I am 29yrs old n graduated in 2008, I'm presently working as manager in my late mother's company. I met this lady 3yrs ago, we love each other n our families support d relationship. The problem now is that I am ripe 4 marriage considering my age n achievements but she just gained admission dis yr n she finish in 2015 which 2 me is too long 4 me 2 wait. I love dis girl n i don't want 2 loose her. Pls, what can i do?

Wait....

Very dicey!
Use the catch em young method but be sure she's willing to settle down so you don't run intp some serious problems later

You can marry her while she's still in school now people do it.

You can marry her but you will have to postpone having a child till she is done school, otherwise her education would definitely be disrupted.

@OP, have you asked her what she thinks about this first? It is not bad marrying her but does she school in the state you live?

Having kids or now might be a problem

go you think you can handle a wife who has to go to school everyday and hangout with guys?

Ask these questions and more everyday

[/b][b] go you think you can handle a wife who has to go to school everyday and hangout with guys?
Mynd what do u mean here?okay lets say she aint even a student and is working so he shouldnt marry her cos she might be hanging out with guys in her office?no matter what stage a lady is. schooling,working,doing business,she is bound to meet guys at every point but it is how she is able to handle guys and the situation that matters.

I was referring to him and his insecurities, you have to admit that classmates are really close with one another and the OP might not really be comfortable with it.
I meant no disrespect

guy,becareful not to fall down on a wet tissue paper.

I won't marry an undergraduate for personal reasons. No matter how strong the love between us , I would wait for her to finish and even help her get a job before talking marriage.

All d contributns so far is ok, n i want 2 tell u dis is d 1st time on Nl dat ple give sincere advice. Thanks so much.

Jilo83: All d contributns so far is ok, n i want 2 tell u dis is d 1st time on Nl dat ple give sincere advice. Thanks so much.

What does that mean?

Mynd_44:
What does that mean?

hehe

candygosh:
hehe

Hey. I am back there oo

Mynd_44:
What does that mean?

hahahahaha

Nnekacherry:

hahahahaha

Not funny

Seek her consent n be back here.

Jilo83,

Like others have said, have a talk with her. Let her indirectly know of your next step in the relationship.

Ask her if she can cope with school work and marriage together? Others have done it but can she?

Her answer will let you know what decision to take.

larrymoore: Seek her consent n be back here.

she agreed but d problem now is how 2 convince her parent most especially her father?

if u guys agree to marry now just knw that the marriage will come wit its challenges (getting attention, financial issues, having children) and if u think u can handle it, you can go ahead wit it. if not, u should wait

Jilo83: she agreed but d problem now is how 2 convince her parent most especially her father?

Another hurdle you must cross. Her father will want you to wait no doubt but it is worth the shot

Mynd_44:
Hey. I am back there oo

Oh sure u are

candygosh:

Oh sure u are

very sure

Mynd_44:
very sure

Hehe

Mynd_44:
Another hurdle you must cross. Her father will want you to wait no doubt but it is worth the shot

may d Lord see us through. But I love dis girl n i know she does too(atleast 4 now).

Jilo83: may d Lord see us through. But I love dis girl n i know she does too(atleast 4 now).

well, I still think you should wait

Mynd_44:
well, I still think you should wait

wait but what for?
@op you dont have any problem na, just follow what the advisers above have given u jhor!

candygosh:

wait but what for?
@op you dont have any problem na, just follow what the advisers above have given u jhor!

did you see what he wrote, "at least for now" except you are sure and there is no doubt in your mind, don't go there

Mynd_44:
did you see what he wrote, "at least for now" except you are sure and there is no doubt in your mind, don't go there

am sure hes just confused

candygosh:

am sure hes just confused

There is no room for confusion here

@mynd:
haba! go easy now
besides, if he knew what to do he wouldn't be here seeking advise!