tommyex:

yea u stuck
But frm what i get,some dude may do that when he is deperate 2 have a fling with his ex,u know its easy 2 get with your ex.Except d guy get bad memory

He better get bad memory - EWU.

TOMMYSEXY:

ok, but am not trying to confuse you na. . .

ok, another:

What makes SOME men cheat with their ex?

any questions

lemme know!

What makes SOME men cheat with their ex?

huh ^{kini eleyi nso?}

morenike09:

makes SOME men cheat with their ex?

depends on what precipitated the break-up. When you get intimate with a woman its almost certain that if u know how to pull ur buttons you will get to nail her again even 10yrs after. Its especially worse if both broke up due to unforseen circumstances beyond their control and not because one or the other fell out of love.

A man's ex is his greatest weakness.

®~^Sly^~®:

huh ^{kini eleyi nso?}

Look, jay, if you don't understand what is so hard about ignoring me. . . .abi, you're tommysexy? na wao . . . plz, am not in a good mood and i seriously dnt want to upset you , but. . .


@4Him
thank you jare. . . but, jeez, sounds like you did it before ^{jokin o}

Why do guys sleep around?
Is one girl's 'gravel pit' 'sweeter' than the other? Thats what guys usually say.

Why do guys sleep around?
Is one girl's 'gravel pit' 'sweeter' than the other? Thats what guys usually say.

it has been answered b4!! the answer is still *yes*

Look, jay, if you don't understand what is so hard about ignoring me. . . .abi, you're tommysexy? na wao . . . plz, am not in a good mood and i seriously dnt want to upset you , but. . .

very sorry for interjecting!

morenike09:

@4Him
thank you jare. . . but, jeez, sounds like you did it before ^{jokin o}

lol no kidding . . . a man never truly forgets his ex unless his present gf is superb!

adeboo:

Why do guys sleep around?
Is one girl's 'gravel pit' 'sweeter' than the other? Thats what guys usually say.

I cant ans wer the question as to why guys sleep around.
But definitely YES some girls are just sweeter than others.  

this is to 4Him:

ok, when do you know someone truly love you. . . ?


@sly
Ok o. . . and why are yo here sef. . . omo elelubo nko? ma so fun mi wipe oti fi si le o. . .

adeboo:

Why do guys sleep around?
Is one girl's 'gravel pit' 'sweeter' than the other? Thats what guys usually say.

              Men are choosy over sex, and in every man's mind it's clear to him that the different the shape, face and even colour a girl has the different the taste she give in bed.  so they tend to be curious over the taste.

            My friend the other time told me that who he want to have sex with now is a fat huge woman that he'll ask for help to open her legs.
               You see fat huge woman is not his choice but the appetite he has as of the moment.

morenike09:

this is to 4Him:

ok, when do you know someone truly love you. . . ?

when she goes out of her way to please you without u asking for it. When she's willing to put herself on the line for you . . .

4Him:

when she goes out of her way to please you without u asking for it. When she's willing to put herself on the line for you . . .

ehrrrrrrrm. . .am female here o. . . and what do you consider "putting himself on the line for you?". . .when he saves me from tripping on my highheels or when he cooks for me when am starving? seriously.

morenike09:

ehrrrrrrrm. . .am female here o. . . and what do you consider "putting himself on the line for you?". . .when he saves me from tripping on my highheels or when he cooks for me when am starving? seriously.

    My major strong points of winning girls was cooking.

oh lol i was talking from my perspective. I dont know how a girl can tell if a guy loves her but i'd say one sign a guy truly loves you is how much sacrifice he is willing to make for u. Sacrifice in terms of finances, time, emotions . . .

Most guys probably wont cook for you to show their love.

4Him:

oh lol i was talking from my perspective. I don't know how a girl can tell if a guy loves her but i'd say one sign a guy truly loves you is how much sacrifice he is willing to make for u. Sacrifice in terms of finances, time, emotions . . .

Most guys probably wont cook for you to show their love.

I guess I'm in the minority then. . .from experience, it works like a charm

debosky:

I guess I'm in the minority then. . .from experience, it works like a charm

I don't usually do that until well into the relationship. Cooking with the woman you love is one of the most intriguing experiences.

debosky:

I guess I'm in the minority then. . .from experience, it works like a charm

LOL. . . .debo, you can't cook!!!! you just dey

4Him:

oh lol i was talking from my perspective. I don't know how a girl can tell if a guy loves her but i'd say one sign a guy truly loves you is how much sacrifice he is willing to make for u. Sacrifice in terms of[b] finances,[/b] time, emotions . . .

Most guys probably wont cook for you to show their love.

but yet, when we ask for a Lexus, you guys say the only thing we know is money!!! why?

Ok. This is quite an interesting thread.

How do u guys know who the one is?
Are there certain attributes u look for in a girl?

morenike09:

but yet, when we ask for a Lexus, you guys say the only thing we know is money!!! why?

a woman who loves you wont ask you to get her something she knows you cant afford.

4Him:

a woman who loves you wont ask you to get her something she knows you can't afford.

LMSBO. . . so a man won't do anything for his Girl, like a rob a bank just to show he loves her? then that's not love jo

morenike09:

LMSBO. . . so a man won't do anything for his Girl, like a rob a bank just to show he loves her? then that's not love jo

4Him:

a woman who loves you wont ask you to get her something she knows you can't afford.

He could get a loan though!
Just kidding, i understand what u mean sha.

adeboo:

Ok. This is quite an interesting thread.

How do u guys know who the one is?
Are there certain attributes u look for in a girl?

tough question.
Many girls dont know but very few guys are looking to marry a chic, we want a woman.
How mature is she? How good is she with kids, what is her outlook on life and the future? How well does she interact with ur friends and family? Are you 100% comfortable in her presence . . . how well do you trust her and rely on her sense of judgement?
Of course there are also physical attributes that you look for but they pale into insignificance when it comes to deciding if she is the one you want to spend the rest of ur life with.

You wont know immediately, it comes with time and commitment.

adeboo:

Ok. This is quite an interesting thread.

How do u guys know who the one is?
Are there certain attributes u look for in a girl?

In the context of relationships,this is where being a man is incredibly advantageous. Women's choice of partners is limited to those men who approach-very rarely do women approach men.

Men on the other hand have tremendous leeway in choosing the "one"

Please answer me this - the guy i really like has been just the best since we met.
But he was supposed to meet with me yesterday, but i have had no word from him. He was supposed to come on the plane but i waited and waited but he didnt show.
Have rung his fone but it rings out, am outta ma mind with worry.

What do u think is going on - purely from a man's point of view.

adeboo:

Please answer me this - the guy i really like has been just the best since we met.
But he was supposed to meet with me yesterday, but i have had no word from him. He was supposed to come on the plane but i waited and waited but he didnt show.
Have rung his phone but it rings out, am out of ma mind with worry.

What do u think is going on - purely from a man's point of view.

1. maybe he really is in some trouble and is unable to get a hold of u.

2. Perhaps the feelings are only on ur side and he just cant be half-arsed to waste his time, money and effort to come see you.
Guys like to prioritise, if he feels u're not worth it or there's something better close by then nothing for you.

Just for the cheek of it try ringing his phone with a different number he cant recognise. If he picks it . . . just cry into ur hanky and move on.

Thanks
It was hard to take but what can i do?
I just gotta listen Thanks.

adeboo:

Thanks
It was hard to take but what can i do?
I just gotta listen Thanks.

awwww, baby doll, don't worry, eh? some men are just not worth it. . .but what david said might me true but, you are the only one that knows what is between you and this guy, so you might be the only one that knows what is truly going on. so think about this and yea, do call him with a different number and see what's up. . .

Pele 'boo. Sometimes we dont always get what we want aye.

Thank u Morenike and 4Him, thanks alot.
I just pray its not so sha, am just scared in case he is hurt or whatever.
I like the guy no be small, but he isnt really the type to just shut away, he never says he will do what he cant.
Its just so outta character for him.

God will help me haba i really like am o.

@sly
Ok o. . . and why are yo here sef. . . omo elelubo nko? ma so fun mi wipe oti fi si le o. . .

. .  owa bi ewa. . .    ose ti o bere

®~^Sly^~®:

. . owa bi ewa. . . ose ti o bere but but but. . . .

jay, wetin do you. . . you're a female now? the new AYEFELE on NL?