190: If she's Nigerian then use the-Money strategy

try69:
Works for many of them. If anyone doubts, go ask a yahoo boy.
In Uni then, I had girls that know my girl very well that I end up shagging cos my house, my looks and the kinda dudes I hang out with sends dem the "money dey" message.
My brother traveled to europe and got a BB the following week so he could easily keep up with friends here and the next thing was girls he actually thought were decent or "just friend" started sending him unclad pics jus to get his attention even one of his friends sister. The dude has stopped using the BB for now..lol
I'm not saying there are no good gals out there thou. Just a few and by their fruits, ye shall know them.

Red-Light:

nonsense!
Are u trying to kill his his self esteem or what?
its people like u that easily fall for players that will dribble u like messi and later try to commit sucide like that u.i girl! No offence

lipsyliscious: I laugh in Spanish! @ op don't try some tinz here oh! D girl is a hot catch 4rm wat u said n dis definitely won't work. I'm in skul n I know how many guys ask 4 my name,numba n pin evryday. I'm just exasperated by d whole tin. I'll just tell u straight 'it takes 2 2 tangle' n I'm not gonna tangle with u,I'm interested so pls let me b n if I'm in an effervescent mood,I'll give u a fake name n numba so u don't bug me. Sometimes I'll let u talk till I get 2 my destination n simply say thanks 4 d company. If I'm in a restaurant wen u start,I'll just pick up my food n switch tables. Of course I don't always do dis,bt dis is wat u're lykly 2 get if u start lyk dat

lipsyliscious: I laugh in Spanish! @ op don't try some tinz here oh! D girl is a hot catch 4rm wat u said n dis definitely won't work. I'm in skul n I know how many guys ask 4 my name,numba n pin evryday. I'm just exasperated by d whole tin. I'll just tell u straight 'it takes 2 2 tangle' n I'm not gonna tangle with u,I'm interested so pls let me b n if I'm in an effervescent mood,I'll give u a fake name n numba so u don't bug me. Sometimes I'll let u talk till I get 2 my destination n simply say thanks 4 d company. If I'm in a restaurant wen u start,I'll just pick up my food n switch tables. Of course I don't always do dis,bt dis is wat u're lykly 2 get if u start lyk dat

DailyNews: ...and some of the comments I read from the ladies here are the reasons TRUE LOVE can hardly exist in Nigeria...it is also the same reason y infidelity will hardly depart.


The op is sure in love n frm wot I can sense, he is ready to love dis said girl wholeheartedly, but cos d girl in question maybe reasoning like some girls commenting here, she will likely turn d guy down, n sooner will end up with d wrong guy like most here.


If only nature made it possible for people to see hearts to know who is real n who isn't, then infidelity n heartbreak may have not existed at all.


Ladies shud always respect guys who walks up to them to say hi I like u, cos it isn't easy, n I can never see my image to talk of myself walking up to a girl in real life to say such, u know y? I have pride n I can't belittle myself, so I respect guys who does such cos they hve courage to walk up to a stranger to say I like u, for what

chronique: Simple. Wave her once or twice & say hi... Pick a day to confidently walk up to her,complement her & tell her you'd like to know her better & probably become friends with her. Dont ask her out from the onset cos it might spoil ur chances... Be urself & dont attempt rehearsed lines cos it could mess u up if u forget ur lines. Take it nice & slow & you'll be home in no time.

2sexy:


You are right but I do know one that when a lady get too much attraction from guys, she tend to misbehave and abuse whatever right she is given, except for the few matured ones wey don see life finish... thus no more customers

claremont: Me: "What are you doing next week Friday?"

Most ladies: "Are you asking me out?"

Me: "Yes
Simple, direct, and straight to the point.

DailyNews: Of course I sure understand. But it can be handled in a matured way without making d male admirers look moronic n stupid like a female poster boasted here, cmon its totally absurd, n dis is y majority of classy guys dnt woo girls, hardly do they n dts y d ladies have noticed it n they are beginning to have bad market n low patronage hence they are all running into internet chats n online dates to find real men cos real men no longer woo or chase girls in real life, not with all these drama they are talking abt here just becos a guy wants to tell a girl he admires that he likes her, n the girl had to make him look stupid n jobless for trying to let her know he likes her, for what


There r plenty ways to honorably let a guy u dnt want to knw that ur not interested not some craps am reading here. Anyway, its for some guys shaa n for some class of girls too, sighs

candieangel12: Damn. I guess its safe to assume that a lot of the guys on NL have no game.


OP, you need to woo this girl. What makes you different/better than the other guys? Why should she go out on a date with you? If she is as beautiful as you make her sound, then she's prolly getting approached by many guys, so you cant just use some kinda dumb pickup line or formula if you rlly want her to give you the time of day. Ya gotta show her that she wont be wasting her time going out on a date with ya. So like I said woo the babe.

190: If she's Nigerian then use the-Money strategy

jaidor: I am throwing this question out to all the love gurus or love doctors in the hood....

There is a girl in my sch (a uni) which I so much desire, but have'nt talk with her for once...cos the oppurtunity has'nt show up yet. I've only been seeing around 1nce in a while. n she is soo pretty dat every guy wants her.

How am I suppose to go about it? i think i shud make it faster cos of some other "sharp guys" out there.

Maybe I shud add that there are 2yrs academic intervals btw us...n i am d senior

I won't mind if can get some perfect 'Lines' that'll melt her heart.

2sexy:

Bro, you are being realistic and I quite understand. dia yanga no be here o, especially when you are being real. Most will just see you as a second classed sub human... But if you know how to lie, you got swagg, you sure got a raving fan.

Anyway, for me... I have chose to save my energy for better things rather than running after girls... which in the end you cant trust, or keep. Most dont even believe in long term relationship but would prefer to hop from one boy to another.

Being nice to a naija chick is the wrongest thing a dude could to his heart.

timbros: Buy her lunch and recharge card for 5 consecutive days and see the wonders of 'the-boy-is-a-mugu'....

#fact

maninmood:


All of una no sabi at all! @OP: Tell her this:

Hey 'her name', hope the past couple days have been awesome for you! Mostly been schoolwork on this end... belch. Glad the weekend's here. Listen, we should grab an ice cream or something and chill. What's your schedule like this weekend / next week?


Girls like playing with their heart not their brain, hence use this technique. Don't ever and ever shove her with messages, don't be too eager, you've got to play hard to get as well. When you text her and she replies immediately, give it some 30 minutes before replying her. If she does not replying your text for a day, don't send her a message for a day! If she does not reply for 2 days, do not text her for a week! Girls like those who give them lots of space. And lastly, when you meet a girl, assume she has a boyfriend, don't rush into her, let her be the one looking out for you.

If she is proven stubborn, after 2 or 3 days of her not replying, text her this :

'her name' , seems you're super busy right now; totally understandable. I'll leave the ball in your court -- let me know when your schedule clears up a bit and you can do lunch / dinner / drinks, etc. Hope we hang soon!

DailyNews: Anyway, the presumed Nigerian hot chicks spend their time fantasizing about the guys who don't care about them, n they end up falling for the wrong reasons n end up heartbroken n generalizing that all men are dogs! Guys stop chasing girls n see what would happen