why do men treat marriage like a race where a woman has to compete to win a man at the end of it. why is it not treated like a commitment between two people who are ready to grow old together and stay in love? whats the point of rushing into marriage because your biological clock is ticking just to end up with a man who is not ready to act like a husband or father?

Nice questions IMO but wait until the "African cultural preservation" troupe shows up

Questions 4 toto dikeh,questions dat tickle d bum bum

Mynd_44: Nice questions IMO but wait until the "African cultural preservation" troupe shows up

loolz tell me abt it

mondi_cheeks: why do men treat marriage like a race where a woman has to compete to win a man at the end of it. why is it not treated like a commitment between two people who are ready to grow old together and stay in love? whats the point of rushing into marriage because your biological clock is ticking just to end up with a man who is not ready to act like a husband or father?

Girl, I really like you!

My answer: Don't rush into anything, most of all not marriage

And YES, it's about love and commitment

Mynd_44: Nice questions IMO but wait until the "African cultural preservation" troupe shows up

cool!!

carefreewannabe:

Girl, I really like you!

My answer: Don't rush into anything, most of all not marriage

And YES, it's about love and commitment

thank u hun

mondi_cheeks: thank u hun

you welcome sweetie

mondi_cheeks: loolz tell me abt it

I guess they missed this thread

Mynd_44:
I guess they missed this thread

it better to have the few sensible pple comment on it than to have a bunch of monkeys blubbering nonsense lol

mondi_cheeks: it better to have the few sensible pple comment on it than to have a bunch of monkeys blubbering nonsense lol

Interesting.

mondi_cheeks: it better to have the few sensible pple comment on it than to have a bunch of monkeys blubbering nonsense lol

Bad idea

@p
it better to remain single than unhappy in name of marriage
many men only happy when they at work wit friends end up in the bar,afraid of his own house
thesame to women many, hearin they husb voice is like american hearin osama bin laden name
i know one beautiful girl she is in relationship with a guy i know too,them claim that them love each order,but this guy used to beat dis girl always,talk to her as he like nt considering how she feel,surprise to me too of them came to me tell me that they getin married soon,i ask the girl last time them fight she said dis mornin,i ask why u people want to get marry 'we love ourself'
without think why are we fightin
why is it dat we live together but somtims i sleep outside just to avoid problem
nt even askin how long i we endure dis unhappy love
over look the pic of their future
pls dis isn't stupid enough to quit the relationship
dat thesame girl we come here one day tell us that her husb she just marry use to beat her,and we wil condemned the guy

thats sad