

A CASE IN POINT (I KNOW MANY WOMEN ARE INCAPABLE OF LOGICAL REASONING)

I LOVE EBA AND VEGETABLE SOUP..THAT IS MY BEST AND FAVOURITE FOOD.

BUT WHEN I AM HUNGRY OR I SEE OPPURTUNITY FOR FREE RICE, STEW AND BOILD EGGS YOU THINK I WILL NOT EAT? MOST PEOPLE WILL EAT. SOME MIGHT NOT (PERHAPS THE HUNGER NEVER BEAT THEM) BUT MOST WILL EAT. IN FACT SOME WILL LICK THE PLATE WITH THEIR TONGUE.

It is like women claiming that men love skimpily dressed and BBL girls. Of course a man wants to sleep with that. You will attract men for sex. They hope to get free cheap easy sex, because that is what they feel you are communicating. The woman wey wear better cloth sef dem no allow her rest , e come be the one wey dey show almost everything. They will be curious. Their heads will turn when you pass. They will go crazy to form a long straight line to have access to your pant. BUT THEY WILL HARDLY RARELY EVER WANT TO BUILD ANYTHING MEANINGFUL WITH YOU. And that is the mistake women make. Many men will sleep with immodesty and a clearly immoral woman but wont want to build a family or anything meaningful with that.